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... Send *amille a private message | | | *amille's profile:I'm 36, live in the U.K and have experienced severe highs and lows. I went to see many counsellors and it took many years to find one that worked for me and helped me move on. I then began studying person-centred counselling for 2 years but had to put my Diploma studies on hold due to other committments (work etc). I miss the whole process. The truth is, many people think counselling is giving answers but that's not what it is. I do have an opinion and so here I can give it whereas in Counselling you shouldn't. I always liked the idea of helping people work through their problems / issues & to encourage them to question themselves. I prefer agony aunt answering as you can challenge people's processes outright and give help, advice and opinions. People can choose to listen or ignore it, but at least they have an outlet and i think that's a good thing. I feel I have been through allsorts of situations that may help other people through their troubled times.
I hope to give good advice without judging anyone.
I am happy in my relationship but that's due to making many mistakes in the past and finally learning from them! |
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I gave him an ultimatum: The dogs, or me. He chose the dogs...
Q. my husband has chose to keep his two dogs over our relationship did i do the right thing in making him choose as the dogs ruined my home and took over our bed or do you think i am unreasonable...
A. 31 May 2006: Forgive me for asking if this is a real question? I have seen a programme with people who have done the same but find it hard to understand people who'd choose their dog! Anyway......did you try and reach a compromise before the ultimatum? The thing ... (read in full...)
Lose weight or my boyfriend?
Q. I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...
A. 31 May 2006: Size 10 (UK or US)is small. Jelly Belly = woman are meant to have a curvy belly. You are normal. In fact well below the averaged size woman. Having said that, just so you know i totally empathize, I have put on 2 and a half stone in 4 years. ... (read in full...)
I thought she was a lesbian, shes says she isnt, I really fancy her and want it to be more than friends..
Q. I really like this girl that i know, unfortunately we are both girls. I heard these rumours that she was a lesbian and got my hopes up that she might wanna b with me, but then she said she wasn't. Recently she's been makin jokes, sayin that i was a ...
A. 31 May 2006: This is confusing. You're not a lesbian and thought she was, but now she isn't you're upset, yet you aren't a lesbian either?! See? Why does she keep calling you a lesbian if you aren't one? I don't quite understand. It's not possible to tell ... (read in full...)
We've been together 12 years, he left and came back and promised me the world, now he doesnt even hold me what should I do ?
Q. my partner and i have been together 12 years, with one child.the year before last he left me on my birthday, and returned in april 2005,promising me the worldetc etc.since then he has tried to move the goal posts. i always wanted to marry him, he ...
A. 31 May 2006: I feel for you I really do. You say he "can't" cuddle / make love to you, not "won't", so that is something I will have a guess at. Has he never been a very physically demonstrative person? Not touchy feely? And now not making love is making things ... (read in full...)
My ex of 3 years ago still loves me and wants me back, I dont know what to do as I dont want to let my current BF down!
Q. I need some advice.... I was in a relationship for nearly 5 years, from the age of 16. My ex decided to break up as he believed he didn't see a future for us. Although this was over 3 years ago it still left me in bits. Looking back we were only ...
A. 31 May 2006: There's alot of issues here but the first thing is YOU. How do you feel? During your time with your present partner, have you missed the past? Reminisced? Thought of your ex often? In waht way? What was so great?
If you are still really in love... (read in full...)
Its my birthday on Saturday and I want to kiss my new Boyfriend, what if he doesnt want to kiss me too ?
Q. i have this boyfriend and i really like him and i want to kiss him on my birth day on saturday this saturday and i dont no if he wants to kiss me too?? im really scared plus there will be other people at my party and my parents too so how and where ...
A. 31 May 2006: Maybe don't kiss him if people are there. He may be really shy or embarassed. Kissing someone for the first time is a big step and so doing it publicly may not be appropriate. What signs are there that he may like you too? If you think he does but ... (read in full...)
I cheated by mistake with my Ex, now my man cant forgive me, please help!
Q. Hello all, I ruined my life the other day by cheating on my boyfriend of 2 years. Ive never done anything like it before. Not that this is an excuse but I didnt consciously choose to cheat. I slept at my exes and woke up to him having sex with me....
A. 31 May 2006: Firstly let me say this...whatever happens, you will be ok. It may not seem it now. You have so many emotions and feelings right now as it's raw and new. It may help to try and tackle them one by one. I'm sorry to say the last thing you should ... (read in full...)
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