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Not sure how to squirt!!?

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Question - (21 March 2007) 79 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2008)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I have a question its a little embressing but my boyfriend and i are really into each other and things in the bedroom are really good but he wants me to sqiurt if you know what i mean but i just cant figure out how to any advice from anyone?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008):

Hey guys

You just kept me awake all the night by reading your interesting experience. Anyway, as I know that mn also have g-spot (it's some where in their anuse, behind the prostat), am quite curious to know how would be the joy of stimulating it! On the other hand I think trying it may put you in the risk of being gay!!? What's your point of veiw?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008):

i squirted on two different occasions. i wasnt trying it just happened. the most recent one happend about a month aga. i was on all 4's...(doggystyle) and my boyfriend was fingering me from behind with two fingers, really fast and hard. i felt this sinsation like i had to push and this awesome release, and i didnt even realize i was squirting untill i put my hand underneath me and felt it gush out. that was another thing, it really wasnt a squirt as much as it was a gush....it was huge though....and it was way different from having an orgasm....and im ot sure if im able to do it again....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008):

Ok. SO here is the deal. I am a big squirter. The trick is gspot stimulation. THere are special sex toys you can buy to stimulate this area, but if not, to find it with ur hands just put ur two middle fingers inside your vagina palm up. You will feel something that kinds feels like the roof of your mouth..thats your gspot. It can be stimulated my repetitive pushing on it..kinda like a door bell but fast~ Or you can try messaging it. Either way...this stimulation along with clitoral stimulation(rubbing or vibrating the clit) will get things going. Once you feel like you are about to cum...relax ur body and gently push like you are gonna push your fingers out. This in conjuction with a passionate partner and mind should produce the best squirt youve ever had. Sometimes...you can also push on your stomach right above your pelvis and that helps sometimes too. Also...do empty your bladder. Cause if not you will pee when you push. Hope this helps. HAVE FUN

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008):

I can squirt but only in two positions, it isn't every single time and I cant bring it on by myself. If I am on top and go back and forth is one way. The other is if my legs are over his shoulders. It is a wonderful feeling and he gets off on it probably more than I do!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008):

i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, and have never once squirted. when we tried putting my legs over his shoulders, it did feel like i had to pee, but i was too scared and tensed up. thanks for the advice! will follow it next time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008):

I have a question: in some tips how to squirt they tell you to go pee and empty your bladder, some tell opposite do not do that, but even drink more liquid before playing with g spot cause it will give your more fillings and will be easer to find the right point to stimulate.. So what is the right way?

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A female reader, SassySouthernGirl United States +, writes (14 August 2008):

I just want to say "Thank you!!!!!" to all who replied to this!! I have been trying for YEARS and after reading this, decided to give it one more try.... IT WORKED!!! ty ty ty!!! lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008):

rub the top of your pussy in a circular motion thats what i do

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008):

i almost squirted once, i felt like peeing, but later it just stops for some reason..like it i was about to "cum". i felt like peeing just for 2 seconds, then everything stops..does anyone know what its like that??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008):

fantastic answers! im gonna try it 2nite!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008):

i almost squirted once. you have to relax your whole body. relax ur muscles in ur vagina, and just keep rubbing until u start to have an orgasm and peeing. squirting orgasm is way bigger than a normal orgasm. feels better too.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008):

I tried it and it did feel like I have to pee (I rubbed the top wall of my vagina), I used a smallish, but good sort of night light and I sat down on the side of the tub... I kind of pushed like people said to do and released the night light and stuff squirted out of me, but it was sort of yellow. Was it pee or ejaculation? I am also on my period so that may have been the cause of discolored come? -- (It didn't feel like I had to pee when I took the night light out from time to time by the way, and this proccess of pee(?) or ejaculation(?) which ever came out was onnly about 5 minutes...so idk)

I am confused, I've wanted to squirt for a long time now, it seems hard if I didn't already do it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

I'm really interested in this whole squirting biz, me and my girlfriend are 21, My girlfriend comes two or three times every time when we have sex. But being a typical male twice or three times is pushing it for me... So i stop her when ever i feel her start to climax, and after 4 or five times of this things get really intense (although no squirting). I've never spoken to her about squirting but after reading all of this i think i might... and hopefully we aren't to far away from an extreme eruption. Cool to read everyones feedback on this topic. Thanks

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A female reader, uberpinkii United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2008):

uberpinkii agony auntI have always been able to squirt i think, i am 17 now and i am quite sexaully addicted, i spend atlast 40mins in the shower atleast every other day or every day if i cannot see my boyfriend that day, i use a 6 inch long deorant can ''impulse'' the brand is.. as its easy to hide as its not a recognised sex toy and its easy to clean and can be kept in the bathroom and taken to my boyfriends house when i stay over and not arrouse suspisions.

