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I'm Forge, just a regular American high school student from Utah.

I've had my fair share of experiences, bad and good, thus far.

I know my way around, so feel free to ask for advice, I have no problem answering your questions.

I dabble in poetry and consider myself "addicted" to music. Not exactly a bad thing. I'm currently pursuing a career in architecture, as it is a required job here in America, and it's something I enjoy.

I can cook and manage the house when my parents are away, though I have a bad habit of procrastinating. Though, with school, I have to kick this habit. So far so good.

I am currently recovering from a brutal fight with depression, though in this life, I have won. Now I just need to pick up the pieces and clean the battleground for my next battle.

I want to give a personal thanks to Abella for helping my cope with everything I've been through the past year or so.

"Rhymes are restrictive, and if life is full of freedom opportunity, the last thing anyone wants is a rhyme."

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The teenage (boy) mind

This question has 6 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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6 September 2014: Hello readers, this is something I think should have a female counterpart, so if you would be kind enough to write one, I'll be happy to give it a view! Well hello friends! This is my second article here, and I'm excited to write it, because it's...

Dating for teenagers in the 21st century: written by a teen

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1 September 2014: We all know that we want to date, and it's an exhilarating experience for us guys that can do it right; getting to hold the girl you've asked on this date in your arms, or get that long evaded kiss you've ever dreamed of. I'm unsure of the gi...

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Why do people take advantage of "soft" people?

Q.   I find people take the mick out of me for "soft" I have always been like this, people have said I need to toughen up but I like who I am so why do people need to take advantage? I hate the fact that basically I'm going to have to turn into a twat to ...

A.   13 March 2016: People, in my experience (I'm the bad guy, in this case) often take advantage of "soft" people because they are able to identify the flaws and turn them into control points. They do this solely to have power over others and to make them do as they ... (read in full...)

would you be checking out hot babes on the internet while your girlfriend is sitting next to you?

Q.   Guys, help me out here. I know men are visual, I've heard that many times. They like to look at the female body, my question is, would you be checking out hot babes on the internet while your girlfriend is sitting next to you? and making comments, ...

A.   15 February 2016: Put simply: that's pretty messed up, and any guy with respect for his girlfriend wouldn't eyeball any other girl, much less comment on her. That's wrong. You aren't jealous, he's a pervert.... (read in full...)

Is a puppy just as much work as a baby?

Q.   I recently got a puppy, and a friend of mine who has a baby told me she heard a puppy is just as much work as a baby. Now, she's never had a puppy, and I've never had a baby. Can someone who has had the experience with both please tell me if this is ...

A.   9 January 2016: My sister has lived with us when she had her three daughters, all younger than three years old. I've helped more than I care to share with those girls. I've also owned five dogs of different breeds and sizes, and I can say without a doubt that dog... (read in full...)

What does a guy have to do to lose his virginity?

Q.   What does a guy have to do to lose his freaking virginity? I've posted here a lot and I have taken everything I've been told to try and it just doesn't seem to work for me. I'm going to be 23 in April! I know I've made mistakes like going to a ...

A.   6 January 2016: I just have to ask, and please do reply. If you aren't happy with the person you are because that person hasn't had sex, has it ever occurred to you that maybe sex isn't all it's cracked up to be? Movies, TV, and definitely pornography have ove... (read in full...)

My soon-to-be stepson is jealous when his father and I show affection towards one another

Q.   Hi, I just recently became engaged to my boyfriend of two years. My boyfriend has a 5 year old son whom I have a great relationship with. His son has always been a little jealous of the affection his father and I show to each other, but latel...

A.   4 January 2016: My niece used to do this simply with my sister and I. Of course, our relationship wasn't like yours and your boyfriends. But my niece would get extremely defensive if I went to hug my sister goodbye, going as far as to tell me "no." I heard that she ... (read in full...)

Why do men prefer sex with younger girls?

Q.   My question is too short .I just need an advice on this.Why men prefer sex with young girls.What so special in young girls that older girls don't have? And Does older virgin have same intact hymen if he didn't had sex or just young virgin g...

