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I have nowhere to go and no money yet my partner is violent I don't know what to do!!!!
Q. hi i feel stupid doing this but need to tell someone, im living with a woman who i met about ten year ago she has 3 children ,ever since i met her she has been voilent towards me just last night she attact me with a knife and smashed a plate over my ...
A. 22 October 2006: I really feel for you right now, It's a shame really as people tend to think when we talk about Domestic Violence its always results in a woman getting beat up. We need to realise this is not always the case.
I have never been in your situatio... (read in full...)
What's the average size of an adult erect penis?
Q. What's the average size of an adult erect penis? I measured myself and I'm 6 1/4 inches long (measured from the top) and 4 1/2 inches around. Am I considered average size, bigger than average, or smaller than average?...
A. 20 October 2006: Your fine dude ;)
Average is average, your bang in the middle x... (read in full...)
I feel like I can't do anything right at the moment!!!
Q. I feel quite insecure recently i feel like i cant do anything right and i cant get what i want. For example ive failed my driving test 4 times and im due to go in for it again soon but i want it so badly and i wonder if thats why i keep failing ...
A. 12 October 2006: Think this will make you feel better....
TOOK ME 7 TIMES TO PASS!
But I never gave up, everytime it was something different and something petti! If I gave up I wouldn't have the mini I've got now as I wouldn't have a flipping license!
Don'... (read in full...)
Does a tongue stud give more pleasure whilst performing fellatio?
Q. Dear all It is a simple question but causing my girlfriend and I some heated discussion.It is the query on whether a tongue stud gives more pleasure when doing fellatio.My girlfriend don't have one and I am not particular keen on her having it be...
A. 11 October 2006: Boys like toungue piercing and Men like a proper woman.
I have plenty of men who are good friends of mine, they used to think it was pleasureable but now they have grown up its not that appealing anynmore.
I like the fact your are supportive, ... (read in full...)
How many sex partners do most wemon have?
Q. How many sex partners do most wemon have by the time they are 18. ...
A. 8 October 2006: I lost my virginity to my bf at 16, since then I have had 3 sexual experiences, 2 were bf's and 1 was a friend with beneifts...I'm 19. I don't do sleeping with random guys! I respect myself to much!... (read in full...)
Do all women shave their pubic regions?
Q. Ladys. do all women shave the pubic hair regions? i prefer to see a small amount of hair. is this normal for me?...
A. 8 October 2006: Yeah honey, course it's normal, whatever you decide for your own body is normal!
I prefer it shaven, its just something I've always done, I find it cleaner etc plus my guy loves it! But I didn't do it for him though!
I know plenty of my gir... (read in full...)
What do girls in general like to see in guys ?
Q. just wondering why do girls in general like to see in guys...
A. 27 September 2006: I don't think there is a 'general' answer to your question.
I guess everyone is different therefore are attracted to different sorts of people. I think the best thing to do is be yourself, I know for starters no one likes a fake!
Personally, I... (read in full...)
Taking birth control pills and antibiotics...should I abstain from sex to prevent a pregnancy?
Q. Hello, this is a health-type question maybe someone can help me with. I am currently three months into taking birth control pills, but I have to take antibiotics for the next 10 days. I know they can decrease the effectiveness of the pills. My ...
A. 22 September 2006: every every every - lol
Too early here!
*ever ever ever*
oops xx... (read in full...)
Taking birth control pills and antibiotics...should I abstain from sex to prevent a pregnancy?
Q. Hello, this is a health-type question maybe someone can help me with. I am currently three months into taking birth control pills, but I have to take antibiotics for the next 10 days. I know they can decrease the effectiveness of the pills. My ...
A. 22 September 2006: Hey!
It depends which antibiotic your doctor gave you to take! There are two antibiotics, called rifampicin and rifabutin, which actually STOP the contraceptive effect of the Pill. However these are rarely used and perscribed in very certain ... (read in full...)
At what point did I lose my virginity ?
Q. I'd like peoples' opinions on this, i lost my virginity at 22, so I believe and just want confirmation of this. Myself and my girlfriend did everything sexual from this age, but not full sexual intercourse. She was very tight so my penis wouldn't ...
A. 20 September 2006: I think this is more to do with insecurity if anything, you don't seem happy with anything at the moment, why? I just don't know, I don't get how your virginity and when you lost it makes so much difference?!
You need to come to terms with you... (read in full...)
Should I be getting this much discharge ?
Q. How much discharge should a woman have? I use my liner all the time. I just wonder if it's normal to be wet all the time. If I don't wear my liner (ex. wear a thong), it gets my underwear all wet. It's getting very annoying and I'm wondering if ...
