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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been engaged for one month now and my fiancee is already becoming distant. Her sex drive is very low and we seem to fight about it often. She has been diagnosed with vulvar vestibulitus wich makes sex very painful but everthing else has stopped too, we don't kiss and if we do it's a peck on the lips, we only see each other four days a week (Friday-Monday) now she has planned the month of November in a bizzar way. Tonight she wants to go out with a friend that I don't want to be around (the girl's dad tried to rape my fiancee about 8 months ago) tomorrow she wants to spend the day with her mom and tomorrow night she wants to go to a bachelor/bachelorette party but wants us to sleep in different houses (the girl's house she is staying at is very wild) The third weekend of November she wants a girl's night out with just her and her friend and the last weekend is her birthday and she wants a night with just her and her friends and one with me and her. I have expressed my frustraitions with her and somehow I am at fault. Am I?
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reader, Gemini1506  +, writes (7 November 2008):
I feel as though your fiancee wants some space. she may think you two are rushing into marriage. Give her the space she wants but also keep telling her how you feel but then listen to how she feels and try and find a resolution. I hope this helps at all
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2008): Sure you are, and if she already is making excuses as to why she doesn't want to spend time with you then you both need to step back and decide whether getting married is really the best idea for you right now. Good luck!
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