A.   9 March 2015: Sage had it pretty spot-on. Younger girls are just a lot more attractive. Would you prefer smooth skin or wrinkled skin? The only difference is that older women have more experience. -Førg€... (read in full...)

How can I get my ex girfriends to leave me alone? And I want my shirt back too - how can I get it back?

Q.   Hello DC! Back again. So, this is something I may or may not have brushed on before, but... How the heck can I get my exes to get off my back? There's the first girl, she's "girl 1." She is VERY clingy and won't leave me alone, because I'...

A.   7 February 2015: @Honeypie: Right, I can't call #1's mom because her mom didn't know we dated. She also didn't know we went on a date to begin with. I went with her aunt and younger brother. So calling her mom is out of the picture. @WiseOwlE: I'm not just goi... (read in full...)

Was he turned off or did he not like my text?

Q.   B.f. and I haven't been able to have much sex lately due to living situations. Today we texted how we wanted to be alone together somewhere and how he wanted to pleasure me. ..I then said come give it to me. He then sent me a dirty text saying he ...

A.   6 February 2015: Did it ever occur to you that maybe he... 1) didn't read your text? 2) got busy? 3) didn't receive your text? A little common sense goes a long way. Just ask him why he didn't respond. -Førg€... (read in full...)

Should I text my crush "Merry Christmas"?

Q.   So there's this guy who I have a crush on. He's about 5 months younger than me. We have a common friend who's trying to bring us closer to each other, because he knows I like my crush. When they were talking about girls and dating, my friend showed ...

A.   24 December 2014: Some guys are too shy to make the first move, so don't hang on that for too long. As for the text: Go for it! It'd help things out much further progress. Though don't just go for "Merry Christmas" say more, have a conversation! -Førg€... (read in full...)

Is it too late to start college?

Q.   I just turned 30. Is it dumb of me to start college now? i feel old and i also know that if i don't do this no company will even consider me until i have a degree. i just hope i am making the right decision. 5 years of school is a long time at my ...

A.   4 December 2014: My dad started college at 41, so don't think it's too late. You've still got a LOT of time. Go for it :) -Førg€... (read in full...)

His staring, and his porn habit, make me feel worthless

Q.   Dear cupids I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and things are great apart from a few minor issues. He watches a lot of porn. I realize that he needs a release when we're not together but I made a joke last ...

A.   2 December 2014: No, I can promise that he's just going to need some... correcting. Oggling women WHILE with you is wrong. If he wants to do it on his own time, it's still disrespectful. Indirect, but disrespectful nonetheless. As for the porn... That stuff is... (read in full...)

When a guy always argues with a girl.

Q.   I am in a good happy relationship. But another guy we know seems to always pick on me, in a more aggressive way. Sometimes it's light teasing, but then out of no where infront of a group he'll put me on the spot and argue back at me...I don't even ...

A.   26 November 2014: He's just a jerk. It's as straightforward as that. Avoid him, he's a bully. -Førg€... (read in full...)

How far should dating go at 14?

Q.   Basically im a 14 year old male ive been with my girlfriend for 9-10 months and me and her are really close we've not had sex or anything that serious , I just don't know how far I should go at this age I would never force my girlfriend into ...

A.   10 November 2014: Don't play "touchy-feely" if you know what I mean. No sex, no acts of adultery, etc. You should only take it as far as making out, but nothing more. I'm only a year older than you, and I've had a few girlfriends. Trust me, making out is where it... (read in full...)

I really like this boy but I'm 14 and he's 12. I'm worried what people will think

Q.   I have recently meet a boy a couple months ago and I really like him. The moment we started taking we instantly clicked and I feel like I've know him my whole life, I've never meet anyone like him and I feel as though I could tell him anything. The ...

A.   25 October 2014: Don't try to date him. It'll just be a waste of time for both of you, and set you guys up for emotional distress in the future. I say this a lot, but until you have a car, money, and a job, dating is a waste of both of your time. Don't d... (read in full...)

He's 17 and he said he would wait, if I did, or we could sneak it? What should we do?

Q.   Well, I'm 13 and My best friend has a brother named Jack. Jack is turning 17, and i started seeing him more often and began to realize i had strong feelings for him. I told him I liked him. That night i slept in his room with him we didn't have s...

