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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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I have a problem, I like my teacher!
Q. I have a problem I like my history teacher. I know it is wrong, but it's getting worse. everytime i see him my heart beats faster and feels like it is going to explode, just like when i think about him. he is married and has two kids,and there is a ...
A. 14 December 2010: Nope, she's not listening.
Sweetie? Scroll to the bottom of your page where I posted a link. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you missed my post. Click on it, read VERY, VERY carefully and slowly. Then advert your eyes over to the part... (read in full...)
Should I call him and sort out the details, or just let this slide?
Q. The man I have been dating for just over 2 months has hinted through his actions that he wants to end things. Since I knew what was coming I was prepared for it, and have also been feeling that it is time to end things. He has been unavailable ...
A. 13 December 2010: A break-up email? Who the hell does that? It's common courtesy to call or meet to end things. How ridiculous. But at least it's over, there's no more beating around the bush. ... (read in full...)
I have a problem, I like my teacher!
Q. I have a problem I like my history teacher. I know it is wrong, but it's getting worse. everytime i see him my heart beats faster and feels like it is going to explode, just like when i think about him. he is married and has two kids,and there is a ...
A. 11 December 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/crushes-on-teachers.html
Read that article. ... (read in full...)
Is she trying to pressurise me into getting engaged?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three years - and much of our time is spent in domestic bliss - at home life is ideal. But until we are "engaged" she insists that our lives are kept separate - I have to go on holiday alone - go to ...
A. 11 December 2010: Ok, so I do see her point to an extent given your age..but marriage is not something to be rushed into and to be demanded from one person. It happens naturally and when you're both ready. Now is not the time for you. I believe that you need to ... (read in full...)
What is an appropriate age difference?
Q. I have a question, I get hung up on age, is ten years too much of a difference. Is it wrong if the girl is ten years older like if she is 32 and he is 22?...
A. 11 December 2010: Once you get past 19, I always say from then on age is just a number. That's of course when you're mature enough to understand right from wrong involving crushes on teachers, legal age of consent and such.
Anyways, the thing I would be concerne... (read in full...)
Why has my online dating friend gone quiet on me?
Q. Hi everyone I joined a dating website plenty of fish, started talking 2 this guy 3 months back really nice person got on really well,(but have never met) Anyway yes all those 3 months we have spoken or at least text on the phone every day, wel...
A. 11 December 2010: Woah, never met you, talking 3 months and he's already talking about marriage, kids, the whole 9 yards? It sounds like a joke to be honest.
You mention you met him on plenty of fish.com, my friend uses that site in fact she calls it plenty o... (read in full...)
Is she trying to pressurise me into getting engaged?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three years - and much of our time is spent in domestic bliss - at home life is ideal. But until we are "engaged" she insists that our lives are kept separate - I have to go on holiday alone - go to ...
A. 11 December 2010: How old are you guys? Do you get to spend any time with her at all?
If she wants you to be her fiance you would think she would be introducing you to her friends and family so they can tell her their opinion. I also don't get why you have to ... (read in full...)
How do I remove a hicky???
Q. How can I remove a hickey fast!??? It's between my neck and shoulder! I need an answer quicklyyy! please. ...
A. 11 December 2010: There's no quick way to remove your love bite, it's essentially a bruise that will fade in 3-5 days. Concealer doesn't work on covering them up, it will make them look slightly faded but you can still see it.
I suggest wearing turtlene... (read in full...)
Everyone tells me she's cheating on me..
Q. Okay so, i moved to a new school and never planned to get in such a deep degrassi style relationship but.. when i met this girl i felt like it was like real movie falling in love shit. And we always got along and we were always together. we've been ...
A. 11 December 2010: I love Degrassi!
Well dear, when everyone is telling you she's cheating on you, that means she is. Of course her girl friends aren't going to tell you she's cheating on you, they're going to protect their friend.
-Signs she's cheating on you-... (read in full...)
