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writes:i was seeing a guy. he acted like he realy liked me. everything was going real good. one day i was with him, and the next day he called and said he needed to clear his head . i havnt heard from him and i was wondering if he will call again or if i should just get over it.Note from moderator: Next time please try using punctuation Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice but I dont think he will call. Im not even sure i want him to. Thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): hey. The guy I had been dating said that, and broke up with me exactly 2 weeks ago today. Last night, he came back and said he wanted to get back together. I think most times, guys get scared if they get too close. hope this helps. keep your chin up. Also, read Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, especially the chapter about Men are like Rubberbands. It will make more sense. Hope that helps. good luck to you!
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Personally, it doesn't matter what he said to you, if he wanted to be there, he would. A guy (or gal for that matter) can say alot of things, but it's whether or not they have any actions to back it up. If he said he wanted to clear his head...he either meant, it's going to fast for him and needs some space or he wanted out. Either way, why are you waiting for him? You could be waiting for the rest of your life. If he wants to be with you, I'm sure he knows how to find you...and hopefully doesn't take forever in doing so. Good Luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think he could have better explained himself. Maybe he didnt have enough guts to do so. He didnt even have enough courage to tell me to my face! He told me over the phone. Ill keep you posted if he calls but after thinking about it all day and reading your responses I am better off without him. Thanks guys you made me feal better!! Me....
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reader, Butterflyfly  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 I think too you shouldn't linger here... Given that you didn't have a long relationship perhaps, there is no need for a definite closure.. I hope you can move on swiftly. All the best.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (19 July 2007):
 It does sound like the i need to clear my head thing was a brush off as you have not heard from him since.
I would let it go and get on with your life, there are plenty of other guy's out there that im sure would be only to happy to date you.
All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): I think it means that he's not interested or maybe he's met someone else. So I wouldn't wait for him, go out and enjoy yourself.
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