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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!
Q. my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...
A. 15 July 2011: Good for you! Keep on wearing your makeup!! It's one of the best parts of being a woman.... (read in full...)
My teacher is 2 different people around me! When we are alone he is great, but in front of others he makes me the butt of jokes!
Q. hey guys. so i'm in a really confusing situation, my teacher is 43 i think hes married because at the begining of last year he wore a wedding ring but now doesn't, and i'm well 16. and the problem is things are tense and i dont know why, and i c...
A. 3 February 2011: Regardless, the positive point here is that you have moved on from having a crush on teacher and found someone new to like. Hopefully, some one more your age. Kudos to you sweetie!... (read in full...)
We brokeup but had sex and she wants to keep having just sex
Q. So me and my gal broke up, my decision due to differences in life styles and goals. We still remained friends tho. So we went to a party last night and i got drunk and she got drunk and we ended up back at my room and had sex. Now this morning when ...
A. 15 December 2010: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/joystick-joyride-sex-position
Cosmo magazine for women is the BEST guide book when it comes to sex positions. Browse around on that link. Also if you have any book stores in your area, they have a t... (read in full...)
We brokeup but had sex and she wants to keep having just sex
Q. So me and my gal broke up, my decision due to differences in life styles and goals. We still remained friends tho. So we went to a party last night and i got drunk and she got drunk and we ended up back at my room and had sex. Now this morning when ...
A. 15 December 2010: Best advice on that is to take a trip together to your local sex shop. Don't be shy, actually shop and ask the salesperson for product recommendations. ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 7 December 2010: There's no need to twist my words, what I said was as plain as day.
Let's review: You have a recent history of doing the same thing to another girl. You somehow managed to get over her. Now, you're doing the same thing again, not moving on, fail... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 7 December 2010: Yes. And possibly, but the odds aren't in your favor. So that was a different girl but same pattern. ... (read in full...)
What does he mean when he looks at me?
Q. So i find this guy at school really attractive and i notice he is always staring at me and when i look at him he looks away quickly or looks down then when i look away he starts staring at me again until i notice him again....what does this mean? ...
A. 7 December 2010: It means he looked away, he could quite possibly be embarrassed that you caught him looking at you. There's no hidden meaning behind staring. If find him attractive, why don't you cut out the eyeballing and talk to him? ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 7 December 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-been-5-months-but-i-cant-stop.html
This is her, correct? If it's really been since June, then you do need to seek some counseling on this right away. A professional who can help you get over this girl, wh... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 7 December 2010: You CUT OFF CONTACT completely. No replying to her one text, nothing. You delete her number from your phone, change your number if you have to. Block her from Facebook, all accounts..You quit messaging her friends about the situation, in fact delete ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 6 December 2010: Because you keep on asking the same question over and over of how do you get her back or do you move on. When everyone has told you to move on, but apparently that's not the advice you want to here or what you're looking for. Go back and read what ... (read in full...)
My friend's torn between her marriage and lover!
Q. My 30 year friend just cheated on her husband. She has been with her hubby since they were 16. Married 4 years ago. They just had twin boys this June. She is a good person who made a really bad choice. A boy from her grade school, whom she ...
A. 6 December 2010: That's fine, you can lend an ear when she needs to talk about it. Again it's up to them 2 to make the marriage work. Like you said therapy is their biggest solution, the therapists have the key resources to aid this couple in figuring out their ... (read in full...)
My friend's torn between her marriage and lover!
Q. My 30 year friend just cheated on her husband. She has been with her hubby since they were 16. Married 4 years ago. They just had twin boys this June. She is a good person who made a really bad choice. A boy from her grade school, whom she ...
A. 6 December 2010: I'm sorry if I sound rude. But what business of it is yours what your friend does with her marriage? That's their problem, and they need to deal with on their own without your help. I understand you have good intentions, but it's best not to give ... (read in full...)
Are there any herbs, or tablets I can buy that help with premature ejaculation?
