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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:So there's this guy who I have a crush on. He's about 5 months younger than me. We have a common friend who's trying to bring us closer to each other, because he knows I like my crush. When they were talking about girls and dating, my friend showed my crush my Facebook page and they started to talk about me. The next day I noticed my crush was staring at me...like a lot, while he almost never did before. Some days later I randomly smiled at him and he smiled back. Since then when we met I always smiled at him and he never turned away.So everything I wrote down happened in December this year. Now my question is: should I send him a message "Merry Christmas" or wait until the holiday break ends and we meet again? (I really want the guy to make the first move...)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2014): Ask him for 3 New Year resolutions, 1 at a time, and see if you fall in there........ If you don't, try hanging out with his friends and get into his circle.
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (27 December 2014):
 No, it's too late. Wait till New years and say "Happy
New year. "
~SY
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (24 December 2014):
I'm personally not a big fan of these old fashioned notions about guys being the first to make a move and paying for dinner, etc. I mean, if we women want to be equals we shouldn't have a double standard when it comes to stuff like this. You want something (or in this case someone) you take charge.
Sending him merry christmas is a pretty harmless thing in this case; it's just you being attentive. And y'know what, it might just be the nudge he needs to take the plunge and ask you out. Remember, guys are just as nervous when it comes to dating as girls. They too experience doubts and run "what if I've been reading this all wrong" scenario's in their heads. So message him!
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reader, Forge +, writes (24 December 2014):
 Some guys are too shy to make the first move, so don't hang on that for too long. As for the text: Go for it! It'd help things out much further progress. Though don't just go for "Merry Christmas" say more, have a conversation!
-Førg€
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