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Should I trust my boyfriend or not?

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Question - (2 October 2014) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2014)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

my bf and I have been dating for a week and 3 days. we have hugged a few times but thats all. plus I think hes flirting with other girls. he has also drawled me pictures but I dont know if I should trust him. should i?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2014):

You're both young, make sure you say when you aren't comfortable with something as most likely he doesn't have a clue it's upsetting you. Just say, I like us being bf and gf but if I'm your gf it's not respectful to hug other girls - just like you wouldn't want me hugging lots of boys.

It's only been a week, if he doesn't listen to you then just go back to being friends.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2014):

It has only been a week and a few days that he has been your boyfriend, so he has to learn a few things about being a boyfriend. That means you both have to care about each others feelings and be nice to each other.

Tell him that it is okay to talk to girls in a normal way, but it upsets you when he flirts. Let any boy know that if he wants you to be his girlfriend, he has to respect your feelings.

Try not to be jealous if he just talks to other girls. Remember he has classmates who are girls and other friends who are girls before he was your boyfriend. If you mean random girls, that isn't right.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 October 2014):

olderthandirt agony auntNever trust a teenage boy, I remember being one. Our attention span is at of a ew puppy dog and we want sex from whomever we can get it from

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A male reader, Forge United States +, writes (2 October 2014):

Forge agony auntWhy wouldn't you be trusting him? Because he flirting? Honestly, you sound a bit clingy. There's nothing wrong with him in the slightest it seems.

Relax.

-Førg€

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A female reader, moon river  United Kingdom +, writes (2 October 2014):

moon river  agony auntWhy do you think that? If you are in school he will have other friends who are female. There is nothing wrong with that

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