A.   6 October 2014: I'd like to step in here and give my opinion, as I see fit. This is sort of an "iffy" kind of relationship. I suggest you watch him. You're off doing the same things I was, which is looking for love. Honestly, it isn't worth it. Until you hav... (read in full...)

Should I trust my boyfriend or not?

Q.   my bf and I have been dating for a week and 3 days. we have hugged a few times but thats all. plus I think hes flirting with other girls. he has also drawled me pictures but I dont know if I should trust him. should i?...

A.   2 October 2014: Why wouldn't you be trusting him? Because he flirting? Honestly, you sound a bit clingy. There's nothing wrong with him in the slightest it seems. Relax. -Førg€... (read in full...)

Please help me! Is my fiancé abusing me?

Q.   So my fiancé thinks that its okay to look at girls who are way skinnier than me and then gets mad when a guy looks at me in a good way. He consistantly will do this right in front of me then tells me that im an attention whore and wants me to wear...

A.   27 September 2014: Ditch this guy. It's abuse, and it's VERY wrong. I agree 100% with Abella, and I couldn't have worded it better. -Førg€... (read in full...)

Is this an addiction of some kind?

Q.   I am an average 15 year old freshman in high school, with a regular range of problems. But we've all been in that position. Although I've noticed something a bit different. I absolutely LOVE the music I listen to (techno/electron...

A.   25 September 2014: @YouWish I can't send you a private message. Maybe try sending me one. I'll look into it more, unless you somehow disabled your mailbox.... (read in full...)

Is this an addiction of some kind?

Q.   I am an average 15 year old freshman in high school, with a regular range of problems. But we've all been in that position. Although I've noticed something a bit different. I absolutely LOVE the music I listen to (techno/electron...

A.   24 September 2014: @YouWish It's nice to have some reassurance. I listen to literally everyone on the Monstercat youtube channel, as well as Porter Robinson, S3RL, E-Dubble, and Fox Stevenson/Stan SB. If you'd like, we can talk more on this! I enjoy discussi... (read in full...)

Is this an addiction of some kind?

Q.   I am an average 15 year old freshman in high school, with a regular range of problems. But we've all been in that position. Although I've noticed something a bit different. I absolutely LOVE the music I listen to (techno/electron...

A.   24 September 2014: Thank you all. I love music and can't seem to pry myself away from it, but I'll try. @WiseOwlE: I couldn't help but laugh, thanks for that! I need the giggles these days :) -Førg€... (read in full...)

She likes romance -- what about this idea?

Q.   I have an idea I would like some feedback for? This girl I like likes romance a lot so I have been thinking of a way to just do that. I thought about leaving notes around school in places that I know she will look. I'm shy but I can get over that if ...

A.   23 September 2014: I see the idea, but I'm thinking it's not the best idea you could have. It could come over as "creepy" or "unconfident" which is something you'd like to avoid, I'm sure. And what if someone else finds them? That... would not be very good. ... (read in full...)

The teenage (boy) mind

Q.   Hello readers, this is something I think should have a female counterpart, so if you would be kind enough to write one, I'll be happy to give it a view! Well hello friends! This is my second article here, and I'm excited to write it, because it's...

A.   12 September 2014: That means a lot, especially from you, Mark. Thank you. I will be writing more in the future, so keep your eyes open. Maybe this weekend.... (read in full...)

Do you think I should've had sex with him?

Q.   Please help me!!! I had been going out with this guy for 2 years until he dumped me round 7-8 months ago. The reason for this was because he asked me if I'd have sex with him and I said no because we're waaayyy too young, (we're both 13) He sai...

A.   12 September 2014: Whoa, no, don't go back to him. You can't move on because you were with him, and got attached (which is normal). You did the right thing to not have sex with him. Your point was well stated. Whoever this guy was, he's scum, not to mention a mor... (read in full...)

Whoa! I'm on intimate terms with my Postman!

Q.   I was sitting down to dinner with the great guy I'm currently dating. Just casually discussing current events. One topic that arose, was the issues of privacy; and the recent scandals about hackers hacking into the mysterious "Cloud" storing the ...