Why does he prefer me over other students?
Q. He's mighty handsome, but we both know what's at jeopardy here. At least I hope so. Okay, so, here goes: -Whenever we have a class discussion, if I'm not talking, my teacher will look at me. When he's reading the paper and no one's talking, ...
A. 11 December 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/crushes-on-teachers.html... (read in full...)
Why can't I shake off this ex girlfriend?
Q. a couple years ago, i dated this girl for a short time, and lost my virginity to her. it was the worst relationship anyone could imagine. lots of bad things happened--i found out she was cheating on me, she almost had a physical altercation with a ...
A. 11 December 2010: She's a psycho ex! Those are the hardest to shake off. She's still present in your mind because of all the bs that she brought in that relationship. I have an ex similar to yours, and after the first year of breaking up I also had nightmares ... (read in full...)
We were best friends, but things have changed since she's been dating this guy
Q. OK so lets call this girl Autumn. She started going to my school in sixth grade, and we were BEST FRIENDS until the beginning of this year, eighth grade.. I mean were still best friends, but she doesnt act like it. I think it all statred in the end ...
A. 11 December 2010: So basically, Autumn is trying to tell you what to do when it comes to your love life? Is that the problem here?
Just because Autumn dated a too old 16 year old doesn't mean she's a relationship expert. You guys are 13-15 for pete's sake, yo... (read in full...)
Why all the fighting over Facebook??
Q. Here's my situation... I met a man online, through a dating site and we hit it off from the first date. Mutual attraction and chemistry, and it just felt so good at the beginning. We decided to get off of the dating site, but he wanted to be fri...
A. 11 December 2010: I'm with Dr.Lance. Both of you delete your Facebook accounts, because it seems to be the root of insecurities and jealousy. Problem solved, then proceed to have a mature relationship.... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't have herpes, but I want to see some proof!
Q. he admitted that he slept with a woman who had herpes in the past. that was before he met me. we have not had sex yet. he doesn't want to get tested i am not going to have sex with him. it's a pity because otherwise he is a good man. he says he ...
A. 11 December 2010: *tested*... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't have herpes, but I want to see some proof!
Q. he admitted that he slept with a woman who had herpes in the past. that was before he met me. we have not had sex yet. he doesn't want to get tested i am not going to have sex with him. it's a pity because otherwise he is a good man. he says he ...
A. 11 December 2010: Are we talking genital herpes? Is this man your boyfriend, someone you're dating? One would be more than aware if they had genital herpes. Although it can be treated with medication, herpes is a life long viral disease. I would definitely being ... (read in full...)
How do you handle when your partner, who promises you the world and to never leave, breaks their promise?
Q. How do you handle when your boyfriend/girlfriend who promises you the world and to never leave, breaks their promise? Its hard for me to accept that someone who loves you would walk out on you like that. How do you cope? Moving on or staying and ...
A. 11 December 2010: When the trust isn't there, consider the relationship doomed. Trust is a major key in a working, healthy relationship. Also, if he makes promises that he can't keep..then his word doesn't mean squat. When that happens it's time to cut ties on this ... (read in full...)
Tips for my first kiss?
Q. Any tips for a first kiss ? Xxxxx...
A. 11 December 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-you-kiss-properly.html
I'm sure you'll find some answers in that old link.... (read in full...)
Should I shoot him an email telling him I'll wait for him?
Q. Hi - I do not know what to do. This guy and I were friends for four years and we date during five months. We never broke up just stop seeing each other last september. Now he came back to my life after his disappearing act. I realize somethin...
A. 11 December 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/women-actions-speak-louder-than-words.html
Please read the article above, it may cause you to think about your situation. ... (read in full...)
Her past is keeping me up at nights...
Q. My girlfriend, who I've Been with for nearly a year now, her past truly bothers me and keeps me up at night. Here's the story: before were together she went on holiday and had sex a few times, she says, with a guy who was a lot older than her she ...
