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I'm almost sure that I suffer from Social Anxiety Disorder.Does anyone else experience something like this? Or does anyone have any advice as to how I can calm myself down and prevent it from getting out of hand?
Q. Dear all, I haven't been officially diagnosed, but I'm 99% sure that I suffer from Social Anxiety Disorder. On top of this, I think I have a pretty obsessive personality and I really don't like change. As a result, I end up losing control of mysel...
A. 18 June 2011: i have a disorder and part of it is called dissociative movements and everytime i get into a stressful situation i have paralysis seizures where i cannot move my arms of legs. it may be a good thing to see a doctor as they can give you a proper ... (read in full...)
The pill and gaining weight?
Q. Hi, I've been thinking carefully about going on the Pill for a while now and think it's the right thing to do. My only worry is that it'll make me gain weight (vanity I know!) What have your experiences with the Pill been like? I really don't want ...
A. 5 June 2011: i went on the pill when i was 16 and never gained a pound its only a possible side effect as long as you still eat right and exercise regularly then i dont think you've got anything to worry about
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Started taking the oral contraceptive Microgynon 30, and have started bleeding. Does anyone know why?
Q. I started to take my first ever pack of Microgynon 30 (oral contraceptive) 3 days ago. I wanted to delay my next period as I'm going on holiday, so took my first tablet before I had my period (my chemist said this was fine!). I'm not using this as a ...
A. 4 June 2011: i'm on microgynon 30 as well but ive been on it for 2 years its takes a month for it to be fully effective. You cant just start on the pill then try not to have a period you have to let your body get used to it first i got told by my doctor not to ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend gets upset if I don't call when I say I will
Q. My girlfriend of 8 months gets upset if I don’t call when I say I will. Sometimes I say I’m going to call, then something will come up or work will get busy. Then I call later. What’s the big deal?...
A. 11 May 2011: just dont say when you will call her it is a big deal as shes been waiting for your call if you're not sure about calling her at an exact time then dont tell her that... (read in full...)
Should I lie? Or wait a while before I reveal my problem, when I date someone new?
Q. Ive asked about my memory loss before but this is a little different. I'll cut the story short i'm 20 and only have memories of the past 7 months, everything before that is gone and i've been told it wont come back. I was just wondering if i were to ...
A. 29 April 2011: Thank you so much for your post as you say it is very rare to find someone in the same situation ive now got 9 months of memory and ive decided to get on with my life applying for jobs and college sadly i have been rejected from jobs because i dont ... (read in full...)
Do girls like crossdressers?
Q. This question is for the girls. How do you feel about a guy who likes to crossdress. Would you date a crossdresser? Would you be involved helping him achieve a feminine lifestyle and look?...
A. 13 April 2011: No way sorry... (read in full...)
Do I have a reason to be mad at my bestfriend?
Q. Hey I have a question.. Sooo I don't have a car right now, I need one tho to start college. And now, I'm single. I've been single for almost a year. Meaning no dates no sex no talkin on the phone no nothing. But my best friend has because she has ...
A. 5 April 2011: We who said you sounded jealous it was because thats how you came across in your post, people were giving you advice on different ways to meet people and not rely so much on friends i would say that from the reply you gave you still sound very ... (read in full...)
Girl I'm interested in has been avoiding me since we had lunch? Is she not interested anymore?
Q. I met a girl in one of my college classes, and ended up having a big crush on her after a few days. For a while I thought she was sending me interesting signals (i.e. jumping in on my conversations with the professor, laughing at every joke I made, ...
A. 5 April 2011: It sounds as though she may have been interested to start with as she wasnt too sure what might happen and since your date shes maybe just changed her mind it does happen i'm sorry to say but i just dont think shes interested anymore... (read in full...)
Do I have a reason to be mad at my bestfriend?
Q. Hey I have a question.. Sooo I don't have a car right now, I need one tho to start college. And now, I'm single. I've been single for almost a year. Meaning no dates no sex no talkin on the phone no nothing. But my best friend has because she has ...