A. 19 September 2006: All women have some vaginal discharge. It happens to all of us honey!
Normal discharge tends to look clear, cloudy white, and/or yellowish when it dries on you knickers! It may also at times be thin and stringy.
Any changes in colour or amount... (read in full...)
At what point did I lose my virginity ?
Q. I'd like peoples' opinions on this, i lost my virginity at 22, so I believe and just want confirmation of this. Myself and my girlfriend did everything sexual from this age, but not full sexual intercourse. She was very tight so my penis wouldn't ...
A. 19 September 2006: Don't worry about this issue though honey, it means nothing to everyone else, at the end of the day your not a virgin anymore, thats what matters to you.
Concerntrate on worrying about other things and don't get yourself into a panic about it... (read in full...)
At what point did I lose my virginity ?
Q. I'd like peoples' opinions on this, i lost my virginity at 22, so I believe and just want confirmation of this. Myself and my girlfriend did everything sexual from this age, but not full sexual intercourse. She was very tight so my penis wouldn't ...
A. 18 September 2006: Honestly, I think there's something more to this, tell me why it would make so much difference hun? xx... (read in full...)
I want to spice up things by having a threesome! My bf thinks it's a bad idea..any advice?
Q. I want to spice things up in mine and my boyfriends sex life and we thought about having a threesome. I want to but have no idea who to choose to join us. We've agreed it must be a girl but I don't want a friend or someone I don't know at all! Help! ...
A. 17 September 2006: *boat* not bost
Typing in the dark is not a good idea! xx... (read in full...)
I want to spice up things by having a threesome! My bf thinks it's a bad idea..any advice?
Q. I want to spice things up in mine and my boyfriends sex life and we thought about having a threesome. I want to but have no idea who to choose to join us. We've agreed it must be a girl but I don't want a friend or someone I don't know at all! Help! ...
A. 17 September 2006: Bad idea hun!
Obviously your bf isn't really up for it, he seems reluctant about the idea!
Another thing I don't think having a 3 some is going to spice your love life up anymore, you going to be arranging these on a regular basias or someth... (read in full...)
Never been to all night parties! Are these sorts of parties normal and am I missing out?
Q. I've never been to an all night party (or ones that go to like 4 in the morning and beyond), yet all my friends have. Are these sorts of parties normal and am I missing out?...
A. 17 September 2006: Gotta say I'm a bit of a party girl, if I'm honest....
You got to ask yourself this first...what is a party?
Some people think its where you celebrate something, others think its a good excuse just to have a booze up.
Personally a part... (read in full...)
At what point did I lose my virginity ?
Q. I'd like peoples' opinions on this, i lost my virginity at 22, so I believe and just want confirmation of this. Myself and my girlfriend did everything sexual from this age, but not full sexual intercourse. She was very tight so my penis wouldn't ...
A. 17 September 2006: ''It was some months later''
You never said anything about years honey!
I guess that you have then if you feel you have, so what of you lose your virginity at 22, some people lose it at 16 maybe even 36. It doesn't make you a better or worse ... (read in full...)
At what point did I lose my virginity ?
Q. I'd like peoples' opinions on this, i lost my virginity at 22, so I believe and just want confirmation of this. Myself and my girlfriend did everything sexual from this age, but not full sexual intercourse. She was very tight so my penis wouldn't ...
A. 17 September 2006: I can't seem to grasp knowing you lost your virginity a few months before you had 'full on' sex.
I don't see what differnce it would make honey, I don't mean to be judgmental, but what does it matter? If you feel you had sex with her that's f... (read in full...)
Whats the best position for a girl to have an orgasm ?
Q. A question for the girls. What is the best position for a girl to have an orgasm during sex? If you want to say on top - please be specific?...
A. 17 September 2006: I think you need to experiment honey!
What I found after having sex a few times, is that I eventually found out what really did it for me. I changed positions, speed of my partner thrusting, basically I tried everything.
Compared to m... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of a Brazilian wax will my boyfriend like this???
Q. I am considering getting a brazilian wax. Is this a good idea? Will my bf like this? I would like to get some guy opinions on the subject please?...
A. 15 September 2006: It flipping hurts though, I'll give you that! But it's like doing your eyebrows...when you first do it your rubbing your head so hard that you get a carpet burn and your eyes won't stop leaking!
After a few goes, you'll get used to it! I have min... (read in full...)
My ex caused me to question if the size of my penis is good enough!
Q. Hi, well I have a wierd kind of question. i have just come out of a 3 yr realationship with a very nice girl. We still meet ocasionaly and it becomes sexual. I am 26 years old and concerned about my "manliness". I shave around my mouth and have t...
A. 12 September 2006: My boyfriend has no side burns and hardly has to shave, he loves this about himself! He's in his 30's now so I'm sure he's done all his growing, but I wouldn't let this bother you, I'm sure some ladies like stubble but personally I like a guy who is ... (read in full...)