A. 11 December 2010: No need to get hostile in your post to people who give you advice. Remember you come on here asking for free advice. Obviously, anyone who can do simple math understands that man is way too old for her.
Anyways, so what really bothers you? The... (read in full...)
Could he be depressed?
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-avoiding-me-or-am-i-over.html --Continuation of this issue with a new question attached. Well, I got to talk to him, and he told me that he wasn't upset at me, but he also said he doesn't know what was wr...
A. 11 December 2010: No, he doesn't have the symptoms of depression. He still has interest in his video games. When you're depressed, you lose interest in activities you used to enjoy. He sounds like he's stressed out in general, possibly from school, maybe your ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting?
Q. Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting? whenever i see something nice my boyfriend would like i buy him it when i have the money and also cos i know he would like it. my birthday is next week and i don't want him to spend ...
A. 11 December 2010: you're*... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting?
Q. Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting? whenever i see something nice my boyfriend would like i buy him it when i have the money and also cos i know he would like it. my birthday is next week and i don't want him to spend ...
A. 11 December 2010: So the bear is more than half off, still I think $16 for a bear is a little pricey but seeing as it's your birthday coming up and that's what you want.
Now, the whole duration of the relationship has your boyfriend ever bought you anything... (read in full...)
Can I date more than one guy at a time? Or is it wrong?
Q. So I have been dating this guy for about 7 months and while I adore him, we had a discussion and he said he was not ready to commit to me, so I began to date other people. He s 38 and I'm 25, he's white and I'm black, he has a very supportive ...
A. 10 December 2010: If you're definition of dating is "seeing" someone, i.e. that gray area before a relationship then yes you're well within your rights. Another thing is you're going to have to own up to the fact that you're also seeing other people. They deserve to ... (read in full...)
Should I ask the singer of my bad out? Would she say yes?
Q. Hey guys, let me try to explain my situation as best i can. I'm the lead guitarist and singer in my 4-piece band, we do proper gigs at pubs and blues clubs. My co singer is a lovely lady by the name of Megan, and she's the problem. You see, from the ...
A. 10 December 2010: I mean it sounds like a good idea to ask her out then again...
What happens if you guys do get together and then a break up happens? It might break the band up or you'd have to find a new back-up singer. Just something to think about. Instead,... (read in full...)
Should I call him and sort out the details, or just let this slide?
Q. The man I have been dating for just over 2 months has hinted through his actions that he wants to end things. Since I knew what was coming I was prepared for it, and have also been feeling that it is time to end things. He has been unavailable ...
A. 10 December 2010: If you don't want one to prolong this, then why don't you break up with him yourself? The writing is on the wall, you've already moved on, all that's left is to tie up some loose end and break it off. Since timing seems to be an issue, just take the ... (read in full...)
I kissed a girl and she ran away?
Q. I went to a party on Monday and this girl approached me and we started dancing, i asked for her name and what she studies (it was a university party) She was rubbing her hands on my chest and i was feeling on her bum. Anyway she looked really shy as ...
A. 10 December 2010: She was probably a little drunk. Her friends saw her swapping spit with you, and were looking out for their friend before it lead to anything further. Not saying you had other intentions.
Girls travel in packs at parties and clubs. When the... (read in full...)
How do I tell this guy..that I don't love him! Advice?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am madly in love with a man I'll call Mor. He doesn't know I do but he told me he loved me. We have an amazing bond, a complicated relationship. Now my friend Jay is madly in love with me and I hate myself for being too cowardly to ...
A. 10 December 2010: Yikes, well that's Jay's fault if he wants to turn into a "player", womanizer, man whore whatever you want to call it. That's not on you, you didn't make him that way. It's his own personal choice. He'll realize after a while that's not going to get ... (read in full...)
I've never even owned a fish, how are we going to compromise on owning a dog?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are planning on moving in together soon. We have always been opposites when it comes to pretty much everything. But now we are having a problem. We cant decide on what type of dog to get. He has ALWAYS wanted a German Shepard. ...