I started to use the impulse can at 13 when i felt the need to practice and prepair for sex and stuff , plus it felt good :D i go full pelt when the can is when in the shower crouchd down on my tiptoes going against the upper wall and i dont stop until i climax atleast once and i squirt once at the begining and once at the end before i tighten up..

My technique is streight line ( not any silly direction) just pushing the different spots that swell up as i go more and more, i know i feel where the ejaculant swells and tightens, push that more with the can until you feel like your going to pee, but you only feel that for a second, its the force of the swelling and the can on your bladder, dont worry you wont pee, dont be shy and keep it bck.

My boyfriend wants to see me do it and i did it once in the shower with him but was nervous and so he didnt see the full blast etc. but were going to keep trying until he sees it, he says he would be amazed at it and he has only seen it done on porn, i think only 1/3 girls can do it, it just so happens i tried the right place, speed and 'toy' and it works 99%of the time and i have been reading through these other comments for help for my boyfriend to see how he could do it without my help andto see if people asked the same questions my friend has..

Just make sure you goto the loo before hand to eliminate any worries you have and keep onthe upper wall fast and quite hard, i use the 'impulse' can , othe sam sized cans are 'charlie' and some own brand supermarket thin deodrant cans.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

I'm a 25 yr old woman & have been researching "squirting" because it's something I have seen & heard of but never been able to do. Hopefully you are interested in doing this for your own pleasure & not solely to make your man happy, (although giving someone else pleasure can be a huge turn-on in itself). I think did it once by accident but have never been able to replicate it (yet). There seems to be some confusion on here with people saying that it's the same as having an orgasm, which it's obviously not, I can orgasm just fine & getting "wet" in your vagina during sex or during/after orgasm is NOT squirting. Squirting is, apparently, ejaculating fluid from your urethra (pee-hole), not your vagina. Also the belief that some women are just born with the ability & others aren't - I think that in reality it's probably more like: some can do it without even trying, & for some it takes a lot of work & practice & they have to be under the right circumstances to be able to do it, while some perhaps never will, (but that may not be because they are actually physically unable, I'm not sure). I think the trick here is that not only do you have to have the right stimulation & follow the "directions" such as letting go when it feels like you have to pee, but ALSO being about to orgasm so that you have an orgasm at the same time. I tried it without being particularly turned on & it just felt extremely uncomfortable & no better than peeing, in fact worse because it was just a really painful feeling of having a finger poking you in the bladder. I guess if you are only doing it to impress a guy then that would be fine (or you might as well just pee, how would he know the difference?) but if you want it to actually be enjoyable for you it seems you have to have an orgasm at the same time. At least that's what I'm going to try ;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

I just got sent an email with a girl "squirting" on it. I have been with my husband for over 6 years and I have let him do EVERYTHING to me. I would not even want to EVER do this. I personally think that it is discusting!!! Why would any half way decent female ever want to do this? I don't care how good you say it feels. I have GREAT orgasims with my man and would never need to "pee" on him or anything else to get off. I think it's sick. It's like glorifying queefing. I mean seriously what are you going to do next? Let out a big queef when you get done in someone's face and be like "oh it feels so good" Talk about giving "women" a bad name!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008):

I have a sexual partner with whom the sex is absolutely amazing....mindblowing. He suggested i learn squirting, that it can be done but its not happening!! ive spent almost 2 full days masturbating with toys, fingers, lube...to no avail. I know it takes time amd practice but im tired..I want to squirt so much, ive been bearing down when im about to cum, trying even to pee, drinking lots of water, peeing before. I cant do it...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008):

Hi,

Made my girl squirt for the first time last night. Jahuuu!! That's after reading this post. Thanks! But she didn't come as hard as she normaly does so we went for it again and then we did it the way we normaly do and then she came as she normaly does.

R

Norway

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008):

i read all of the answers how to squirt and i tried and follow what they say. i tried in the bathroom and i just let it go when i felt like i need to pee, and it feels good and no pain. b4 i didnt let it go its pain. but i still confuse it is that what called squirting? that what it feels like that u need to pee? thanks i am just little confuse.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008):

I've masturbated solo for at least six years now, and I've never failed once to give myself an orgasm. However, I've only ever squirted once and - yes, I knew what it was - but I've never been able to duplicate it. Until now. I decided to read up on it a bit more since I'd heard the 'only 1/3 of women can do it' rumor but had recently heard that it was a lie and that it was something that could be learned. Lo and behold, with a little bit of patience that very night, it happened. I wondered if it was a fluke - so I tried again. And it worked - again! :] Who would have thought. I now do truly believe any girl can do it, with a little bit of patience on her part, or her lover's part!

