Do all men secretly prefer big breasted women?
Q. I've read many articles which say many studies have been done which prove that men prefer larger breasts, even on an unconscious level, because most men consciously say that size doesn't matter. But science has proved otherwise. However, most men ...
A. 16 December 2010: After reading your recent post, I don't think the problem is with you having small boobs or cellulite, the problem is he's just a jerk. ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they have the real thing right in front of them.
Q. My boyfriend looks at porn all the time when he is not with me. I know because he has google chrome and it shows the most visited web pages when you go to open a new tab. It's sickening. I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they ...
A. 12 December 2010: Various reasons, they just want a quick way yo get off, they want variety.
Guys don't NEED to look at porn, they WANT to. ... (read in full...)
How do you handle when your partner, who promises you the world and to never leave, breaks their promise?
Q. How do you handle when your boyfriend/girlfriend who promises you the world and to never leave, breaks their promise? Its hard for me to accept that someone who loves you would walk out on you like that. How do you cope? Moving on or staying and ...
A. 11 December 2010: perhaps if you told us why he walked out, it'd be easier for us to understand. ... (read in full...)
I'm always talking about trust and now I've gone and kissed another girl. What do I do?
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years with my girl. Things have been really rocky over the last few months and we've talked about knocking it on the head at least once but then worked it out somehow. I'm totaly confused, do I love her and ...
A. 10 December 2010: You leave her, because she can't trust you. ... (read in full...)
Am I ready for this baby?
Q. im pregnate and dont know if im ready for this baby.my boyfriend wants the baby but im not sure if i do. we have known each other for two years but we have only gone out for 2 months.i think we are to young for this baby.i have only told my best ...
A. 9 December 2010: The fact that you're posting this means you're not.
If you don't want the baby DON'T HAVE IT. It's your choice, and your choice alone.
If you want to have an abortion, that's alright. And it's perfectly understandable. ... (read in full...)
I feel like any girl is prettier than me!
Q. well!!! ive been dating my bf for about two years and when we first started dating he seemed to always be talking to girls and i found out because i checked his texts. Ok so theres this one girl he seemed to like a lot because they talked a lot ...
A. 9 December 2010: You should be asking, How can you forget about him?
Seriously, why are you still with him? Why are you with a guy who makes you feel ugly?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has an alcohol problem and broke my nose.
Q. Hi I am 20 years old liveing with my boyfriend who is 35. Everthing was just fine until he started drinking realy bad! I have left him becasu of him hitting me on two different occasions but I took him back! About a week ago he broke my nose. ...
A. 9 December 2010: He broke your NOSE? Oh my god. Who CARES if he changes. You need to cut him lose, right now. ... (read in full...)
Is this a move that alot of women put on men?
Q. So we just started to date, we're entering our 4th month now and at first we agreed to have a casual relationship, but now she is starting to fall for me (so she says) and is asking me to become exclusive with her.. I'm noticing that she's been very ...
A. 7 December 2010: Sounds like she got hurt bad with him. And she really likes you, and doesn't want to make the same mistake with you.
She just wants a relationship with you, and she wants you want to be in a relationship with her too. ... (read in full...)
I can't compete with his ex fiance!
Q. hey everyone :) Iv been with my boyfriend for 8months. Before i met him, he lived in america at uni for 5 years. he was with his ex for 4 years and they were engaged.he met me and split up with his ex for me, but i felt terrible about it!but h...
A. 6 December 2010: You say he left her for you?
He left HER for YOU.
Of course you can't compete with his ex fiance. YOU WON. ... (read in full...)
I am being ignored by my boyfriend! Am I too clingy?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a month on wednesday. We met about a month and a half before we actually got together, and our personalities just clicked right away. It's a long distance relationship at the moment with plans to move closer to each ...
A. 6 December 2010: Well, this reminds me of a situation I was in. Online and all.
Hopefully I can help you out so you don't make the mistake I did.
My guy, he did the video games for a week without talking. And I hated it. It's awful when you want to talk to ... (read in full...)
How effective is the pull out method?
Q. How effective is the pull out method? We have sex without contreception and we have been using this method for over a year now. And I still have not got pregnant. But how much of a chance could there be that I could get pregnant?...
