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I don't think im qualified to help people i just have my opinions and some peoples questions i relate to, i dont mean to offend anyone i just like to help.

I am currently single after a very bad r/ship that drained me emotionally so i ain't really looking for anyone but if someone comes my way, i'd give them the chance.

Hmm what makes me tick is people being intolerent of eachother and people who dont know how to compromise.

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My boyfriend cheated on my yesterday but I'm giving him a second chance...

Q.   My boyfriend just cheated on me yesterday, and he told me today..... now last year I had a lot of issues with boys and a lot of trust issues, but he still cheated! He felt this girl down, that I know, she's in my grade. I love him soo much, but ...

A.   8 September 2007: Give him this chance. i say wait a month or so if you still cant trust him just leave him, whats a relationship without trust?... (read in full...)

Is the age difference the reason I'm so bored with him?

Q.   I don't know whether to stay with my boyfriend. I feel the relationship lacks spontaneity. He's 21 and I'm 16. My parents love him and vice versa. He's a lovely guy, very hardworking, and has plans for the future but I just feel that I'm getting ...

A.   8 September 2007: It probably is. You need to make the most of your teenager years and have fun. Tell your boyfriend what you really want to do. If it's not for him i say move on and enjoy yourself. You might realise that he is the one for you. or that your still ... (read in full...)

She seems so down and lonely when I see her in the pub and I'd love to get to know her better.

Q.   Hi I'm 22 and single, I have only had one girlfriend and that was back in college but I ended it because I knew she wasn't the type of person I wanted to be with. I am the quiet type and have been waiting for someone who I want to spend the rest of ...

A.   8 September 2007: Omg you are the sweetest person ever. The way you've described it does look like she likes you back. It's a shame that she's lonely but you could be the person that puts a smile on her face. why don't you ask her for a quiet drink... and get to know ... (read in full...)

I still want to remain a virgin but I also want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. What can I do?

Q.   What can I do to make my boyfriend satisfied and make him enjoy during sex activity? I wanna remain a virgin, and I don't wanna act too sophisticated, please advise me!!! thanks a million...

A.   8 September 2007: There are other sexual acts you can do until you want to lose your virginity like. oral sex, dry sex and masterbation.... (read in full...)

Should I leave my wife or work on through?

Q.   Should I leave my wife or work on through? My wife and I have been married for 6 years and have a 5 1/2 year old daughter. For a couple of years things have been tough and we hadn't been getting on. She kissed and frolicked with other people ...

A.   8 September 2007: I reckon you should try and work it out Its good that your thinking of your child because imagine what you could put her through? But if you feel like things couldnt get better and you two keep arguing that could also have an effect on your c... (read in full...)

Her father is unhappy about her spending her time with me. What can I do?

Q.   My Girlfriend and I have been Dating for about 7 months now and we are very happy together. She just went away to College on a Full Ride Scholarship to a D-II College for Softball. Now, her father is very strict on her and her Softball career....

A.   8 September 2007: All dads want the best for their daughters and he probably cant handle the fact she's growing up and that she has a boyfriend. Just prove to him your intentions are good and that you wont jeopradise her future. Good luck xx... (read in full...)

I want to give him oral. Whats the best way and he is uncut. Is there a difference?

Q.   I am dating a wonderful guy who makes me very happy and who I want to make equaly happy. He went down on me for the first time the other day and I very much enjoyed it and want to return the favor. I've only ever done this once before (with a ...

A.   8 September 2007: I dont think theres a difference between cut and uncut. If you dont want to swallow or even have it in your mouth just stop before he comes. What i've found out that some men like it when you suck like your trying to get something out. or just lick... (read in full...)

What do I do so that I'm better for him than she was?

Q.   Ok, basically my fiance's ex girlfriend squirted when she orgasmed and he really pleased her and she really pleased him, I was a virgin when I met him although I'm not now, but I still feel inadequate and I can't compare to her. What do I do so that ...

A.   8 September 2007: Ask him what he likes and see if he wants to try new stuff. but make sure your comfortable with it. But you must be doing something right if you two are getting married. You probably already fulfil him sexually as well as romantically Best ... (read in full...)

I need to stop bein unfaithful before I get caught and lose him, what's wrong with me?

Q.   Im so confused......I love my boyfriend, I REALLY do. Id love to someday be his wife but....I have this huge problem....I cant seem to be faithful. The sex is great, our relationship is great, we are best friends and I dont ever want to be without ...

A.   8 September 2007: Hun there is nothing wrong with you! Maybe you should speak to a professional (not tryna say your a nut job or anything) maybe they can dig deep to see why you do it. Have you been hurt before by someone cheating? Or past commitment issues?? xx... (read in full...)

I am 14, pregnant and haven't told anybody! What do I do?

Q.   ok so i had sex with my bf and we used a condom and i still got pregnent, I'm only 14 and nobody knows, not even my bf, I'm scared to tell anyone, my mom said if i ever got pregnant that i would have to get an abortion. What do i do??? HELP PLEA...

A.   8 September 2007: Babe i seriously think telling your mum or someone older that you trust will help. so you can look through all the options you have. but if you want the baby try not to let your mum try and sway you the other way because the choice is upto you. it's ... (read in full...)

My long distance love has broken up with me. Is there any hope she will come back?

Q.   My fiancee recently called off our engagement and broke us up, more so taking a break.. We had been together for 4 years and 2 months. We are a long distance relationship but have never had problems, until now. We see each other twice a year, every ...

A.   8 September 2007: I think you should respect her wishes.she probably needs to think about your future together because marriage is a big deal. maybe this break will make her realise how much she loves you and at the meantime be the person she fell in love with and ... (read in full...)

How do you attract the right kind of guy and stop them messing you around?