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A female reader, marilyn l'amour United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2008):

it's easy! When you find yourself reaching orgasm, instead of clenching your muscles just relax and PUSH.Don't let the very intense new sensation put you off...persevere! it takes practice to perfect but hey,that goes for ANYTHING, right? Let me know how you get on,girls.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008):

ok i have no idea why im readin this stuff but this has helped answer a lot of my questions thx lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008):

ask your boyfriend to insert his index finger face up n ur vaginal wall. as soon as you felt you're about to pee then make a heavy push it feels good and horny. lol.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008):

Ive read just about all of these comments here. Some are saying it's rare for girls to squirt and some are saying ALL GIRLS can do it. Ive always wanted to do it but dont think i can. Please help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008):

I believe that I have squirted before, I remember that my boyfriend and I were getting "hot and heavy" and all of a sudden both of us were soaked! The thing about this is, it almost felt like nothing happened. I've had orgasms before and I know what they feel like, and this was not one of those feelings. It literally felt like I was just loosing water and that's it... I'm a bit confused... anything that may help?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007):

It is very very easy, once you learn your body. I would ask you to first be by yourself and just learn what makes you feel good, what turns you on and begin to massage your g spot. It is like everyone is saying about an inch above inside. It takes arousal to make it sensitive and sometimes it takes a while!! Be patient! u would need to use the bathroom before you perform this! And make sure you have a few towels handy! I was a little nervous that's why I did it first by myself. I on the other hand used a vibrator, which worked wonders!lol so find your easy comfortable position, and get to rubbing, when you feel the need to do the "deed" rather than hold it, let it flow hard!push down and release! Since you are by yourself you don't have to worry about feeling embarrassed at anything that may happen! I was shocked that it happened for me really, I had to make sure that I did it so I tried again and what do you know! Lol I squirted..clear across the room..lol good luck and happy squirting!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007):

guide you lover to finger you, about to inches to and ince inside of your vagina, press up and circulate tht tissue, whisle licking ur clit, do this and be patient. it takes time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007):

So, all that I need to do is have very agressive "g-spot" or deep vaginal stimulation, be relaxed, and when it feels like I have to pee, just pee? And it will be the female "cum" fluid? I don't understand. My boyfriend's been asking me to squirt for him for a long time now and I'm just not sure what you're all saying. Basically, when I feel like I have to pee, pretend I'm peeing but instead of urine coming out, it'll be the female ejaculatory fluid? I'm not quite sure.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2007):

i first squirted a few months ago, but before i squirted i had that 'peeing' feeling, i also had multiple orgasms that lasted about 10 mins, they kept coming. So i think that 2 be able to squirt u must reach climax and be very relaxed. when u get the sensation that u need to 'pee' you are very close to squirting

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007):

My hubby and I have been together for about 2 years now, married for one of that, and well the hubby has wanted me to squirt for sometime now, and I always thought I couldn't... I've had that "peeing" sensation every once in a while, and got embarrassed and basically made him get the bloody hell off of me! I then calmed down and we started to go at it again... I guess we should just put a few towels down each time and see if I squirt or pee...

Hopefully it feels as good as other gals say...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007):

honestly, all u have to do to squirt is to hold in the sensation while he is penetrating u really hard. but not too hard. squirting works best when u're doing it doggy style, not when his fingers are on the g-spot. when u want to quirt ur vagina needs a lot of hardcore stimulation and it needs to build up. everytime i do it doggy style i squirt intensley.all u have to do is fight the feeling if whether u have to pee or not. i've came and peed at the same time and its the most wonderful feeling every. all u have to do is not fight the feeling.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

Any Woman, and I mean any woman can squirt! Its very simple. I got my girlfriend to squirt with no problem after she let go of her hangups. You need lots of clitoral stimulation, little circles around the clit. Then two fingers in the pussy and rub that g-spot. Just before you cum you will feel like you have to pee. Let that pass and keep going. When you cum quickly pull out your fingers and push like you are going to pee and just let it out. Your pussy will squirt clear oderless like water, then keep going for another orgasm. Do this several times and your pussy will start to leak a most wonderfully tasting whitish cum from inside, Like it up, guys yum!. Its easy, if you feel like you have to pee, just let it out. Thats the right feeling, yet you won't pee. It will be female cum. All females sould do this. It will be the best sex ever, all those years of them telling you not to enjoy yourself. This is maximum enjoyment and a lot of sloppy wet fun. If your still haveing problems contact me at [email address blocked]. I'll make you squirt.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

Another non-squirter here looking for advice...