A. 5 December 2010: Is there any chance you one of you could have fertility problems? I've heard if you go that long using the pullout method without pregnancy, theres a chance that one of you could be infertile. ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to strike a balance with his gaming?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for two years now; got engaged a year ago. We're getting married in March (St. Patty's Day theme) and he's obsessed with video games. Now, of course I understand that guys and girls alike have an immense interest...
A. 5 December 2010: Have you tried straight out talking to him about it? ... (read in full...)
Do all men secretly prefer big breasted women?
Q. I've read many articles which say many studies have been done which prove that men prefer larger breasts, even on an unconscious level, because most men consciously say that size doesn't matter. But science has proved otherwise. However, most men ...
A. 4 December 2010: Here's something you need to know.
Not all men are the same.
SOME men like porn stars and strippers. SOME men like big breasts. SOME men like Fake breasts.
Do you know most men? Have you met MOST men? Honestly that sounds really impossible... (read in full...)
Is this a case of good girls finish last?
Q. My boyfriend (and all my exs) have gone on and on about how wonderful my personality is, or how easy it is to just kick back and relax with me and how wonderful I am as a girlfriend. My current one said I made him feel like a king- thats how ...
A. 4 December 2010: Heres a suggestion. Maybe say that your friend's boyfriend got her something great, and sigh saying how no guy has ever done that for you.
He might get the hint. ... (read in full...)
Is this a case of good girls finish last?
Q. My boyfriend (and all my exs) have gone on and on about how wonderful my personality is, or how easy it is to just kick back and relax with me and how wonderful I am as a girlfriend. My current one said I made him feel like a king- thats how ...
A. 4 December 2010: Well. I'm going to take a good guess that he was crazy for his ex, and bought her stuff to try and win her affections. ... (read in full...)
Revealing too much at the swimming pool
Q. There is this girl at the gym who wears a bathing suit that is way too revealing! It only covers half of her breasts and only a quarter of her ass. It is almost seethru, and she always has T.H.O.'s. She makes a point to walk slowly around the pool ...
A. 3 December 2010: Just ignore it.
And if she's not the prettiest thing, for god sakes don't humiliate her. ... (read in full...)
Sexual fantasies about my cousin...
Q. For the past few years, I have had sexual fantasies of my sexy cousin. I have wanted to do anything and everything to her. I don't care if she is blood, she is so sexy. I want to have sex with her, and i am not sure as to how i should tell her. ...
A. 2 December 2010: Okay look. Dirtball is absolutely right.
Just keep that to yourself, the last thing she wants to know is that you think of her that way. SHE will think it's GROSS.... (read in full...)
Do I really not have adult rights at 18?
Q. Do I really not have adult rights at eighteen? I went to the ER and they told me they needed my mom's signature. Then my mother told me she made an appointment at the gynecologist because I have irregular periods and told me the doctor will need to ...
A. 2 December 2010: Well I can't answer the other questions since I have no idea where you're from.
You should be seeing a gynecologist since you're 18.... (read in full...)
Our star signs match. Is it destiny?
Q. So, my friend recently introduced me to starsigns. I am a Cancer, and the description for a male Cancerian matches me perfectly. My love is a pisces. Its description matches her perfectly too. Coincidentally, Cancer's number one love match is ...
A. 27 November 2010: Of course it matches you 'perfectly' Have you thought that maybe that's just what you want to think about yourself?... (read in full...)
I jokingly asked a girl to be my g/f, she accepted and I already have a girlfriend!
Q. Well uhm, I am having a bit of a problem, and I dont know how to fix this, so Im hoping I can find people who can help me with this problem. I have a girlfriend, and I have been with her for a year, we have had our fun and everything.. but...
A. 27 November 2010: You correct the misunderstanding and tell her it was a joke. ... (read in full...)
Short affair, and only oral sex
Q. Back in Sept. My husband had a month and a half affair. I didnt find out till the friday before Thanksgiving. The woman's husband called me to let me know what has happened. I told the guy there was no way. Thats not him. We have been together for ...
A. 27 November 2010: Don't stay together just for the kid. Do you want your son to think that doing this is okay? Because that's what you're teaching him.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!
Q. Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a...
