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I am currently single after a very bad r/ship that drained me emotionally so i ain't really looking for anyone but if someone comes my way, i'd give them the chance.
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My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex.
Q. My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex. I told my female friend this and she said "thats hot" Is this normal? Why do people like this?...
A. 11 March 2008: As long as he dont go to far
and you dont mind it
then its fine
x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is premature - anything we can do?
Q. My boyfriend suffers with pre ejaculation, what can i do to help stop this?...
A. 11 March 2008: the condoms from durex called performa
make him last longer... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex, do I tell my fiance?
Q. I slept with my ex bf..bt i still haven't told my finance that I did. He is open minded but we come from traditional backgrounds and I don't think he will accept that..what should I do? ...
A. 11 March 2008: Yes tell him
You cant go into a marriage if you cant tell your partner this it is not fair on him
and deep down i bet you know that
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Should I walk away even though we both still love each other? I've trust issues after his lying to me.
Q. I've been with my huband for 5 years and he has lied to me since the beggining but instead worring i accepted his explanations for the lying and thought that everything was cleared up and i could put it behind me as i really liked him. However l...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm really sorry to hear about your circumstances. But i think you need to do everything possible to save your marriage. Marriage counselling.. if you go to church or any other religion go to your priest/inman etc.
look into this other women. d... (read in full...)
Should I tell him my true age before the situation turns more complicated? I'm not 16 just yet.
Q. So i have a pretty minior problem. First off i am 15, (turning 16 in may) and the guy i am talking too is 18 (turning 19 in may also) we have kissed once or twice, and we talk constantly. he wants to take me out on a date, and seems pretty honest ...
A. 11 March 2008: i say tell him
if i really likes you he can get past it
and as long as your sensible theres no problem
Just explain why you/your friend said you was older
best of luck
xx... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I am a virgin before we have sex or simply don't mention it?
Q. I have been going out with a guy recently but it is the first proper relationship I have been in. Therefore, I am still a Virgin. When the time comes, is it a good thing to tell the guy you are a Virgin before you have sex or should I just leave ...
A. 9 December 2007: i would tell him
he'd probz be more understanding and patient
xxxx... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling like this?
Q. Hiya i have a problem. I haven't had a bf since i was at junior school and have now left school so its been along time. Its just i met this lad at college when i joined back in september we are in every lesson together and hang out at dinner and ...
A. 6 December 2007: that is so weird
i feel the exact same i had a dream about this guy and now im obbessed
i told my friends and they said i should go for it. so why not? Fink of it like you have nuffing to lose and if you do decide to make a move do it slowly i... (read in full...)
Could my hormone level be low or are the positive pregancy tests right???
Q. Can you still be pregnant if a doctor says your pregnancy test is very light and that maybe it's because your hormone level is low even if your home pregnancy test came back positive 3 times?...
A. 29 November 2007: love face it
your pregnant... (read in full...)
Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Q. Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...
A. 29 November 2007: 14 and i wish i held out a bit longer
and for the right person... (read in full...)
My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??
Q. My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is ...
A. 29 November 2007: Err is the sky red? no and thats your answer
Why do peopl seem to forget marriage is about being with one person and that person alone, no matter how bad your situation is. your wife is going through menopause thats a girl term for crazy, if she ... (read in full...)
First time - painful?
Q. does it really hurt the first time you have sex? im realy nervous and know im reddy tho....
A. 22 November 2007: Depends
if you claim to be ready and your in the situation and your completly relaxed and aroused it wont hurt. But when your all tense theres more chance it will hurt.
Whoever you give it up to tell him how you want it to make it as comforta... (read in full...)
Why can't he invite me too when he goes out with his friends? Am I being unfair?
Q. hiy, i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year now and he has started going out with his friends in the evening once in a while, it annoys me because i dont ever go out with any friends of mine, and he didnt go out for the first 7-8 months .. it bot...
A. 22 November 2007: I reckon instead of being hung up on the fact he doesn't invite you out. Suggest it yourself. Or meet up with some girlfriends and invite him along and tell him to bring his mates. He should get the idea that he should start inviting you out more... (read in full...)
A boy from school said it's embarassing to be virgin. I do not agree. What do you think?
Q. a boy said at school in a pshe lesson that "if you are 14 and still a virgin its embarresing" although over half tutor are virgins.i dont think thats embarresing at all what do you think? its getting to me. ...