Backstory: I've been with my husband since I 20. I'm 32 now. Our relationship is very loving and understanding, and our sex life is extremely adventurous and satisfying. We like watching porn together, masturbating together, using toys, etc. We're neither shy nor lazy. We born work VERY hard trying to please each other. We have sex maybe 4,5 times a week. Sometimes we go at it for hours. I can't remember a single time having sex with my man when I didn't orgasm. Some days I have two, three, four orgasms in a row, but they're all clitoral orgasms. We are VERY open with each other, and we would do anything (within reason) to please each other.

That said, no matter what we do, no matter what books we read, what videos we watch, what position we're in, or how long and hard we go at it, I JUST CAN'T SQUIRT. Masturbating together or on my own didn't do anything either. G-spot stimulating toys don't work. NOTHING WORKS. I'm not in any way afraid of peeing or held back or anything like that (and even if you don't believe me, logically, why would I be self-conscious when I'm masturbating alone?)

A lot of people seem to believe that every female is capable of ejaculation. Well, obviously I've been perusing the internet trying to get some advice on my situation. Any ideas what's happening here? Is it possible that some women are in fact NOT able to squirt at all? Thank you in advance...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007):

its easy take two fingers and put them up there. then wiggly them around

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2007):

i did it! last night i feel proud bt it didnt really feel good is there something wrong with me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007):

Guys....

Go get the book The Female Ejaculation. Every woman can have these amazing intense orgasms. Make sure your finger nails are filed down to nothing or you will cut her up. Use a lot of lube and keep re-applying as the gushes will wash it out. Her ejaculate is wet of course but not a slippery wet. If you know where the G spot is you are almost there. Deeper in on the front wall of the vagina is the Deep Spot. Press firmly with middle finger and stimulate in a come hereth fashion. She will very quickly have a strong sensation to urinate. She may feel a slight ache at first as well. Again this is a very intense feeling and it can feel like too much at first. Adjust your pressure and rubbing so she is feeling maximum pleasure. Important at this point is being the man and tell her to just let it go, push it out, let it go push it out.... over and over. Let her know this is okay and you want her cum, how sexy she is, just basically own the moment and lead her to pass through into this new experience. All of our training is not to pee all over the place. It will take some encouragement and support and love from you when she is close the first few times. The book will teach you this is not urine. This is female ejaculate. Technically it is prostate fluid (yes females have a prostate which is called the skeens gland). My girlfriend and I keep a stack of towels under the bed. This helps her to feel more comfortable and we are not washing the sheets all the time. Try it out back in the pool/spa as well for more fun and less clean up. Stimulate her clit at the same time for a deep vaginal orgasm combined with a clitoral orgasm. It is shocking the amount of ejaculate will come out when you and her get into this. It's not a squirt, it is a gush. And she can cum over and over again. Be careful as this can create a very strong emotional bond for her with you. It is a very intense feeling and she can come many many times with this method. When you get this technique down it is very empowering.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007):

if u can get to the point where you feel like peeing, go to shower sothat if u do pee all u have to do is rinse it down the drain. I do it all the time except i actually squirt

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

I Personally don't know if you can do this. I haven't tried to do this with my GF yet, but she just recently wanted to find out. From all my recent studies, I have seen that ALL women can do this. Its a fact, the only reason why a woman can't do this is either A. She gives up, B. Shes not well hydrated C. Shes not relaxed enough or D. She simply just isn't letting out the juice! I truly do believe all girls can do this, and am yet to try it with my sweetheart sometime soon!

Good Luck to you, and just keep studying, eventually you'll learn how, and I'm sure it will be great

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

hi,

I'm in the same boat i really want to squirt and i almost did last night but i get so paranoid that i'm going to pee myself that i lose focus and i have to start all over again. However having said that, i didn't squirt but when my boyfriend had his fingers inside me and was working quite roughly on the 'spot' whilst i was stimulating the clit i came like i never had before, but i held back that peeing sensation. So i guess next time i just have to relax and say to myself if i pee, i pee. big deal. So in essence thats my advice for you relax and we should both be squirting in no time xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007):

Hello everyone,

Here to expound my wisdom on this topic. It took 6 months after I lost my virginity to discover squirting. Of course I thought I had orgasmed many times up until that point but after squirting, those previous orgasms simply did not compare.

Although everybody is different, the trick for me is I need to be lying on my back with a firm pillow perfectly angled under my butt (and a nice comfy pillow under my head). I know this sounds regimented but it also helps to be on top for a while first to get my kiegels warmed up. Once I get on my back, the thrusts needs to be small quick pulsations against my g-spot. There's no guarantee but if all the conditions are right, I will squirt bucket loads 90% of the time. Six years since my first real squirt, I believe it happened to me by chance, and I'm lucky enough to have been with a partner at the time who was willing to keep trying it that way. When I have a new partner and instruct them on my method, they are almost always successful and pleased with the results (I'm told it feels like an erupting volcano, tightly squeezing out its hot juices)... Of course I like to mix it up as much as possible but I rarely ever squirt in any other position. Who would've thought missionary would be so erotic?!