My parents call me a "child molester" for having a girlfriend who's three years younger!
Q. I'm 18 dating a girl who just turned 16. I'm in college and shes a junior in high school. My parents would not a approve of me having anything to do with someone younger than me, there very strict. I will be 19 soon in december ( about a 3 year ...
A. 12 September 2006: Judging by the structure of your question and how you question your morals and ethical issues, I do think somewehere along the line there is some sense to you!
I do not wish to formally insult your parents but they obviously don't want to look 'ou... (read in full...)
Can tickling cause long-term damage??
Q. My boyfriend of 5 months has a huge fetish for tickling feet,i indulge him, but lately hes been doing it for longer and longer and im worried about the effect it has afterwards. Recently ive needed to pee frequently for a few hours afterwards and ...
A. 10 September 2006: Right so he tickle's your feet and you have strange effects afterwards?
''Recently ive needed to pee frequently for a few hours afterwards''
Call me naive but do you pee for hours, or need to pee frequently for a few hours?
The whole thing... (read in full...)
I am just worried!
Q. I know my boyfriend loves me as he tells me all the time and shows me in so many ways. I love him very much also. But i constantly worry over silly little things, thinking that he is going to go off me and something is going to go wrong etc. I h...
A. 10 September 2006: Join the club honey!
I am the worst worrier in the world, I worry about stupid things, seriously though, this is quite embarrassing, I had to get a new library card a couple of years ago because I lost my original but I was worrying about the fact... (read in full...)
Is the age gap to much???
Q. well, recently i made a post about a guy i liked who i met at college. i am seventeen but on my post before this i said i didnt know how old the guy was, well i just found out and he is 26, i am gutted.he has asked me out tomorrow for drink. i...
A. 8 September 2006: 19 years between me and my fella, ask yourself this...is 9 years that much compared to 19?
Just be mature about things and don't rush into anything, going out for a drink is harmless, just make sure you look out for yourself xx... (read in full...)
Brown periods. Normal???
Q. ino this isn't really the sight to ask but i don't know who else to ask and i'm geting quite worried... i started my period around the christmas just gone and i've just come on this week and it is quite brown is this normal????...
A. 4 September 2006: 'Yeag'
Oh dear - supposed to be 'yeah' xx... (read in full...)
Brown periods. Normal???
Q. ino this isn't really the sight to ask but i don't know who else to ask and i'm geting quite worried... i started my period around the christmas just gone and i've just come on this week and it is quite brown is this normal????...
A. 4 September 2006: Yeag honey, it's normal! I notice this when I am on my first few days of my period and after god knows years of having them, I still get it. You'll find after a while that it will come more often than not, so don't worry about it chuck! xx... (read in full...)
I have decided to give up drinking and people think I'm a freak!
Q. Hi I recently made a decision to give up drinking. I have drank for 10 years and to be honest never massively enjoyed it...... I loved the social aspect but it always gave me headaches and terrible next day hangovers, as well as occasional memor...
A. 4 September 2006: All I gotta say say is congrat's to you fella, you done a mighty thing by stopping! xx... (read in full...)
She gave me her phone number so what am I waiting for?
Q. I if work a with a girl gives me her number, how soon should i ring her? I'm not the most confindent person on phone, better face to face......
A. 3 September 2006: You say your not too confident on the phone... I hate that really horrible silence when you both don't know what to say to each other!
How about you give her a quick call (don't see why it shouldn't be the next day, if you like her show it by ca... (read in full...)
I'm having a great time with a girl who is 19 years younger
Q. I am 43. I have met a woman that is 24 and we never have a dull moment together. We are becoming closer by the second. It's kind of scary because of the age difference for the both of us, but we just have the greatest time together. It's like ...
A. 3 September 2006: Hey
My partner and I have an age gap of 19 years and the only problem we have ever encountered was erm, er, hmm, well nothing!
He looks young, acts young and feels young! My parents think he's great and they know he looks after me, ok were on d... (read in full...)
What nicknames do guys like to be called?
Q. What nicknames do guys like to be called? Girls get called names like babe and sexy etc. But what do guys like to be called? Thanks...
A. 1 September 2006: I call my fella baby, or nitty his nickname I gave him!
No he doesn't have a head like problem! His name is Nick so it came from Nicky....Nitty....Don't ask I guess its a personal thing!!
*Puts head in the sand*... (read in full...)
My period is early, could I be pregnant?
Q. I am 16 years old and had sex with my bf 7 days ago, a condom was the only form of contraception we used but it came off during sexual intercourse. I am scared now incase i am pregnant, i went to the doctor the next day and got the morning after ...
