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Hey, My name is Becky (b3x) I live in Manchester in the UK! I study Midwfery at the moment at Manchester University.

Bit of advise for you people, never move to England as it always rains, go some where where its nice and warm!

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We had sex with no condom..but he didn't ejaculate. I am so scared of being pregnant! Advice needed.

Q.   my boyfriend and i had sex for the fist time yesterday. we didnt use a condom, but he didnt cum. im still scared of being pregnant. can someone help me? what do I do....

A.   29 August 2006: Well then go get yourself the right contraception thats suits you both! Also your boyfriend sticking by you all the way is a good thing, he seems decent, just make sure in future guys you plan ahead before doing anything, you don't want to be in... (read in full...)

Any Sheffielders? Say "hi"

Q.   Just curious if anyone else is from Sheffield, England? xx...

A.   29 August 2006: What!?! What's wrong with us Manc's!? xx... (read in full...)

We had sex with no condom..but he didn't ejaculate. I am so scared of being pregnant! Advice needed.

Q.   my boyfriend and i had sex for the fist time yesterday. we didnt use a condom, but he didnt cum. im still scared of being pregnant. can someone help me? what do I do....

A.   29 August 2006: As strange as it may sound, there are chances you can still get preganant, even if he didn't come inside you. Where I study there was some research going on about pregnacy and if a girl could fall pregnant if her partner did have intercou... (read in full...)

Scared of ruining our friendship

Q.   hi. my first post. right well i'm 16. there's this girl at school i fancied for 3years. i just been quiet about it. now i'm really crazy about her. i look at her and mine pics everyday which we took at school. we are good friends. she might of ...

A.   27 August 2006: Aww that sounds so sweet hun. Ok, 3 years is a long time for you to like someone! Wow, you've done good to keep it to yourself! But its getting to a point where now the only thing you need to do is tell her right? Try and talk to her just one ... (read in full...)

Caught my bf having sex with another guy! How do I forgive them?

Q.   i feel used and i dunno how 2 trust ppl again, i recently found my ex bf in bed with my ex best mate and her bf in bed with mine but its worse .then it sounds he wasnt sleepin with her at the time he was havin sex with her bf. I never knew he ...

A.   27 August 2006: Hey I found my best mate in bed with my ex (currently my bf at the time) It ruined me too, I mean come on my BEST MATE with my BF! But after I saw red and kinda blew up at the scene I finally came to my sense's, considering the fact I didn't wa... (read in full...)

Dreaming of my ex

Q.   I used to go out with this boy (a few months ago) and hes had 2 girlfriends after me which have both now ended. I think I still have feelings for him and I had a dream that we were together last night and it was so lovely, what should i do? ...

A.   27 August 2006: You say nothing about him treating you wrongly or disrespectfully, just the fact he had two girlfriends after you right? I would find this hard to accept if the I had just broken up with could move on so quickly, not with one girl but two! I g... (read in full...)

Boys tease me about having no breasts. What can I do?

Q.   im 14 and have no breast and all the boys tease me wot can i do?...

A.   27 August 2006: By the way Jadzia, some of those come back's are so funny! xx Save your breath. You'll need it to blow up your date - lol... (read in full...)

Boys tease me about having no breasts. What can I do?

Q.   im 14 and have no breast and all the boys tease me wot can i do?...

A.   27 August 2006: Hey honey! Listen, your alright don't worry! If everyone had breasts at 14 I'm afraid of what the world might turn into! I'll let you know this...I'm 19 and consider myself as very flat chested! You know why? My mother is a very slim person... (read in full...)

During lovemaking he shouted "I love you, Betty" Guess what...I'n not Betty!

Q.   My boyfriend of three years and i were making love after a few drinks recently when he shouted "Betty, i love you! Well my name is not Betty!Immediately this happened I pulled away. Betty is his ex girlfriend whom i know he is still very fond of and ...

A.   26 August 2006: This happened to me too! I just got with my new fella, things got a lil 'fruity' and he mentioned Vicky which was his ex! I was like wo wo wo, what did you just say?! At frist I got all hot headed and really wound up about the fact he called m... (read in full...)

My girl has boinked in public places with other men so why not me?

Q.   Doing it in the bed room for me is ace everytime but sometime's i want adventure i read (max power) website nearly everyday and see people do it everywhere in public places and i asked my girlfriend if she did it in any public places and she a...

A.   26 August 2006: The only reason I think people want to have sex in public places is because its a risk, it's kinky thinking any minute someone could catch you at it, I know I've done it before! Though I wouldn't say I got off on the fact I had sex in a public p... (read in full...)

How can I meet new male friends ?

Q.   How can i meet new male friends? i arnt very forward but would still like to meet some more boys. any ideas? please help x x x...

A.   26 August 2006: I take it your young so going to bars and pubs is prob not your thing just yet! I used to meet guys by going to like a local 'complex' It had bowling, cinemas snooker etc. When the girls and I used to go there were always groups of lads about. T... (read in full...)