It's important to be completely hydrated and comfortable-- also, for some reason, it almost never works if I'm drunk. So if you need a glass of wine before hitting the sack, try being completely sober and drunk on foreplay instead. That's not to say sex isn't extremely enjoyable if I don't squirt, it's just the way it is. That's my technique, it's reliable and a whole lot of fun! Good luck to all, don't stress yourselves either, or the pressure will keep u from cumming.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007):

I've squirted a few times and it does get better and longer with practice. I haven't done it in awhile but I'm sure I will now that its on my mind ;) But yes the technique is to stimulate the "g spot" which is about 1/2 of an inch inside hard and fast..stimulating the clit too, however its better to get very close to having an orgasm but stoping yourself several times actually builds the fluid up. Then when you are ready and are at your climax just push it out. (You know how men like to "shoot") yeah I say aim for his face!! Really put some umff into it :P

Good luck to anyone who tries! Oh yeah, I believe anyone can do it.. That whole 1/3 of women bs is just that, BS

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007):

I've read all these postings because my boyfriend would like me to squirt it seems as though the technique is to have something in, but put the pressure on the front part of the vagina. Is that correct?

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A male reader, king squirt United States +, writes (23 September 2007):

Well I have been making woman sguirt for 5 years now and every woman is different some are easy some or just down right hard until you figure out what makes them squirt. (ALL WOMEN CAN SQUIRT). If he wants you to squirt then thats up to him mostly not you. Until you two understand whats going on when it comes to squirting you wont have much luck. One person post a comment saying download "squirt 101" I would agree with that person cause they explain it very well and you can see it in action, but it takes work unless you guys get lucky. Most woman can please themself better than any man so I have found it easier to let her get herself to the climax point (playing with her clit). When you reach this point this is the most important cause this is when it all happens, if you cant get to climax then it will never happen. Most women miss out on this cause they cant take the climax so they stop or run from there partner dont do that just relax and let it happen. Now the the second things is what you are doing with the toy or fingers you are using. To start off I would use his fingers so he can feel and learn when its time for him to add more pressure.

(This is not some love story you will see on tv or even most porn this is hard work until he knows your spot like its his own.)

When his fingers are inside all he needs is two fingers and it makes it easy for him if you have your pussy facing up to the sky unless you are in a chair where he can get low. His fingers should be going in an uppered motion not just in and out like most men do. Moving the fingers in and out is just fine but when you reach your climax he needs to change position, all he needs is the first inch of his two fingers thats it. He should focus on the top inside part of your pussy. He should feel you swell up on the inside. When he feels this he should but focus just on that area pressing in the uppered motion hard and fast as he can {not soft). He may have to build up his hand muscle just to last long enough to make it happen. If he gets the spot right he should see you squirt or you may discover how to squirt yourself. Now if he makes you squirt just a little the first time then do it again your almost there cause you should be able to hit the walls in the room when its done right. It just keeps going and going and going have fun. Go for the gold

I read some comments and some people said to move your fingers out when you are about to squirt dont do this unless you know what to do to make yourself squirt, most women dont so if he moves his fingers out of you nothing will happen. If his hands or placed in the right position he should not be covering the hole for you to squirt, but he better look out for the rain. lol (As i said before its hard work not some love story.) Once you guys figure out whats going on it well become easy.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007):

my girlfriend squirted, when i was working on her clit a bit more agressive... ;)

afterwards, i did her an oral, and she squirted once more...

that day she came like five times in a row.

i guess there are no stricted ways of squirting.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007):

hey if u want to know how to squirt go on lime wire and download a video called"squirt 101" it will teach u

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007):

Use one of those mechanical tooth brushes on your clit for a while, it will make you squirt like crazy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007):

I'm just 15. And most of your answers are just silly. I think all chicks can squirt. It just takes time and pleasure. Masturbating with a toy that vibs and your fingers can be very satisfying.

Like leave the toy viberating on your "G-spot" And tease yourself. Soon you will feel as if you need to pee. But its quit nice when you squirt.

Or you can just rub on ur clit kind of rough but not too rough. just how you feel it feels really good.

Try it. :]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007):

Hi. Last night after reading up on female ejaculation i thought i'd try it out. I found the G.spot straight away, i knew i'd found the right spot from the feeling. After about 30 minutes i felt the need to pee and i just let it happen, i kept the stimulation going. I was expecting a big explosion of pleasure, but - NOTHING! Why didn't i climax when i squirted? I didn't feel any pleasure throughout even though i was perfectly relaxed and allowed everything to happen....HELP!

