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Was he turned off or did he not like my text?

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Question - (6 February 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2015)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

B.f. and I haven't been able to have much sex lately due to living situations. Today we texted how we wanted to be alone together somewhere and how he wanted to pleasure me. ..I then said come give it to me. He then sent me a dirty text saying he loves how I lick him and s*** his **** and *****. Basically pretty graphic. Then I replied back almost immediately saying I love doing that and having them in my *****, he never replied....was it too dirty to text, too slutty or something? Too soon? Like a turn off? Or maybe him not texting back means nothing and he liked it? I feel embarassed. I usually tell him things on the same graphic level when we are in person so I don't know. ?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 February 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony auntmaybe he hasn't gotten it yet..

texts are piggy backed on other data packets on the network so they sometimes get lost or dropped

I once sent my husband an email in AUGUST. Since we don't use texting for important stuff the fact that he did not respond did not bother me and we never discussed it.

In NOVEMBER I was standing next to him and his phone went off with a text message. Since he rarely texts I was curious... and I asked who it was from... it was my text sent in AUGUST....

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2015):

nope not to graphic you replied on the same level as him ....

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (6 February 2015):

chigirl agony auntEhhh, it doesnt mean anything. Probably someone came in and he had to put his phone away.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2015):

I can answer this one. My BF doesn't respond occasionally to this kind of text..I asked him once and he said that they turned him on so much that he had to 'take care of it' and then the moment was gone and didn't carry on the conversation.

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A male reader, Forge United States +, writes (6 February 2015):

Forge agony auntDid it ever occur to you that maybe he...

1) didn't read your text?

2) got busy?

3) didn't receive your text?

A little common sense goes a long way. Just ask him why he didn't respond.

-Førg€

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