A. 26 November 2010: Every woman wants to be desired sexually. Every woman deserves to be with someone who desires them.
Leave. ... (read in full...)
B/f wants a room he can fill with pictures of naked women!
Q. Girls (or boys can answer too i guess to give your side) How do you feel about the fact your bf/fiance/husband has or wants a room to be his (like a games room) and have it filled with pictures of naked women??? I was just talkin to my bf and...
A. 26 November 2010: TALK TO HIM. Tell him you'd be uncomfortable, if he really cares about you, he'll understand.... (read in full...)
How can I stop this silly infatuation with a guy who likes to touch me?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, I'm at the end of my tether and need some help please! I know you'll say you must be mad, and I do know I must but I just can't help myself. I have had a guy at work chasing me for ages, I know he likes looking at the att...
A. 25 November 2010: He may be doing all the chasing, but you're clearly indulging him.
Tell him to stop. Plain and simple. ... (read in full...)
He wont take his medication and it is ruining our relationship! Should I leave him for good?
Q. My boyfriend has bipolar disorder which makes him have over the top up and down moods. He refuses to take the tablets he should be taking. He loses his temper over the slightest thing. We get into huge arguments in which he throws stuff and blames ...
A. 25 November 2010: Have tried talking to him about it? Tell him that if he doesn't, you'll leave, because you can't take it anymore. ... (read in full...)
How long do men stay horny?
Q. I'm 17 and i'm currently dating someone. when we're together, he tells me that he's horny and the next day, the feelings stay the same. How long do boys stay horny?...
A. 25 November 2010: Forever. ... (read in full...)
Do all men watch porn and hide it?
Q. me and my boyfriend have a very good sex life and have sex at very least once a day. but he always watches porn and then hides it, this really upsets me, am i being silly, do all men do this? ...
A. 25 November 2010: Not all men do it. I know several who don't, and several who are planning to give it up when they get a girlfriend. ... (read in full...)
He wont take his medication and it is ruining our relationship! Should I leave him for good?
Q. My boyfriend has bipolar disorder which makes him have over the top up and down moods. He refuses to take the tablets he should be taking. He loses his temper over the slightest thing. We get into huge arguments in which he throws stuff and blames ...
A. 25 November 2010: Yes you should. If he doesn't take his meds he's NOT GOING TO CHANGE.
This disorder doesn't disappear. You won't be able to help him, he'll be stuck like this forever, and possibly get even worse. ... (read in full...)
Help..how do get over my insecure feelings about all her guy pals?
Q. I need help dealing with being so insecure. My girlfriend has a lot of male friends. Were both in highschool so she sees them everyday at school and talks to them ect (we both go to the same school to). When we walk in the halls together guys are ...
A. 25 November 2010: See. Chances are, they're all friend zoned. They're not men to her, they're just friends. Sleeping with them is the last thing on her mind, and chances are she can't even bare the thought, because they just aren't sexual beings to her. ... (read in full...)
Old man perverts and clueless teenage girls...
Q. Hey I'm a 17 year old boy from Australia and I have a problem. It's pretty strange I guess I see teenage girls walking down the street in mini skirts and their bodies hanging out which is their choice I guess but thats not the problem. I see...
A. 25 November 2010: No girl should have to put up with disgusting old men. There is no justification for it.
Want my honest opinion? CALL THEM OUT ON IT. Seriously, if you walk past a creeper doing that, make a comment, embarrass him.
Someone needs to actuall... (read in full...)
I don't like my body
Q. I feel so much hate, it's tedious and has me so unhappy. And it's for something so stupid! I have really small boobs and some cellulite. My ex, who's the only guy I've had sex with, the only one who's seen me naked, commented on both things without ...
A. 25 November 2010: You have to realize that your boyfriend is kind of a jerk. Your boobs shouldn't have been "just okay" they should been THE GODDAMN BEST. Obviously he took for granted that YOUR boobs are the ones he has access to. I think he took that privilege for ... (read in full...)
We substituted lotion for lube during anal sex!
Q. Me and my boyfriend wanted to try anal for once and we had no lube and i heard if you didn't use lube you can rip and get infections and just nasty things come from not using lube,but we had none on hand so we used lotion is this harmful? the lotion ...