Q. I've suffered from premature ejaculation for years now and I finally plucked up the courage to go to the doctors about it. They prescribed me 30 Paroxetine (20mg) tables which is a form of antidepressant. I had one each day and literally after ...
A. 6 December 2010: I doubt there is any herbal tablets that are on the market that actually help with premature ejaculation. Even if there were, I would be concerned if they were FDA approved. See if you can call the doctor like Youwish said and if they can fax your ... (read in full...)
I'm not happy about my girlfriend's pregnancy, I don't want to let my dreams and goals go down the drain!
Q. I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 20. We found out a couple weeks ago that she is pregnant, and she's ecstatic, I am more reserved. When we found out our reactions were very different, she was happy, I was upset. To cut a long story short she has decided ...
A. 6 December 2010: Were you using any kind of contraceptives? Condoms, the pill, something? Maybe she lied and said she was on the pill in order to trap you. It happens.
Sadly, you really don't have a say in her actions. It's her body, her choice. Do either o... (read in full...)
He hit me! Did I deserve it?
Q. So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about a year and a half. I have a 7 month old child with him. I just moved into my own condo. He does not live with me due to his alcoholism. I was at his house visiting him and watching the football ...
A. 6 December 2010: Sounds like he has more problems than being an alcoholic, try anger issues.
In my opinion, any man that calls you a filthy word such as a "cunt" deserves a slap in the face. I understand that this is violence and a slap in the face is about eq... (read in full...)
He hit me! Did I deserve it?
Q. So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about a year and a half. I have a 7 month old child with him. I just moved into my own condo. He does not live with me due to his alcoholism. I was at his house visiting him and watching the football ...
A. 6 December 2010: Sounds like he has more problems than being an alcoholic, try anger issues.
In my opinion, any man that calls you a filthy word such as a "cunt" deserves a slap in the face. I understand that this is violence and a slap in the face is about eq... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to spend any time with me when his family is in town
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years now. We are both 21. We have our fights here and there but overall it's great. A week ago his sister came to visit, she lives in another country. He usually sees her every year or so. He ...
A. 6 December 2010: I'm sorry if I come across a little harsh, but did you read any advice given?
Your boyfriend's sister lives in another country he hardly gets to see her. He can see you anytime he wants. It's his flesh and blood, let him visit. Sorry, but you're j... (read in full...)
How much do you love me? How do you answer that?
Q. ok, so i have this boyfriend that lives in a different state so we dont get to see eachother much..but i really love him and a couple of times hes asked me how much i love him..i just get lost for words! How can i explain it?...
A. 6 December 2010:
I always tell them, "On a scale of 1-10, an 11." Or hold out your arms as wide as you can and say "This much.". ... (read in full...)
I thought we were just dating and going to see what was happening, but now he wants a break?
Q. i have been seeing a guy for 3 weeks, we have had sex and he has stayed ove my house a lot. now he says he needs a break to figure things out and that he isnt in love with me and that we werent in a relationship. but he has said and texted "luv u" a ...
A. 6 December 2010: You have your answer, nothing is going to come of this.
3 weeks into "seeing" each other and he says he needs a break. What the hell for, you're not even a couple? Plus he's still married! Let me translate this for you, he is lacking somethin... (read in full...)
I feel like this relationship is a waste of time when all he does is play Warcraft!
Q. hey. ive been with my boyfriend a while now. and just recently he has been playin Warcraft a lot.. it doesnt bother me that he plays it.. but i only see him on weekends and just recently, he been just been playing this game for like 6 hours at a ...
A. 6 December 2010: He sounds like a typical WoW head..there's something about that game that ropes people in to where they're obsessed with playing it from noon till dawn. Now if your boyfriend is only on it for 6 hours at a time, then he's not addicted to this game. ... (read in full...)
I'm really worried about my sister.....
Q. I'm really worried about my sister, shes a few years younger than me and this time last year her boyfriend of a year (who she has known all of her life) cheated on her with her best friend and she was completely devastated. Me and my family thought ...
