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reader, laurie-loo  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 unfortunatley i dont think you can, but i suppose if he loves you and wants to be with you he should soon come to terms with it. dont let him tell you what to do and i think he will pretty much get the picture. xxx
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reader, jomana  +, writes (29 May 2007):
jomana is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks
we spoke about it and now we know that soon enough we will be breaking up because we both disagree about this issue but right now we are trying to find a compromise and my problem is now that how can i make him see that this isn't right ... any advice ?
thanks again
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reader, laurie-loo +, writes (29 May 2007):
no way, this person obviously doesnt have any respect for you. you shouldent let anyone controll you nor let them be the dominant partner in the relationship. i always frown upon the question "who wears the pants?" because nobody should be wearing any pants in a relationship (i know that sounded rude but excuse that please lol) the key to a succesful relationship is by both having a say and understanding and fulfiling the other partners needs. you are being treated unfairly and if you dont try and change the person you are with now and make him see how unfair he is being towards you i think things will get worse and worse. dont let him take over you because the more you let him, the more possesive he will become. good luck xxx
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (29 May 2007):
Dear Should He have more rights in a relationship then me? All relationship in or out of bed if they are to be healthy Ones must be based up-on what is called Mutual, Agreeable Abuse. Where each of you put the needs of each other before your own, However us men are slow learners in romancing a Lady, But please tell him how you feel. he cannot change if he doesn't know
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reader, candy00s +, writes (29 May 2007):
 Maybe back in the olden days!
No you should both have equal rights.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 No, it's not fair. Never let yourself be controlled by someone else. Especially in a relationship, that shows little respect for you. You deserve much more and to be treated equally.
Repectfully yours,
xxIndia
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reader, DV1 +, writes (28 May 2007):
 No, it's not fair.
DV1
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 No. In my opinion it isn't fair. A relationship should be based on equality and treating eachother as equals.
A relationship where one person is dominant may cause one person in the equation to feel unloved and unfairly treated.
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