A. 22 November 2007: He needs a headcheck if he thinks like that
Sex doesn't make you a 'big man' just makes you stupid if you dont take it seriously
Sex is a big deal especially for us girl. you dont know how many people wish they were still virgins. SEx should b... (read in full...)
Husband is Deployed, and I'm lonely. Is online relationships and flirting as a coping method...advice?
Q. Im 22 Happily married and have a beautiful daughter whose now 8 months old. My husband is deployed atm, and i find myself very lonely, and i am seeking comfort in online flirting, and i now have 3 friends who think they love me ( all met online). ...
A. 13 November 2007: We all go through lonliness no matter what situation we are in. But don't depend on online flirting to feel that void bcoz it will just creep back up you and there is a chance you will feel to take the flirting further.
Tell your husband how you ... (read in full...)
Son who won't mind and lies all the time
Q. My son adopted at 12 lies all the time and has no regret. I have spanked him. no good. He is now 14 I have grounded him .no good , i have taken away prevlidges. no good . I have talked about God with him no good . I am really fed up and don't know ...
A. 4 November 2007: sounds like your son is going through some things that only he knows about.
just tell him that u are dre for him, but dont force it as well.
Try to have patience as well
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I think my boyfriend cheated and now I don't trust him?
Q. Hiyah, well this is probably gonna be reali confusin n long and you're all gonna think omg when you read it but its worth a go.. I'm 13 and I got with my bf in feb.. at the beginning everything was fine.. I trusted him round other girls and when ...
A. 29 October 2007: Omg your 13, yeah in your age group you may seem like you have it all wrked out. do you seriously wna get wrked up by one guy? Your meant to be having the time of your life. He's a bastard for hurting you and it sounds to me that he really ent worth ... (read in full...)
Confused about the reasons for sex. Are you?
Q. can somebody please tell me why people think sex is so paramount in a relationship. when u split, i find that family things are the most hurtfull once gone. sex is a physical release which can be so special with the person you love and not when it ...
A. 29 October 2007: True. not trying to be sexist at all but i think that is because with most women they can't seperate there feelings with sex. ITs just the sensation you get with being wanted and that closeness is what gets us. No matter how hard you fight it some ... (read in full...)
I still have strong feelings for him, but don't know what to do.
Q. I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email fr...
A. 28 October 2007: You shouldnt feel guilty. To be honest he is a coward if he cant be bothered to tell his girlfriend how he feels.
i think you should move on. Do you really want a guy who could do that to his pregnant girlfriend??
x... (read in full...)
He cheated on his stag night, now she's pregnant!
Q. I have been with my husband now for 13 years we have 3 children and another one on the way. We got married in August and i have just recntly found out that he has been having an affair with somone who he met on his stag night, now she is saying ...
A. 26 October 2007: you dont live in south london by any chance, please private message me to confirm
and do you have a sister named mavis, because you sound like my auntie
sorry if this is untrue, just sounds all to familiar
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I still want to be friends with my ex, but he ignores me!
Q. Well, me and my ex's relationship hasen't been going well lately. It all started when i started hanging out with my old friends who can get on people nerves a little bit. And since i've been hanging out with them i guess i've been getting on his ...
A. 26 October 2007: Tell him at the end of the day you want to remain in contact with him. and you are who you are and your friends are who dey wna be. so its either except that or basically he ent worth it no matter how you feel... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and involved with 2 guys and a girl and still feel the need for more!
Q. hey you guys...I am in serious trouble. I am a 16 year old girl and I am currently involved with 2 guys and a girl. I have a problem where I am always looking for more heat and I will go to any measures to get it. One of the men is 47 and happens to ...
A. 26 October 2007: Do you not care that you may hurt one of these people? You dont need more heat you have issues. Do you feel like you need to be with someone to feel that way, cause love yoou dont. Stop before it gets out of control, your sixteen you shouldnt have ... (read in full...)
I want to get in shape, but will I be too skinny?
Q. I want to get my body in shape. I am a normal weight but I am not toned. I want to stay curvy (like a Jlo and Beyonce kind of figure) and I don't wanna be too skinny. I just wanna know; does toning your body means you lose weight?...
