Is 4-5" enough?
Q. Im 14 and my penis is about 4/5 inches will that please a girl?...
A. 3 November 2010: You're 14 years old. Your penis will grow, you shouldn't be worrying about pleasing girls. ... (read in full...)
Can a girl have sex during her period?
Q. Can a boy and a girl have sex when the girl is in her periods time ...
A. 2 November 2010: Yes. ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy "popped your cherry?"
Q. What does it mean when a guy has 'popped your cherry'??...
A. 29 October 2010: It means you lost your virginity. ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend I like her boyfriend?
Q. Ok, so heres the deal. I'm pretty sure I am falling for one of my speech and debate team mates. I am a jr. in high school hes a senior. My car is broken down so after practices hes giving me a ride home (twice a week). There is only one problem, he ...
A. 29 October 2010: You sound incredibly full of yourself.
Seriously. You're assuming he's trying to impress you, and by 'accidentally' stealing him, you basically assume that if you try anything he's just going to fall into your hands. ... (read in full...)
Can I make a woman happy with a small penis?
Q. hello people, I am not a native speaker of English. If I make mistakes, pls forgive me. if you do not have this problem, I don't think you can fully understand what it feels like to have a small penis. My character has unfortunatelly b...
A. 28 October 2010: Yes, absolutely.
Sex is much different for women, it's not all about penetration. Honestly, women get the most pleasure out of the use of your hands and mouth.
If you learn how to use your hands and tongue, Women aren't really going to care ab... (read in full...)
Am I masturbating correctly? Please help!
Q. Hi, I've never used this site before but I just wanted to know if I'm masturbating correctly. I am a virgin and when I masturbate I usually just play with my clit which gives me a really good feeling which I assume is an orgasm. The thing is when ...
A. 24 October 2010: Yeah, you're perfectly fine.
If you wait a bit, the soreness will go away, and you can continue.
Chances are you're having trouble with your fingers because of the angle. If you think about it, it's a really awkward angle to finger yourself.... (read in full...)
Two guys want to go out with me, which to choose?
Q. I'm really confused. I've just been asked out by two people. One of them I've been crushing on for a while and now i've even started dreaming about him! The other one is really nice and I've actually started to sort of fancy him. The thing is the ...
A. 22 October 2010: Go with who ever is cutest.
You're young, serious relationships come later. ... (read in full...)
Music to play during sex
Q. Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...
A. 22 October 2010: I love you, i'll kill you by Enigma... (read in full...)
How do I prove I didn't have sex when I woke up naked next to her?
Q. How do I prove I didn't have sex with this girl when I woke up naked next to her. I can't remember anything from the night before or the morning. the only thing I do remember is mid afternoon....
A. 22 October 2010: Jmtmj says it all. ... (read in full...)
Difficult situation with someone 4 years younger than me...
Q. Right well here is the story i need help on and i hope pepole can help me: There me who is 16 and this boy which is 12 so 4 years younger than me. we met and the second day we went out because we really really like each other and i didnt feel rig...
A. 22 October 2010: He's 12, he's just becoming a teen, and you're nearing adult hood.
I suggest you don't date. He won't even be as near as mature as you.
Do you really want to be with someone who still has a lot of years to fully mature? ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship, I do....and it's killing me.
Q. I met this guy about 11 months ago. At first I blew him off alot but finally gave in and went out with him. From that moment, we had an instant connection. I found out a week later he was in a long-distance relationship but I didn't let me that ...
A. 22 October 2010: Walk away. I've dealt with a guy like this. He sounds like he has commitment issues.
Guys like these just move onto the next girl.
I know you miss him, and I know you're lonely. But it's just going to hurt more when you keep going back.
... (read in full...)
Do women like to catch a glimpse of a man's penis or balls?
Q. Do women like it when men wear shortish kind of shorts and maybe you catch a glimpse of what he is packing here or there (san undies, of course). I love it when I happen to catch a glimpse up a woman's skirt, or into her shorts, or down her top to ...
