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I am currently single after a very bad r/ship that drained me emotionally so i ain't really looking for anyone but if someone comes my way, i'd give them the chance.
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He cheated on his stag night, now she's pregnant!
Q. I have been with my husband now for 13 years we have 3 children and another one on the way. We got married in August and i have just recntly found out that he has been having an affair with somone who he met on his stag night, now she is saying ...
A. 26 October 2007: you dont live in south london by any chance, please private message me to confirm
and do you have a sister named mavis, because you sound like my auntie
sorry if this is untrue, just sounds all to familiar
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I still want to be friends with my ex, but he ignores me!
Q. Well, me and my ex's relationship hasen't been going well lately. It all started when i started hanging out with my old friends who can get on people nerves a little bit. And since i've been hanging out with them i guess i've been getting on his ...
A. 26 October 2007: Tell him at the end of the day you want to remain in contact with him. and you are who you are and your friends are who dey wna be. so its either except that or basically he ent worth it no matter how you feel... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and involved with 2 guys and a girl and still feel the need for more!
Q. hey you guys...I am in serious trouble. I am a 16 year old girl and I am currently involved with 2 guys and a girl. I have a problem where I am always looking for more heat and I will go to any measures to get it. One of the men is 47 and happens to ...
A. 26 October 2007: Do you not care that you may hurt one of these people? You dont need more heat you have issues. Do you feel like you need to be with someone to feel that way, cause love yoou dont. Stop before it gets out of control, your sixteen you shouldnt have ... (read in full...)
I want to get in shape, but will I be too skinny?
Q. I want to get my body in shape. I am a normal weight but I am not toned. I want to stay curvy (like a Jlo and Beyonce kind of figure) and I don't wanna be too skinny. I just wanna know; does toning your body means you lose weight?...
A. 26 October 2007: wow so glad to hear someone who doesnt want to be a bloody size zero.
eat reguraly eg 3 times a day with snacks in between. just be healthy about it. but dont punish yourself either, if you feel like having a chocolate bar have one! lol
Tone up... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and he's 24, I'm unsure if this relationship will last.
Q. hi.I am 16 years old gir,and I am going out with 24 old boy.I don't think that the year difference make our relationship immposible,there are another reasons.First reason that makes us separated for a time is that he is always on move.Today is in my ...
A. 26 October 2007: if you dont feel right about the relationship
then you shouldnt be in it.
sounds like you would be better off without him
best of luck
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I know it is right that I left, but my heart is saying something else!
Q. I broke up with my fiance a week ago and have tried very hard to not answer his calls. But just a few minutes ago he called and my caller id said "unknown" so stupidly I answered and it was him. He said that that was the only way he thought i would ...
A. 15 October 2007: if getting back with him dont seem right then dont do
tell him its best for him to stop calling... (read in full...)
How do I ask my cousin to have sex with me?
Q. Hi, I've been wanting to have sex with my cousin and I want to ask her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way. I feel she does sometimes and then I feel it hard to ask her. How do I know she wants to? How do I ask her? Thanks for a...
A. 14 October 2007: right theres nothing illegal bout that but do you really wana jeopardise your relationship
its quite doubtful she will feel the same so i say just ignore your feelings
or concentrate them on someone else (that aint a family memember)
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I get compliments all the time but not from lads I'm interested in. Why don't I have a bf?
Q. why am i the only person that is still single!!! all my friends are in relationships of 9/10/11/12/13 monnths n even longer and i am still the one that's never had a bf. all people say is "oh dont worry mr right will come along one day." but hes ...
A. 30 September 2007: hey i am going exactly what you are going through. But you know what the people who dont bother noticing us are blind idiots. even though it's coming from a girl you probz are gorgeus. And anyways having a boyfriend is not about how you look it's ... (read in full...)
I just see him staring at me and when I look back he stares at me for a little while longer before looking away.
Q. I really like my friend that I have known since nursery but we don't really talk that much anymore because he is in the year below me. Now he has come to my secondary school and sometimes I just see him staring at me and when I look back he stares ...
A. 26 September 2007: Sounds like he likes you too hun
Talk to him privately about it, he probably is as nervous as u, so try not to worry
and if he's a prick about it then he's probz a a blind twat lol
best of luck hun
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Can aids be passed on through my mouth?
Q. Stupid question, Can you get aids from kissing and getting blow jobs, and from someone swallowing your cum?...
A. 26 September 2007: you cant get it through your mouth! come on now seriously???
Its so rare like if the person you was kissing had a cut in theor lip and they were kissing you while they was bleeding and the same with you then it might happen its such a small perc... (read in full...)
Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?
