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How can I deal with this girl who keeps hitting on me?
Q. Where to begin. First I am posting anonymously because the girl that I have an issue with found my post on the user name last time. But my situation from before was that my neighbors are quite close with my family. This has been going on for nea...
A. 24 June 2010: why not lie and just tell her you have a girlfriend she might back off... (read in full...)
Is my body changing or am I getting fat?
Q. I'm a 14 year old girl. I play sport and I have been skinny my whole life .. until now. the past few months I've noticed I have stretch marks on my inner thighs, my hips, and my boobs. I also gained bad love handles and a small gut. I weigh 121 lbs ...
A. 23 June 2010: yup i'm afraid its just your body changing if you keep doing you sports and exercising you'll be fine, stretch marks fade eventually but trust me curves are the best thing ever guys go crazy for girls with curves rather than skinny size zero chicks ... (read in full...)
Meeting a girl I came across online
Q. Any advice on how to approach meeting a girl I came across online? I've done it once before, but it was a different situation. We've been talking for seven months, and we both want to meet. I am more enthusiastic than she is (at least I try to sh...
A. 23 June 2010: My friend was in this exact situation just a few weeks ago they both met up and it was quite awkward at first but now they just do things that they both enjoy, going to the beach, the zoo, art galleries, going out for meals, drives, play snooker, go ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being so dependent on my boyfriend?
Q. Okay, so I am dating this guy. He's pretty darn amazing, I must say, but there is one problem... Everytime he is busy or is hanging out with his friends, I get upset and frustrated. I don't know if it's a jealousy thing, or what, but it sucks an...
A. 23 June 2010: Why not do things you like doing when he's out. Have a girly night out or in, or find something you enjoy doing, you'll find it'll take your mind off it and eventually you'll forget you ever felt this way. As for the showing him what he's missing i ... (read in full...)
How do I make head way with this girl I really like?
Q. I am 15 and I realy liked this girl since like year 8 and now I'm in year 10 I have noticed I like her but I'm shy and have no courage every time I get up the courage she dates another guy and people say she's out of my Leuge because of my weight ...
A. 23 June 2010: Well the worst she can say is no and you can move on from it, but i dont think theres any reason why you cant ask her you might be surprised. good luck... (read in full...)
Is this just friendship or can it be more?
Q. There is this guy i think he is kinda cute but, im not sure if he likes me like that. I mean when we are together I get butterflies. When we are in class and we get to choose our seats we always sit next to each other and a couple of times we have ...
A. 23 June 2010: Awww it sounds like you both really like each other, just keep doing what your doing, having fun with him, chatting to him and it will probably lead somewhere. Good Luck :)... (read in full...)
He just doesn't want to listen to me, should I break up with him?
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: PLEASE BE A LITTLE MORE SPECIFIC. WHAT IS AN EXAMPLE OF 'GIVING HIM YOUR HEART'? WHAT DOES HE THINK HE IS MISSING WITHOUT 'HAVING YOU LOVE HIM/HAVING YOUR HEART'?] well, the problem is that i have a bf and we've been dating ...
A. 23 June 2010: You say you've only been dating 2 months so its natural not to be so madly in love with him right now. Try talking to him again telling hi that it is still the early stage of the relationship and that if he stops pestering you then maybe one day you ... (read in full...)
How do I stop period cramps?
Q. Wot can one do to stop period cramps....
A. 23 June 2010: I dont think you can ever really get rid of them but just what everyone else said, a nice relaxing hot bath, painkillers and a hot water bottle... (read in full...)
Do women worry about their parts the way men worry about theirs?
Q. I love the female form. There are so many variations of the female genitalia. What is the reason some women's labia majoria is hidden and others are larger and seem to hang out. Secondly, do women get hung up on there vaginas like men do with ...
A. 23 June 2010: No sorry, well i dont and i'm happy with the size of my boobs too so i dont have that problem and i can vouch for most women they dont worry about their vaginas although it is usually our boobs we compare with other women... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this girl who keeps hitting on me?
Q. Where to begin. First I am posting anonymously because the girl that I have an issue with found my post on the user name last time. But my situation from before was that my neighbors are quite close with my family. This has been going on for nea...
