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I don't think im qualified to help people i just have my opinions and some peoples questions i relate to, i dont mean to offend anyone i just like to help.

I am currently single after a very bad r/ship that drained me emotionally so i ain't really looking for anyone but if someone comes my way, i'd give them the chance.

Hmm what makes me tick is people being intolerent of eachother and people who dont know how to compromise.

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Will this Leo-Virgo woman be compatible with a Capricorn male?

Q.   Hello, I'm a 37 year old blue Capricorn tooth brush. She's a 31 year old Leo-Virgo-cusp tooth brush. I am very attracted to her. Do you girlies out there think we are likely to hit it off based on star-sign compatibility alone? Thanking you in ...

A.   5 February 2009: I'm not sure if you are a strong believer of star signs but judging from this, you probably are. I too believe but if you like someone, sometimes star signs and toothbrushes dont come into it. Sio go for it and see what happens :) ... (read in full...)

I want to ejaculate on her face, how to convince her?

Q.   my girlfriend and i have done a lot sexually. we have both performed oral on each other, she likes it when pull out and cum on her, and she has even let me cum in her mouth and on her face once. i only recently told her that i would like cum on her ...

A.   5 February 2009: Respect the fact that she doesn't want to. If she doesn't like it she doesnt't like it. SIMPLE. Just be patient with her and you never know she might change her mind again. Don't pressure her as it probably make it less likely for her to do it... (read in full...)

I'm turned on by watching fat, unattractive men in porn videos, is this strange?

Q.   Any other girl with the same "fetish"? Thanks for answers. Hay, This question might sound a bit weird. I'm 19 and I recently found out that i have some kind of fetish about watching porn movies with older man having sex with younger girls(18-25)...

A.   5 February 2009: Don't worry about it, i agree with the abouve... its just a phase.. i went through a stage of wanting to meet old guys which got me (well more them into trouble). But it will pass... (read in full...)

Is this cum?

Q.   After I ejaculate theres a clear sticky liquid? is this cum?...

A.   18 November 2008: yess ... (read in full...)

I want to keep my virginity so is this compromise solution I found, normal?

Q.   Hi, Im 21 and wish to keep my virginity until I am married however i still want sexual pleasure. My bf and I thrust a lot with underwear on but topless (dry hump) but I cant feel his penis properly. So he took it out but after a bit my lacey ...

A.   11 November 2008: Yes it's still possible that you can get an sti or pregnant as his semen can still get inside you. Butt i think the chances will be a lot slimmer in comparsant to full penetration. And rubbing his penis on you labia may well turn into full sex as y... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and feel I am ready for sex. Advice ?

Q.   Hello, I am a 14 year old girl. You need to know that because my question is about being ready for sex. Its a long question even though it answers will probably be short. Well, I have been with my boyfriend for just over nine months. We are real...

A.   7 November 2008: If you think your ready. wait just a little bit longer.. So you know it's something you have waited a long while for and know you are not in a position of possible regret... cause for us girls.. sex isnt very plesant the first time round. And the ... (read in full...)

How old is TOO old?

Q.   Hey, I have just turned 17 and the guy is 32 and has a gf. background I have started to fancy this guy that drinks in the pub that I work at. It all started when we were talking one night and he asked for my number, I gave it to him thinking tha...

A.   7 November 2008: 1. You did the right thing in saying no 2. Personally too old is when they are the same age or older than your parents 3. It's possible that you just like the fact an older guy wants you. whatever you may feel for him it will pass. If it was ... (read in full...)

Am I right to want to spend more time with her?

Q.   I have been engaged for one month now and my fiancee is already becoming distant. Her sex drive is very low and we seem to fight about it often. She has been diagnosed with vulvar vestibulitus wich makes sex very painful but everthing else has ...

A.   7 November 2008: I feel as though your fiancee wants some space. she may think you two are rushing into marriage. Give her the space she wants but also keep telling her how you feel but then listen to how she feels and try and find a resolution. I hope this helps at ... (read in full...)

Can a person 20 or 30 years older fancy someone who is 16-20 years old?

Q.   Hey guys, I have one question for you. Do you think it's possible that somebody who is much older than you (20 or 30 years) fancys a girl who is 16-20 years old? Especially if that somebody is in position of power (like for example boss, teacher,...

