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30-35,
*pendy
writes:I was getting to know this guy..he'd ring me 3times a day..we were meant to meet up but i told him i couldn't come cos i had to go to work.he sounded disappointed and said that why he doesn't trust no one cos people always let you down. i tried to explain but he kept saying he doesn't Trust people i said ok well, i dont need that in my life. i said bye and hung up the phone.he texted me next day saying i dont even care about him to ring him and go see him.he keeps ringing and texting but ive been ignoring him.. should I forget this guy??he's 23 am 20thnx..xx
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 This guy has got some trust issues he needs to work out first before he jumps on the dating bandwagon again. You did the right thing I would've told him to buzz off as well, seeing as he can't comprehend you have to go to work. Instead, goes on ranting about trust then the next day expecting you to come and visit after how he acted the next day. If he would've texted you a apology then sure but he didn't. Age is just a number, but I think he's a little bit too immature for you and needs to settle his own issues.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (27 August 2010):
 I think you should move on. If you give him another chance, chances are the relationship will be a complete guilt trip.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (27 August 2010):
 Move on. He makes it sound like you are already his girlfriend when you are still strangers. His clingyness completely turned you off. He still had that negative energy from the past relationship carrying on to this one. He's calling not because he likes you. In the past he felt unworthy of love when people betrayed him. He's going to overcome the feeling of inadequacy by trying to make this work with you. You are not responsible for whatever happened in his past. He wants you to make things right for him again. Tell him you don't have broad shoulders and you don't want to be that person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): It sounds like he could be a pretty clingy guy. If you have to work and he cant understand that, then maybe you should move on. You dont want to be in a relationship where he doesnt trust you. Especicially if hes texting you and phoning you all the time, its more the reason to move on because he might be possesive. If he texts you saying that you dont care, then saying to go meet him, why would he even want to meet up with you if he thought that? I think you should move on, it sounds like it could be a waste of time to you. I wish you the best of luck.:]
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