A. 10 December 2010: Might I suggest taking a day to make a trip to the animal shelters in your area. There's not only mixed breeds there but there are pure breds as well. These animals get dumped off, some their owners pass on in life, others ran away, and some are ... (read in full...)
He spends all of his free texting his co-worker!
Q. My fiance and I have been having problems. We have talked about going to see a couselor but everytime I go to make an appointment he says we are fine and dont need one. My real concern right now is, I found out today that he has been texting ...
A. 10 December 2010: So you hijack your fiance's post?
Maybe this is a case of the pot calling the kettle black. But, why is she saying that you refused to let her meet your friend, when apparently you would ask your friend's opinion? Are you saying she's twisting... (read in full...)
He spends all of his free texting his co-worker!
Q. My fiance and I have been having problems. We have talked about going to see a couselor but everytime I go to make an appointment he says we are fine and dont need one. My real concern right now is, I found out today that he has been texting ...
A. 10 December 2010: First off I applaud you for taking a proactive approach and seeking couples counseling. However, both have to agree to go and keep an open mind about it. Rather a shame that he is refusing to go, without giving it a chance to work on your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me once, should I trust him again?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 1 year now, we'r planing to marry together because he asked me to and I do love him. Our relationship is going well and sweet nowadays. I remember it was 3 or 4 months ago that I found out he che...
A. 10 December 2010: "I seem to never get through this past of him. I really want to forget it and move on but I can't because I love him too much and i can forgive him for everything."
I'm really confused by that statement. Are you going to forgive him for everythi... (read in full...)
We have to abstain from sex in order for the medication to work, but can I still masturbate?
Q. me and my husband started taking some medication for conceiving, we were told to abstain for 12 days, my question is, is it wrong for me to masterbate will it it reduce the chances of me getting pregnant? this medication is for feitilising the eggs, ...
A. 10 December 2010: Your husband hates sex but yet you guys are trying to conceive? That makes no sense. What is the name of the drug you're taking? Generally when your gyno gives you those fertility drugs you have to follow the strict regimen that goes with them. So ... (read in full...)
I want to leave with my daughter and move on with my life. Am I wrong for wanting to be happy?
Q. I am 22 years old. I have been married to my husband for a little over 3 years. We have a 2 year old daughter together and he has 3 children from a previous marriage. In the beginning of my marriage my husband was great, we did everything together. ...
A. 10 December 2010: By all means take your daughter and go. His kids are probably used to coming from a broken home, but that's daddy's fault. Marriage counseling is your last life line, and if that didn't work I would consider drawing up divorce papers. Pack you and ... (read in full...)
Is this what you call a role model?
Q. When I was back in school, in 9th grade. There was this girl who really loved P.E, but she loved her gym teacher the most. She would always talk about him. He was her coach in athletics because she was one of the best. She would tell me" when I grow ...
A. 10 December 2010: Yes, that's what you would call a role model. But no, it's not normal to have a crush on your role model. ... (read in full...)
Why do I want to marry a military man when I'm older?
Q. Hey... So this isnt a relationship question. But if any of you have husbands who do this as a job, you could help. Why do I want to marry a military/army man when Im older? I just think it would be cool. I know they would be gone a lot but for some ...
A. 10 December 2010: Like the others have said, it's the uniform that does it for you. Maybe the whole alpha male, that's out there risking his neck for our country. My husband is in the army, and I didn't marry him because of that reason. I married for love.
Yes, ... (read in full...)
I think he's taking time to cool down?
Q. Hello dear friends, hope u can help me with my agony :(. So my boyfriend and i broke up a month back, we live 13 hour flight time away from each other. We met 9 months back went out for 3 months then he had to move to another country. He was very...
