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anonymous
writes:Are these reaosns acceptable enough to leave somone:1. He lives far away during term time so I can only see him during half term.2. He has ADD and mild autism.3. He is often not very affectionate and i have to make all the first moves.4. He is boring to talk to, as all he talks about is motercars, or things that interest him.5. He never texts me unless i text him first, and even then, without kisses, and blank.My boyfriend is all of the above, and i don't know what to do. I have liked him for a year but i have recently met someone else, that lives closer to me, and that i quite like. I don't want to dump my boyfriend and regret it, so looking at the factors mentioned above, are they reasonable enough to leave him?Please could somebody help? I really would appricaite it, because this other new guy i met knows i like him, and he likes me too.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (11 September 2010):
 I think you should leave. You are clearly unhappy, and honestly if you don't jump on this new guy, you could be missing out on something great.
Sometimes you need to think of yourself, and chances are your boyfriend is always going to be this way. So go get someone who makes you happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): It sounds like you know in your heart what you want. You just want some support.... Someone to say "just do it".
You don't say one good thing about him.
Yes leave him if you are unhappy and have found someone else. What's the point in dragging out the inevitable and hurting both him and yourself more in the long run.
Just do it..... And be happy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): you cant leave your bf for that , i mean try first to work it out
talk to him about that and try to make him understand that the whole world aint jst about him
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