Q.   hey everyone! So far i havent had very good experiences with guys,they either mess me about or dont seem to notice that i exist! Im going to university in 2 weeks so was wondering, does anyone have any advice on how to attract the right type of gu...

A.   8 September 2007: Just be yourself completely and the right guys will be attracted to u. And when you do find someone take it slow, and tell them how you feel about messed around and if he's a decent enough guy he will understand best of luck... (read in full...)

He's depressed at the moment. What can I do to make him feel better?

Q.   he does so much for me i feel so loved but even so hes really depressed and angry right now. im not sure wht to do for him, he doesnt like talking over the phone that much and even then i let him know how much i love him and that im there for him, ...

A.   8 September 2007: Just carry on with what your doing and be there for him. In time he will feel a lot better Good luck x... (read in full...)

I am 23 and have fallen for a 14 year old!

Q.   i am a 23 year old male, and i have a 14 year old friend i have meet and known for a while, we get on really well, and her parents seem to trust me and her. but i think i maybe fallin in love with her, and i think she feels the same way, im not...

A.   8 September 2007: I think you should see less of her gradually before you totally ignore her. Explain to her why you have to do it so she can undserstand... (read in full...)

I can no longer satisfy my wife... Will THIS help?...

Q.   my wife no longer enjoys intercourse with me because i can no longer satisfy her.i am getting older and started taking medication.my penis is no longer big enough to satisfy her .we both like other forms of sex but she still needs intercourse once ...

A.   7 September 2007: I say try new positions... or role plays to spice things up. But talk to her and see what she likes. If not i'm sure a sex therapist can help you Best of luck x... (read in full...)

My guy said he doesn't love me anymore. What went wrong do you think?

Q.   My boyfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for two years. Ten days ago, he told me he's not in love with me anymore and that he needs a break. He was everything a girl could ever dream of in a man. He truly could not have been a more perfect ...

A.   7 September 2007: From my experiances when men act like this something has troubled them enough to feel that way. Or maybe things are going to fast and he dont feel like he can't juggly work, school and you. I reckon give him a coupla weeks and he will realise ... (read in full...)

She's thinking of dumping her boyfriend, am I in with a chance?

Q.   Hi, I'm having a slight dilemma here, there's this girl I like, I'm pretty sure she likes me as well cause she flirts with me a lot but she's got a boyfriend though and they've been going out for a year, she's spoken to people about dumping him ...

A.   6 September 2007: You may have a chance But be straightforward, because flirting for girls is like drinking water... esstential. If you get more 'vibes' from her go for it... (read in full...)

One of my friends is at an all time low... she hates herself. How can I give her her self-esteem back?

Q.   One of my friends is at an all time low... she hates herself. How can I give her her self-esteem back?...

A.   6 September 2007: Stick by her side, and stick up for her when she needs it. Tell her how special she is. Little things like that Encourage her to be herself and dont say anything that could upset her x... (read in full...)

What can I do to see him as just a buddy and not get attached?

Q.   I'm falling for my sex buddy who has a girlfriend and I don't want to end it because I enjoy the sex so much and the idea of telling him is awful because I come across so strong minded and kinky, what can I do to see him as just a buddy and not get ...

A.   6 September 2007: I have honestly been in your postion and i was the one left hurt. I really do think us girls get attached to people we have sex with whether we like it or not. Tell him how you feel, it will make you feel better but i aint guranteeing that you wont... (read in full...)

Can my mother forbid me to see my older boyfriend, whom I met on msn?

Q.   Hey, 6 months ago i met my boyfriend through msn and have been together 4 months now, 2 days ago he moved down to be with me. We love each other but i was wondering if my mum can stop me seeing him? im 16 and hes 27. Please give me good advice x...

A.   6 September 2007: Your mum's only looking out for you. She dnt want to see her daughter get hurt. Seriously look at it from her point of view. But if you really do like him, why dnt you arrange for them to meet and see how it goes and allow your mum to ask all the ... (read in full...)

I am 23 and have fallen for a 14 year old!

Q.   i am a 23 year old male, and i have a 14 year old friend i have meet and known for a while, we get on really well, and her parents seem to trust me and her. but i think i maybe fallin in love with her, and i think she feels the same way, im not...

A.   6 September 2007: dont go there. no matter what she says she is naive and she's inexperianced. your probably the first person that has shined to her so of course she's gonna be convinced that its more than a friendship. trust me i know i was 14 not that long ago. L... (read in full...)

My children don't approve of me dating younger women!

Q.   I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I ...

A.   6 September 2007: Think of your children. Your dating people there age. If you was my dad i would think that you've always liked people my age (as in when i'm five you like five year olds) thats just my opinion. I dont think anything is really wrong with it when both ... (read in full...)

I don't want to have sex just now but I have some questions about it for when I do decide to have it...

Q.   Hey, I'm underage and I'm not planning to have sex till I'm at least 16 with the right guy at the right time. So that's not a problem. But when I do, I'm worried. First, I'm worried about getting undressed. What do boys think about pubic hair? ...

A.   6 September 2007: Hiya By the way you are very smart to want to wait for the right person. Okay basically you dont HAVE to get undressed completely its totally up to you. Boys may have ther prefence some like shaved and some dnt and some dnt even care! So reall... (read in full...)

Will I ever find true love?

Q.   Hi.I'm a 39-yr-old guy and I have had two girlfriends in my life.Both were brief relationships as I was poor then and also because I'm not handsome.So they left me as soon as they found someone handsome/rich.I haven't had a girlfriend for many ...

A.   6 September 2007: Hi Firstly can i just say maybe that woman who left once you fell in love wasn't ready remember she did just get out of a relationship, she probably just needed someone to talk to. Seriously though dont give up there is someone out there for you!... (read in full...)

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