A. 4 April 2011: no you dont have a right to be mad at your friend she has a car because she went for lessons and took her test she done all that for her. You are acting very childish and jealous, you should get out and meet people dont just sit back and expect ... (read in full...)
Why am I bleeding after sex?
Q. everytime lately when i have sex i bleed what is the problem?...
A. 23 February 2011: ask a doctor... (read in full...)
Should I lie? Or wait a while before I reveal my problem, when I date someone new?
Q. Ive asked about my memory loss before but this is a little different. I'll cut the story short i'm 20 and only have memories of the past 7 months, everything before that is gone and i've been told it wont come back. I was just wondering if i were to ...
A. 21 February 2011: i have seen a pyschiatrist, a psychotherapist, a behavioural therapist, lots of doctors, i have been through countless tests, there was no trauma and nothing that pin points why this happened i was suffering seizures before the memory went. I have ... (read in full...)
I'd like to meet up with him, but I'm worried he might like me more than a friend!
Q. I have this guy friend I talk to online. He's the same age as me and he used to go to my school. He's a really nice guy to talk to and I would like to meet up with him just as a friend, but I feel like he has much stronger feelings towards me. H...
A. 31 January 2011: Thanks for the answers i think i just feel bad because he can be a nice guy i suppose i should mention that i have severe memory loss so i have actually met this guy several times before i just dont remember. He does seem to make things up as ell by ... (read in full...)
Girl masturbation
Q. Is it just me or is using a vibrator a lot better than using your hands or fingers when you masturbate? is that a lesbian thing to use a vibrator? :s...
A. 25 January 2011: using a vibrator is so much better than using your hands and no its not a lesbian thing, its a woman thing... (read in full...)
Why would he masturbate when he has his wife?
Q. I periodically find used condoms in my husbands things. Like in the bathroom under a towel, or this week in his bathrobe. I know he is masturbating in them, but what should I do?? When I was first married I called him screaming and crying thinking ...
A. 8 January 2011: Unless your sex life has drastically went downhill because of it i think you should sit him down and have a conversation but i mean come on really, he's not cheating on you, not even thinking about it its just a natural thing i think you are being ... (read in full...)
Men, would you date a girl with a tattoo?
Q. Not a relationship question and i'm quite sure its probably been asked before but was just wondering what guys think of girls with tattoos, not the big sleeves and manish tattoos just dainty ones and ones that have meaning to the individual? Would ...
A. 15 December 2010: Just an update and a thank you to all those who answered. I do have tattoos and they all stand for something meaningful to me and have never had any complaints but a few of my friends have had comments from people. I understand that there are a few ... (read in full...)
Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!
Q. my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...
A. 4 December 2010: this guy is very controlling and this is just the start soon it'll be oh you cant wear that then oh you're seeing those friends again this will get worse. I say you get rid of him and find someone wholikes you just as you are... (read in full...)
My choices are a cheater, or a man who doesn't love me!
Q. i have known my boyfriend for 5 or more years but we just recently sarted dating and just found out he cheated on me but i anm in love with another man that doesnt want a relationship. i love my boyfriendbut what do i do....
A. 21 November 2010: get rid of both of them and find someone who appreciates you... (read in full...)
What is the deal with women and high heels??
Q. I really wanna know the answer to this question especially from females - Do you females really like wearing sexy high heeled shoes or do you do it only for attention. I have heard of shoe fetish but I dont know how far it is true. Does it also have ...
A. 14 November 2010: They usually make women feel more confident and sexy as it gives you a better posture makes your legs and bum look better there isnt one specific answer as to why we wear them... (read in full...)
I feel like a freak of nature!
Q. First I have to inform you all on the story, before my question makes some sense. Okay...Teens/young adults my age usually, already have sex or have sudden urges to do the said act. But...I find myself not feeling those urges, and frankly I don't ...
A. 14 November 2010: I'm 20 still a virgin and couldnt care less until i find someone who i love then its nothing to worry about its completely normal ... (read in full...)
Why are younger women attracted to older men?