A. 6 December 2010: Is she still going to therapy and on her depression medication? Perhaps the doctor needs to prescribe her a different anti-depressant, there's so many out there what she is on may not be working for her. She's depressed, there's not much you can ... (read in full...)
Homeless brother wants to move in but I don't want him moving in on my wife!
Q. Wtf do I do? My younger brother lost his job, is broke and has been living with a friend who kicked him out. He called me tonight crying homeless and wanting me to take him in. The thing is he's a dog from way back whenit comes to sexing every chick ...
A. 6 December 2010: True he's not your responsibility, but he is your own flesh and blood. You could put him up in a hotel, but that would only be a temporary fix, seeing as it would be costly to pay for a room every night. Why doesn't he move back home with your ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my English teacher 18 years my senior, and I can't get over it!
Q. okay, so this is quite common on this site i hink.. I've seen similar questions around.. but anyways, I'm a 16 yr old high school student, and I'm just about to finish my final year next year. there's this teacher who comes in occasionally as ...
A. 6 December 2010: You've seen similar questions but have you read this article? Read it very carefully..
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/crushes-on-teachers.html... (read in full...)
He is separated from his wife, but they are yet to proceed with a divorce. Does this count as cheating?
Q. I had sex with a guy who has been separated from his wife for a year. He has a 2 year old daughter with his wife, and that is why he claims it is "complicated" and they have not yet decided whether to move forward with the divorce. Does that count ...
A. 6 December 2010: Yes, even if he's contemplating a divorce, or in the midst of one, he is still LEGALLY MARRIED. If his wife finds out she can divorce him and take him to the cleaners for committing adultery.
It's best that you leave this married man alone, h... (read in full...)
How hard do you find it to say no?
Q. Just a quick question. How hard do you find it to say NO. This is just a general question. I have always been a yes man. And find it very very hard to say No. But just lately i have tried it and now people seem to think i am just being awkward. ...
A. 5 December 2010: Now if you say "no" to your boss then that poses a problem and your job in jeopardy. But if you're saying "no" to those who make you out to be the "go to" girl or treat you like an intern then you're just standing up for yourself. Personally, unless ... (read in full...)
We brokeup but had sex and she wants to keep having just sex
Q. So me and my gal broke up, my decision due to differences in life styles and goals. We still remained friends tho. So we went to a party last night and i got drunk and she got drunk and we ended up back at my room and had sex. Now this morning when ...
A. 5 December 2010: If you still have feelings for her, then NO don't engage in FWBs..because your feelings will end up getting hurt. However, if you can agree to no emotion and you get your kicks in the process, no one's getting hurt then I say proceed. Keep it as ... (read in full...)
After dating 2 years my boyfriend forgot how to spell my name?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. Well the other day he forgot how to spell my name. Its not even a long complicated name. It actually a common name. Does this mean that he's lost interest in me or that I'm not of ...
A. 5 December 2010: It could mean he's a bad speller. What's your name, and can it be spelled in variations? For example, how Katie can be spelled Kati, Katy, Cati, Caty, or Catie.
From his spelling error, I don't get that he's lost interest in you.... (read in full...)
How hard do you find it to say no?
Q. Just a quick question. How hard do you find it to say NO. This is just a general question. I have always been a yes man. And find it very very hard to say No. But just lately i have tried it and now people seem to think i am just being awkward. ...
A. 5 December 2010: No to what? As in "no" I'm not having sex with this man? No, I'm not interested? Be more specific.... (read in full...)
Stronger smell??? What's causing this?
Q. Me and my girlfriend had intercourse on a Sunday about a week after her period. About four days after having intercourse she said she was ovulating different and it felt weird to her. It wasnt really, she was wet but it was more gooey. And her smell ...
A. 5 December 2010: Are you trying to conceive?
When a woman ovulates, she has that gooey substance in her underwear..it's thicker and stretches, that means she's ovulating. The odor, it's hard to say. Most women have their own scent when it comes to down south. P... (read in full...)
