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Did I over-react to the nurses comments?
Q. My boyfriend had knee surgery today. We r both in our thirties and the nurse looked about our age. Well she called him sweetie which didn't bother me but then she said babe r u ready to go in,well that mad me mad and I walked out. As I was walking ...
A. 15 September 2010: over reacting way over the top thats what nurses say to put you at ease... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend only want sex?
Q. My bf and I hangout out more now, bt the problem iss thatt he will only take me to his house, to have sex, and thats all. I know he is busy with school and stuff, bt come on,, only sex. Am i right or no???...
A. 15 September 2010: He's not your boyfriend whenever he wants sex he clicks his fingers and you run, he's using you, get rid of him and move on... (read in full...)
Glitter on boyfriend's face!
Q. Hi everyone…I’m hoping someone can give me some advice. Last night I went to see my boyfriend after he got off work. When we were sitting together I noticed a small piece of glitter on the bottom of his nostril. Just one piece. I got upset and st...
A. 14 September 2010: i get glitter on me all the time and never know where it comes from every one does it just appears its glitter for god sake get over yourself... (read in full...)
What will happen to my hair if I dye it again?
Q. I got my hair dyed and highlighted a few days ago and my highlights turned orange-ish red instead of blonde, probably because the rest of it was dyed medium brown and so dark. Well I hate it, every time I look at it I hate it even more. I ...
A. 14 September 2010: did you dye it yourself? if you got it done at a salon and are unhappy with it they will do it for free because you are unhappy with it. If you've done it yourself its because you need to do it in 2 stages you now need to get another blonde dye and ... (read in full...)
Grey crusties on my nipple? what could cause this?
Q. i had a nap after work today while dinner was cooking and when i woke up my boyfriend noticed what looked like a dirt smudge on my nipple. i dont think it was there there before my nap sonim assuming it happened while i was sleeping. i tried to rub ...
A. 14 September 2010: go to the doctors we cant help you on here... (read in full...)
What should I make of this behaviour?
Q. hi, well basically me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 3 years, we r currently on nad have been for 5 months. the problem is i know it doesnt sound big but i was wondering what to make of this. we went to the cinema with a grooup of mates...
A. 13 September 2010: He's not interested in you you have to let him go because he doesnt care you should find someone who does... (read in full...)
Do guys compare sex with their lovers?
Q. Silly question I have to ask. Well, do guys tend to compare the sex with different partners... I mean.. having a new girlfriend would they wish she would make love as his ex? And is a virgin more appealing than some woman who has had some experie...
A. 12 September 2010: Ignacio ramos are you like answering a different question she asked nothing in coparison to what you wrote. Anyway i'd say some guys do some guys dont i think it depends on how comfortable they are with talking about it with their friends... (read in full...)
Took pill, got sick, now pregnant?
Q. I'm worried im pregnant,made love a few times this month,was a day behind with my pill so last day took was weds rather than tues usually i get period on the friday but havent had it yet. the night after i had sex i went out got drunk and threw ...
A. 11 September 2010: we wont know on here take a pregnancy test but yes if you throw up after 12 hours of taking the pill it will stop the effect... (read in full...)
19 Nearly 20 and still a virgin
Q. Im going to be 20 in 6 months or so and im still a virgin. And the thought of it (and still being a virgin at 19 for that matter) is absolutely killing me. I hate myself so much and i cant stop with feeling negative, even though i know thats just ...
A. 11 September 2010: I'm 20 in less than 2 months and i'm still a virgin sure ive done other stuff but ive never had sex and it doesnt bother me in the slightest. You should wait for the right person they wont judge you for not sleeping around with as many women as you ... (read in full...)
I said yes to a threesome now I am second guessing this!
Q. I'm almost 15 years old and i'm with an older guy. He's 16 turning 17. We've been together for a while about afew months. We fell in love, or atleast I did. And yesterday out of the blue he asked me to join in on a threesome he wants to have with ...
A. 9 September 2010: No dont do it, especially at the age you are even if this was a 35 year old woman who had doubts i would still say no you are too young to even be having sex never mind a threesome.... (read in full...)
How should I tell my friend what's going on?
Q. Ok so we had a fair and my best friend really wanted a big stuffed animal. I won it a little later and I was about to give it to her but then she ran away and said she had to meet her mom. She texted me later and asked me if I left and I said yes. ...
A. 7 September 2010: sounds like she was just looking for an excuse to cause an argument over a stuffed animal thats pathetic... (read in full...)
Help! How can I stop becoming so wet?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year, before anyone starts going all judgemental on me- I've had my hands down his pants, he's had his hands down mine. No biggie... Just lately, he's been commenting on how wet I am down there, and how ...
A. 6 September 2010: "No biggie" its no biggie but you dont even know that its natural to get wet when aroused... (read in full...)
Is this RAPE??
Q. im not sure if this is rape... i was messing around with a guy and he started touching me...i didnt care about that but then he started putting it in and i was trying to push him off me at the hips but he was too strong.. i kept asking him to get ...