Q. I am posting this to ask for opinions more so than answers. It is my hope that the opinions expressed by people in reply to this can help me to answer my question - myself. What I would like to get your opinions on is this Why do you think tha...
A. 10 November 2010: Well i'm 20 and probbly wouldnt date anyone younger than me and definatley wouldnt date anyone over 30 not every woman is attracted to older men some women cant stand the thought of being with an older man i'm one of them i'd rather just be with ... (read in full...)
Best time to have sex without a condom so she doesn't get pregnant?
Q. What is the best time I can have sexual intercourse without using condom with my g.f without her being pregnant?? I need answers from experienced people.....
A. 10 November 2010: there is no best time you should always wear a condom and there is never a time where she might not get pregnant she can get pregnant any time... (read in full...)
Why do women complain about porn?
Q. Okay...So i just have a question in general. Why do women complain about they're Love watching porn or anything else for that matter to porn? It's like such a big deal, oh no. But theres so many women out there who do it themselves. I...
A. 3 November 2010: do you know i am so glad to see this question because my views are exactly the same as yours. I watch porn not all the time but sometimes but i mean if my boyfriend was bothered by it i'd just stop watching it. I think women who are strictly against ... (read in full...)
For the girls: Would you dump your boyfriend if you found out he was a 25 year old virgin?
Q. This question mainly applies to women but I was wondering if you would dump your boyfriend if he told you one day that he was a virgin and that he was over the age of 25 (I'm 23 but considering the worst case scenario for me). I could have lost it ...
A. 3 November 2010: No of course not. Would you dump your girlfriend if she was a 25 year old virgin it would just be a pathetic excuse if they did... (read in full...)
I'm a girl who loves porn!
Q. When I was about sixteen, like most people, i got curious about sex and so i started searching the internet for sexual videos. People always talk about how horrible it is for guys to watch porn and i feel like being a girl...its even worse for me ...
A. 31 October 2010: I like it so i watch it and i definatley have a different opinion to the haters. As long as you dont get addicted then enjoy thats what its there for :)... (read in full...)
I'm 30, will my penis grow anymore?
Q. Q I am male age 30 yrs: Q-I am a 30 year old male with a 4 and half inch penis. Will my penis grow anymore? It is correct for sex, If not then what to do ignore me english grammer. What the correct size of women vagina and male Penis pls help ...
A. 8 October 2010: No sorry it wont... (read in full...)
His girlfriend is in the way!
Q. Okay, so i really like this guy, and he likes me too. But he has a girlfriend. What should i do?...
A. 4 October 2010: leave him and move on... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend! What should I do?
Q. I'm nearly 15 and I really want to give up my virginity but I don't have a boyfriend or know anyone that would want to have sex with me. What should I do?...
A. 4 October 2010: Wait... (read in full...)
2 hpt's are negative, but period hasn't started
Q. i had sex with a girl three weeks ago from today, she claims she hasnt gotten her period.. and the day we had sex was her last day taking lo seasonique. there is a little bump between her belly button and pubic area, i gave her two hpt's which both ...
A. 3 October 2010: its too soon to tell and if she were she wouldnt start showing till at least 3 1/2 months... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend, but this other girl is just amazingly compatable.
Q. I've been with my current girlfriend on and off for almost 7 years. We are very happy and I love her very much. However, recently I have met a new girl, and this girl has so much in common with me it is borderline eerie. Like the same movies, ...
A. 3 October 2010: well it sounds to me like you dont love your girlfriend as much as you're trying to make yourself believe you are because you wouldnt even condsider going off with someone else. You have to pick its your choice but dont string both of them along... (read in full...)
Why are women attracted to guys with fancy cars?
Q. Why are women more attracted to men with fancy cars than men with raggedy cars? Does it really matter and why?...
A. 2 October 2010: i dont, couldnt care less if they couldnt drive at all women who are like that arent interested in the guy they're interested in the money... (read in full...)
FWB moved on to a relationship, but came back and cheated with me
Q. Ok, i'm going to try and make this as short as posible. A had a FWB/buddy, this ended and he now is with somebody. This is the bad part, we had sex a couple on months ago, so basicaly he cheated. Since then i've tried distancing myself from him, he ...
