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Could I be pregnant? I'm afraid to ask my mother!
Q. Hi. My name is Quinn and i have been experiancing some weird things. I have been to many websites and nothing has helped. Could you please help me? Okay so this is what's happeneing, I have missed my period for 1 month and 1/2... but i have NOT h...
A. 7 July 2010: if you've not had sex you're not pregnant... (read in full...)
I can not squirt!
Q. Hi! My problem is no matter how hard I try I can not "squirt". I have been trying for 3 months now, practising, and trying, and doing it diffrent ways. I always use the bathroom before masterbating, and when I do masterbate while messageing my ...
A. 6 July 2010: Most girls cant squirt i'm assuming you were watching porn and wanted to try it out, just stop pressuring yourself its not important... (read in full...)
How do you flirt without being obvious?
Q. Is there any way to make him like me? I see him only at church. We like never talk but he always looks at me.. Is there a way to flirt with him without making it obvious that you are flirting? Thank you!...
A. 6 July 2010: Flirting is used to BE obvious just go talk to him ... (read in full...)
My friend is the odd one out?
Q. Ok so i live in a small town where I grew up with all these girls. Iv'e known them since we were babies. We are all 17 theres about 14 of us all together. But one of my friends Naomi havent changed at all. she's still young in the mind. She doesnt ...
A. 5 July 2010: I think shes the only one with respect and who actually cares about herself maybe the fact all of you have changed is a bad thing she maybe doesnt feel comfortable throwing herself at guys, looking for attention and getting wasted sounds to me like ... (read in full...)
If a man is using you for sex why would he keep on coming back even if he didnt get it every time?
Q. if a man is using you for sex would he keep coming back even if he didnt always get it and sometimes he did but it wasnt great? how do you tell if someone is genuine or a really good liar, i have to say he has a girlfriend and the rule of thumb is ...
A. 5 July 2010: because in the end he does eventually get sex from you... (read in full...)
I had sex with a guy who already has a girlfriend!
Q. what do i do when i had sex with a guy who already has a girlfriend and has been with her for almost 10 months?...
A. 5 July 2010: did you know he had a girlfriend? theres nothing you can do if he's still with his girlfriend then he doesnt care you need to move on... (read in full...)
Opinions please on this email he sent to me....
Q. I just want some opinions regarding how someone I know feels about me, if you were to receive this email, what would YOU think, its not the full email, just a part of it which I received today. I've known them for a long time and it is starting to ...
A. 5 July 2010: i would be really freaked out and would tell someone straight away this sounds so inappropriate especially if he is related to you... (read in full...)
We don't know each other, but he loves me
Q. Hi, ok so I have a problem. A couple of months ago this guy contacted me through the Internet. now this was not throught a dating site, it was a site just to play random games on. I didn't think it was a problem because I talked to people all the ...
A. 5 July 2010: It sounds too risky too me i say just move on its like you said he knows nothing about you so if you cut contact theres no way he could keep on harrassing you like coming to your door or whatever... (read in full...)
Her fooling around... Do I have the right to be angry?
Q. I just found out that my girl fooled around with this guy from work. We had known each other at the time but it was before we started dating. It just repulses me to know about it. He is a truly disgusting guy. She got checked for STDs because of him ...
A. 5 July 2010: Look she made a mistake it was before you two got together so just move on from it, no you dont have a right to be angry with her because its her life its nothing to do with you, shes with you now ... (read in full...)
I just need a little hope... me and my amnesia.
Q. I am already an agony aunt on here and i know this isnt a relationship question but i guess all i'm looking for is someone who understands. I have a rare form of amnesia which means i can only remember the last 6 weeks of my whole life, i'm dealing ...
A. 5 July 2010: Thank you all so much for your suggestions i will give them a try and thank you all for being so nice x... (read in full...)
Found items which may mean my husband is masturbating, he denies it, what do you think??
Q. please help me, about 3 months ago i found two socks under our bed with what looks a lot like semen stains i questioned him about it he said its not semen! and the other day i found another one screwed up in the wardrobe which again looks like dried ...
A. 5 July 2010: Because its normal... (read in full...)
Should I go on holidays with a pedo uncle?
