Why the need for so many lovers?
Q. My daughter is 19. She has had at least 10 sexual partners that I know of. Am I out of touch for feeling that this is excessive? We have good communication, what is going on?...
A. 14 September 2010: I have a question. If your daughter was a boy, would you even be asking this?... (read in full...)
My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!
Q. My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her ni...
A. 14 September 2010: My question is: why would you complain?... (read in full...)
I told myself I would never let a man hit me.
Q. I am a 15 year old girl and my boyfriend (also 15 years old) of 8 months hit me Friday for the very first time. He is bipolar and sometimes his mood swings are off the charts and his thought process is irrational at times. I stayed the night with ...
A. 13 September 2010: If he hit you once, he will hit you again.
Get out now. This is going to keep happening, he's going to hit you, and cry and apologize, and you'll forgive him. Rinse and Repeat.
You need to get out now. ... (read in full...)
Are these reasons enough to leave someone?
Q. Are these reaosns acceptable enough to leave somone: 1. He lives far away during term time so I can only see him during half term. 2. He has ADD and mild autism. 3. He is often not very affectionate and i have to make all the first moves. 4. He...
A. 11 September 2010: I think you should leave. You are clearly unhappy, and honestly if you don't jump on this new guy, you could be missing out on something great.
Sometimes you need to think of yourself, and chances are your boyfriend is always going to be this way... (read in full...)
Guys: How beautiful would a girl have to be for you to cheat with her?
Q. They say that a guy may not purposely go out to find someone to cheat with, but that if someone latches on to THEM, they would be willing to cheat. Guys, how beautiful would a girl have to be in order to get you to cheat on your significant other ...
A. 11 September 2010: If a guy wants to cheat, he'll cheat with whatever comes along. ... (read in full...)
Is it true that a guy won't ever turn down sex?
Q. Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. we r very happy together. i have a problem though, i have been influenced by people so much in the past that you cannot trust any man ever. an i have been told this so many times that i dont t...
A. 11 September 2010: Believe it or not, some guys actually respect their girlfriends, and will turn down sex.
I know, I was shocked too.... (read in full...)
Compatible star signs?
Q. My question is to Sag women in relationships with Aries men. Accoding to the experts, Aries is supposed to be our most compatible sign. I've heard Aries men are short tempered, have child-like tantrums and have anger management problems. I've read ...
A. 9 September 2010: I think you should forget about astrology, and figure things out for yourself.
My aries' Man dad almost divorced my mom because astrology said so. ... (read in full...)
How do I get over feeling duped?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 10 years. When we first started living together she expressed her dislike for certain things in bed. She said she didn't care for sex toys, porn, and oral sex, among other things. We have a healthy sex life, ...
A. 8 September 2010: You feel duped? Maybe she changed the rules because she doesn't like those things?
Do you want to be like her ex husband and have her hate you too?
She doesn't like those things, he probably forced her. Why do you think she hates him?
Ma... (read in full...)
My ex husband sent me a picture of his penis! is he feeling regret for divorcing me?
Q. after my divorce i wrote a question here under this title"Husband divorced me when he discovered they did a female circumcision to me as a child". and now after 2 months of my divorce he sent me his penis picture!!!!! he said that he likes to se...
A. 7 September 2010: Sounds like he's just being a pervert.... (read in full...)
What did he mean by saying I'm not pregnant yet?
Q. Okay. So I have a crush on my friends brother, who is one year older than me. I was at their house yesterday and and said Guess What? My friend said: Uh.. You're pregnant? I said: No. Her brother said: not YET anyways" Whats that supposed to mean!...
A. 7 September 2010: Either it's a joke, or he called you a slut. ... (read in full...)
Help, my man cheated on me.. with a man!
Q. Heres my story. I started dating my best friend of several years just about a year ago. Everything was going fine untill a few months ago when he started agruing with me over everything. He is always canceling plans and ditching me to go do drugs ...
A. 7 September 2010: Uh. Your boyfriend cheated on you and all you care about is getting a free pass to sleep with someone else?
I think you might want to rethink this relationship. ... (read in full...)
Should I give in to a 3some to make my boyfriend happy?
Q. I have a boyfriend I been with for almost 3 years now. We are very happy together we have the occasional fight mostly because I am very jealous. I don't want to share him with any one else. He says he doesn't want to be with anyone else. He ...
A. 7 September 2010: Don't do it. You don't want to do it. If he can't respect that, then he doesn't even deserve to be with you.
Ask him how he'd feel if you two did it with another GUY.
It's just a fantasy, theres so much more to a relationship than inviting so... (read in full...)
Should they proceed or postpone the wedding?
Q. A family member is planning to be maried in 2 months. The couple have been living together for almost 2 years - and have been engaged for about 10 months. The bride recently discovered by accident several large loans which the groom has amassed ...
A. 6 September 2010: Postpone for sure, god knows what else he isn't telling her. ... (read in full...)
He's so nice but I don't feel attracted to him
Q. Last night i broke up with my boyfriend of eight months. he was like my best friend as well and we got on very well. but in the last few weeks i kept feeling like the spark was gone and that we just acted like friends when we seen each other like ...
A. 4 September 2010: You're young, don't waste your time on guys who you're unsure about. ... (read in full...)
He's gone off to Sweden to get this out of his system...
Q. So the guy I have been dating for a few months has gone off to sweden to meet someone he snogged before we met. he states that it is to get it out is system and we have discussed openly that he is clearly going away for whatever it maybe sex, space ...