A. 2 October 2010: he is a FWB to you nothing else i think you've fallen for him whereas he still sees you as someone he can have sex with whenever he wants basically thats all he is to you so he didnt cheat on you because you werent together... (read in full...)
If a guy does not ejaculate inside you does that mean you are free from any chance of getting pregnant?
Q. Can I ask, if a guy penetrates in a girl but did not ejaculate inside the vagina. Does that means that the girl will be free from chances of getting herself pregnant?...
A. 28 September 2010: No it does not... (read in full...)
Should I shave down there before I lose my virginity or leave it?
Q. ok so i am a 17 year old girl and i am hella confused about me shaving down there.... yes i know its weird that a 17 year old is asking this question but i dont want to ask any of my friends cus im embarrased and i dont think ima ask my boyfriend ...
A. 25 September 2010: I have this thing about hair on e the only hair i have is on my head and arms the rest i just shave or wax off i hate having hair but thats my preference i couldnt really care less what a guy wanted because well its my body i'll do what i want... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin if you've been fingered?
Q. Are you still a virgin if you got fingered?...
A. 25 September 2010: yes... (read in full...)
I'm 15, I lost a child and I'm still craving one!
Q. I'm 15 years old and I'm craving a child. I know many other people have asked about this but I feel my situation is somewhat different and would like specific advice please. 11 months ago today I had a miscarrige; I was almost 4 months pregnant...
A. 23 September 2010: i'm very sorry for your loss but you wont get help and advice about craving children when you are the age you are you are not mature enough to even take notice of the advice people are giving you. You need to talk to a counselor for you deal with ... (read in full...)
How do I convince him that he is good enough for me?
Q. ok,well my bf broke up with me, he broke up with me because he didnt wasnt able to call me 3 times and he feels like hes a bad boyfriend and that i deserve someone better,i KNOW he loves me,i know that for sure,but how do i convince him that he is ...
A. 21 September 2010: He used that as an excuse to break up with you... (read in full...)
Does wearing a bra to bed, help your boobs grow?
Q. Ok so usually I wear a bra to sleep. I hear that if u do your breasts won't grow. Mine are not the biggest so I'm wondering if that's true and if not, what are some ways that I can help them grow? Love, A...
A. 20 September 2010: you cant make them grow and no wearing a bra to bed does nothing to your boobs but why would you want to wear one to bed other than self concious issues... (read in full...)
How do I fix my large labia?
Q. The inner lips of my vagina are very big.. There's alot there. To much skin. I want to get it cut off or something lol what causes this and is there a way to fix it? ...
A. 20 September 2010: there is no cause to it it is perfectly natural but i will tell you this surgery to get it fixed is upwards of $2500.00... (read in full...)
I can't stop eating! Pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone, Ok here goes; recently I have been feeling a little strange. For starters I cannot stop eating! I am always hungry. I had no idea why, i'm quite a small girl and I dont usually eat a lot, but right now I literally cannot seem to fill ...
A. 16 September 2010: please i get like that all the time before my period even when i'm not on my period i get symptoms like that its normal but if you think you're pregnant you'll have to take a test no one on here will know... (read in full...)
She lied and I broke up with her, now I don't know what to do!
Q. When my girlfriend and I first hooked up, I didn't have feelings at all. She told me about the last guy she's been with and how she gave him head. I didn't care cause I was just hooking up with her. Months later and here I am 9 months later still ...
A. 15 September 2010: you were "heated" how do you think she feels being dumped for some pathetic reason. Who cares if there was 1 other guy who cares if it was 100 its none of your business who shes been with because its her past. I hope she doesnt take a second thought ... (read in full...)
Did I over-react to the nurses comments?
Q. My boyfriend had knee surgery today. We r both in our thirties and the nurse looked about our age. Well she called him sweetie which didn't bother me but then she said babe r u ready to go in,well that mad me mad and I walked out. As I was walking ...
A. 15 September 2010: over reacting way over the top thats what nurses say to put you at ease... (read in full...)
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