A. 21 October 2010: Dear god, for the sake of society, don't. ... (read in full...)
I realized that he was watching porn as I was cooking his dinner. Why does he hurt me this way?
Q. im with my bf 9 months now and when i got with him things werent so good as i just split up from an x things got really good and i changed everything for him how i dressed my friends and feel like a totally new person. he has accused me of looking ...
A. 16 October 2010: He clearly doesn't respect you. He's putting images and pictures above your feelings.
Does he disrespect you in other ways? I think you may want to think about this before you plan a life with him.
Ask him how he'd feel if you looked at hot gu... (read in full...)
Who do I lose my virginity to? Someone I love...or not?
Q. Would it be better to lose your virginity to someone your totally madly in love with? Or someone you dont care too much for?? I want to lose it to someone im in love with but i dont wanna feel a huge freakin piece missing from me if/when we break...
A. 14 October 2010: You should lose your virginity to someone you love, and who loves you back.
You're sharing your body with someone else, you need to be able to trust them.
Don't lose your virginity to someone you don't care for. Lose it to someone you trus... (read in full...)
How to be considered as a potential boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I am a 20 year old guy and I was wondering what is the best way to get a girls attention so that she actually conciders you as a potential bf....
A. 14 October 2010: Pay attention to her, be confident, and most of all, flirt with her.
Make her feel special. ... (read in full...)
My wife used to dominate me but won’t really do it anymore?
Q. We’ve been together for 6 years and have four children with two from her first marriage. We've had a very stressful few years when I went self employed but see a light at the end of the tunnel these days. The problem is I go crazy without some ...
A. 12 October 2010: Well. this post is all about YOU. You don't mention what you do for her.
What do you do what should make her want to do this for you? Sounds like you've just been paying attention to your own fantasies, and ignoring her. Maybe you should ask her ... (read in full...)
Why is it so easy for girls and so hard for guys?
Q. Me and my GF have been on a break since july 22, but on Monday oct 4th it finally became official. She went from going to the movies with a dude we'll call him "Douche" to now being in a relationship with this guy whom we'll call "Jackass". Why is ...
A. 11 October 2010: You sound bitter. and Girls are repulsed by that. chances are she was too. ... (read in full...)
Damn boys!
Q. damn boys! i love this guy. he doest love me back but he flirts, now he saying we should have sex. what should i do? im in love with him and i realy want to. ...
A. 10 October 2010: I lost my virginity when I was 15. To a guy who I loved, but didn't love me back.
I regret it so much. ... (read in full...)
Oral sex question for the ladies... workin' on technique!
Q. So, I have a short goatee... not 5 o clock shadow just a tad bit longer that can create a nice maybe sandpaper feel lol.... do ladies like this if im goin' down on one? Like if I rub my trimmed beard against their clitorus? I'm workin on technique ...
A. 7 October 2010: Well, in my experience, I hate having anything directly rubbed against my clit, so that would definitely be a bad idea. ... (read in full...)
Is forgiving the guy countless times for the same mistake a good thing?
Q. In a long term relationship that has lasted for almost 5 years, is forgiving the guy countless times for the same mistake a good thing? The girl in this relationship has went through many break ups but patched back with him thinking he might change ...
A. 6 October 2010: She'll only get hurt again, and again, and again. ... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to dress up sexy for a halloween party...
Q. My husband wants me to dress up very sexy for a Halloween party this year. He wants me to be a german beer girl. He has the costume all picked out, even down to the lace panties he wants me to wear. The costume is very provocative: it shows a lot ...
A. 5 October 2010: You may think you are no spring chicken, but your husband thinks you are hot as hell. ... (read in full...)
Guys, would older experienced man still try to pursue a teenaged girl??
Q. if your an older guy who likes a severely younger girl (bout 6 yrs) and you have a lot of sexual experience but she has none so she shyes away from stuff would you still try to get with her? ...
A. 3 October 2010: Sure, if he's a creep. ... (read in full...)
Are all men as obsessed as my husband is over genital size, mine and his??