P.S i knew it wasn't pee as i'd emptied my bladder immediately beforehand and the liquid was clear and sticky, not like pee!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

My ex wife and I discovered squirting by accident over 10 years ago. Since then, at least two of my partners have squirted. It's probably because we are into watersports (peeing) that it has happened a lot easier. I believe that most women can squirt as long as they are comfortable with their partner and can totally relax so that if they do pee by accident, its not an issue.

The woman must be very turned on with the whole labia being very swollen which indicates that the Skenes glands inside the urethra (pee hole / tube) being full of fluid. The G spot needs to be stimulated quite hard with a couple of fingers or a suitable toy, often a bit of gentle pressure on the bely helps the G spot stimulation. At the point of orgasm, the woman will feel very "full" and feel the need to pee. Go with it and let it happen, you will probably have to remove the fingers / toy as it will become too intense. When she feels ready, there will be a natural release point. The whole labial area will bulge as the woman "bears down" with the resulting squirt being very intense. For dramatic effects, make sure that her inner lips are not blocking the pee hole as to allow a clear path for the squirt to shoot out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007):

i find the best way is if u put a vibrator on your clit and have your boyfriend stimulate your g-spot with his finger. when u feel your orgasm build up and u feel pressure get him 2 remove his finger and keep stimulating your clit he can also do it with his penis but a finger is more accurate.

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A female reader, 911help United States +, writes (14 July 2007):

911help agony auntMy friends tell me squirting is the best feeling you'll ever have. I haven't mastered it yet, but I will. It takes alot of time and patience on his part. I get to the feeling like I have to pee and get nervous or scared and stop him. Once I get past this, I'm sure I will be quite satisfied. There are 2 different kinds of orgasms. There is g spot and clitoral. I can have a clitoral orgasm as many times as I want, but still working on the squirting or g spot orgasm. I'm told the more comfortable I am with him the time will come or "cum". lol Best of luck to both of us. Try doing it yourself first if that will make you feel better. I've tried to do it myself, but can't seem to get excited enough. Good Luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

okay so

i've squirted twice.

my boyfriend likes it.

but the last couple, well... more than couple of times we've had sex.. i can't do it anymore. and he thinks its because hes bad or somethnig.. and hes def. not.. the sex is probably better than when i did squirt. but we dont know how to make me squirt again.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007):

i have been with my fiance for 8 and a half months.. the sex keeps getting better and better! the past 3 times we've had sex, i squirted. i was on top and he was pushing on my belly, it was an amazing feeling, although it felt as if i had to use the bathroom really bad.. he seems to like it though.. he can actually tell me when i do it. he feels the really warm liquid and he actually has been telling me since the first time that we've had sex that he feels something squirting while he is still inside of me.. it warms him up though and its quite enjoyable! (just make sure you have a towel or rag nearby for cleanup!)

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A female reader, Winterstars07 United States +, writes (8 July 2007):

Just last night I was on the phone with my boyfriend and I was feeling a little horny, so i wanted him to get off with me as I used the end of a hair brush... So he was done, but I knew I could go longer, so I started goin faster, in just the right place where it felt good, and then I pulled it out, as I do believe I squirted. I was kind of in shock, it just went every where. I had never came that much, or like that. I told him about it, and he was happy to hear it, and wanted me to look up things, and see how to do it more often. I did feel like I had to pee, but my goodness it was the best feeling. It helps to read what others have wrote. Best of luck to everyone, and I'm going to keep seeing if I can do it every time. ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007):

Hey,

Im pretty sure that the majority of women can squirt im a guy and i like to make a women squirt as its always a very intense pleasurable experience for them and it turns me on too. Ive managed to make my last 3 sexual partners do it so what are the chances that all 3 of them were in the "only 1/3 of women can squirt" category.

anyway my technique is to make the girl completly relaxed and then get her turned on with alot of stroking and teasing then i go for it with a combination of massaging the G-spot, licking the clit and just applying some pressure with my other hand on her just between her belly button and her pubic area then thats it but it takes a while.

Thats it its not all camera effects like someone has said or just pee.