A. 23 June 2010: Tell her you are not interested and that if she carries on doing it you will call the police for harrassment... (read in full...)
Can anyone give tips on how to give a love-bite?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now, but its a long distance relationship and we see eachother every 3-4 months. Weve been talking about next time we meet, and he mentioned love bites. I was ok with the fact he wants to give me ...
A. 22 June 2010: love bites are quite disgusting to look at and it looks really tacky and whenever someone gets one they always end up trying to cover it up until it disappears so whats the point... (read in full...)
Why do guys only pretend to like me until we have sex?
Q. why do guys pretend to like me, but they only want sex from me. then they start being rude and disrespectful....
A. 22 June 2010: You're picking the wrong guys to get involved in you pick the players... (read in full...)
Did he just use me for that one night?
Q. i had sex with this guy we are not committed but we know each other since elementary. i know im stupid doing that but for me and to him its just for fun. after that night he go back to wisconsin coz he lived there. im not inlove with him but why im ...
A. 22 June 2010: he used you, he wants nothing more to do with you, its best to move on... (read in full...)
His ex has a new and improved face!!
Q. Guys, here's a question for you. My boyfriend's ex, with whom he was in a 4 year relationship with, has had major plastic surgery on her face since they broke up nearly 3 years ago. She has a new chin, and most recently, a new nose, a la Micha...
A. 22 June 2010: Well her personality wouldnt have changed and the reason he broke up with her is probably still the same so only whats outside has changed she'll still be the same inside so no i dont think so... (read in full...)
I would like to kiss a boy, but my parents watch me like hawks
Q. Hey guys! well, im 15 and i have NEVER kissed anyone. i have someone in mind but im too afraid that my parents would find out some how or someone would tell. im not aloud to date yet so that means no dates! what do i do? do the guys tell people or ...
A. 22 June 2010: I think you should have a talk with your parents and ask them about dating when they were your age and at 15 you should start having fun experimenting with boys, kissing wise i mean not sexually, going on dates and having fun. Tell them that all you ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend or the guy: which should I choose?
Q. So i have the guy, and he's practically perfect. He flirts with others, but Im willing to give it a chance..maybe. My friend who just recently broke up with him, still loves him. She wont talk to me anymore. At one point in time, she was my ...
A. 21 June 2010: Who is worth losing because thats the question you'll have to answer. Is it worth giving up your friend for the guy or vice versa... (read in full...)
He loves me so much it almost makes me sick
Q. so, i've been a relationship for a month and 1/2 now. my bf already says that he loves me and that he wants us to spend the rest of our lives together. he dropped the L word within the 1st 2 to 3wks of the relationship. he's soo in love with me that ...
A. 21 June 2010: If you feel this way why havent you dumped him as you so obviously want to... (read in full...)
Is he still a virgin?
Q. So the other nite I had sex with a virgin...When we were doing it I felt kind of bad bcuz I wasnt a virgin. Knowing that I was taking his virginity was bad enough so I punkt out and stopped after while...So is he still a virgin?(if he didn't cum)...
A. 21 June 2010: No... (read in full...)
Do girls find muscles attractive?
Q. do girls find muscles attractive? cuz when ever i go out with a couple of my buddies who work out, i always find girls checking them out, so yeah.. what do you girls find attractive?...
A. 20 June 2010: Toned yes, muscly no, i have a strange phobia of veins and if i see a guy whos worked out too much it makes me feel a little sick but yeh a six pack and pecs and toned arms is not much to ask for lol joke :(... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble sleeping, among other things..
Q. Heys. I been having a few problems down there. The skin between the bigger lips is rather sensitive and it itches sometimes, even inside the vagina. I scratch it when im asleep and when i do i cant stop either. Now I have my period but before t...
A. 19 June 2010: Aw ok i was just checking its maybe just an infection you've got still your doctor can give you some anti biotics to get rid of it better being safe and just checking with the doctor ... (read in full...)
Is fourteen too young to lose your virginity?
Q. Im a 14 year old girl. I met my boyfriend a year ago and have been going out with him since but we have broken up 3 times but got back together. It may sound like a childish relationship but i no that its not. Iv had silly little boyfriends in my ...
