I've received an offer to work in the porn industry. What are the advantages and disadvantages?
Q. i worked as a shot girl in a club. i basically wear a g string, a micro skirt and a crop top. for those who dont know a shot girl goes around dressed like i described handing out shots. anyway, i got chatting to a guy one work night. i finished earl...
A. 16 July 2011: I'm glad that you feel like you made the right choice, and that things are going good for you, it's always nice to hear positive experiences about an industry full of horror stories. ... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 1 June 2011: I think you are just worrying too much about your daughter.
Teen girls joke like that, seriously. me and my cousin used to joke like that all the time.
The "it wasn't reality...yet. MUAAA-HAHAHAHAHA!!" part just means that the friend knows she... (read in full...)
The guy I like is flirting with my friend!
Q. Hi I usually don't do things like this but I truly just want someone's help. You see I REALLY like this guy in my school. He's one of my bestfriends and I am positive I don't want to let this go, I want to somehow be with him. The problem is for a ...
A. 31 May 2011: Does this guy have any idea that you like him?
Have you asked him out? If you haven't, then just do it! If you don't then you will have really missed your chance. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend punched me in testicles, so I punched her in the hip. Now for some reason, she won't talk to me. What do I do?
Q. I need your help. I'm 15 and my girlfriend's 14. We're in the same year and basically the other day we were in my house after school just chilling, we were having one of our fun little arguments but then we started toy fighting and I floored her and ...
A. 28 May 2011: It's your fault. It was an accident on her part, you had no right to hit her.
As strontiumdog said. Your relationship is over, things will never be the same. Once one of my boyfriends got angry and THREATENED to hurt me, and THAT ruined everythi... (read in full...)
Heart spamming on facebook makes me sick. Normal, or am I jealous?
Q. This is a mixed question, but I will try to explain what I mean best as possible. This is about how people choose to use facebook and the reactions people have to it. Im especially thinking about the couples who declare their undying love for...
A. 27 May 2011: Any idea while you're hostile? Because it's ANNOYING. Oh dear god, know how you feel. I hate it so much. ... (read in full...)
Could my wife be falling for her attorney?
Q. My wife hired a new attorney in December based on a recommendation from a friend to help her setup a company. The first time she met him she came home and told me how young he looked (even though he's not too much younger than she is) and that he ...
A. 26 May 2011: Yeah she has a mega crush on this guy. And she's pretty terrible at covering it up.
Honestly, you should mention the google searches, and mention that she's meeting with him lately. Just ask her if she has a crush. ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to have my g/f want anal?
Q. My girlfriend since one year ago has had very many sexual partners and she is only 19 years old. (i am 20) People always say that it is a good thing because she is very sexual if she has been sleeping around, but she isnt. She only did it because ...
A. 26 May 2011: Is there anything that would make you want to take a big dildo up the butt?... (read in full...)
I want to talk to my mom and bdsm but when I tried she said she'd send me to a therapist!
Q. I am a masochist and I learned that I like bdsm. I mentioned the subject to my mom and asked what she thought and she told me that if I liked that stuff she'd send me to a doctor to get checked out. I dot think there's anything wrong with me. But I ...
A. 23 May 2011: You seriously need to learn boundaries. The fact that you get off on BDSM is something your parents don't want to know. Seriously.
How would you like it if your mom started telling you how she liked it when your dad whips her. ... (read in full...)
What would you do if you found out that your bf/ husband is into transexuality...
Q. Okay I need help/advice.. My mind has been going crazy trying to figure out what to do. Okay here is my story. Today, I used my husband's laptop to check my email and it just happens that his email account was open and out of curiosity i open...
A. 23 May 2011: Uh. You got priorities messed up bad here. the problem is not that he's into transexuals, the problem is he was basically intending on cheating on you. ... (read in full...)
What do you think about open relationships?
Q. Hello there, I would just like to ask people what they think of open relationships.. Do they really ever work? Interested to hear about experiences and or opinions of any type of open relationship. Are there certain conditions under which they wor...
A. 22 May 2011: Well in my opinion, the majority of people can't get them to work successfully. But the people who DO manage to get open relationships to work successfully for both partners, tend to have the strongest relationships.... (read in full...)
Does body odor matter when you feel chemistry for someone?...
Q. This might sound weird but... do you guys think the smell is part of feeling chemistry with someone? LOL ok, well a guy doesn't have to necessarily smell "bad", but isn't true that when you feel chemistry with someone, their body smell drives you ...
