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writes:Me and my girlfiend broke up today, and she won't even talk to me. What happened I went in the bedroom around 10:00...and fell asleep watching TV...then woke up around 3am...went out and got a drink and had a smoke...went over to the couch and put my arm around her...but it turns out it was her friend on the couch...I went back in the room and she was against the wall...that's why I didn't know she was in bed...well her friend told her I put my hand down her pants and tried touching her...which I didn't...I was embarassed by the whole thing and said I didn't even get up at all last night. she told me she doesn't want to talk to me any more...then she said she'll talk to me when I can admit what I did.How can make her see that I truly love her and I want us to be together again?
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (25 March 2007):
 Guy, you've been busted. I think you're in deeper sh*t over the lie about not getting up than you are over having your arm around her friend ... or even having your hand in her pants. You could probably square those things with her. Just explain that you were totally blasted and honestly thought that her friend was her. But she caught you in what she knows was a lie ... that you didn't even get up. How the blazes is she supposed to trust you after that one?You've got a really long road back. IF (and that's a really big IF) this woman even listens to you again, you're going to have to establish a 100% pure record of telling her the absolute truth for a really long time before she's ever going to be able to believe you again. And I very strongly suggest that you be on your very best with her in the future ... no more getting blasted when other women are around that might end up with you, or anything even close to that. In fact, you might even want to watch that kind of thing entirely. If you even accidentally get blasted and call her by some ex-girlfriend's name or something, you are so toast that it won't be funny.
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reader, livi  +, writes (25 March 2007):
 hey there,
just be completly honest about it all.
Tell her you had something to drink so that could of had something to do with it.
your girlfriend needs space. remind her you love her and that would never do anything to hurt her.
perhapse talk to this friend and tell her to stop lying about other peoples affairs.
feel free to personal message me if you wan to talk about it . Good luk : D
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reader, home_land  +, writes (25 March 2007):
 hello
if you are sure that you didnt do that then dont say sorry for it, leave it at the moment and try to show them that you are beeing hurt bay this kids game .and tell them to grew up real friendship dont end ,keep calm and talk to them and try to solve this miss understanding some how ,and dont make any body put you down becouse of some thing you didnt do make your self a cup tee and some thing you like .
good luck
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl +, writes (25 March 2007):
 dude go tell her the truth say "hun i thought your friend was you i didnt know it was her and i might have put my arm around her shoulder but nothing more i swear i love you to much to even try to harm you in any way possible speaking wise and hurting wise i swear on my heart that i love you truly alot and i want to be with you forever" then she might kiss you hug you bla bla you know this stuff just trust me ok tell her what happend basiclly what i said lol
~good luck~
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