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I'm so nervous about asking him out, any tips?

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Question - (28 May 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello.

I am 16 years old and I am female. I was hoping somebody here could offer me some advice.

I have known a male friend for over 6 years now, and I want to ask him out. He asked me out when we were 13, but I didn't feel ready for a relationship. Now I think I do.

We are very close friends, but the fact that we go to different Colleges and don't see each other more than once a week complicates things.

I love him but how can I ask him? My female friends who know about how I feel are encouraging me to ask him, but I'm nervous. Any help is greatly appreciated.

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A female reader, Pretty and proud United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2007):

Pretty and proud agony auntBabes u will never know if you dont ask! Good luck!!! xXx

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2007):

candy00s agony auntYou already know that he likes you - he has asked you out before.

Give him a call and ask him if he would like to go out somewhere with you.

Just tell him that when he asked you out before you were a lot younger and just didnt feel ready.

xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007):

hi hun i know how you feel i have been ehre infact i think everyone has we all wanna ask out boys but hey lifes too short just go do it!! his reaction might please you. it could be a yes. think about it the worst you could possibally get is no and whats that at the end of the day??

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A female reader, laurie-loo United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2007):

laurie-loo agony aunti deffinetly think you should ask the guy out. dont let the fact you dont see him very much complicate things, if you start seeing him then things will work out and you will be able to spend alot more time together. tell him how you feel and as hes asked you out before i bet he will be really pleased. i know how nerve wracking it is to ask a boy out, but boys love girls with confidence, so if its you asking him he will be doubly pleased. good luck !!

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (28 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntGuys are really easy to approach in conversation. Pull him aside, and tell him everything.

DV1

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