Good luck if you manage to squirt you will love it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007):

How do I know I'm just not peeing?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007):

I think almost anyone can learn to squirt but it's not just sexual technique. It's also an ability to relax properly that stored muscle tension in most women's bodies prevents. Do daily deep tissue massage to release the tension. A good instructional DVD covering massage techniques (and also g-spot fingering) is Stephane's from ideaGasms squirting DVD. The massage technique shows where woman hold the most tension and it's remarkably accurate. Every spot I could FEEL the tension there it was unreal. It was painful for my girlfriend at first but over time it got much smoother and her sexual vitality has just come alive. I'm interested in spreading the word about this angle because I think alot of sexology is marketing explicitly sexual techniques, yet this stored muscle tension issue is often ignored because it's not always a quick fix. It's a lot of work actually, but the payoff is worth it. Here is preview clip:

http://www.orgasmicheart.com/intro-female-ejaculation-video-squirting-orgasm/

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007):

hiya

im only 15 and can squirt when i want either during intercorse or by my self!

i find that fast stimualtion of the clit normally sends me off,

it will feel like you need to pee,hold it for as long as you can then just let it go! youll love it xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007):

We're Asian and my wife and me discovered squirting recently. I've read about it following links on wikipedia etc. We've managed to get my wife to squirt using a combination of stimulating her clit with a bullet vibrator and also my finger o the G-spot. Its is really incredible. There is a big wet patch after. She is also very stimulated afterwards. Anal feels much better for her afterwards and vaginal intercourse as well. I can tell by the screaming she makes which is more after squirting. I 'm not sure if she can squirt with me having penetratd her but definitely it can be done with the vibrator.

Ladies,you definitely should master this.

Believe me, it can be mastered. Good luck!

wj

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2007):

I personally have never squirted.. but I heard its great.. Its also really sad to know that not everyone can do it.. how do i know if i'm one of the lucky few? sometimes when i have sex i feel like i have to pee.. is that it?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007):

I actually squirted for the first time today while masturbating. I was breathing deeply and making noises out loud. All of a sudden I felt the orgasm cumming and a slight sensation that I had to pee. Then, I didn't want to cum just yet so I tried to hold it in, then instead of letting it happen I pushed and I squirted!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007):

Hey! I want to squirt too. My hubby is not to sure about the idea but it totally turns me on! I have done a LOT of research and it seems that you CAN "Learn" how. It seems true that you either have it or you don't but you do have to use certain techniques (g-spot stimulation)and be very relaxed and comfortable with your partner. Like others have said, most women who can squirt do so into the bladder because they hold it back thinking that the feeling is the need to pee. Make sure you lay down lots of towles because there can be a LOT of fluid. Many people will tell you that it is urine because it comes out of the urethra, but it is not.

Good Luck to you...and wish me luck too!!!

If you wanna see it in actioncheck out Tiana Lynn. Great porn star/squirter...google her!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2007):

i have been with me hubby for 10 years and i just started to squirt. when having sex you just have to let go and push out, now i do it every time we have sex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2007):

I am a female and ive experienced what you guys call squirting with my partner and being experimental with a toy with bent over the bed and with him continually thrusting at a fast pace I was able to reach my 1st ever female ejaculation aka Squirting and I am so proud that I think you should all try my technique and squirt!!!!!!!!! EVERYWHERE

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2007):

Hmm...I actually got to this site, because I wanted to learn how to squirt, and this page popped up! I've been seeing it all over the porn industry, and even just recently discovered what it was. Thank God someone cleared up the fact that the liquid does indeed, expell from the urethra....because I couldn't figure out for the life of me, why it looked like the girl was peeing every time she "squirted." I must say, I do believe a technique to squirting can be learned and taught, but that doesn't necessarily mean sucess. My fiance is AMAZING in bed, I have at least 2-3 orgasms every time we have sex, no matter what the duration, and I have yet to 'squirt'. Even after following tips. So I do agree, it's not an 'on demand' type of thing. If you haven't done it yet, techniques might allow you to squirt, but then again they might not. Some women have this ability and some women will never obtain it. Don't pressure yourself though hun, it's not needed.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007):

oh dats wot they call it?...had this ex girlfriend, the sex was always hot and one time in the eight months we were together she ket out a fountain of fluid...i was amazed but she laffed it off...i didnt know wot it was and i had never seen a thing like that before...she sounded like she hadnt too. oh bless u for bringing this up.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007):

i hardly squirt, but i know i can. it does take a special connection to do so. good partnr, good sex, good time...

it kind of feels like your peeing. so i do agree on urinating before sex.

great suggestion. be experimental. i tried having sex on an exercise ball. it was so fun, i came and squirt all over the place :D the best sex i had in a long time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007):

I have to say, I've watched a DVD video involving a couple that teaches the viewer how women can "squirt". From what I remember it involved a serious amount of doing Kegel exercises and high amounts of stimulation directed at the G-spot. The product was a very noticeable amount of liquid that sprayed out whilst she was orgasming. Personally doesn't sound tooo erotic to me, but hey...