A. 19 June 2010: The fact that you're asking shows that you know you're too young... (read in full...)
what sort of person would I look like faking a pregnancy and abortion?
Q. A few years ago i done something really stupid. I lied to my ex and told him I was pregnant to stop him splitting up with me for another woman he had met. I was totally in love with him and really didnt want to lose him. However, the plan didnt ...
A. 19 June 2010: I think thats actually quite sick and obsessive. Thats how it will make you look if you tell him... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, I don't know if I still want to be with him!
Q. I started college last year and I met this guy on the floor below and we started messing around. At first i didn't give much thought to it but it grew into a relationship and i fell hard for him. A few months after we made it official he cheated on ...
A. 19 June 2010: I want to stick up for you but you cheated on him as well so that makes you as bad as him. I think you should end it and be with someone you really want to be with and not have a relationship where there is cheating on both sides... (read in full...)
She won't return the favor!
Q. So me and my girlfriend have been going out for a little while now, i finger here and go down sometimes every time we fool around and she says she likes it, but she has only returned the favor once out of numerous times ive done it to her. I try to ...
A. 19 June 2010: so you only give to get something back. How about showing some respect and grow up stop expecting things some girls hate giving oral some others love it either deal with it or move on... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble sleeping, among other things..
Q. Heys. I been having a few problems down there. The skin between the bigger lips is rather sensitive and it itches sometimes, even inside the vagina. I scratch it when im asleep and when i do i cant stop either. Now I have my period but before t...
A. 19 June 2010: It sounds like an infection definatley go to the doctor and dont have sex as it could be an STI and you wouldnt want to pass it on... (read in full...)
Why is my teacher acting like this?
Q. Hello, Well at school i've been feeling uncomfortable. One of my teachers keeps coming into my personal space when i am sitting down. He turns around sometimes so all i can see when i go turn to look at him is his private bit (still in pants though) ...
A. 19 June 2010: I'd report him to someone especially if his actions are inappropriate. He shouldnt be acting like this as a teacher or even as a person especially since your 13. Tell another teacher about his behaviour... (read in full...)
How can I get my self esteem back?
Q. my self esteem is so low at the moment. What can i do to make myself feel better please!xxx...
A. 18 June 2010: why do you feel you have no self esteem? maybe you could write down why you feel this way and how you cn think about things positively. List things that you like about yourself and focus on those and everything that you dont like about yourself ... (read in full...)
Everyone is laughing at me because I was set upon totally unawares...
Q. Me and two girls were playing strip poker in the basement of a party and we were getting down to no clothes. The two of them lost their bras and then they decided I should lose my shorts, cause that is all I had left. So they tackled me and one sat ...
A. 18 June 2010: I'd phone the police, thats sexual assault... (read in full...)
It's been three years, how can I get him back?
Q. How do I make him miss me so much it physically hurts and he'd do anything to be with me again? So here's the deal. I'm anxious. I had panic attacks. He didn't go out as he volunteered to look after me and I had emotional break down's a couple of ...
A. 17 June 2010: I think you should try to move on from this i know how hard it can be i'm in your position right now with the panic attacks but i have a disorder which causes that, i have seizures which are caused by stressful situations and have forgotten ... (read in full...)
How can I make him forget about my past and focus on the present?
Q. my boyfriend is finding out all about my past relationships and what i've done. these things im not proud of at all and i honestly don't have a reason why i did the things i did. he always gets mad at me whenever he remembers something he was once ...
A. 17 June 2010: I feel for you i really do. I think you have to explain to him that you regret the things you've done in the past and that they really shouldnt be an issue as they are in the past and it should be whats happening now and whats in your future thats ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 17 June 2010: Then communicate more with your partner this is a problem page and yes where this seems a problem for a lot of people you have just ranted on so what is it your trying to say you gave up porn for your partner but he has now? I was not meaning to ... (read in full...)
Porn isn't entirely harmless
Q. I would like to point something out that is making me feel really sad about the state of things. Every day women come on here asking for help for a porn related issue. Basically they say I'm really upset he looks and it's worse because he lies to ...