A. 26 October 2007: wow so glad to hear someone who doesnt want to be a bloody size zero.
eat reguraly eg 3 times a day with snacks in between. just be healthy about it. but dont punish yourself either, if you feel like having a chocolate bar have one! lol
Tone up... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and he's 24, I'm unsure if this relationship will last.
Q. hi.I am 16 years old gir,and I am going out with 24 old boy.I don't think that the year difference make our relationship immposible,there are another reasons.First reason that makes us separated for a time is that he is always on move.Today is in my ...
A. 26 October 2007: if you dont feel right about the relationship
then you shouldnt be in it.
sounds like you would be better off without him
best of luck
x... (read in full...)
I know it is right that I left, but my heart is saying something else!
Q. I broke up with my fiance a week ago and have tried very hard to not answer his calls. But just a few minutes ago he called and my caller id said "unknown" so stupidly I answered and it was him. He said that that was the only way he thought i would ...
A. 15 October 2007: if getting back with him dont seem right then dont do
tell him its best for him to stop calling... (read in full...)
How do I ask my cousin to have sex with me?
Q. Hi, I've been wanting to have sex with my cousin and I want to ask her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way. I feel she does sometimes and then I feel it hard to ask her. How do I know she wants to? How do I ask her? Thanks for a...
A. 14 October 2007: right theres nothing illegal bout that but do you really wana jeopardise your relationship
its quite doubtful she will feel the same so i say just ignore your feelings
or concentrate them on someone else (that aint a family memember)
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I get compliments all the time but not from lads I'm interested in. Why don't I have a bf?
Q. why am i the only person that is still single!!! all my friends are in relationships of 9/10/11/12/13 monnths n even longer and i am still the one that's never had a bf. all people say is "oh dont worry mr right will come along one day." but hes ...
A. 30 September 2007: hey i am going exactly what you are going through. But you know what the people who dont bother noticing us are blind idiots. even though it's coming from a girl you probz are gorgeus. And anyways having a boyfriend is not about how you look it's ... (read in full...)
I just see him staring at me and when I look back he stares at me for a little while longer before looking away.
Q. I really like my friend that I have known since nursery but we don't really talk that much anymore because he is in the year below me. Now he has come to my secondary school and sometimes I just see him staring at me and when I look back he stares ...
A. 26 September 2007: Sounds like he likes you too hun
Talk to him privately about it, he probably is as nervous as u, so try not to worry
and if he's a prick about it then he's probz a a blind twat lol
best of luck hun
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Can aids be passed on through my mouth?
Q. Stupid question, Can you get aids from kissing and getting blow jobs, and from someone swallowing your cum?...
A. 26 September 2007: you cant get it through your mouth! come on now seriously???
Its so rare like if the person you was kissing had a cut in theor lip and they were kissing you while they was bleeding and the same with you then it might happen its such a small perc... (read in full...)
Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?
Q. I'm a 46-year-old Mother of 8 (3 by my first husband, 5 by my current partner) and I've had many affairs. Most of which my partner has known about. But now I've started a relationship with a man who myself and my Fiance both work with. All of the ...
A. 26 September 2007: Dont marry him
Marriage is all about being faithful and commitment, if youo cant do that then the marriage is doomed to fail. I say you should take a break from your fiance
Yeah your kids may be devasted now but it would be better if you realise ... (read in full...)
My estranged husband uses the children to get at me. Do I stop including him when it comes to our daughters behaviour?
Q. Well another upadate on some of the issues I have been faced.I told my ex on Tuesday that my oldest wants to stay here with me and after that he BLEW, fighting with me allday.Serious text messages that were horriffic to me.I had to work nites that ...
A. 22 September 2007: First i think maybe your ex may be hurting your daughter for in some way because children unless something as influenced wont act like that.
Secondly give him an ultimatium tell him start acting right and be more involved or just see the kids
It wo... (read in full...)
Can't understand why he didn't contact all week, when after 4 dates he was enthusiastic to invite me to see his house up north.
Q. This guy came up to me in a club and liked me and wanted my number and wanted to meet the next day. I couldn't I was on holidays for a week, the next Sunday he wanted to know if I was out the night before and called me to invite me over. I did, ...
A. 22 September 2007: sounds like he's already in a relationship bbe
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I'm sleeping with a boy who is not my bf, how can I sort out who I like and what to do?