A. 20 May 2011: Yes absolutely. The smell of someone is probably one of the most important factors in attraction. If you don't like the way they smell, like, even if they don't smell bad or whatever, chances are that's a sign from nature telling you you aren't ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for guys to have crushes on other women even in a dedicated long-term relationship?
Q. So I've had a pretty rough past two weeks here. My boyfriend of two years (lived with for a bit over a year) just broke up with me after a big incident. We'd decided we decided to move in too soon, and we figured a break would be ideal. We still ...
A. 19 May 2011: Yeah it's normal for guys. As long as he doesn't act on it it's fine. Some Guys aren't made to be monogamous. ... (read in full...)
Female orgasm from performing fellatio?
Q. Do some women experience orgasms while (or from) performing fellatio ? She stops (hesitates) several times while performing fellatio and seems to need to get her breath.... almost like choking but different. She twitches and gets her breath then con...
A. 19 May 2011: Yeah, that's pretty much impossible. ... (read in full...)
My girl friend gave me a picture of her in her bra but I think its illegal because were minors
Q. i cant stress the fact that i didn't ask her to do this more. just randomly one day my girl friend send me via e-mail a picture of her from the waist up but no shirt and just a bra, i deleted it a day later because when i first got it i wasn't ...
A. 18 May 2011: Yes, technically it's illegal. But if you deleted it, and no one knows, it doesn't really matter. ... (read in full...)
About these teacher/student sex scandals...do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments?
Q. About these teacher/student sex scandals - do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments? do you think male teachers have it worse than female teachers? do male students get lucky? do female students get abused?...
A. 18 May 2011: Yep. Theres a total double standard. If a Male teacher sleeps with a female student, he's a sick freak pedophile. If a Female Teacher sleeps with a male student, He scored with a teacher! WOOHOO. ... (read in full...)
What are women's views on foreplay?
Q. OK well. It is really a fun thing befor the real thing. And I know guys get pleasure out of foreplay. They like that kind of secret between him and his girlfriend no one else. It keeps him alot interested. What bothers me is how do women feel ...
A. 6 May 2011: Women LOVE foreplay. Foreplay is usually the best part for them.
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My boyfriend seems to be a creep -- is this all there is?
Q. My bf of 2 years seems to be a creep. I was looking for a movie to watch on my laptop and stumbled into Google documents for the first time ever. I saw everything that my bf looked up on the laptop for the last 5 years +. I saw all kinds of ...
A. 4 May 2011: UH. This is not OKAY. He stole your daughter's underwear? THAT'S NOT NORMAL.
That's a massive sign. You need to get out now. for the sake of your daughter. How do you think she feels having Mom's creepy boyfriend sneaking peaks at her.
LEAV... (read in full...)
If a guy has sex with a girl, does that mean he loves her?
Q. If a guy has sex with a girl does that usually means he loves her? Also If he didn't love her how can guys have sex with a girl without having deep feelings for them? Thank you just curious....
A. 4 May 2011: No. Guys don't need to have feelings for girls at all to have sex with them. They just want to get their rocks off. ... (read in full...)
Do these few seconds he had inside her count as him losing his virginity?
Q. Right I don't know if this question belongs on the site but it's too hard to find out on google ... Basically I don't know wether my boyfriend is still classed as a virgin or not he said once when he was on holiday he met this girl and they kinda ...
A. 4 May 2011: Technically, yes. ... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?
Q. My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...
A. 30 April 2011: Well you mention your wife isn't that into sex, and i'm just wondering if theres a reason why. ... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?
Q. My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...
A. 30 April 2011: I have a question for you? What does your wife get out of sex? Does she always get an orgasm?... (read in full...)
Why am I only good enough to be the "other woman"?
Q. Why am i only ever good enough to be 'The other woman'? A and B are two guys i have met at different stages of my life who have both turned me into the same person - when i am around them the strong confident woman i generally am disappears, and ...
A. 30 April 2011: Why are you only good enough to be the other woman? Because you let yourself be.
It takes two to tango, you could have just said no. You knew they were in relationships. They will NEVER leave their girlfriends for you. They have a loving girlfrie... (read in full...)
Dating a guy out of my league.
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and things between us are great. We get along, we make eachother laugh, the sex is great and we are happy together. So whats the problem, right? The problem is- He's extremely attractive. I on...
A. 28 April 2011: Too insecure. Look, we all know guys are visual, and a bit shallow.
Most likely, he thinks you're really hot, or he wouldn't be with you.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has been unemployed for 3 years and its getting to me!