Q. My husband has been messing with my head for eight years telling me I'm big down there and him is small. However he's 5.5 to 6 inches, and today at the gyno I finally had the courage to ask and she said, I'm not big, just average, down there width ...
A. 1 October 2010: Honestly, your husband sounds a bit messed up. He sounds incredibly insecure, and bordering on emotionally abusive. Is he like this in other aspects of your life?... (read in full...)
2 Guys lead to 2 different futures. Which do I choose?
Q. I'm in a little bit of trouble here. Y'see, I am dating a guy that I LOVE so much, and he loves me back. There are a few complications with him though, he's amazing and all, but I'm 2 years older than him, and he's got alot of issues that he NEEDS ...
A. 30 September 2010: Take a look at your post, it says it for it's self, you'd be miserable married to both.
On one hand you're married to someone who doesn't care about your feelings, and that will make you miserable.
On the other you're with a guy who doesn't ... (read in full...)
Would a womanizer/player ever change if he met the right girl?
Q. There's this guy in my class whose a notorious player. He's systematically made out with like every girl I know, and has no reservations about being completely physical with a girl he just met. He's cute, charming, and has a killer sense of humor, ...
A. 27 September 2010: Honestly, it's probably because you're a challenge. Men love challenges.
And you have to keep in mind, he could change if he met the right girl. Doesn't mean it's going to be you though. ... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with him if I don't want to have sex?
Q. Should I continue to sleep with my boyfriend if he has asked for sex which I don't want to give?...
A. 27 September 2010: No. You should only be having sex if you want to do it. ... (read in full...)
What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking?
Q. Hi all. I'm an ugly bloke (I think so anyway) and I have never had a girlfriend before, and I want an honest answer on this question...What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking? Most guys who are not good-looking gro...
A. 27 September 2010: Well, we girls usually go for personality.
So honestly, your personality is more repulsive than your looks.
If you just sit around thinking "oh, i'm ugly, I'll never get laid. Women don't want me because I can't give them what they want."
T... (read in full...)
Any advice for an average ugly plain jane?
Q. I'm not beautiful or thin, I'm just an average ugly plain jane, compares to the society. I finding it very hard to land a good guy. I really want to get married, I guess I'm pushing it, after all, I'm 33. I went out with the last guy, who lied and ...
A. 26 September 2010: My advice would be to change your mindset. If you think you're ugly, it's going to show.... (read in full...)
I'll never be the "wild ride" she had with others!
Q. I just can't get over my girlfriends past. It's not that I have an issue with the fact she's had sexual partners before me, or even that she had great sex with them. It's the fact that those relationships were almost purely sexual, and the sex was ...
A. 25 September 2010: Us women are different from men.
The fact that you love her, and she loves you, greatly outweighs the fact that she's had better sex with other men.
If this really worries you that much, you need to change your mindset from "I'm not the bes... (read in full...)
Why do men treat tall girls with disfavor?
Q. I am a tall girl, but I'm not fat. I'm 5ft8 and 130 lbs. I'm 28, my husband is 38. My husband says I should lose weight and that my vagina is too big. But I'm not overweight, but I've definitely lost muscle and added fat since we've met. So I ...
A. 25 September 2010: You've only been with one guy, correct? And he happens to be a massive jerk, so that's going to screw your perception.
Honestly, you need to ditch this guy and find a guy who will appreciate you, and trust me, there are guys who will.
Chances... (read in full...)
Do guys like hairy vaginas or not?
Q. I am 16 in a few months but ive never had sex before. Im not sure if my vagina is normal or really hairy, but i think its too hairy. Is it weird if i shaved it? What do guys prefer, hairy, a little bit hairy or no hair at all?...
A. 25 September 2010: From what i've seen is nowadays guys prefer shaved.
Honestly though, do what you want. If you want to shave it, go for it. If you don't, then don't. ... (read in full...)
