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writes:ok,well my bf broke up with me, he broke up with me because he didnt wasnt able to call me 3 times and he feels like hes a bad boyfriend and that i deserve someone better,i KNOW he loves me,i know that for sure,but how do i convince him that he is good enough? i got my future predictd and the psycic told me that he did love me so i know hes worth it,he has such a low self esteem though,i need him,i love him:] thats weird to say,i never believed in love i always thought love was fake and that it fades away,but no not with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): You are so young to be burdening urself with these emotions. I remember when I was 16 and went through a similar experience.Right now u feel ur world coming to an end....its not!I don't mean to negate what ur feeling, its real, for u, at 16.Trust me, when I say that u will get over this and, when ur 18, 20,30 yrs old, u will look back on this and giggle at how silly this episode of despair, doom n gloom really was. U will go on to meet many more wonderful boys, then guys and eventually a true MAN, who will love and cherish u. I did and the journey was well worth it.
Try to stay positive, keep busy, listen to upbeat music, hang out with ur bff's. Try and focus on the future and the awesome experiences the lay ahead of you!!
Stay STRONG. Stay BEAUTIFUL
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (21 September 2010):
He used that as an excuse to break up with you
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 September 2010):
 I hate to rain on your parade, but I feel that taking the "I'm not good enough for you " line literally is rather naive.
It's -just a line- something you say to wrap up things in a nice way . It's one of those things you say to spare people's feelings. Like "It's not you, it's me ".
I have never,ever met anybody so noble and chivalrous that they would let go a woman they really loved , so that she could find someone better. It's just not in human nature.
I know of people who split up because one of the partners would act in a way that made the other feel not good enough - but that's a different issue, and clearly not your case .
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 September 2010):
I notice the one thing your psychic neglected to tell you was that you can't change a man. No disrespect, but don't place your plans, love life or anything else in the hands is a psychic.
The truth is, when a man says he's not good enough, usually it means he's not good enough. Don't waste your time trying to change him. If he wants to change and become more confident, he has to do it himself, and he has to do it for himself and not anyone else. You're fighting a losing battle if you think you can change him or his mind. He's ended it, and you need to move on now.
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