Q. Hi, I wrote on here before about my uncle. This is the link to it. This tells you everything from the beginning. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/inappropriate-touching-from-an-uncle.html Well it hurts me so much that my pearents are on his side...
A. 4 July 2010: I read your last post and i think you should make a big deal about it if it happens on holiday treat him like he was a paedophile make a scene people will notice and people will take action against it i think you should tell the others because one ... (read in full...)
Ladies, was this my first real orgasm?
Q. I am a 30 yr old female and last night, I think I experienced my first orgasim..... I don't know for sure, but after me and my man finished up, I couldn't stop shaking and I have never felt like this a day in my life in 30 yrs!!! wowowowowowoowwow!! ...
A. 4 July 2010: Yes that was an orgasm i dont know if thats all you wanted to know ... (read in full...)
Scared to give a blowjob because of the way it tastes!
Q. My boyfriend asked me to give him a blowjob but I dont want too because he'll cum in my mouth I never tasted cum before and if i dont like it i'll be afraid I'll get sick so what does Cum taste like?...
A. 4 July 2010: I couldnt really taste much its kind of salty but the texture is kinda sticky and gloopy which could probably make you gag but you dont have to swallow... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and can't get a boyfriend! WHY???
Q. My question is basically why can't i get a boyfriend!!! I am completely normal looking, 5'8, i row and do track, have good grades, and am an outgoing talkative person with have lots of friends. I try to go after a guy and then i decide i don't like ...
A. 4 July 2010: Its because your pushing yourself to be in a relationship, why do you feel like you need a boyfriend, if you feel that you need to be with someone its usually because your not happy on your own, stop pressuring yourself to find someone because ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and want sex! Should I just get it over with?
Q. I'm 19 and I kinda want to have sex but have not really found the person...Sometimes I just want to get it over with and have that amazing feeling that everyone talks about...Should I wait for the right person or just get it over with???...
A. 4 July 2010: I'm 19 the same as you in the same situation but no i say wait for someone who really cares for you and wants to be with you it'll be worth it in the long run... (read in full...)
I do things with other girls but then feel guilty about it
Q. I have never been in a relationship with a female but I have been intimate with a few. I am definately attracted to other girls, I fantasize about kissing them, or having sex with them quiet often. I've even had fone sex and oral sex. Here is the ...
A. 4 July 2010: Well if you've tried it out with girls and arent enjoying it maybe it is just a fantasy, you've tried and you didnt like it, i say just stick with your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
I do things with other girls but then feel guilty about it
Q. I have never been in a relationship with a female but I have been intimate with a few. I am definately attracted to other girls, I fantasize about kissing them, or having sex with them quiet often. I've even had fone sex and oral sex. Here is the ...
A. 3 July 2010: This does seem really confusing especially if your boyfriend is homophobic do you feel happier with your boyfriend than you have with other girls? ... (read in full...)
Opinions on tattoos please?
Q. I have a few tattoos, and I'm wondering if women find them attractive or if they think they look shocking? The best tattoo I have is a black dragon on my right arm. I don't know if it looks scarey or not. One of the reasons I have tattoos is to...
A. 3 July 2010: I love tattoos i've got a couple of little ones and am planning on more, i think on women small ones are sexy big tattoos are tacky but i like guys who have tattoos, it doesnt bother me either way... (read in full...)
He got married to someone else due to pressure from his parents, will he divorce her and come back to me?
Q. My BF got married under parents pressure but ran towards me in just a month.For 1yr, we are again dating.will he divorce and come permanently? We were in serious relationship for almost 5 yrs. But, he had to get married under parents pressure...
A. 3 July 2010: Look if he gives up everything for you then your all he's got left, he's not leaving his wife he wont give up everything for you, he's not coming back to you, i suggest you try to move on and find someone who wants to be with you completely because ... (read in full...)
Should your boyfriend think you are pretty and sexy?
Q. Im not really sure if im being overly sensitive or what but i dont like the image my boyfriend has of me,we been together now almost 2 years, he is always saying he loves me cause pretty girls are bitches. Now thats basically telling me he doesnt ...
A. 2 July 2010: I dont know what he implies as sexy girls maybe he meant the girls that walk the streets with their boobs and asses hanging out of their clothes, caked in make up with their hair like a birds nest, but even then he shouldnt imply that anyone who ... (read in full...)