I've loved her for years, been there to console her, but she wants to stay "just friends"
Q. Ok so here's the story. I've know this girls since we were in high school. I'm 25 now and she's 23. I've always thought she was cute and we've flirted back and forth for years. We never ended up hooking up because she was always dating one of my ...
A. 25 September 2010: I'm sorry, that must be awful for you.
The problem is all you are is really a friend to her, chances are she appreciates you, and she loves talking to you, and you being there means a lot to her. But she doesn't really have that attracti... (read in full...)
What does the expression "you can't have your cake and eat too" mean?
Q. what does the expression "you can't have your cake and eat too" mean? My boyfriend said this too me and I was very confused as to what that expression means So please enlighten me!...
A. 25 September 2010: It means you can't have the best of both worlds. If you eat your cake, you no longer have it.
So basically he's telling you you can't have it both ways. ... (read in full...)
Do men talk serious subjects with girls who are just their friends?
Q. Do men talk about "serious" topics like marriage, kids and future to women who are not their girlfriends and just "friends"? When a man starts talking about marriage and kids does it mean he really is interested in you as a long term prospect? ...
A. 23 September 2010: Depends on the man, and how close the friendship is.... (read in full...)
Men with low sex drive..do you think about sex less often?
Q. To men with low sex drive: do you think about sex less than usual? do you masterbate to keep from having sex with your partner because you are not in the mood?...
A. 23 September 2010: That question kind of answers itself. If they're not in the mood, they probably wouldn't be masturbating to begin with.... (read in full...)
Is it all women, or just my wife that have boring sexual fantasies?
Q. So, my wife really gets off on hearing about my sexual fantasies. She often asks me to tell her, " what were you thinking about last time you masturbated.". Then I will tell her, WHATEVER it was, be it having sex with our next door neighbor, the ...
A. 21 September 2010: Different women think about different things. It's her fantasies, just let her be.... (read in full...)
I have small breasts--should I get surgery?
Q. I have small breasts, and I feel very insecure. Should I get surgery? Men have teased me about it, even an ex said big breasts were better. Even hear on DC I've read guys post that guys do tend to prefer big breasts (even though they don't hate ...
A. 20 September 2010: You know why you shouldn't get surgery?
Because you're insecure.
If you get implants, you'll be happy until you find something else that you think is wrong with you, and then you'll try and 'fix' that, and once again you'll be happy, until... (read in full...)
Can a straight man turn gay and then turn straight again? I think were in love!
Q. Hello. I do not know who to turn to about this and am hoping someone out there can give me some advice. My best friend is a gay man. We are very close. We spend a lot of time together and we both truly love each other and have said so numerous ...
A. 17 September 2010: People don't 'turn' straight or gay, if he's straight, he's straight, if he's gay, he's gay, you can't change it.
He may want to be straight again, but if he's gay, all he'll have is denial. ... (read in full...)
I had sex on the first day of my period, could I be pregnant?
Q. Okay. I had sex on the first day of my period. Me and my fiance had sex like 3 or 4 times that day. And he didn't pull out or wear a condom at all. Is there a possibility that I am pregnant? Like for sure for sure? Cause I'm 17 about to be 18 and ...
A. 16 September 2010: Yes you can.
Did it happen? Probably not. ... (read in full...)
My husband promised not to watch porn, but ...
Q. Hi Everyone.Im glad i found this site.Im really depressed and angry that my husband watches porn every chance he gets behind my back.we have been maried for 6 years.we used to atch porn together but suddenly he told me he does not feel comfortable ...
A. 16 September 2010: He had his fingers crossed? Are you married to a man or a child?
You need to have a serious discussion with him, tell why it hurts you, and ask him how he'd feel if you did the same thing? Would he like it if you were looking at porn of guys all... (read in full...)
Why the need for so many lovers?
Q. My daughter is 19. She has had at least 10 sexual partners that I know of. Am I out of touch for feeling that this is excessive? We have good communication, what is going on?...
A. 14 September 2010: I have a question. If your daughter was a boy, would you even be asking this?... (read in full...)
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