How can I get him to strike a balance with his gaming?
Q. My fiance and I have been together for two years now; got engaged a year ago. We're getting married in March (St. Patty's Day theme) and he's obsessed with video games. Now, of course I understand that guys and girls alike have an immense interest...
A. 5 December 2010: Oh honey, if he's playing Call of Duty: Black Ops then you're not going to get him off of that. Don't even attempt it.
When it comes to marriage, which you are close to, you need to pick and choose your battles. I would consider this a minor on... (read in full...)
Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!
Q. my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...
A. 5 December 2010: I can see how wearing too much makeup will make you look ugly, maybe slagish...but I don't see how it makes you fat.
Why wait till Monday? Dump his ass now. ... (read in full...)
Could it be true love or something we need to let go?
Q. I met this guy when I was 14 he was 16 we dated for a year and broke up, but remained really good friends. 10 years later I still love him and he feel the same. The only problem is he is seperated from his wife, and I have a boyfriend. I have ...
A. 5 December 2010: If it was true love then he would still be yours.. It's something you need to let go, 10 years dwelling on it is much too long.... (read in full...)
Should he have discussed his plans with me first?
Q. Hi. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been together for 3 years.(He's a year older, so I skipped my senior year of HS, graduated a year early, just so we could go away to college together.) As far as our future goes, we've always had a reasonably ...
A. 5 December 2010: Sorry but people's plans change. What they may have wanted to do last year, he's probably changed his mind this year. Did he get rejected from his choice schools? Maybe, one of those recruiters really influenced his decision and talked him into ... (read in full...)
Do we get married in his country or mine?
Q. my boyfriend and i are planning on getting married, but i am not sure what we are supposed to do.he is from another country, although he has been here for few years now. is it easier for us to marry here or in his country? and what is required for ...
A. 5 December 2010: He's going to have to contact his embassy and find out about getting you a visa in his country if that's where you guys are going to live. Pick the country you want to live in and marry there. ... (read in full...)
Crushing on my teaching assistant, how do I let her know?
Q. I'm crushing on a graduate student...who also happens to be my TA. She's almost 4 years older than me (I'm 20), and is very beautiful in and out. She knows me by name and all and we tend to have a lot of one-on-one discussions, so we already have a ...
A. 5 December 2010: Does she happen to be from Brazil?
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My teacher is 2 different people around me! When we are alone he is great, but in front of others he makes me the butt of jokes!
Q. hey guys. so i'm in a really confusing situation, my teacher is 43 i think hes married because at the begining of last year he wore a wedding ring but now doesn't, and i'm well 16. and the problem is things are tense and i dont know why, and i c...
A. 5 December 2010: Splits the school year in half..You have the fall half from Aug-Dec, then you have the Spring half Jan-May. We call it semesters in America. ... (read in full...)
He is avoiding me and won't reply to my messages.
Q. there's a guy,A who i know him for almost a year and he has a girlfren already for 3 years plus n she is far from him..it started last year on november where i n A get so close..we r just frens but were like a couple..we do everything a couple do..i ...
A. 4 December 2010: Yeah, no. I don't understand what you're trying to say or even ask. Please try using English and not "text speak". ... (read in full...)
He is 3.5yrs younger, would it be wrong to date him?
Q. ....Well I just know this guy, and he's in 9th grade of highschool. We been really good friends for some time now. Everyone says we make a good couple, at first I didn't notice I have this crush on him till now. but..heres the problem. He's 3 1/2 ...
A. 4 December 2010: So he's 14 1/2..still too young, legally. You can't have any sexual relationship with him because he's still a minor, the legal age of consent is 16-18 varies per state. If you have sex with him (even though he's willing), you can be charged with ... (read in full...)
He has been with a lot of woman, is this typical with military men?
Q. I've been dating a Marine for nearly 10 months. He has been overseas 5 out of the 10 months. We talk on the phone nearly every day and have a good relationship, but I keep finding out things about his past. I recently found out that he has slept ...