Q. I'm a 46-year-old Mother of 8 (3 by my first husband, 5 by my current partner) and I've had many affairs. Most of which my partner has known about. But now I've started a relationship with a man who myself and my Fiance both work with. All of the ...
A. 26 September 2007: Dont marry him
Marriage is all about being faithful and commitment, if youo cant do that then the marriage is doomed to fail. I say you should take a break from your fiance
Yeah your kids may be devasted now but it would be better if you realise ... (read in full...)
My estranged husband uses the children to get at me. Do I stop including him when it comes to our daughters behaviour?
Q. Well another upadate on some of the issues I have been faced.I told my ex on Tuesday that my oldest wants to stay here with me and after that he BLEW, fighting with me allday.Serious text messages that were horriffic to me.I had to work nites that ...
A. 22 September 2007: First i think maybe your ex may be hurting your daughter for in some way because children unless something as influenced wont act like that.
Secondly give him an ultimatium tell him start acting right and be more involved or just see the kids
It wo... (read in full...)
Can't understand why he didn't contact all week, when after 4 dates he was enthusiastic to invite me to see his house up north.
Q. This guy came up to me in a club and liked me and wanted my number and wanted to meet the next day. I couldn't I was on holidays for a week, the next Sunday he wanted to know if I was out the night before and called me to invite me over. I did, ...
A. 22 September 2007: sounds like he's already in a relationship bbe
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I'm sleeping with a boy who is not my bf, how can I sort out who I like and what to do?
Q. hi. im 15 and have been with my boyfriend now for just over a year but i think i have fallen out of love with him already, we have been sexually active for 7 months and i have got to admit we are alright in that department but i just cant love him ...
A. 22 September 2007: First of all they ent nothing wrong with the way your feeling, fair enough you dont like him as u did before. Just leave him because if either of them found out. They both wouldnt have ya.
Maybe you like this other boy because you know you dont... (read in full...)
I was told I was a Psycho just like his ex girlfriends - What do I do as this has me really upset and I feel so hurt.
Q. I told my boyfriend that I was not happy about him going into a strip club in Prague on a stagnite, I didn't say don't go, I said I wasn't happy as a reply from him I was told I was a Psycho just like his ex girlfriends - What do I do as this has me ...
A. 22 September 2007: He's the one with the problem not you
if soinds like he ent worth it
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Will his wife leave him?
Q. Thank you for posting this site. I came across your this site by chanced as I am looking for a answer to my problem and hoping to get some help. Is there any case near similar to mine? Being involved with married man. We are both in love but he i...
A. 20 September 2007: Give him time its seems like a soft spot for him. He shouldnt really be doing what he's doing with you whether he's happy or not with his wife. Think of her they may not be as in love as before but it is a very hard thing to go through.
You may love... (read in full...)
He has to hide me from his adult kids or they have a fit!
Q. i have been asking question on this site for the past few days. i am in my 60's and my bf of 2yrs 8 months is in his 60's. his kids are 35 and 39 years old and they run his life. they told him to break up with me in july because they didn't think ...
A. 20 September 2007: I think like all kids they are probably just looking out for their father. They are just handling it in the wrong way. They seem very needy which is weird for 30 years olds to be (with their father)
Get your partner to tell them straight they dont... (read in full...)
I like him. Do I tell him how I feel, or have I missed my chance??
Q. I fell head over heels for a guy who recently got married. A few months before he did the deed, he told me how he felt about me. He said that hed fallen for me and never met anyone like me before. We had kissed on a few occasions, but one night...
A. 20 September 2007: I'm sorry but i dont think you should tell him, You'll just mess with his mind and think of his wife as well she doesn't deserve to get hurt by it.
To be honest he shouldnt of married his wife until he was clear of his feelings.
Its hard but you'... (read in full...)
When will the pill take effect? I started it on the 2nd day of my period.
Q. Hey! I have just gone on the pill this week and i started it on the 2nd day of my period, i was just wondering when it will be effective? As i've heard within 7 days and i've also heard after the first pack......
A. 18 September 2007: You shouldnt run out in a week go and see your doctor and explain it to him I dont know enough to answer really x... (read in full...)
Neither man expects an exclusive relationship w/ me, but I feel filthy and disgusting by dating them both at the same time!
Q. Bit of a mess... I've been seeing a guy as a very casual relationship, it was agreed it wasn't to be serious, and that we weren't limited to just seeing each other, but it kind of didn't end up that way for me because I've never been the type to ...
A. 18 September 2007: Stop having sex with em. That feeling is not worth it on all levels. See what they can give you on a none physical level if it fulfils you in that way then talk to them and see where they want to go. If it wont go no further than sex seriously end ... (read in full...)
Separated from my wife, we have a sexual relation; I left a nasty message to a man who she exchanged suspicious texts with, now she won't talk to me!