A. 9 December 2010: He's your ex, it doesn't sound like he's wanting to get back together. In fact, I don't know why you're trying to rekindle this when it's clear he doesn't want a relationship with you anymore. He's NOT that into you, never was from the start. In ... (read in full...)
I want to get him back, but as a friend.
Q. Please read this before answering the question I have posted below: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/weve-been-seeing-each-other-for-2-months.html So... Over the past week I have come to realise that he is interested in another lady, and hi...
A. 9 December 2010: Don't be too pushy when it comes to being his friend. Give it some time, I'm talking a month or 2 before you contact him again. Now's not the time to suggest a friendship. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend got pregnant and ran off with someone 32 years older than her!
Q. My 25 y/o cousin (I'll call him Tom) and his girlfriend had been trying to get a baby for a year now. Now you're not going to believe what comes next: yesterday she dropped the bomb on him: 1. she was pregnant and 2. She wanted to end the ...
A. 9 December 2010: There's really no words of comfort you can offer in that situation. That's an extremely crap thing for her to do. But it's better that he know this now, instead of later done the road, getting married to a cheating woman who's child he probably ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting? At school, all he talks to is girls, all girls.
Q. Hey I really need some advice I really love my boyfriend we've been together for a year and two months I'm really fisterated.. I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend.... I mean I do but I don't at the same time when were is school all he talks to is ...
A. 9 December 2010: Ah, I was going to ask if he's ever given you a reason not to trust him. So you don't trust him, period. You never let him regain back that trust. Well you don't have any proof that he's cheating on you now. So in these scenarios you either give him ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting? At school, all he talks to is girls, all girls.
Q. Hey I really need some advice I really love my boyfriend we've been together for a year and two months I'm really fisterated.. I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend.... I mean I do but I don't at the same time when were is school all he talks to is ...
A. 9 December 2010: He talks to the opposite sex, so what? Is he just supposed to be rude and ignore them when they acknowledge him? He doesn't text you during school, he's probably paying attention in class. School is more important than being on your phone.
If yo... (read in full...)
Was she sending me signals?
Q. I need some advice on how to get this girl in my class. We have this study room requirement where we have to fulfill a certain amount of hours or we don't pass the class and since she was way behind I offered to help her out. This allowed me to A)...
A. 9 December 2010: Here's the thing, some women try to send out signals..Other women already know that if they try that wires will get crossed, so they know it's a big waste of time to drop hints and don't even bother.
Now, from your post I don't know what kind of ... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable of me to ask my boyfriend to invite me to co-ed parties his ex will be at?
Q. Is it unreasonable of me to ask my boyfriend to invite me to mixed parties that my boyfriend's ex is at? He excludes me from 90% of them because he says he wants to be able to hang out with them alone. But they go partying, and drinking and eve...
A. 9 December 2010: Why would you want to invite yourself, or make him invite you when you know he doesn't want you to come along? So you're excluded from 90% of them, you still get to go to 10% , that's better than nothing. What is your real reason for wanting to go, ... (read in full...)
Ladies, I need your female insight on this one!
Q. Female insight needed please!!! I broke up with my gf (of nearly 3yrs) 5 months ago as I felt I wasn't making her happy and that made me unhappy. Iv'e since done a lot of soul searching but know deep down I still love her. We agreed to me...
A. 9 December 2010: It sounds like she's ready to be friends..nothing more, nothing less. I see no reason why you can't be friends with her. The only thing that might get in the way is you constantly thinking she wants to be more, since you still love her. Perhaps, ... (read in full...)
How do I tell this guy..that I don't love him! Advice?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am madly in love with a man I'll call Mor. He doesn't know I do but he told me he loved me. We have an amazing bond, a complicated relationship. Now my friend Jay is madly in love with me and I hate myself for being too cowardly to ...
A. 18 November 2010: Apparently you're doing something right to have these men falling at your feet.
One guy at a time, first take care of Jay way before he gets down on one knee. Let him down gently telling him that his gesture is sweet and you're truly flattere... (read in full...)
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