If your hymen is broken by your boyfriend, are you still a virgin?
Q. If your hymen is broken by your boyfriend, are you still a virgin? ...
A. 2 July 2010: As in during sex? if so then no you're not a virgin... (read in full...)
Does this make me a racist?
Q. dear cupid, me and my girlfriend were talking and i said asian people (like japanese, chinese) have stupid names/stupid-sounding names. she then called me a racist and was extremely upset and hootin' and hollerin'. i kept on telling ...
A. 2 July 2010: I think it was a bit rude but i dont think its racist i'd have laughed if i was there, racist is a strong word, if you chose not to sit next to someone on the bus because they were black thats racist, if you insult them because of their ... (read in full...)
He got married to someone else due to pressure from his parents, will he divorce her and come back to me?
Q. My BF got married under parents pressure but ran towards me in just a month.For 1yr, we are again dating.will he divorce and come permanently? We were in serious relationship for almost 5 yrs. But, he had to get married under parents pressure...
A. 2 July 2010: Why on earth would he get a divorce his family is happy his wife is happy he's happy now because he's got you on the side as his mistress which means your happy because you're dating him so why would he leave it all... (read in full...)
I'm supposed to be going away with my so called friends but they treat me like a doormat! What should I do?
Q. I would really appreciate some advice on this issue that is making me worry, to the point where i am almost being sick. I am due to go away with a group of friends in 2 weeks time to go to Greece for 2 and a half weeks. The problem is that these fr...
A. 2 July 2010: I would tell you exactly what your dad is telling you, they are not friends at all, i dont think its good for you to go on holiday with these people as you'll probably eventually blow up at them this will be 24/7 with these people non stop, so its ... (read in full...)
How can it be love if they need to be drunk to have sex?
Q. Is someone really in love with you when the only time they have sex with you is when they are drunk?...
A. 2 July 2010: No... (read in full...)
Who should buy the condoms?
Q. Hey, who do you think should supply a condom the boys or the girls? or should they take turns? Thanks....
A. 1 July 2010: Both... (read in full...)
I feel guilty for kissing my friends boyfriend, espeically now they are having a baby together!
Q. i have a friend i use to go to school with and we were like best mates, we still are good mates (say hello everytime we see each other). she is 4 months pregnant with her first child, and she has been with her boyfriend for 2 years, she loves him to ...
A. 30 June 2010: What are you looking for? You say you act like a tart and you obviously dont care and yeh if she found out she probably would go mad and i wouldnt judge her for giving you a smack either. I dont know if your just writing to boast but people have ... (read in full...)
My lover who told he will marry me after 2 yrs is now calling me sister
Q. Hi everyone, I'm in love with my colleague for the past 8 months, i expressed him and he asked me to wait for 2 yrs, and he told he is facing some problems as of now so he asked me not to call or contact him for 2 yrs and i told him ok ,but we ...
A. 30 June 2010: He's stringing you along, find someone else who cares for you... (read in full...)
What if there IS a journal entry that I don't remember and I lose my son?
Q. I had something bad happen to me almost eight months ago. Me and my ex got back together almost 6 months ago. We have been married now for almost three months now. The person who did the bad thing to me is still insisting I'm lieing. My husband says ...
A. 25 June 2010: I totally agree with Gabrielle Stoker i have no idea what your going on about or what the problem is............more detail perhaps??... (read in full...)
Am I in a dangerous relationship or am I over-reacting?
Q. Im starting to worry about my boyfriends behavior and it he has the potential to become abusive in the future with our relationship. we have been dating for about 3 months. he is almost twenty and im sixteen. he always wants to be with me. we hang ...
A. 25 June 2010: Basically he needs help without you because with you there he is never going to get help 100% because his attentionw ill be on you he has to be focused on getting help all on his own so if your still in the picture it will all be a waste of time. ... (read in full...)
Amnesia stole four years of my life and what I am learning of my boyfriend now, is not promising.
Q. right this is quite complicated and long so please bear with me i need advice. In April of this year i ended up in hospital having had a seizure, it turned out i had a small blood clot on my brain. the main side effect was that i got retro grade ...
A. 25 June 2010: My family was told to do everything they could to help me remember my past but nothing has ever come back. Sometimes the "what ifs" can take over but you cant base your life on that. Everyone has been great with me and supported me but some people ... (read in full...)