Q. ive really messed up this time, ive been separated from my wife for nearly three years,i work as a taxi driver and pick her up at weekends and go back to my flat for sex, on saturday she fell asleep and i went through her phone to which there was ...
A. 18 September 2007: She probably feels like you've betrayed her in some sort of way. You two have been having sex... not getting back together, she probably thinks its a bit of fun. If you want her back just having sex with her aint the way to go. Talk to her and tell ... (read in full...)
Every girl I have ever liked has either a boyfriend or isn't interested!
Q. Hello. I wanted to ask for your advice, i have absoloutley no luck with girls. I have never been with a girl once and i'm 17 next month, it's driving me crazy, every girl i have ever liked has either a boyfriend or isn't interested. Please help me ...
A. 18 September 2007: I used to be in that situation Maybe you are aiming too high. like u subconsouisly go for people that you no you wont get. Or maybe you have made bad choices at the end of the day those girls have the problem not yoou. Just be patient theres n... (read in full...)
Can someone please tell me about abortion pills?
Q. Hi I what shall a girl do, if she misses her first period and finds out she is pregnant. If she doesn't want the baby, Can she take abortion pills? What are abortion pills? How does an abortion take place in different stages? thanks...
A. 18 September 2007: Yeah she can but it will have to be befor twelves weeks of her pregnacy and the abortion pill will cause 'her' to miscarriage This is as far as i know You should talk to a doctor or a family planning nurse because it can be dangerous if you... (read in full...)
I've been married for 17 yrs. Am I in love with a young girl at the church?
Q. I am 40 and my wife 39 and we have been married for 17 years, about a year ago a 21 year old girl came to my church and i can,t get her out of my head. am i in love with her? it is driving me crazy....
A. 17 September 2007: Lust its all lust ... (read in full...)
Why do some girls judge on the size of the penis?
Q. Does penis size reallly matter to girls? I have heard that medium to smaller is better, but then how poeple make fun of the small ones? Why do some girls judge on the size of the penis? its not like men have control over what size penis we get. Its ...
A. 16 September 2007: Size dont matter its just its been built into everyone that it does. AS long as u know what to do with what you got it dont really matter how big or small it is... (read in full...)
Why do I keep having these intimate dreams about my sister's boyfriend?
Q. My sister has been with her partner for just going on 5 years and the past 2 nights I've had a dream that we (myself and her boyfriend) have been left together and he has came onto me and we go all the way. I've never found him attractive before as ...
A. 15 September 2007: I think you admire your sisters closeness with her boyfriend. And maybe you want that with someone. I dont fancy him i think you fancy the idea of being with someone that is that close to you.
If your feelings get stronger for him, pick up on stuf... (read in full...)
Do you think my teacher might have the hots for me?
Q. I'm not really sure if my teacher is interested in me and I really need to find out. I'm going to say right now that I do NOT have a crush on him, i'm just wondering if I need to back away or not. For staters, he talks to me for as long as he can. ...
A. 15 September 2007: I think he may like you in that way.
If you can tell him that you think his intentions with you are inapprioate. If he denies this then apologies but say you do feel uncomfortable at times and could he tune it dwn a little.
If you cant tell hi... (read in full...)
What time of day should you weigh yourself?
Q. are you supposed weigh yourself at night or in the morning? i thought it was at night but my friend says its in the morning? please help...
A. 15 September 2007: best time is just after you've woken up, before you've had breakfast.
And whatever the weight says is your real size. because it changes a lot during the day... (read in full...)
I give her oral, but she refuses to return the favour! Am I being used?
Q. I have been goin out wid my gf for a while now n we see each other most nights. After a week or so i started touching her which she doesnt mind at all she enjoys it. i have also given her oral sex, i dont mind doing it it turns me on however she ...
A. 15 September 2007: maybe with this other guy hurt her so she wants to take things slow.
or she simply doesnt like it, either way you cant force her to do anything she dont want to do. give her space and maybe one day she will return the favour.
she aint using u... (read in full...)
My mum says I'm anorexic. How do I feel better about my appearance?
Q. Hi There, Im having extreme self esteem issues. I constantly look in the mirror and say i look sooo ugly. I sort of have acne like my forehead between my eyebrows. It isnt really bad, but i have dark blemishes there. It doesnt seem to bother p...
A. 12 September 2007: Tell your mum how she's making you feel and prove to her you are trying. Eat normally but bigger meals and a little snack ib between should get your weight up healthy.
when people tell you your pretty build on it and take their word for it and smil... (read in full...)
I think I've got a drug problem does anyone have any advice?
Q. i dont even no if this is relevent most questions on here are about relationships, but i think i have a serious problem and need help. ever scince i was 13 iv took extacy pills on most weekends. every weekend i would up my dose to see how bigg my ...