A.   10 September 2014: I couldn't stop laughing at this Wise, it is too good! I think you might be a bit on the funny side there, don't you? The postman is just a regular guy. He knows me everyone on the street. And all of their secrets too. Don't fret you aren't alone. ... (read in full...)

I've tried to include my half-siblings in my life but they don't seem interested

Q.   How do you deal with half-siblings who don't want you in their life? I grew up an only child. I have 3 half-siblings on my dad's side. For 7 years I've been trying to reconnect with them. They haven't seemed very interested. We've correspon...

A.   8 September 2014: Seems like they just don't care to have you in their life. (Don't take that in a rude way) If you invite them, and they don't respond, they don't care. If they aren't inviting you, they don't care. Siblings are weird. I have 3 half siblings, a... (read in full...)

How can I start being nice to my mum?

Q.   Ever since I've become a teenager, I've become a bit rude and bitchy towards my mum. I don't mean to do it, but she really, really irritates me. She tells me to do one thing then when I'm trying she gets pissed and shouts at me to do another thing...

A.   8 September 2014: I have little to offer for help here, since I'm sort of... not you. Although WiseOwlE has it about spot on. Where is your dad in all of this? I suggest family counseling, for your mom and you. Being a teen is new for you AND your mom, if you... (read in full...)

The teenage (boy) mind

Q.   Hello readers, this is something I think should have a female counterpart, so if you would be kind enough to write one, I'll be happy to give it a view! Well hello friends! This is my second article here, and I'm excited to write it, because it's...

A.   7 September 2014: Face to face always, ALWAYS, is the best option. Anything else and he will probably say no. But do it alone, when none of his friends (guy or girl) are around. This could be hard to get an opportunity, but it works. I recently blew it with a girl ... (read in full...)

He said he'd post naked pics of me if he ever saw me with another guy

Q.   Please help me i have the same problem and it is much worse because he just doesn't wanna see me happy.. he hasn't post my naked pictures yet but he would if he see me happy. I dunno what to do with it... I don't want my pictures to be posted all ...

A.   6 September 2014: Whoa. I thought I've made some mistakes. You say you loved him, and he didn't love you. You did everything he wanted, to keep him satisfied. If he didn't love you, you shouldn't have done those things. This is your issue now. Don't know of any site... (read in full...)

Why do guys seem to act weird around me?

Q.   Okay so there is a guy at my class that has been acting weird. I think he likes mme because I noticed some signs. Well he always glance at me and we once hold the gaze for five seconds. Then he looked away awkwardly. He sits in front of me in my ...

A.   6 September 2014: Considering you don't talk to him, I'd say he likes you for your looks. Those noises and actions he's doing behind you is to get your attention. As for your friend, I'd say he likes both of you, and can't make up his mind. If he can't make up ... (read in full...)

Dating for teenagers in the 21st century: written by a teen

Q.   We all know that we want to date, and it's an exhilarating experience for us guys that can do it right; getting to hold the girl you've asked on this date in your arms, or get that long evaded kiss you've ever dreamed of. I'm unsure of the gi...

A.   6 September 2014: Thank you for that! It helps. I'm in a bad way right now, but I'm happy to hear that. I'll be writing another article (or several more) about various topics that were and weren't discussed here. -Førg€... (read in full...)

I might get rejected, and I'm freaking out! What do I do?

Q.   Hey DC, Forge back again, and I'm freaking out. I recently (the day I posted this) asked out a girl that I fell for on day one, and have had a serious thing for her since. We've known each other a bit less than two weeks. I was told by severa...

A.   5 September 2014: The girl I asked now refuses to talk to me. I said to her this morning "hey, I need to talk to you later, is that okay?" And her reply was to not look at me, or even acknowledge my presence. I messed up. YAY! Go me! :'( I really liked her... (read in full...)

Dating for teenagers in the 21st century: written by a teen

Q.   We all know that we want to date, and it's an exhilarating experience for us guys that can do it right; getting to hold the girl you've asked on this date in your arms, or get that long evaded kiss you've ever dreamed of. I'm unsure of the gi...