A.   7 November 2008: Around the world the legal age is between 16/18.. so your at the age where it is perfectly legal. But it can be frowned upon. but if you like the guy then it's fine with you and you are sure he's not 'seedy' in that way... (read in full...)

Polyurethane condoms?

Q.   This is mainly one for the guys, although ladies feel free to chime in too. I have a terrible problem using condoms. I thought I was weird, but after some research, I have discovered that I'm certainly not alone, about 25% of men have the sam...

A.   6 November 2008: Hi.. k i'm sorry i'm not a guy =(. But i think i can help. I used to see a guy who had the same problem so i kinda understand. Anyway yeah try PU and see if t hey work.. but why do you have to be the one to wear the condom.. females can wear the... (read in full...)

Is this classified as "molestation" or am I over-reacting? HELP!

Q.   I feel a bit silly asking this question but its really bugging me and i need answers or something close to it. When i was much younger (+/-8/9yrs old) my dad's friend would always want me to sit on his lap and he would rub his hand over my chest he ...

A.   5 November 2008: You are not being silly. I think it was molestation and yes your right you may need to see a counsellor. I feel for you that you are going through it alone, but that man had no right to touch you in that way you were too young to understand and ... (read in full...)

My gf doesn't want sex anymore!

Q.   Hi i hav a girlfriend and we had sex once, we were both virgin but now she does not want to sex with me any more so does this means she is masturbating? because she use to phone me at night and sounding like she fingering her saying naugthy things ...

A.   3 November 2008: 1) its natural for any human being to masturbate so she might be. 2) Maybe she doesn't like sex,, maybe it hurt her or she's ben put off.. or she might just not be in the mood give her some space ... (read in full...)

I can't stop these feelings of shame...

Q.   Basically, about a year ago I got in to drugs and heavy drinking and became really self-destructive and depressed. I slept around a lot and started seeing my ex (Ste*) who lived near me with his girlfriend (Lucy*). One night I slept with Ste and his ...

A.   3 November 2008: sometimes things are better left unsaid. Your right you'll end up ruining a family and i doubt it would stop u feeling guilty. Just carry on as you are and leave the past in the past xx... (read in full...)

I wonder if he prefers shaved pubic area...

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for three months, i think we're ready to take the next step. We've touched each other through our cloths, but never actually 'touched' each other. I'm slightly worried though, would he prefer me to be ...

A.   2 November 2008: No offence but don't listen to that guy Q. Shaven does not neccesarily mean you vagina is cleaner and he's talking about his own experiance so i really doubt everyone agrees with what he has to say... Anyway Whenever you get the chance just drop... (read in full...)

Please Explain How to Find Out If I'm Pregnant?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been doing stuff for a while now, and I think that after being late over a week now (i was due for my period to start on the 24th of october) I might be pregnant. we didnt use any protection for one of the times, i know th...

A.   2 November 2008: Go to a family planning clinic and ask for a pregnancy test. That is the most full proof way to find out whether you are or not. There are other ways like home pregnancy kits. But the very best thing is to go to a f.p.c or your doctor. Good ... (read in full...)

How Can I Change So He Doesn't Take It Out On Me?

Q.   ok how do i change myself and not make my fiancee mad to where he takes his anger out on me and how do i change myself to be a better person so we dont break...

A.   2 November 2008: Hunni don't feel that you have to change for someone. It sounds like your fiancee has the problem not you. If you feel there are problems in your relationship then talk it out or even see a counsellor. But never feel like you have to compromise ... (read in full...)

My friend hates my ex, now I'm back with him... do I tell her?

Q.   Me and my ex were together for a while then I broke it off then we were just on off like most teenagers do. Well my best friend hates him, and he and I talked and took a few weeks and worked out all of our problems... i really love him... I'm scared ...

A.   30 October 2008: Tell her because the longer you leave it the more upset she'd feel that you kept it from her.. and same if she found out from someone else If she doesn't like him, then try and compromise and ask to just accept that your back with him. If she does... (read in full...)

What is my teacher playing at?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I need help. I just want to know what this means. Why does he do this? Who is he? He is my teacher, whom I have a little (by little I mean a lot)crush on. Why does he does this and what does it mean. One thing that you should know is ...

A.   30 October 2008: Sorry to say but you shouln't take it seriously. If he was a descent man he would know that there cannot be anything between you two as you are too young, and he will get into sooo much trouble... (read in full...)

