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I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex girlfriend! What can I do?

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Question - (28 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2007)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Just to recap on my earlier questions:

I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do?

He still wants to be friends...should I or shouldn't I?

From these questions i have received many helpful answers for different agony aunts which i appreciated and am starting to practice but the bad news is that:

everytime i think i will be okay and have left this man that hurt me alone i see something that gets me back where i started.Since we are neighbours(my ex and me) i can pretty much se everything that happens at his home and this weekend i saw the new pregnant lady go ther and leave everyday.Silly enough i know its over when i see that but i keep thinking it could have been me since we did love eachother and he just left me because he says he wants the baby to grow up woith tow parents, but it really hurts me when i see this and i keep asking why.i get jealous and just cry everyday. I blame myslf and think that it must have been something i did to drive him away. Please help me understand this situation i have found myself in? how can i stop hurting and move on and understand his decision instead of still thinking he should be with me? What can i do, please what can i do....help me please..i am going crazy with this situation.

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A female reader, candy00s United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2007):

candy00s agony auntYou deserve better, try to move on and find happiness with someone who deserves you.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (28 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntIf he left you, he doesn't respect you. Move on with your life.

DV1

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