A. 4 December 2010: My husband's magic number*... (read in full...)
Is this his way of asking me to visit?
Q. Me and this guy, we met about 7/8 months ago, became friends and then hooked up one night. . .we hung out a few times after. shortly after the first hook up about 3 weeks later he moved about 1.5 hours away. the other day he texted me to see how I ...
A. 4 December 2010: It sounds more like "If you're in my neck of the woods, call me." more or less. I would tell him you're planning a trip to his city and see if he wants to have dinner at that restaurant. ... (read in full...)
How should I react to a compliment?
Q. Hi everyone, my question is I like receiving compliments but I don't know what to do or say when I get them. I sort of go dumb is something wrong with me? Thank you for answering....
A. 4 December 2010: You smile and say "thank you". ... (read in full...)
He has been with a lot of woman, is this typical with military men?
Q. I've been dating a Marine for nearly 10 months. He has been overseas 5 out of the 10 months. We talk on the phone nearly every day and have a good relationship, but I keep finding out things about his past. I recently found out that he has slept ...
A. 4 December 2010: YES! Think about, they get deployed to the Middle East for 6-12 months, getting blown up, hot weather conditions, no female contact..what do they want to do when they get back to the states? Exactly. Also, he's a single male living on base with a ... (read in full...)
We can't seem to stop fighting...
Q. Hello there, My girlfriend (27) and I(30) cant stop fighting , we are together now over 3 years and have a 2 and half year old son. I think at the end of the day we are only together because of him. We live together and currently I run a scuba ...
A. 4 December 2010: I believe you guys fight because it sounds like there's not enough time spent together. What days do you guys have off? Make that day a family day, where you guys go out and do fun activities. Maybe take your son to the park, bowling, a nice dinner, ... (read in full...)
I think he likes me, but doesn't realize it... how can make him realize it?
Q. My best friend, an artist, is extremely caring and sensitive about me. Goes out f his way to help me, hangs around with me, gives me the sincerest advice, never refuses me, whenever i want to meet up...he never refuses, even if busy...likes to share ...
A. 4 December 2010: Yeah there's no nonchalant way to make a guy "realize" he's in love with you. You don't know if he likes you in that way. I get your friendship as being strictly platonic. Now, if you want more, or think there may be a chance at more..well then your ... (read in full...)
What's with his staring problem?
Q. Hey Okay so I live in the UK and I go to uni there. There's this guy that I like as a friend, and maybe as a crush too. And I definitely kmow that he's not shy at all. When we first met he was really friendly with me; we had lunch together and h...
A. 4 December 2010: He may actually dig you, but is afraid to make a move. Or he may not realize he's doing it, more like staring off into space than staring directly at you. It's hard to say. Why don't you ask him what's up with him staring?... (read in full...)
Unsure of my sexual identity
Q. I am so confused and i dont know how to handle this issue.i dont know if im straight gay or bisexual and i cant ask my friends becausetim afraid of what they will think.please help i dont knw what to do.can you help?x...
A. 4 December 2010: What has happened to make you question your sexuality? Please add more details your question is too vague.... (read in full...)
Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!
Q. my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...
A. 4 December 2010: That has got to be the stupidest reason I have heard someone dump another over.
You're boyfriend sounds extremely controlling. Next he'g going to tell you what you can and can't wear. He is NOT your father, he cannot tell you what you can and ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 3 December 2010: Dirtball sums it up pretty nicely. I'm going to add I've read your other posts about her. It's been how many weeks now and you're still trying to get her back? She's not coming back, you guys had a pretty short lived 4 month relationship. You've ... (read in full...)
Do we get married in his country or mine?
Q. my boyfriend and i are planning on getting married, but i am not sure what we are supposed to do.he is from another country, although he has been here for few years now. is it easier for us to marry here or in his country? and what is required for ...
A. 2 December 2010: He has been in America for a few years so does he already have an American citizenship or a visa? If so then I would get married here if this is where you guys are going to live. When are you guys going to get married? I would call your local county ... (read in full...)
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