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I want him to text me even if I don't text him first

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Question - (29 August 2014) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2014)
A female United States age 22-25, *155960 writes:

Okay so I really like this guy and I want to get close with him but not to close just yet. And I text him and everything but I just feel like he doesn't want to talk to me because he sends me these short messages when I text him like okay and lol and yeah . I'm trying to get in his friend mode but I just don't know how. I need help. I want him to text me when I don't text him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2014):

He should be the driver of the conversation coz he send the msg first.

Maybe ask him anything.

That would be a good start.

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A female reader, 0155960 United States +, writes (30 August 2014):

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How do you make a conversation fun over text message . Any advice would help.

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A female reader, 0155960 United States +, writes (30 August 2014):

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I don't send him lol messages he sends them to me . When I text him he would usually say yes lol and yeah .. I don't know if I'm boring to him or if that's how he talks but I need help because I want me and him to have a fun conversation with me but I just don't know how to continue one or make a conversation fun

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A male reader, Forge United States +, writes (30 August 2014):

Forge agony auntSending those short answers to him "okay" or "lol" as you said, will over time, make him text shorter messages. If you want him to text you first, make it fun. Give him a reason to text you. Or just get over it and text him. I don't text people unless I either need something from them, or want to talk about something that day. Or I'm dating that person.

I don't think this guy is into you, btw. Like, at all.

-Førg€

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2014):

Normaly guys text us first when their bored.

Wait till he gets bored and no one is available to talk to him, nothing occupies his time, he will initiate to text you.

Thats what they do these days. Guys sent a group msg then start making a move to whoever will respond.

Or you could start looking for another boy who have genuine interest in you.

Your still very young n i am sure u are a pretty girl, someone is actually reserve for a nice young lady like you just maybe not him.

Why because you text hin already n he did not responded. Theres nothing that u can do. I suggest to divert your attention to someone else.Good luck..

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