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writes:i started throwing up in the middle of the night and intense pains in my abdomen, i started freaking out cus i was alone and started calling pals at 3 in the morning...i also called this i guy id been seeing and know for three months. the next day he text me asking me if i called him at sed time, i lied and said i was trying to call cousin (back up lie flooded bathroom). do you think he knows i was lying and thinks i am big freak?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 September 2009):
Calm down there!
If he's going to get freaked out by the fact that some people have personal things going on outside of office hours, you really need to ask yourself why you are bothering.
Everyone gets ill. Just tell him you were ill.
Men like to feel needed by us girls anyway, so he'll think it was nice that you wanted him there.
I know you are in the delicate first stages of the relationship but you need to realise you are over reacting. He's more likely to think you are a freak if he knows you are freaking out about little things.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 September 2009):
I shouldn't think so. It sounds like you're worrying a lot over absolutely nothing. I don't think he thinks you're a freak. If you're ill though, take it easy.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 You could try being honest, he wasnt the only one you called and being in so much pain that you start ringing ppl at 3am isnt anything that I'd consider labeling a girl a freak for.He doesnt really have a great reason to think you were lying from the sounds so either just forget about it or just say, I've got a confession to make, I did ring you last night because I was having weird pains that scared me and I was a bit embarrassed to tell you in case you thought I was a bit of a freak. Best of luck
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