A. 1 September 2006: Fisrtly you need to congratulate yourself for thinking about the precautions when having sex. You used a condom and also becuase it came off you took the responsibilty of this and went to your doctor. Your level headed and should be proud of ... (read in full...)
Help! My periods are very heavy!! What can I do to help it ?
Q. I Have a major Period problem. atleast thats what i think. I'm a teen and i started my period 2 and a half years ago, and i suffer so badly when they come they last for 5 days and i spend atleast 10 minutes in the toilet each time. When im ...
A. 30 August 2006: Go talk to your doctor, there are around 100 'pills' out there and you need to speak to them to see which one is best for you.
I'm on one sort of the pill yet my friend is on another because she suffers from acne, they do the same thing but in d... (read in full...)
Whats wrong with ginger?!!
Q. Hi, I dont understand, my boy mate has ginger hair and he finds it really dificult to get girlfriends. but I dont understand it, I have been out with ginger boys, I love ginger hair :D so why wont other girls go out with ginger haired boys???...
A. 30 August 2006: Jessica Rabbit is hot! She's a red head too!
I think though the main point here is she's a cartoon and her 'assests' tend to be the focus point for her? :p... (read in full...)
Can multiple partners harm you ??
Q. i am a single 23 year old woman and i have been into swinging for some time now but i have only ever done it with one person at a time. coming up soon is a multiple partner party were there are anything from 3 times the amout of men then women t...
A. 30 August 2006: I disagree with the 'whore' comment, this site is about giving advice not discriminating people's lives. Obvioulsy there are people here who have not grown up yet...sigh
Just PLEASE, make sure you protect yourself, make sure you do whatever it ... (read in full...)
He told his mate that "I was fit"...does that mean he likes me?
Q. hi, im 15 and used to go to this badminton club and havent been in 2 years. yesterday i went there cos i wanna join the club again and there's this boy tht used to be there 2 years ago and we remember each other from then. (we aren't really friends ...
A. 30 August 2006: He thinks your HOT! (bonym put it better than me!)
I think you have a good chance of something special here honey, play the cool though, make him want more! xx... (read in full...)
Love letter, good or bad idea?
Q. There is this guy working at Starbucks who is 18 or 19 years old that I have known for five years and really like. I am interested in starting a relationship with him, so I sent him a letter. Is that a good way to get started with this?...
A. 30 August 2006: What did the letter say honey? xx
I always find that if you some a lil 'cheesy' sometimes it can put them off, best way is to tell them straight I think, honesty is the best policy!
Plus you don't want him showing other people this letter do y... (read in full...)
What's the best position for sex???
Q. Im just curious to find out which is the best sexual position....... xxx...
A. 29 August 2006: One word... EXPERIEMENT!
You'll discover some 'amazing' things!
Or you could just but the Karma Sutra or something? xx... (read in full...)
I love him but he says he will never go out with me!
Q. i love my best friend and he knows but he fools around and teases me because i love him. he says he will never go out with me because im 3 grades lower than him. please help i really love him,...
A. 29 August 2006: Put it this way honey, would you rather lose him all together or just have his as a mate?
I do agree with Mr Lewis here though, what he said to you is not very nice, considering he know's how you feel about him, I mean come on, you're willing ... (read in full...)
Is he really getting married or was he lying?
Q. A guy that I care about recently told me he was getting married it was only me and him around, he told me his wedding date but when I asked him her name or who she was he didn't tell me. Why is that? Is he really getting married or lying, should I ...
A. 29 August 2006: Curious....Do you like him? Or are you just not sure about the fact he is lying to you or not?
Personally I think he is trying to make you jealous too, This 'girl' doesn't even have a name and if your his friend, any freind would tell you right? O... (read in full...)
We had sex with no condom..but he didn't ejaculate. I am so scared of being pregnant! Advice needed.
Q. my boyfriend and i had sex for the fist time yesterday. we didnt use a condom, but he didnt cum. im still scared of being pregnant. can someone help me? what do I do....
A. 29 August 2006: Well then go get yourself the right contraception thats suits you both!
Also your boyfriend sticking by you all the way is a good thing, he seems decent, just make sure in future guys you plan ahead before doing anything, you don't want to be in... (read in full...)
We had sex with no condom..but he didn't ejaculate. I am so scared of being pregnant! Advice needed.
Q. my boyfriend and i had sex for the fist time yesterday. we didnt use a condom, but he didnt cum. im still scared of being pregnant. can someone help me? what do I do....
A. 29 August 2006: As strange as it may sound, there are chances you can still get preganant, even if he didn't come inside you.
Where I study there was some research going on about pregnacy and if a girl could fall pregnant if her partner did have intercou... (read in full...)
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