A. 16 June 2010: You have been totally contradicting yourself. You say "I have enjoyed watching porn and masturbating to it on numerous occasions. In fact porn gets me turned on faster than just about anything else". Yet you then go on to say "The women in porn are ... (read in full...)
Should I send him a friend request?
Q. I really don't know what to do right now... I like a guy who's 2 years older than me and has graduated from the school I'm currently going to. I just recently found him on Facebook (I know, kinda creepy) and I don't know if I should send him ...
A. 16 June 2010: Hey theres no harm in adding him if he accepts thats great if not its not a big deal at least you tried. You can just say something like hey i liked your pic so i thought i'd add you add a little wink at the end lol just a little flirtyness coz guys ... (read in full...)
She wants to wait to have sex! How do I change her mind?
Q. So I have been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months now. I ask her if she wants to have sex and her reply is "I think I want to wait". How can I change her reply to a "Yes!"?...
A. 16 June 2010: Then respect her desciion or she'll leave you... (read in full...)
The married man I am having an affair with is cheating on me!
Q. im having an affair to a married man and we are now six years, the problem is he's having a fling relationship to another woman, how can i stop him on this kind of habit i feel so hurt and jealous..what will i do for him should i leave him but i ...
A. 16 June 2010: I dont really think you can judge since you're cheating with him as well, get rid of him if he's not willing to give up his wife and this other woman then he obviously doesnt care much about you... (read in full...)
How can I end all this fighting?!
Q. hey . im sitting here feeling drain used and disrespected. feel like everytime im show someone my ture self and give them my all they disrespect me or take advantage of me . i dont treat people this way so why am i attracting this type of behavior.. ...
A. 16 June 2010: Hi i am so sorry to hear that, i have always been low in self esteem so my mum gave me this book Feel the Fear and do it anyway by susan jeffers, it has helped me so much. I think whats best for you is to find who you are, to be on your own and gain ... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to trust me again, not control me!
Q. So i have a boyfriend whom i've fighting a lot with ever since we got back together. first we went out for a yr andd a half, we broke up for about 5 months and starting being together again since feb/march. i really do love him--sometimes things are ...
A. 16 June 2010: I dont think it was wise to get drunk and kiss some guy but obviously thiese things happen and they cant be helped everyone makes mistakes. It says your 16-17 so really you've got your whole life ahead of you if you dont like the way he's treating ... (read in full...)
Can this make my breasts bigger?
Q. When my boyfriend sucks my nipples does it make boobs grow bigger?...
A. 16 June 2010: The fact that your 13 is probably the biggest factor but they could still be growing but the fact you dont know the answer shows your too immature... (read in full...)
What should I tell my friend?
Q. Well my friend wants me to hook up with this guy that she wants me to date, I met him after 2 or 3 days of texting each other. Around in the middle of the second day I was getting a bad and strange feeling about him, but I really do have a bad ...
A. 16 June 2010: You should tell her that its your life and if you dont want to go out with someone then you shouldnt have to she should be focusing on her life not telling you what to do with yours... (read in full...)
What should I do about this?
Q. Hi everyone, I've been battling with this for a while now and after reading a lot of replies to similar questions here, I decided that this is the best place for me to get advice. My boyfriend and I are both young (we're both 20) and we met...
A. 16 June 2010: I think the first thing you maybe ought to do is tell him straight like you said and ask him why he is doing this. Then ask him how much he actually cares about this relationship. As lsickle said has he ever mentioned vacations before? This is ... (read in full...)
Is she ready to have sex?
Q. My name is Danny and im 16 years old. I'm very much ready for sex, beleive it or not, and I want to have sex with my girlfriend. WE hang out a lot and she talks about doing all of these freaky things but i don't know if she is really serious or not. ...
A. 15 June 2010: ask her?... (read in full...)
Why do men enjoy penetrating a girl's mouth so deeply?
Q. Hi! Does anyone know why when you are giving your boyfriend a blowjob they want you to get their penis as far in your mouth as you can? I don't quite understand it, and hopefully I'm not the only person that has run into this. Thanks ...
A. 15 June 2010: Long story short, guys love the sensation it gives them :)... (read in full...)
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