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writes:ok so i am a 17 year old girl and i am hella confused about me shaving down there.... yes i know its weird that a 17 year old is asking this question but i dont want to ask any of my friends cus im embarrased and i dont think ima ask my boyfriend either.... so my question is.... should i shave down "there" before loosing my virginity to my boyfriend or just leave it as it is (natural) ...??? anything will help!!!! please try to help me!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): I don't understand the fascination with shaved genitals. Looks unnatural to me - and worse still, makes me think the shaved person is some 12 year old, much too young to be really ready for sex.
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (25 September 2010):
I have this thing about hair on e the only hair i have is on my head and arms the rest i just shave or wax off i hate having hair but thats my preference i couldnt really care less what a guy wanted because well its my body i'll do what i want
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Personally, I'd rather not go down on a girl who doesn't at least trim. Smooth shaved is fun, but not necessary. I just don't like coughing up hair.
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reader, RainyDays93 +, writes (25 September 2010):
Waxing hurts! Really bad! You should do whatever makes you feel comfortable, if you would feel better natural then be natural or if you'd prefer to remove your pubic hair then do so. It's about how you feel not him, don't listen to anyone who says it will scare him away or anything stupid like that. If he really loves you he will be happy with whatever way you wish to have your body. If he reacts differently from that he isn't worth your time. He should want you to feel comfortable.
I am natural and am very happy with it and wouldn't waste my time with anyone who told me how to have my body. Not all guys find it unattractive, my boyfriend is happy as long as i'm happy.
Do what ever makes you feel comfortable it's your body and your decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Uh - no, not all guys find that unnattractive, and a guy is not going to turn you down because you look the way you're supposed to down there. Shave if you want to, or don't, it's whatever you want.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (25 September 2010):
 Wax?! Egads! If everyone had to wax before losing their virginity, no girl would *ever* have sex. :P
Personally, I think shaving is creepy, kinda like the perpetual pre-pubescent 11-year old girl thing. And, it will ITCH if you shave.
I would recommend a trim, not a complete shave.
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reader, SweetindianGirl +, writes (25 September 2010):
Um shave girl...better yet WAX!
you do notttttttt want the guy to be traumatized...! hair is scary! and it will be uncomfortable, watch aftr you have sex you are going to say what "this is what i have been waiitn for??!" its not even as HEAVENLY as it seems...trust me. the only time you wil feel sparks is when its with the one you LOVE ur 17, 4 yrs away from reality!
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reader, shooker24 +, writes (25 September 2010):
Girl Speaking: I shave mine! Its like shaving legs though. Once you start, you cant stop. I am not sexually active or close to it, yet I will still shave it. I just prefer it. If you dont want to, you dont have to. But, guys find it unattractive. Dont have sex without shaving first!!! Good luck with your decision! :]
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