A. 12 September 2007: I think you should see how long u last without e, if you find it hard then i think its safe to say that you have a problem, and even if you dont i think you should slow down a bit. Theres probably a lot of people in your area that can help you. A... (read in full...)
This guy I was seeing also had a long distance girlfriend
Q. I started seeing this guy soon after my divorce. After 2 weeks of seeing each other he told me he had been seeing this girl from another part of the country. He said it was over with her but didnt know how to end it. I didnt question him about the ...
A. 11 September 2007: I think you should stay friends
untill you know for sure that he isnt with this other woman
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Should I split with him because I worry I will get hurt?
Q. Ive been seeing this boy for 2 months now. I really, really like him and so I think I should stop seeing him cos Im scared of getting hurt. I feel like Im falling for him already - I always want to be with him, Im worried when a day goes by and he ...
A. 10 September 2007: I think you should slow down a bit. And dont take things he says or does too seriously. Dont break up with him because your scared of getting hurt. You have to take that chance. Do small things like wait for him to call first or text you first.... (read in full...)
Am I being unrealistic when I sit here and hope to experience that magic feeling?
Q. Hi I'm very confused right now. I'm in my 30s looking for something which most people I speak to say will never happen. I've been in a few relationships, with the longest being for 6 years which ended last year. The reason we finished is that I am ...
A. 9 September 2007: No you aint being unrealistic theres nothing wrong with wanting that. I say keep looking till you find it
Best of luck :D
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My boyfriend is trying to palm me off onto his mate! Help!
Q. he says he loves me and i used to believe this but i saw him yesterday and his friend was with us. weve been having some problems lately and i wanted to talk to him about it, but again his friend was there. then today he called me and the same ...
A. 9 September 2007: Not being rude but this boy dont sound worth it. If any boy would do that to hios girlfriend then he aint really much of a boyfriend. Just try to move on from him.
It sounds like he was just trying to pass you on like some object.
You are so much ... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy is only after sex?
Q. I like a guy I met a year ago - back then we had one date and sex (well kinda,cause I was a virgin and he didn't know that:).Now I saw him few weeks ago,after that he asked for my number from a friend...Now we saw each other 2 times.He's cute and I ...
A. 9 September 2007: At the minute i dont think he's after sex as he has only asked you once. If he is quick to talk about sexual acts and continues to ask you then eend it there
best of luck... (read in full...)
Should I email him and tell him how I feel?
Q. I really like this boy and I have known him for quite a while, I dunno if he likes me or not. I have his email adress and my question is: should I email him and tell him how I feel? I have never talked to him on msn before, and not really talked to ...
A. 9 September 2007: Btw how well do you know him?
If it is not that well before you tell him then i say get to know him more. You might find something you dont like about him or you could realise he is what you are looking for.
if you do know him well find out if h... (read in full...)
I'm developing feelings for my girlfriend's daughter! What should I do?
Q. I'm 29 and have strong feelings for my 33 year old girlfriends 17 year old daughter. I keep trying to forget about these feelings, but I can't! What should I do?...
A. 9 September 2007: Just forget about it. It may be hard but do you really want to hurt a relationship as close as mother and daughter?
Spend time with your partner to take your mind of things. These feelings will pass
Best of luck
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We all played spin the bottle and I ended up having sex! Help!
Q. i had a birthday party yesterday, well it was my mums birthday party and all my family came and all my mums friends came. me and my cousin got very drunk and we went upstairs out of the way, we was playing spin the bottle and the things where gettin ...
A. 9 September 2007: I say talk to your cousin and tell him that what happened should never be brought up
And just get on with your life there is no point dwelling in something that you cannot change.
Oh and avoid your cousin at family parties when one or both of y... (read in full...)
Do I meet the Internet guy or stay in an unhappy relationship for the sake of my son?
Q. Hi, oh god, i'm in a bad situation here. I'm 23. I have a 4 month old son, and a partner of 2 years. We live together. I have been chatting to someone else online for about 12 months now. This other guy wants to meet me. I like him alot, he wants me...
A. 9 September 2007: I think you should meet him and see what his intentions are if they are good. Leave the loveless relationship.
It will benefit your son if your happy
Best of luck
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My boyfriend cheated on my yesterday but I'm giving him a second chance...
Q. My boyfriend just cheated on me yesterday, and he told me today..... now last year I had a lot of issues with boys and a lot of trust issues, but he still cheated! He felt this girl down, that I know, she's in my grade. I love him soo much, but ...
A. 8 September 2007: Give him this chance. i say wait a month or so if you still cant trust him just leave him, whats a relationship without trust?... (read in full...)
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