Q. hi. im 15 and have been with my boyfriend now for just over a year but i think i have fallen out of love with him already, we have been sexually active for 7 months and i have got to admit we are alright in that department but i just cant love him ...
A. 22 September 2007: First of all they ent nothing wrong with the way your feeling, fair enough you dont like him as u did before. Just leave him because if either of them found out. They both wouldnt have ya.
Maybe you like this other boy because you know you dont... (read in full...)
I was told I was a Psycho just like his ex girlfriends - What do I do as this has me really upset and I feel so hurt.
Q. I told my boyfriend that I was not happy about him going into a strip club in Prague on a stagnite, I didn't say don't go, I said I wasn't happy as a reply from him I was told I was a Psycho just like his ex girlfriends - What do I do as this has me ...
A. 22 September 2007: He's the one with the problem not you
if soinds like he ent worth it
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Will his wife leave him?
Q. Thank you for posting this site. I came across your this site by chanced as I am looking for a answer to my problem and hoping to get some help. Is there any case near similar to mine? Being involved with married man. We are both in love but he i...
A. 20 September 2007: Give him time its seems like a soft spot for him. He shouldnt really be doing what he's doing with you whether he's happy or not with his wife. Think of her they may not be as in love as before but it is a very hard thing to go through.
You may love... (read in full...)
He has to hide me from his adult kids or they have a fit!
Q. i have been asking question on this site for the past few days. i am in my 60's and my bf of 2yrs 8 months is in his 60's. his kids are 35 and 39 years old and they run his life. they told him to break up with me in july because they didn't think ...
A. 20 September 2007: I think like all kids they are probably just looking out for their father. They are just handling it in the wrong way. They seem very needy which is weird for 30 years olds to be (with their father)
Get your partner to tell them straight they dont... (read in full...)
I like him. Do I tell him how I feel, or have I missed my chance??
Q. I fell head over heels for a guy who recently got married. A few months before he did the deed, he told me how he felt about me. He said that hed fallen for me and never met anyone like me before. We had kissed on a few occasions, but one night...
A. 20 September 2007: I'm sorry but i dont think you should tell him, You'll just mess with his mind and think of his wife as well she doesn't deserve to get hurt by it.
To be honest he shouldnt of married his wife until he was clear of his feelings.
Its hard but you'... (read in full...)
When will the pill take effect? I started it on the 2nd day of my period.
Q. Hey! I have just gone on the pill this week and i started it on the 2nd day of my period, i was just wondering when it will be effective? As i've heard within 7 days and i've also heard after the first pack......
A. 18 September 2007: You shouldnt run out in a week go and see your doctor and explain it to him I dont know enough to answer really x... (read in full...)
Neither man expects an exclusive relationship w/ me, but I feel filthy and disgusting by dating them both at the same time!
Q. Bit of a mess... I've been seeing a guy as a very casual relationship, it was agreed it wasn't to be serious, and that we weren't limited to just seeing each other, but it kind of didn't end up that way for me because I've never been the type to ...
A. 18 September 2007: Stop having sex with em. That feeling is not worth it on all levels. See what they can give you on a none physical level if it fulfils you in that way then talk to them and see where they want to go. If it wont go no further than sex seriously end ... (read in full...)
Separated from my wife, we have a sexual relation; I left a nasty message to a man who she exchanged suspicious texts with, now she won't talk to me!
Q. ive really messed up this time, ive been separated from my wife for nearly three years,i work as a taxi driver and pick her up at weekends and go back to my flat for sex, on saturday she fell asleep and i went through her phone to which there was ...
A. 18 September 2007: She probably feels like you've betrayed her in some sort of way. You two have been having sex... not getting back together, she probably thinks its a bit of fun. If you want her back just having sex with her aint the way to go. Talk to her and tell ... (read in full...)
Every girl I have ever liked has either a boyfriend or isn't interested!
Q. Hello. I wanted to ask for your advice, i have absoloutley no luck with girls. I have never been with a girl once and i'm 17 next month, it's driving me crazy, every girl i have ever liked has either a boyfriend or isn't interested. Please help me ...
A. 18 September 2007: I used to be in that situation Maybe you are aiming too high. like u subconsouisly go for people that you no you wont get. Or maybe you have made bad choices at the end of the day those girls have the problem not yoou. Just be patient theres n... (read in full...)
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