A. 26 August 2010: Yes this was rape tell your parents and press chargesagainst this disgusting creature. good luck xx... (read in full...)
Should I fix my gap even it he doesn't want me to?
Q. I have a big gap in my front teeth and everyone always tells me it's cute and such, but I've always wanted it fixed. I finally got the courage and made an appointment, but my boyfriend said he likes my gap. He said he thinks I'm the most beautiful ...
A. 20 August 2010: If its something you want to do then get it done if it makes you feel secure ... (read in full...)
I didnt fight back when he had sex with me because my daughter was watching, and I had sent nude pics to him before. Was this still rape?
Q. I was raped by my boyfriend's best friend in front of my three year old daughter. And another friend in the car. Ive been to the police. Im having a hard time dealing with it he claims i wanted. And it wasnt forced, i went to the store to buy them a ...
A. 20 August 2010: I'm very sorry yes this was rape as you told them to stop i'm sorry your daughter had to see this. I'm glad you went to the police as they can put these disgusting creatures behind bars. I'm very sorry xx... (read in full...)
I have a bump on my lip what is it?
Q. Hi hope someone can help!!! I found that I have just one bump close to the top of my lips. Is it an in grown hair? Its red and hurts if you touch it! and I'm a little scared. Hope someone can help me thanksss!!! ...
A. 18 August 2010: a spot, a coldsore dont know get it checked... (read in full...)
Is it a one night stand or rape?
Q. I've been wondering for a long time whether what I experienced was just a one night stand or rape. A while ago I went to visit a friend of mine at school. We went out, and I drank way too much. I remember I was flirting with this friend of hers most ...
A. 17 August 2010: It was a drunken one night stand, both consented and both were drunk... (read in full...)
Withheld Unknown number keeps calling my cell!
Q. i have a problem that has bothering me for the couple of days...i have a new number on my cell and someone has been calling me for the couple of days with the withheld number and unknown number....please i need to know the number of the person who ...
A. 13 August 2010: It could be a cold caller but what you can do is call your phone provider and tell them there is a withheld number calling you and tell the the times and they can tell you who that number belongs to and they can block it for you... (read in full...)
How do I know what I am?
Q. How do I know if I'm gay, bi, or straight?...
A. 12 August 2010: Who are you attracted to male or female... (read in full...)
Is she having orgasms?
Q. well here i am every day wondering if im am doing something right or wrong, its starting to happen constantly now, when me and my girlfriend are busy making love, if i would stop for a sec and take my penus out i see her go al shaking and shivering ...
A. 8 August 2010: yes... (read in full...)
Am I a virgin man?
Q. Once, my colleagues asked me " r u a virgin"? And i did not know how to answer them. I am wondering how '" virgin" is defined? Lets say if i have never had sex with a girl, but i have done masturbation. Then am I a virgin man? ...
A. 7 August 2010: Nope your still a virgin until you have sex... (read in full...)
For the guys... what differentiates between a one-night-stand girl and a keeper?
Q. This ones for the guys... what makes a girl decent for a one night stand? what makes a woman ideal for a relationship? What kind of girls would you consider only good for one night? i'm talking looks and personality. And why do you think that if...
A. 27 July 2010: They wont sleep with you on the first night... (read in full...)
Where and how should I meet up with the older man I'm falling for?
Q. Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl from the uk. I have been online dating since o was 16 because I felt like no one who actually knew me would ever want to get with me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy who was 19 and I haven't had sex since. About ...
A. 27 July 2010: I agree with everyone else if you are determined to meet up with this guy be safe and do it in a public place with people all around
p.s For everyone else the Legal age of consent in the UK is 16... (read in full...)
We didn't do anything so how could I be pregnant?
Q. I come from a christian family and so does my boyfriend. We didn't have sex though. We both decided not to do anything that would ruin our stands as Christians. But I think I'm pregnant now.. One night I was spending the the weekend with him and his ...
A. 26 July 2010: It could be a false positive, you should take another test because if you are telling the truth that you both had some sort of clothing the risk of getting pregnant is so low probably like 0.0001%... (read in full...)
How do I get my friend to kiss me?
Q. how do i get my close friend to kiss me (he i a boy by the way) i have liked him for a while and my friends have told him but he still doesnt seem to like me in the way i want him to:|...
A. 22 July 2010: Kiss him... (read in full...)
Sex day after period equals pregnancy?
Q. hi l sleep with my bf just after a day l finished my period l wanna know if there is any chances dat l could be pregnant....
A. 22 July 2010: Is your age range right? because you should know that you can get pregnant at any time... (read in full...)
If I had sex with protection and it broke would I still be able to get pregnant?
Q. i havnt had my period for about... 4-5 months now. if i had sex with protection and it broke would i still be able to get pregnant?...
A. 21 July 2010: Yes... (read in full...)
Is it an affair if it's an LDR with a married man?
Q. Is it called an illicit affair if you are involved in a long distance relationship with a married man? I never met him but our relationship of 3 yrs are through online chats only. ...
