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anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for three months, i think we're ready to take the next step. We've touched each other through our cloths, but never actually 'touched' each other. I'm slightly worried though, would he prefer me to be hairless down below? I don't shave that area, and i was wondering, what would be better for him ?Help would be appreciated (: Reply to this Question
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reader, lkijyvj  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 Guys mostly prefer shaved pubic areas. But of course, I don't speak for every one. But your best bet would be to shave.
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reader, cuteblonde124 +, writes (3 November 2008):
 i shave,but that doesnt mean it is the right thing to do. it can be painfull and really annoying. girl i would just trim it. the Q guy says its better shaved but that is just one mans opinion in how many? i would seriously go with everyone elses advice and just ask him. good luck
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (2 November 2008):
 Every guy's preferences are different. Just ask him, don't be shy.
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reader, thunderchild +, writes (2 November 2008):
 yeah i think a trimming and tidying is in order (if needed) its a hygine thing too so yeah! you will always feel better and cleaner your self after its done consider waxing mibi? but at the end of the day you might be in the same possition with him as well so dont worry about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): I am a trainee Genetic Bioloigist at queens and for fact your vagina is alot fresher and cleaner if you have hairs down there as they soak up moisture and sent to leave it fresher and when you shave the growing back of the hair can be painful. If not shaved properly you can suffer from tissue bruising like normal bruising it is painful but isn't seen and clears up quicker but is very very sore and can be very stingy to the touch whilst people think no hair makes it more sensitive *false the hairs act like little sensors which make orgasms and intensity better for both partners in other hand oral sex (being licked out)can be a turn off to men though you could shave that area and leave the rest of the hair on but I recomend that if your born with hair it should be kept there
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (2 November 2008):
No offence but don't listen to that guy Q. Shaven does not neccesarily mean you vagina is cleaner and he's talking about his own experiance so i really doubt everyone agrees with what he has to say... Anyway
Whenever you get the chance just drop it in the conversation. Or even add (light heartdly) in conversation that you read a mag or whatever and it said guys prefer shaven and then ask him what he thinks.
But i really dont think guys mind that much.. and if you wanna shave em or keep em its completely down to u
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): Trim it, he will tell you what he'll like once you actually been together a few times. Trim a win win situation really
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 November 2008):
You just have to ask him what he likes.
Some men like girls to look like little 8 year olds down there and be hairless, some men like you to be hairless so you can look like a slutty porn actress.
Most men like some hair so you look normal.
Your boyfriend will be more interested in the fact you are naked than how much hair you have so don't worry too much.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (1 November 2008):
There's nothing to be worried about, if you are intimate with someone then you can ask them questions. Just say, hey, I was wondering...I don't mean to sound like I'm preaching but are you sure you're READY for the next step? Are you ready to deal with the consequences? It's not my decision to make but I hope you've been to a doc and discussed contraception, etc.
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