Since we have lived together we argue, and its stressing mum out!

Q.   I feel really stuck at the moment. Im with my boyfriend who ive been living with for the last 5 months or so. We have never stopped arguing since that point and i know we need space to clear the atmosphere and have time doing things apart, bu...

A.   25 August 2006: In some situations poeple gotta show a little bit of tough love, and hun, I think this is now! You don't want the situation getting any worse plus its not fair on your mum! Try looking for jobs with him, there are loads of things on the interent... (read in full...)

Since we have lived together we argue, and its stressing mum out!

Q.   I feel really stuck at the moment. Im with my boyfriend who ive been living with for the last 5 months or so. We have never stopped arguing since that point and i know we need space to clear the atmosphere and have time doing things apart, bu...

A.   25 August 2006: For starters, you need to remember where you are staying, at your mum's house right? So you need to respect the fact its not your house. Its not fair for her to be getting stressed about the fact you and your boyfriend don't get on. You got to b... (read in full...)

Horrified to find my lovely boyfriend has been posting his willy on "bi-curious" sites!

Q.   I discovered my boyfriend of 2 years posted on adult internet sites seeking 'couples or females'. I recently clicked on the history tap on the internet and to my horror I found photos of my boyfriend advertising himself as a bi-curious male,...

A.   25 August 2006: He has broken your trust, you must be broken hearted! I know I would be, in a way I see this as being unfaithful but in anyother way I'm not sure. What I do know is he has left you gutted, maybe talk to him about this or go on a break, he may then... (read in full...)

He only sees our relationship as friends, as he says he doesnt have luck with the girls!

Q.   hi my name is lilly i meet a young man a year ago ,when we just started seeing each other ,he told me he doesn't have luck with girl and he does want to put a label on me ,so as of now i am still his friend . I loved him alot ,it hurts me mor...

A.   25 August 2006: Hey lil's I don't think you should let it go, it seems he has had a bit of a bad past with other girls, So he has a trust issue with women. What I did notice though was he said that he didn't want to label you, so there is some feeling he has f... (read in full...)

My GF dumped me, then tried to kiss me and said she wanted me back! I just don't know anymore!

Q.   Please help me, i split with my girlfriend a couple of weeks ago as she seemed to have gone off the relationship but wouldnt talk to me at all, ignoring my calls n not answering the door, i tried everything. A few days ago she tried to kiss me ...

A.   25 August 2006: I can tell your not sure about this girl, If you get with he these doubts will be with you all the time! Maybe go out for a while, date and get the feeling you both had back. Don't just rush back into a relationship, it won't do you both any good... (read in full...)

I love my married friend...

Q.   I am in love with my friend who is married but I am afraid that if I say anything I could loose him as a friend. What should I do?...

A.   25 August 2006: You need to think about the whole situation. Sit down with a coffee (mocha my personal fav) :D And take into consideration what you could actually cause if you told him. He's married right? Which kinda means he's off limits! Does he have... (read in full...)

Will my best friend say no if I ask her out?

Q.   There is this girl i really like. She is my best friend and I think i love her but I don't want to ask her out incase she says no. What should i do?...

A.   25 August 2006: I dated my best mate, infact we were together for nearly 3 years. Unfortunately though we had to break up, I guess things change plus we were both moving to university. When I look back, I can honestly say I was glad that we got together I mean... (read in full...)

I really like my mates girlfriend!

Q.   I really fancy this girl in my class. I know her and we're friends but she has a boyfriend and he's my mate. How do i tell her?...

A.   25 August 2006: Put it this way, if your really willing to lose a mate of yours over a girl....I don't think you should say anything. These things can turn a bit nasty, what if you tell her and she goes and tells your mate? What would you say to him then? Best b... (read in full...)

My BF tells all his mates about our sex life!

Q.   I just found out my boyfriend is telling all his friends about our sex life. I dont know what to do! Should i end it?...

A.   25 August 2006: If there is one thing ever in the world a couple should keep to themselves its this area. I have never told any of my mates about my sex life, call me old fashioned but I take having sex with a partner really seriously! To me its not like 'wham b... (read in full...)

Which accent do you find more annoying: Liverpool or Mancunian?

Q.   OK I know this is going to be controversial especially if someone reads this from one of the 2 cities. This is really for people who have been to Manchester and Liverpool in the UK: but what accent is more annoying, Liverpool or Mancunian? I ask be...

A.   22 August 2006: David Lewis....you poor man! Your a scouse! Oh No! I'm a pure bread Manc! My brother however finds girls from Liverpool to be sexy when they speak...No idea why! xx... (read in full...)

Do other people interlock fingers during sex?

Q.   I recently slept with a male friend of mine (we aren't going to be dating, just messing around) but I've never had sex before this and was wondering if it's normal for a guy to hold your hands during sex. He was on top, and kept interlocking his ...

A.   21 August 2006: It's sexy! xx... (read in full...)

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