A. 24 November 2010: You shouldn't even be having sex if you thought this was a good idea. ... (read in full...)
Could this be considered cheating?
Q. Hello everyone I've got a question what actually is cheating? My gf said I cheated on her because I talked to a female friend quite often and I was involved with my friends making a profile for a webcam porn site and because of that she thinks I'm a ...
A. 24 November 2010: Technically not cheating.
Still sleazy and dump worthy though. ... (read in full...)
My best friend of 15 years is an escort!
Q. i met her 15yrs ago and we have had most difficult friendship ever. I'm not kidding,we met through her brother and from that first day have been friends, she was a single mother raising her son and i was so impressed by the way she cared for him she ...
A. 23 November 2010: If you go through with this, in the end she'll just view you as another John, and chances are a complete sleaze. She'll have no reason to respect you, afterall, you are just another guy using her for sex.
Congrats.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't let me finish in her mouth!
Q. My girlfriend won't let me finish in her mouth. She is grossed out by semen. How do I get her to open up to the idea. She also does not want to experiment with taking it up the butt even though she did it with someone else previously. Is it disre...
A. 20 November 2010: Yes it's disrespectful. Think for a second, would YOU want semen in your mouth? Would YOU want to take it up the butt?
Chances are the answer is no. So why should she?... (read in full...)
I think there is something wrong with my labia!
Q. Hey all xx well i was just wondering...my inner vaginal lips are disproportionate, one is much larger than the other. just wondering if anyone else has this problem and does it affect sex? Thanks xx...
A. 17 November 2010: Hey,
Don't worry, I have the exact same thing, and it doesn't affect sex at all. ... (read in full...)
Not sure where to start on de-virginizing her?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating steadily for over 5 months now. She's already told me she wants to lose her virginity to me, but I'm not sure how to start... I want to make her first time as amazing as possible, but I've heard that a girl's f...
A. 16 November 2010: My first time at most BARELY hurt.
You need two things, lube, and foreplay. The guy I lost it to spent a lot of time fingering me, which I believe helped, and two, I was really well lubricated.
You also need to make her relax, if she te... (read in full...)
Wanting a happy ending!
Q. I don't want to be a lesbian. i want to have a life with a MAN that i love and have normal children! I read about being bisexual, but it still scares me! I am probably bisexual, but can I just be with a guy if im bi? I'm in my lower teens!...
A. 16 November 2010: Being bisexual means that you're attracted to both girls and boys.
You can still be with someone of one gender, and be perfectly happy. Think of it this way, if you were married to a man, chances are you'll also be attracted to other men, are you ... (read in full...)
I agreed that my boyfriend can have a stripper at his birthday party, now I regret my decision!
Q. Should I allow this? My boyfriend turns 18 in 2 weeks' time, and he's having a party at a local pub. all sounds great, all his friends and family will be there. HOWEVER, there's one small hitch, I'v just got an e-mail from one of his friends ...
A. 15 November 2010: Call it off. You sound incredibly uncomfortable with it, and chances are things will get worse.
I would hate the idea of my boyfriend having a stripper at his birthday party.
If the thought of it disgusts you, imagine SEEING it. You'll be di... (read in full...)
Am I going to get a huge bill from this porn site?
Q. So let me explain a few things I was really horny one day and I decided to buy on of those pre-paid credit cards for 50bucks and get a membership to one of those porno site and I filled out everything and got the membership for one month and spen...
A. 6 November 2010: You do know you can get porn online for free, right?... (read in full...)
Why do people have sex outside of marriage?
Q. Hi, I'm15, and I'm so sick of hearing about people my age losing their virginity!!! I mean, what happened to losing it on your wedding night?? I just want to know why people have decided that it's soooo important to have sex in a relationship? I ...
A. 4 November 2010: Well at 15,
a lot of the time people do it because they want to feel wanted, the girls want to the boy to love them, and they think sex is the way to get it.
And why sex is important in a relationship? well in a more mature relationship... (read in full...)
Is 4-5" enough?
Q. Im 14 and my penis is about 4/5 inches will that please a girl?...
A. 3 November 2010: You're 14 years old. Your penis will grow, you shouldn't be worrying about pleasing girls. ... (read in full...)
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