A. 4 September 2010: Well honestly I wouldn't want to date a guy who just runs off to have sex with other girls. ... (read in full...)
He asked to see someone's boobs, but everyone is telling me it's what boys do!
Q. me and my bf have been together for 3 years. we were at his sister wedding reception and I found out he asked another girl to see her boobs. I kown this girl shes married with kids and not at all interested in him. He and his sister have know her ...
A. 30 August 2010: Sure that's what guys do.
The kind of guys you don't want to be with, though. ... (read in full...)
What did he mean by "kind of" married?
Q. I work at a hospital. There is a doctor there that has caught my attention. He is so handsome that i dont care what he does- - i just want him. Today, i was cleaning the sleeping area for doctors when he came out the room and started adjusting his ...
A. 30 August 2010: What I think it means? He's married, he has no intention of leaving his wife, but he wouldn't mind taking a roll in the hay with you.
It sounds like he just wants to keep it ambiguous, so you might think he's free.
Risky territory, I think you ... (read in full...)
Surely its up to me if I watch porn! Isn't it?
Q. Men are visual when it comes to sex! Its a fact..so if your girlfriend will not do sertin things in bed then is it really that rong to watch porn? Insted of tryin to make her do sertin things that she don't wanna do I think she should be fine with ...
A. 29 August 2010: I'm honestly just commenting to say I absolutely agree with what Miamine says.
Sounds like your girlfriend is upset with you being utterly selfish, and you're trying to justify your selfishness. ... (read in full...)
What happened to our sex life?
Q. Look..im very upset.. My girlfriend (I think) is losing sex drive with me...when we first started dating she swallowed and like a little bit of anal. Now 4 years later she will not do any of it...and we haven't had sex in amonth...what is going on?...
A. 29 August 2010: Do you consider what she wants sexually? Do you just do the same thing old thing? She could be bored.
Maybe you could have a night, where you it's all about what she wants? Take her out for a nice dinner, tell her how beautiful and sexy she is. ... (read in full...)
Am I the reason he does this?
Q. I need someone to talk to. My 46 year old boyfriend is a pothead. This was hidden from me when we met and he knew I was against it. I moved in with him and soon he was smoking pot with his friend. It was of course for pain from an old ingury. Next ...
A. 29 August 2010: Of course it's not you. The problem is him. You're in an abusive relationship, you need to get out of it. I know it's common for women to blame themselves in these situations, "Oh maybe if I didn't do that, he wouldn't do that." But the problem ... (read in full...)
If he loves me, why does he want to change me?
Q. My boyfriend of about a year has been for the past few months, i think, trying to change me. He makes me feel so guilty about wearing too short of shorts, make up, and talking to my guy friends. Yet he can talk to his lady friends all he wants. He ...
A. 28 August 2010: Do you honestly want to be with someone who guilts you? Chances are he's going to guilt you over everything.
What if he wants to get married, and you don't? Chances are he'll guilt over that. And So on, the more serious you get, chances are the ... (read in full...)
Is a single 16 yr old who kisses 2 or 3 guys at different times considered easy?
Q. Dear Cupid.! Is a single 16 yr old who kisses 2 or 3 guys at different times considered easy? i personally think not but alot of people disagree with me so i want your opinion please. Remember she's single but she messes around with ALOT of guys. ...
A. 27 August 2010: I guess it really depends if it's a challenge or not. ... (read in full...)
Why won't the guy I like look at me?
Q. I thought he took interest in me because he would talk and look at me constantly the first couple of days but he doesn't look at me in the eyes, only when we are alone. But when we are around other girls he looks at their feet or their shirts but ...
A. 27 August 2010: This probably sounds a bit far fetched, but do you think he might have aspergers by any chance?
... (read in full...)
Why jerk off when you have me?
Q. my man and i are very sexually active, but last night when i came home i noticed that he had been jerking off. i walked into our room and he got out of bed an went to the restroom as if he did not want me to know that he was jerking off why is that?...
A. 27 August 2010: He got horny. You weren't there.
You seem to have a problem with it, have you expressed this to him? That could be why he tried to hide it. ... (read in full...)
Should I move on or give him another chance?
Q. I was getting to know this guy..he'd ring me 3times a day..we were meant to meet up but i told him i couldn't come cos i had to go to work. he sounded disappointed and said that why he doesn't trust no one cos people always let you down. i t...
A. 27 August 2010: I think you should move on. If you give him another chance, chances are the relationship will be a complete guilt trip. ... (read in full...)
I'm not even sure if I'm old enough for sex!
Q. okay, well i've been with my boyfriend about 2 months he's a year older than me and he has "urges". he wants to get sexually involved with me but both of us have no experiece and i'm not sure wether i'm old enough or even ready i don't know what to ...
A. 26 August 2010: If you're wondering if you're old enough, then chances are you aren't.
If you don't want to do it, then don't. He has urges? Then he can go masturbate.
Chances are you aren't ready, so don't rush into it, or it could turn out to be a huge mis... (read in full...)
Husband looks at younger women
Q. Hi there, I have a big problem. My husband and I have a great marriage, but this is now about 8 years that he keeps looking at younger beautiful women. If it's once, it doesn't bother me. However, what he does is he looks at one particular woman in...
A. 26 August 2010: Checking out a younger beautiful is totally normal, and natural.
Doing it consistently and trying to attract their attention in front of your wife is just being a dick.
He may be married to you, but he doesn't deserve to be married to you i... (read in full...)
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