Why do some people constantly disrespect others by trying to force their religeous beliefs on them

Q.   This is no doubt going to be a controversial topic but here goes: I am an atheist and quite happy with my beliefs. However I quite happily respect and accept everyone else's beliefs nor do I ever disrespect anyone else's beliefs / religions etc by...

A.   30 October 2008: Can i just say most christians don't force their belief's on anyone. Sorry to say the C word but i am one (soz). I completly understand that everyone has their own beliefs, and i knw the type of people you speak of. But if you try an understand that ... (read in full...)

I am afraid he wont want to be with me when he finds out my age

Q.   i have just started to talk to this boy on msn, and he sounds really nice but he's 16, and i'm 13. I'm worried that he won't want to be with me when he finds out. please help me i really like him...

A.   30 October 2008: Just be honest with him. If you really like him then it is something you must do. If he doesn't take the news well. Then think of it as his loss and i can almot gurantee that you'll find someone much better, if he doesn't want to except your age.... (read in full...)

Should I see a doctor about this stuff?

Q.   Im 16 and lately ive noticed that my vagina has been having some problems. i have tryed fingering and so have other people but its just like way to tight and it hurts way to much. ive noticed that sometimes this white liquidy stuff comes out and ...

A.   30 October 2008: It sound like you may have thrush but check with your doctor to make sure. Thrush isn't bad it can be caused by things like soup and even the washing detergent you mum uses for you clothes. so don't be alarmed. AND DOUBLE CHECK with your doctor c... (read in full...)

My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex.

Q.   My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex. I told my female friend this and she said "thats hot" Is this normal? Why do people like this?...

A.   11 March 2008: As long as he dont go to far and you dont mind it then its fine x... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is premature - anything we can do?

Q.   My boyfriend suffers with pre ejaculation, what can i do to help stop this?...

A.   11 March 2008: the condoms from durex called performa make him last longer... (read in full...)

I slept with my ex, do I tell my fiance?

Q.   I slept with my ex bf..bt i still haven't told my finance that I did. He is open minded but we come from traditional backgrounds and I don't think he will accept that..what should I do? ...

A.   11 March 2008: Yes tell him You cant go into a marriage if you cant tell your partner this it is not fair on him and deep down i bet you know that ... (read in full...)

Should I walk away even though we both still love each other? I've trust issues after his lying to me.

Q.   I've been with my huband for 5 years and he has lied to me since the beggining but instead worring i accepted his explanations for the lying and thought that everything was cleared up and i could put it behind me as i really liked him. However l...

A.   11 March 2008: I'm really sorry to hear about your circumstances. But i think you need to do everything possible to save your marriage. Marriage counselling.. if you go to church or any other religion go to your priest/inman etc. look into this other women. d... (read in full...)

Should I tell him my true age before the situation turns more complicated? I'm not 16 just yet.

Q.   So i have a pretty minior problem. First off i am 15, (turning 16 in may) and the guy i am talking too is 18 (turning 19 in may also) we have kissed once or twice, and we talk constantly. he wants to take me out on a date, and seems pretty honest ...

A.   11 March 2008: i say tell him if i really likes you he can get past it and as long as your sensible theres no problem Just explain why you/your friend said you was older best of luck xx... (read in full...)

Should I tell him I am a virgin before we have sex or simply don't mention it?

Q.   I have been going out with a guy recently but it is the first proper relationship I have been in. Therefore, I am still a Virgin. When the time comes, is it a good thing to tell the guy you are a Virgin before you have sex or should I just leave ...

A.   9 December 2007: i would tell him he'd probz be more understanding and patient xxxx... (read in full...)

How can I stop feeling like this?

Q.   Hiya i have a problem. I haven't had a bf since i was at junior school and have now left school so its been along time. Its just i met this lad at college when i joined back in september we are in every lesson together and hang out at dinner and ...

A.   6 December 2007: that is so weird i feel the exact same i had a dream about this guy and now im obbessed i told my friends and they said i should go for it. so why not? Fink of it like you have nuffing to lose and if you do decide to make a move do it slowly i... (read in full...)

Could my hormone level be low or are the positive pregancy tests right???

Q.   Can you still be pregnant if a doctor says your pregnancy test is very light and that maybe it's because your hormone level is low even if your home pregnancy test came back positive 3 times?...

A.   29 November 2007: love face it your pregnant... (read in full...)

Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Q.   Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...