Am I in a dangerous relationship or am I over-reacting?
Q. Im starting to worry about my boyfriends behavior and it he has the potential to become abusive in the future with our relationship. we have been dating for about 3 months. he is almost twenty and im sixteen. he always wants to be with me. we hang ...
A. 24 June 2010: Yes yu are in a very dangerous relationship, cut all contact with this maniac and get the f**k out of there... (read in full...)
Is it normal to become wet when aroused?
Q. I'm 16 and I'm a virgin. I've been with my boyfriend just over 8 months. Whenever I'm with my boyfriend and we are making out or whatever you like to call it I feel myself getting really wet. So when he starts to touch me (outside of clothes) I feel ...
A. 24 June 2010: Yes this happens to everyone its completely normal... (read in full...)
Amnesia stole four years of my life and what I am learning of my boyfriend now, is not promising.
Q. right this is quite complicated and long so please bear with me i need advice. In April of this year i ended up in hospital having had a seizure, it turned out i had a small blood clot on my brain. the main side effect was that i got retro grade ...
A. 24 June 2010: I feel for you i suffer from a rare form of amnesia and i only remember the last 6 weeks of my life everything before that has gone, just copletely blank so i totally understand how hard it is for you but i get how some people cant cope with the ... (read in full...)
What is the meaning behind the dream I had?
Q. Hi.. I'm not sure if this has anything to do with my current situation in my relationship. I don't really dream, but when I do it has a meaning to it, specially when I can remember what happened. Last night I dreamt I was travel with a oldish ol...
A. 24 June 2010: “If you carry on behaving the way you are this is the situation you’re likely to find yourself in.” thats what your dream interprets... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend might be gay! What signs should I look for?
Q. i am a bit worried about my boyfriend, as i think he is gay, been together 2 years and he tells me everyday that he loves me, he always wants sex with me most the time and he mainly makes the first moves, he kisses me alot and holds me all night, ...
A. 24 June 2010: He likes everything clean? he probably has OCD he likes having sex with you he likes you boobs he always initates contact first of course he's not gay... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this girl who keeps hitting on me?
Q. Where to begin. First I am posting anonymously because the girl that I have an issue with found my post on the user name last time. But my situation from before was that my neighbors are quite close with my family. This has been going on for nea...
A. 24 June 2010: why not lie and just tell her you have a girlfriend she might back off... (read in full...)
Did I shave myself incorrectly?
Q. Please please help me! It's stupid but everyone said they shave their vagina, so I decided I had to try it. I look under other questions on this web and used the answers eg use a razor and the lips the hardest part .. So I've done it now, and I ...
A. 23 June 2010: Its a shaving rash i get it all the time when i shave my bikini area your supposed to use a brand new razor and let the cream soak into your skin for about a minute then you should use a cream with aloe vera in it as it makes the rash go down, i ... (read in full...)
How do you nicely get rid of someone?
Q. hey everyone! i need some advice how to nicely get rid of someone. i'm a very nice person and tend to please others more than myself. he was just a friend i met at my university and i only see him as a FRIEND!......he's not the best looking g...
A. 23 June 2010: I have been in this exact situation its like deja vu, you have to tell him straight that you only see him as a friend i made the mistake of taking him up on his offer of a date and i knew as soon as i saw him it was never going to work we went on ... (read in full...)
Is my body changing or am I getting fat?
Q. I'm a 14 year old girl. I play sport and I have been skinny my whole life .. until now. the past few months I've noticed I have stretch marks on my inner thighs, my hips, and my boobs. I also gained bad love handles and a small gut. I weigh 121 lbs ...
A. 23 June 2010: yup i'm afraid its just your body changing if you keep doing you sports and exercising you'll be fine, stretch marks fade eventually but trust me curves are the best thing ever guys go crazy for girls with curves rather than skinny size zero chicks ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this girl who keeps hitting on me?
Q. Where to begin. First I am posting anonymously because the girl that I have an issue with found my post on the user name last time. But my situation from before was that my neighbors are quite close with my family. This has been going on for nea...
A. 23 June 2010: Tell her you are not interested and that if she carries on doing it you will call the police for harrassment... (read in full...)
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