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siobhankay
writes:am i normal?i dry humped my girlfriend as she sleptshe woke up and started screemin rapedid i rape her? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): she took that a little far dont ya think? that isn't rape, but I guess I cant really blame her, waking up and having that happen, she was probly just in shock, just explain to her, that it wasn't rape and give her your reasons
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): If there is no penetration (vaginal, anal or oral), then there us NO rape. Period and end of story. However, that doesn't make it right although it isn't necessarily wrong either. It really depends on your relationship. But, whether it is rape or not, the moment she says stop, you need to stop and knowing she doesn't like it means you should never do it again. And for the record, even though it may not be rape, it could easily be seen as simple battery.
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reader, Leanna +, writes (7 December 2007):
 wow she's being a bit of a drama queen isn't she? You did not rape her if you didn't penetrate her. Though if she doesn't like the dry humping then you should have stopped. Otherwise, she's being rather ridiculous.
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reader, seph  +, writes (6 December 2007):
Depends on the circumstances. Sounds a bit dodge. If she didn't like it you shouldn't do it. It definitely wasn't rape if you didn't penetrate her. Stay away from sex for a while I'd say. Your only a minor.
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reader, agony anuts rubby +, writes (6 December 2007):
 hi my name angony anuts rubby. befor i start i dont know you so iam not here to judge you.
people will say many things about this question. has its an hard question as i dont no nothing about it or what happened at the time.
many people would say yes this was rape with what you put.
your girlfriend didnt say you could do that to her.
she was scared as you say she woke screeming but did you stop when she asked .
has she done anything about it?
its only your girlfriend that can say if it was rape if she didnt want to make love (have sex) then yes you did rape her.
the best thing you can do his talk to your gp see what help you can get with talking about this worry see if they can help you because this is something you dont want to keep inside you. pleace go see your doctor.
and good luck
ruby
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