Q. hi everyone so heres the thing my bf of 3 years is unemployed hes been like this for 3 years since weve been going out . is it wrong that its getting to me now as i have to pay for things and he constantly beg money from me for ciggerets and when...
A. 28 April 2011: Uh. He steals from your purse, and is a complete mooch. I don't think you should give him until the end of the year, you'll only be disappointed.
Get rid of him!... (read in full...)
Could he be the right person for me, even though the attraction is lacking?
Q. Thank you so much to everyone that helps me with this problem... This has been bothering me for some time now. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. The majority of our relationship is so great. We live together, and we...
A. 28 April 2011: I'm not a guy. But if you want a future with someone who wants you, I think you might be better off finding someone else. It's not unreasonable to want your boyfriend to want you. You're sexually aggressive? You don't wear underwear? Do you h... (read in full...)
Why would he have this type of porn on his computer?
Q. I found heaps of Asian porn on my husbands computer. Now I am worried he prefers them to me and I am getting very upset about it. Everytime we go out I am worried he is perving at them and preferring them to me. We fight about it all the time. I am ...
A. 27 April 2011: It means. He thinks Asian women are really hot.
I used to have a boyfriend who looked at Asian girl porn, because well. He looooved asian girls. He thought they were sexy as hell.
He also thought I, was sexy as hell. So don't worry about it. ... (read in full...)
Discovered a girl I liked is a sociopath. What do I do now?
Q. I know today people throw around these terms too much like narcissist, sociopath, borderline, et cetera, but....I have come to believe strongly that a girl I have liked for a very long time is likely a sociopath. I have known her a while. She's v...
A. 26 April 2011: I suggest you cut her out of your life. She's toxic. And No good can come of it.
You're right, she will always see you as an object, and will have no feelings whatsoever for you. She has no feelings whatsoever for anybody... (read in full...)
I've received an offer to work in the porn industry. What are the advantages and disadvantages?
Q. i worked as a shot girl in a club. i basically wear a g string, a micro skirt and a crop top. for those who dont know a shot girl goes around dressed like i described handing out shots. anyway, i got chatting to a guy one work night. i finished earl...
A. 25 April 2011: Well the advantages are, good pay, sex. The disadvantages would be getting recognized. Eventually you'll get older and lose your looks, and chances are nobody is going to want to hire an ex porn star for something professional. Plain sex is only ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with incest?
Q. This is an unusual question, but I'm curious to see what your answers will be. I was watching the HBO show Game of Thrones the other day, in which it is hinted at that one of the characters is having sex with his sister. On IMDB, this brought up ...
A. 24 April 2011: I believe that nature takes care of it's self. If Incest was alright, I think more people would be attracted to their siblings.
But people aren't usually attracted to siblings, siblings have children together usually causes birth defects. Nature w... (read in full...)
What is the mind of a woman like?
Q. if a woman suggests sexual activity to most any man, he's willing, probably eager, and more than likely thrilled. If most any man suggests the same to a woman, she'll say no, probably be offended, and very likely will decide that he's a shallow ...
A. 21 April 2011: Well one, Sex does feel good, but most men don't know how to please a girl. In one night stands, hell in a lot of relationships, we barely get an orgasm. We also risk getting pregnant, attatched.
It's more likely for a woman to get HIV from a man,... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend suggesting all these sex improvement operations for me?
Q. Been with boyfriend for 10 years, have always been there for him in every way. I take care of myself financially, stay fit, work out four days a week, dress sexy, do what I can to keep things exciting. The other night he brought up me having a ...
A. 21 April 2011: No. It's not normal, in fact I think you should be running. Life is too short to waste on guys who don't appreciate your body.
Tell him he needs to take his suggestions and stuff it, and if he doesn't love what you got, then you'll find someone ... (read in full...)
My parents think I am fat, should I just lose weight to shut them up?
Q. Hello everyone. I hope anyone out there can help me. Ok so i am 20 years old and am at University therefore i no longer live with my parents. I go to the gym almost every single day and work out, and swim, though in the last week i have slacked o...
A. 19 April 2011: Honestly, I know this seems harsh, but I think you should just stop visiting them.
Tell them how bad it is hurting you, and for your mental well being you can't visit anymore. Maybe that will make them think.
125 at 5'4 sounds just fine. You do... (read in full...)
Ladies can you tell me why you hate porn or why you think other women hate it?
Q. Why do women hate porn so much? I agree that when it becomes an addiction, their is a problem. However why, when a guy watches porn only occasionally, and has sex at least once every 2 days? I mean, it's not an addiction but only to spend time. ...