A.   5 September 2014: Er... separate articles. Not desperate articles. My bad.... (read in full...)

Dating for teenagers in the 21st century: written by a teen

Q.   We all know that we want to date, and it's an exhilarating experience for us guys that can do it right; getting to hold the girl you've asked on this date in your arms, or get that long evaded kiss you've ever dreamed of. I'm unsure of the gi...

A.   4 September 2014: Alright Andrew, I'll see what I can do for a friend. Maybe write desperate articles on each topic discussed on here. Take a look at the sight every once in a while, you might find my article! I'm in a sticky situation with a girl myself. I asked ... (read in full...)

Please advice me on how to make the separation and divorce as painless as possible for my son

Q.   Hello aunts and uncles. Ive been married for 5 years. My husband cheated on me. He doesnt know why. To be honest Internet dont wanna hear it either. Maybe life was too perfect and he got bored. His own fault. He sleeps in the guest room until I can ...

A.   2 September 2014: Not all men are like this, so don't get that mentality with you. You just found a bad apple, and are dealing with him accordingly. You child is only two, you said? Chances are, he will not remember this, and the less you talk about it, the bett... (read in full...)

Dating for teenagers in the 21st century: written by a teen

Q.   We all know that we want to date, and it's an exhilarating experience for us guys that can do it right; getting to hold the girl you've asked on this date in your arms, or get that long evaded kiss you've ever dreamed of. I'm unsure of the gi...

A.   2 September 2014: I'm glad you think so. I'd like to hear from many others on this, be it how everything has changed since they've dated, or whatever they have to say about this. This took time, since I've only had so much experience. Forge... (read in full...)

Am I a fool to wait?

Q.   Hi I need help on whether I should wait for a guy or just move on. here is the story: I recently met a man at a summer job who I began to have strong feeling for. When i chose to voice these, he reciprocated them, saying he felt a strong co...

A.   2 September 2014: Sounds to me like this guy has no real idea as to what he's doing. Don't wait for him, it will just get you back to square one, and it's by far going to hurt you more than it will help. Hope with him is lost. And no, many men are not like this. Ac... (read in full...)

How does one deal with a one-sided relationship where there is one rule for her and a different rule for me?

Q.   How should I deal with my girlfriend who states she can say whatever she feels like, whenever she feels like saying it, and however she feels likes? Then if I don't like it I can stop talking to her. Yet if I try same thing she gets mad and say...

A.   1 September 2014: You gotta leave her. That's very rude and controlling of her. Not to mention hypocritical. End your relationship with her, it isn't worth it. There's plenty of fish in the sea (cliche... yes.) -Forge... (read in full...)

I want him to text me even if I don't text him first

Q.   Okay so I really like this guy and I want to get close with him but not to close just yet. And I text him and everything but I just feel like he doesn't want to talk to me because he sends me these short messages when I text him like okay and lol ...

A.   30 August 2014: Sending those short answers to him "okay" or "lol" as you said, will over time, make him text shorter messages. If you want him to text you first, make it fun. Give him a reason to text you. Or just get over it and text him. I don't text people ... (read in full...)

High school Homecoming: I need advice, which girl might be the best choice to ask?

Q.   Hey people of DC, Forge is back again... with more high school "fun." Ready to help? The issue is Homecoming. By far the biggest school event I've been to. The dance, pep rally, football game, you know, eventful stuff. I have time on this, than...

A.   30 August 2014: Alright, thank you all so much with this. My latest question is more or less a follow up. Check it out, help me a bit if you can. FA, you have been of great help to me on my questions, and for that, I am grateful. I've found another girl, no... (read in full...)

My friend is trying to set me up in a LDR but I don't want to!

Q.   So my friend is trying to set me up in a long distance relationship. The problem is that im not ready for a relationship and especially not long distance. Im 14. He is really really eager about it and I really do appreciate the effort and the ...

A.   21 August 2014: I agree with honeypie. I'm only a year older than you OP, and sure, dating is nice, but there's really no reason to it. I'm sure we all have OUR reasons for it, but no matter what, until you have a car and a job and money, you have literally no ... (read in full...)

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