I guess anal's out for 2006 and squirtings in for 2007? LOL *observes the ever changing most asked things of a women during sex*

In answer to the question, if you don't get any definite answers on here I believe there are books and videos that can help you. Failing that maybe you could just urinate over him. LOL :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007):

My wife has recently discovered this ability. It caught her completely off guard and me to since she hit me in the chest. There is evidence that has shown vaginal fluid in the bladder after sex. It is suspected that all women can squirt but most do it internally. Men can ejaculate in the same way. If a man constricts the pc muscle or blocks the semen manually the semen is redirected to the bladder and is expelled from the body when urinated out. My wife has not been able to squirt again since she did a few months ago. Also we have been together 9 years and until two months ago had never squirted. She always feels she needs to pee after sex and we suspect that she is just ejaculating internally. Keep at it practice practice practice.

Good Luck

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A female reader, pebblesxx United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2007):

sorry off the tangent a bit.... that is an orgasm?? oh.. i do it quite alot, but didnbt realise that it was an orgasm... i dnt think its all that..?? its a nice feeling i do enjoy it but i think i was expecting more of an er well an explosion??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007):

There is nothing to say about it, cause there are only 1/3 of girls in the world , that can squirt! so you cannot learn it!!! sorry

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007):

I'm in a similar situation but I've just discovered something.

"hi,i am a squirter and you cant just make it happen, you either have it or you dont,"

well thats kind of true. it's said that the feeling of squirting is like feeling like you have to go to the bathroom. and many women hold it back instead of letting it out.

so the thing to do best is just take a piss before you have sex. then when you have sex and you have that feeling, let it out. it should be a short clear squirt.

and hey, ive been trying to do so for months and today i just discovered that i could. i was just too afraid to do so.

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A male reader, home_land Germany +, writes (25 March 2007):

home_land agony aunthello

I think at your age you have to look after yourself and your stuies and young girls like you have so much to learn in this life. I don't think that its the right time for you to do such things. Do something better don't turn yourself into a joy toy

good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007):

Yes Yes Yes! I've have this experience LOL - quite a few times with ex who was amazing in bed, the most fantastic sex I'd ever had and the best orgasms I'd ever had, sadly although he was a sex god, he cheated and I dumped him. It just happens when you least expect it, when it first happens it's like wetting yourself, just gushes out, clear, odorless warm water, the man seems to love it! I doubt I will ever experience such an amazing sex life again, but didn't want to share him. C'est la vie!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007):

well here's the deal, I've been with two girls that can "squirt", it's not very common for women to be able to do this. There is a technique that you can use to try and see if your are able to do this and plenty of toys that can help you do this. It's all about the G-spot...if you are really curious about it and would like some info, just pm me and I'll tell you what I know.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007):

hi,i am a squirter and you cant just make it happen, you either have it or you dont,its a rare thing and if you are able to squirt,you will definately know when it happens,its similar to having a wee,exept its a clear,odourless fluid like water i suppose and you feel completely satisfied once you have squirted(cum).i never experienced it with my xhusband yet my current husband was obviously doing something right and still is.you have to achive maximum orgasm for it to happen.

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (21 March 2007):

Ponungalungb agony auntAsk him if he has any other requests, like shooting quarters out of your ass. I think he's been watching too many skin flicks. LOL.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007):

I don't pretend to be an expert on the subject but as far as I know squirting is something only a really, really few, if any, women do as a natural cause of action. The whole squirting "fad" seems to be brought on by very imaginative people in the porn industry and sadly a lot of men, especially young impressionable men, use porn as the basis of their sexual expectations and fantasies. I'd say your boyfriend needed to get a little bit more realistic and mature in his views about sex and what is possible, what is realistic, what is not and what constitutes good intimate sex.

Having said that, supposedly, most fantasies should be considered normal and I think fantasizing about squirting is pretty harmless as far as fantasies go. Therefore I'd say that if it is something you are comfortable doing yourself and you want to humor your boyfriend and make him happy that I'd research techniques porn industry uses to produce that effect. I'm sure it can be found online if you use google.

But I'm also pretty sure that you'll probably find that it's not as glamorous or exciting as imagined once you get down to the practicals of it. After all porn movies like any other movies rely heavily on smoke and mirrors and the illusion that people on screen are having a good time.

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A female reader, stevie jade United Kingdom +, writes (21 March 2007):

stevie jade agony auntWell,basically he wants you to "come".But its not the same for all girls.Its mainly when you orgasm,(some girls cant orgasm)you will get increasingly excited and turned-on,and when you come,you will drip a watery discharge.This is what hes asking you to do.But what he doesnt know is you cant just make any1 "squirt" it takes intimacy, time, and getting to know how your body works.Id feel pressured if i was in your position.Dont feel pressured,just relax.And if he asks you again,have a chat with him.Dont be afraid to ask me for more advice if you want it? ok? good luck :-) xx

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