A. 16 April 2011: It makes her feel ugly and not good enough. You can say that she's beautiful, and good enough all you want, but if you're watching porn, TO HER, that gives her the message she isn't good enough. It may not be a big thing to you, but it's ripping... (read in full...)
16, pregnant, BF wants me to go in for an abortion...
Q. Im 16 and im pregnant i told my boyfriend about it and he told me to go for an abortion but i dont want to because just thinking about it maker me sad but i want him to be happy but yet i dont want to disapoint my parents plz help me what should i ...
A. 16 April 2011: Don't get an abortion if YOU don't want to. It's YOUR body, so it's YOUR choice. ... (read in full...)
My husband has a sex addiction and I'm considering leaving him...Advice?
Q. I have been with my husband for going on 13 years now and we have three kids ....But he has had a problem with what I think is a sex-addiction. He has had problems calling sex chat lines , signing for up for single sites and so on, but now I have ...
A. 16 April 2011: Honestly, I suggest you leave. I'd leave. See, he could get help, and stop all this. But, I'm going to bet you're still going to be disgusted by it. You'll see something that reminds you of it, and you'll just be disgusted that he did somethin... (read in full...)
My sister just walked in on me wanking & I think I'm going to die of embarrassment!!!
Q. Well no easy way to ask this so i'm just gonna blurt it out. My sister just walked in on me wanking and i think i'm going to die from embrassment. This is so much worse than i could imagine. What do i do? Do i say anything to her? Or do i treat it ...
A. 16 April 2011: Act like it doesn't bother you. Theres literally no fun in it if it doesn't bother you. If her friends tease you about it, just say, "Know you know what YOUR brother does when you're out of the house."... (read in full...)
Why would he suddenly stop wanting sex?
Q. Why would a man , stop wanting sex suddenly with his wife? Is this true, when he says,he has no idea? What are the causes to this,and how common is that? I know man, who cant think of anything else,but sex Why is this happening? I feel humil...
A. 16 April 2011: Has he started any medications? That can do it.
Any possibility of like a porn addiction?
I don't want to play Devil's advocate, but you say it's out of nowhere. Does he work 'late', is suspicious with the phone, started caring more abou... (read in full...)
How's my diet schedule?
Q. I would just like your guy's opinion on my diet and schedule an tell me if im doin anything wrong or what i can do better or things like that.I wanna lose weight basically(Im not fat just not at a healthy weight for my height :/ 150 and maybe like ...
A. 14 April 2011: A peanut butter sandwich for breakfast is not exactly the best idea. I'd try something like fruits, a healthy cereal, ect. I'm going to suggest you have a cheat day, a day where you can have a little something that's not exactly healthy for you.... (read in full...)
BF fears I will go back to my crush. I dream about my crush a lot. Is BF on to something?
Q. hey people, i'm in a relationship with my boyfriend who i love very very very much and i've been with him for ten months. the problem is he is really paranoid that i'll end up fancying the guy i used to have a crush on (because he's quite good ...
A. 14 April 2011: Does your boyfriend talk about this a lot? Like a lot? That could explain the dreams, because it'd constantly be on your mind. ... (read in full...)
Do girls like crossdressers?
Q. This question is for the girls. How do you feel about a guy who likes to crossdress. Would you date a crossdresser? Would you be involved helping him achieve a feminine lifestyle and look?...
A. 13 April 2011: Well personally, I have no problem with cross dressers. But I couldn't date one, it's a deal breaker for me. ... (read in full...)
At what age is a woman no longer attractive?
Q. When does a woman lose her "hotness"? What age is considered no longer attractive? I would love to hear all opinions from women, men, all ages. Thanks!...
A. 13 April 2011: To a guy? physically? Usually after they have kids, get old and start losing their figure. So I guess about 35-40.
At least that's what my dad says. :/... (read in full...)
I told fiance I was going to miss being with her while away and she started to cry. What did I do wrong?
Q. I am a 28 year old guy. My fiance is 24. We are separated for a few days as I had to go on a work related trip (in my hotel room now) and she could not come with me because of her own responsibilities. When we were in bed the other night, I told ...
A. 12 April 2011: Judging from what you said, I think she saw it as you saying that you're going to miss the sex, not her.... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't let me cum on her face. Isn't that something almost all girls do?
Q. My wife won't let me cum on her face, ever! As far as I know, almost all girls let their guys cum on their faces, and enjoy it too! but not mine. This really sucks, I feel really unwanted, how do I make her do it?...
A. 7 April 2011: News flash. Women don't do that unless they're payed a lot of money. ... (read in full...)
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