A.   29 November 2007: 14 and i wish i held out a bit longer and for the right person... (read in full...)

My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??

Q.   My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is ...

A.   29 November 2007: Err is the sky red? no and thats your answer Why do peopl seem to forget marriage is about being with one person and that person alone, no matter how bad your situation is. your wife is going through menopause thats a girl term for crazy, if she ... (read in full...)

First time - painful?

Q.   does it really hurt the first time you have sex? im realy nervous and know im reddy tho....

A.   22 November 2007: Depends if you claim to be ready and your in the situation and your completly relaxed and aroused it wont hurt. But when your all tense theres more chance it will hurt. Whoever you give it up to tell him how you want it to make it as comforta... (read in full...)

Why can't he invite me too when he goes out with his friends? Am I being unfair?

Q.   hiy, i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year now and he has started going out with his friends in the evening once in a while, it annoys me because i dont ever go out with any friends of mine, and he didnt go out for the first 7-8 months .. it bot...

A.   22 November 2007: I reckon instead of being hung up on the fact he doesn't invite you out. Suggest it yourself. Or meet up with some girlfriends and invite him along and tell him to bring his mates. He should get the idea that he should start inviting you out more... (read in full...)

A boy from school said it's embarassing to be virgin. I do not agree. What do you think?

Q.   a boy said at school in a pshe lesson that "if you are 14 and still a virgin its embarresing" although over half tutor are virgins.i dont think thats embarresing at all what do you think? its getting to me. ...

A.   22 November 2007: He needs a headcheck if he thinks like that Sex doesn't make you a 'big man' just makes you stupid if you dont take it seriously Sex is a big deal especially for us girl. you dont know how many people wish they were still virgins. SEx should b... (read in full...)

Husband is Deployed, and I'm lonely. Is online relationships and flirting as a coping method...advice?

Q.   Im 22 Happily married and have a beautiful daughter whose now 8 months old. My husband is deployed atm, and i find myself very lonely, and i am seeking comfort in online flirting, and i now have 3 friends who think they love me ( all met online). ...

A.   13 November 2007: We all go through lonliness no matter what situation we are in. But don't depend on online flirting to feel that void bcoz it will just creep back up you and there is a chance you will feel to take the flirting further. Tell your husband how you ... (read in full...)

Son who won't mind and lies all the time

Q.   My son adopted at 12 lies all the time and has no regret. I have spanked him. no good. He is now 14 I have grounded him .no good , i have taken away prevlidges. no good . I have talked about God with him no good . I am really fed up and don't know ...

A.   4 November 2007: sounds like your son is going through some things that only he knows about. just tell him that u are dre for him, but dont force it as well. Try to have patience as well ... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend cheated and now I don't trust him?

Q.   Hiyah, well this is probably gonna be reali confusin n long and you're all gonna think omg when you read it but its worth a go.. I'm 13 and I got with my bf in feb.. at the beginning everything was fine.. I trusted him round other girls and when ...

A.   29 October 2007: Omg your 13, yeah in your age group you may seem like you have it all wrked out. do you seriously wna get wrked up by one guy? Your meant to be having the time of your life. He's a bastard for hurting you and it sounds to me that he really ent worth ... (read in full...)

Confused about the reasons for sex. Are you?

Q.   can somebody please tell me why people think sex is so paramount in a relationship. when u split, i find that family things are the most hurtfull once gone. sex is a physical release which can be so special with the person you love and not when it ...

A.   29 October 2007: True. not trying to be sexist at all but i think that is because with most women they can't seperate there feelings with sex. ITs just the sensation you get with being wanted and that closeness is what gets us. No matter how hard you fight it some ... (read in full...)

I still have strong feelings for him, but don't know what to do.

Q.   I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email fr...

A.   28 October 2007: You shouldnt feel guilty. To be honest he is a coward if he cant be bothered to tell his girlfriend how he feels. i think you should move on. Do you really want a guy who could do that to his pregnant girlfriend?? x... (read in full...)

He cheated on his stag night, now she's pregnant!

Q.   I have been with my husband now for 13 years we have 3 children and another one on the way. We got married in August and i have just recntly found out that he has been having an affair with somone who he met on his stag night, now she is saying ...

A.   26 October 2007: you dont live in south london by any chance, please private message me to confirm and do you have a sister named mavis, because you sound like my auntie sorry if this is untrue, just sounds all to familiar x... (read in full...)

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