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writes:Hey guys, I have one question for you. Do you think it's possible that somebody who is much older than you (20 or 30 years) fancys a girl who is 16-20 years old? Especially if that somebody is in position of power (like for example boss, teacher, older family friend, mentor)? I mean, I know that it's quite obvious that men in their 50s fancy women who are 25, 30..? What about younger girls? I'm just curious because I suspect that somebody who is much older than me (I'm 18 and he is 46) fancies me. So what do you guys think? I'm looking forward to seeing your opinions. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): It's possible, and legal at your age. But be warned, some people could see this person that you suspect fancies you as a "pervert".
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Thanks for your answers. But what if that person is on position of power, do you think his attentions are not only sexual nature? Do you think that older person takes his infatuation to you serious?
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reader, Gemini1506  +, writes (7 November 2008):
Around the world the legal age is between 16/18.. so your at the age where it is perfectly legal. But it can be frowned upon. but if you like the guy then it's fine with you and you are sure he's not 'seedy' in that way
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reader, lets_party +, writes (7 November 2008):
 dont worry it happons im in the same position. im 17 hes 32 if u like them and they like u and u both are single weres the problem x x
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reader, mysterywoman  +, writes (7 November 2008):
I don't see any problem as long as you really are 18.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (7 November 2008):
 Yes I agree with Aunty Em, even if the person is 20 or 30 years older he still can be romantically, physically and emotionally attracted to a person who is 16 or even younger.
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (7 November 2008):
 It's entirely possible. No laws on attraction.
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