A. 21 July 2010: Of course it is... (read in full...)
Did I sound like a pervert for asking?
Q. Hey Agony Aunts/Uncles... I feel like I've lost some innocence in myself. I was making out with my gf the other day and I started to tickle her chest. I got the signal that I was crossing the line. So I stopped and we continued to make out. A day ...
A. 20 July 2010: no of course your not a perv you're her boyfriend... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant from this? Please help!!
Q. Mod Note: Posters Original Title Can you get pregnant from dry humping? I'm so worried. My boyfriend was over a few days ago and we were dry humping. I was completely naked but he was completely dressed. Is there any way I could be pregnant from...
A. 19 July 2010: God do you not get taught sex education anymore of course you cant the fact your asking shows your too young and immature... (read in full...)
I really don't want to be lesbian
Q. ok I am age between 13-15, and I love the idea of having a boyfriend, but I can wait until it will last a little longer than two weeks with someone that is right for me. Lately though, I am close to my period and I keep panicking that I am lesbian, ...
A. 16 July 2010: You dont sound like you want to be a lesbian at all. Do you feel attracted to females in any way? ... (read in full...)
How do I get to be beautiful like these girls I see?
Q. Hello, I have a problem with one word that teenage girls go through and that's the word UGLY!!! I'm 5'2, brown hair and eyes, I have and average size body and I'm black. But even with that information I'm still called ugly. Everyday I get talked ...
A. 13 July 2010: I'm sorry this is how you feel but ctually what you have to do is accept who and what you are people who say you are ugly are worthless scum and only say it because they have no self confidence and take it out on others... (read in full...)
Is it better to be wanted or needed?
Q. Here's a bit of a hypothetical question which has been bugging me... In a relationship do you think its better to be wanted or needed? Why? ...
A. 11 July 2010: Wanted, when people need you its because they were never happy with themselves in the first place and they need someone to fill that void, being wanted shows love and care and affection.... (read in full...)
Is there anything romantic about having sex with a prostitute?
Q. I'm not going to lie. I have made love to prostitutes before. I have tried to be gentle with them (women of course). But I want to know...is there anything romantic or beautiful about making love to prostitutes? I need to get it off my conscience. I ...
A. 11 July 2010: Have you had any help for the abuse because thats obviously what your life revolves around i know it can be a hard thing to discuss but people out there are willing to help if your willing to talk... (read in full...)
Is there anything romantic about having sex with a prostitute?
Q. I'm not going to lie. I have made love to prostitutes before. I have tried to be gentle with them (women of course). But I want to know...is there anything romantic or beautiful about making love to prostitutes? I need to get it off my conscience. I ...
A. 10 July 2010: no theres nothing romantic about it... (read in full...)
How much does size matter to women?
Q. I have an ordinary size dick and I spoke to a Doctor about it once. He said that there wasn't really anything that can be done about it. His exact words were... "you are what you are and there's nothing we can do to change that." I want an hone...
A. 8 July 2010: you asked for honesty from people then you say some answers are cruel, dont say you want honesty then argue with it... (read in full...)
I couldn't help probe about her sexual past, but I wish she wouldn't have been so honest!!!
Q. Ok here's my problem. My gf and I have been dating for a little over a year now, at the begining of the relationship I asked the inevitable question " how many men have you slept with"?. She asked me to answer the question first, I told her 80 women ...
A. 8 July 2010: you have to put this behind you to be honest i would never ask "The question" because to be honest its none of my business as long as he doesnt have an STI or is a virgin thats the only time it would be appropriate to know. You have to get over this ... (read in full...)
How much does size matter to women?
Q. I have an ordinary size dick and I spoke to a Doctor about it once. He said that there wasn't really anything that can be done about it. His exact words were... "you are what you are and there's nothing we can do to change that." I want an hone...
A. 7 July 2010: I personally wouldnt prefer bigger as it can actually be quite painful for women if guys are well endowed and i can probably vouch for half the women on here... (read in full...)
How would you feel if your boyfriend was wanking behind your back?
Q. hi im hoping you can give me your views as im a little confussed and to be honest feel a bit cheated, can anyone give me there views how would you feel and what would you do and say if you found out your boyfriend was wanking behind your back whilst ...
A. 7 July 2010: I honestly wouldnt care i just see it as normal i wouldnt want to think my boyfriend would feel angry because i wanted some "alone time"... (read in full...)
Is 12 too young to use tampons?
Q. My younger sister wants to try tanpons she is only 12 do you think I should let her because she is very young but she keeps asking me should I let her ? ...
A. 7 July 2010: yeh of course she can use what she wants... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? I'm afraid to ask my mother!
Q. Hi. My name is Quinn and i have been experiancing some weird things. I have been to many websites and nothing has helped. Could you please help me? Okay so this is what's happeneing, I have missed my period for 1 month and 1/2... but i have NOT h...
A. 7 July 2010: if you've not had sex you're not pregnant... (read in full...)
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