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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 17 January 2011: Your feelings for her have never left. You're tearing open the wounds even further with this vague contact. Since she's keeping the conversation vague, I believe she's trying to make an attempt at being friends. Nothing more. Like I said previously, ... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 5 January 2011: If you don't want to go back to square one then cut off contact completely. Move forward with your life, and this time move on. This contact game is giving you false hope that she's going to come back to you. When in all actuality, she's just trying ... (read in full...)
Any good ideas on how to keep yourself occupied so you don't think about your ex?
Q. The person I fell in love with broke up with me a couple days ago and I've never gone thru such pain of missing somebody. I would love to get back with her but I know that it'll cause only more pain and stress... so how do I keep myself occupied and ...
A. 3 January 2011: In addition to aunt honesty, I read something in a magazine today on how to get over your ex. This reader wrote that she makes a list of all the bad flaws her ex had. Every time she got sad and thinking highly of him, she reread that list of flaws. ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think!
Q. I'm not sure what to believe. I need help, my wife of 30 years told me in her words she had an encounter with a friend a little over a year ago. She said they took off their clothes and kissed and she gave him a handjob but he never touched her at ...
A. 3 January 2011: So she cheated and isn't divulging the details...As her husband, you have a right to the truth. I believe she's not giving it to you. Painkillers or not, like another anon poster said she's still held responsible for her actions. Now if she has a ... (read in full...)
Help me read this girl!
Q. I am 14 a freshman in highschool and there's this girl I really like. But this was only since yesterday. Up until then she was just a "sorta friend" I didn't even really find her attractive. That night at the skating rink, somehow during a ...
A. 3 January 2011: No, it's not a date unless someone says it is. In this case her. All it is, is friends hanging out and going to the movies. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell on the cheaters?
Q. This is not my story, but unfortunately someone told me about it and now I don't know what to do... I have a big group of Friends, and recently (a week before Xmas) one of them (friend#1) confessed to a another friend (friend #2) that she's havin...
A. 2 January 2011: There's no telling who the child could be by.
Since you were the second in line to know this big, dirty secret then I would just stay out of it. There's no need to get involved in this drama. If anyone should be the one to tell this girl's f... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think!
Q. I'm not sure what to believe. I need help, my wife of 30 years told me in her words she had an encounter with a friend a little over a year ago. She said they took off their clothes and kissed and she gave him a handjob but he never touched her at ...
A. 2 January 2011: I'm sorry this makes no sense. In fact this man did touch her if they did kiss. Medicine or not, it's still cheating, your wife committed adultery. What kind of meds are these, and what is she taking them for? Schizophrenia?
I doubt this is all t... (read in full...)
Help me read this girl!
Q. I am 14 a freshman in highschool and there's this girl I really like. But this was only since yesterday. Up until then she was just a "sorta friend" I didn't even really find her attractive. That night at the skating rink, somehow during a ...
A. 2 January 2011: A side hug? How awkward.
Well sweetie girls mean what they say even at that age. She likes you as a friend and sees you as a friend. Throughout your date, I could tell she was slightly nervous and sounded like she has a lot of issues at hand. Wh... (read in full...)
My 12 yr old brother controls my life... HELP!? Please?
Q. I am here to say that my younger brother won't stop controlling my life. I'm 16 and he's 12. On christmas my pearents have just got me a new small mini laptop. I am very happy beacause I finally have my own computer. But whenever I want privacy, ...
A. 29 December 2010: It sounds like your 12 year old brother wants a laptop too. More or less he's a pesky little brother who os getting into his older sister's things. If you want him to stay off your computer then you need to lock it with a password. Hide i... (read in full...)
I think I love my cousin! Is it legal?
Q. i don't know what this is! i feel so warm and fuzzy when I'm around him. Every time he's around it's like I'm happy. I couldn't help but think, am I in love with my cousin? Is that even illegal? He's just so darn cute and I can't but think I am. ...
A. 26 December 2010: I agree with aunt honesty, in addition to what she said it is indeed illegal to date your first cousin in the U.S.. It's considered incest. Now, if this is your third cousin, you start getting a little distant down the family tree then it's legal. ... (read in full...)
I'm going to lose my baby and my boyfriend is not comforting me !
Q. Hello, I just found out I was pregnant 3 weeks ago. completely by surprise i am always careful with my birth control and my youngest child is 18 years old with out so much as a scare since he was born. My boyfriend did not take it well. we have ...
A. 26 December 2010: First of all, I'm sorry for your loss. I know I wouldn't be able to deal with that, and you're a strong woman for doing so.
Another thougt I had was, men have a strange way of dealing with a loss..they're not going to understand what it's like to ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend saved my life and is now handicapped. Should I stay with him?
Q. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me. It almost sounds unreal, but he saved my life about one month ago. He pushed me out of the way from getting hit by an oncoming car, but he was badly injured. Right now, ...
A. 26 December 2010: Woah, for one do you love him? If you love him stay with him, disability or not. He may be able to collect disability, or the damage may not be that bad to where he can't work. Who's to say you can't go to school and get a great paying career thus ... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 26 December 2010: Continue with the short answers...until she actually comes right out and says something about the space or what youg guys had. But I highly doubt she will. Keep it vague yet friendly. Trust me if she wanted more then she would say so. Remember she ... (read in full...)
I'm living with my boyfriend's ex and she hates him, how do I tell her I'm seeing him again?
Q. I have a complicated situation I need help with. A few months ago my mom kicked me out and I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years for a month before we broke up. When we broke up I moved in with a friend who was my boyfriends ex-girlfriend(they ...
A. 26 December 2010: Woah, woah..your friend isn't the boss of you. I'd get out of there fast. I suggest moving in with your boyfriend or start looking through Wanted ads for someone looking for a roommate asap. In the meantime, I would also patch up things with your ... (read in full...)
Don't know how else to prove my love for him!
Q. Dear Cupid, It's me again and this is the follow-up to my original question " Am I wrong to be in love with my bestfriend". Well as of right now me and him are some what doing good but this week I haven't seen him, he hasn't b...
A. 26 December 2010: Ha what a jerk! Well, I pity this new girl that has to deal with his mental state..it's her problem now, no longer yours. Be glad that you're done with him. You gave it your all but he was the one who messed this up and that's on him.... (read in full...)
Addicted to my ex's FaceBook, what can I do?
Q. Its been two weeks since I broke up. I have managed to get her to talking terms(though on facebook). Apologised and been forgiven my wrong doing. She told me she doesn't want a come back and I have decided to wait because I love her. She has been ...
A. 20 December 2010: She doesn't want you back, she's most likely moved on seeing as she's not taking the time to reply to your inbox messages. You don't have to sit there and stalk her Facebook page..I suggest you delete her as a friend, what she does is no longer your ... (read in full...)
I can't leave her, she will nap out of it
Q. My girlfriend of 4 years just gave me an xmas card from her. It was just a standard card from a standard pack and said 'merry xmas and all the best for the new year'. This is the usual stuff she has given me and written for past 2 years now. I ...
A. 20 December 2010: So what's your question?... (read in full...)
He says the same thing, what does this mean
Q. so there is this guy who looks at me a lot but talks to other girls and he talks about that he dumped his gf and he doesn't want gf if he doesn't need girl friend so why he stare at me all the time even my friends caught him staring but when i ...
A. 20 December 2010: It sounds like he's trying to find things in common with you. There's no hidden meaning behind staring, it could be he likes you, he's day dreaming, staring off into space and not even looking directly at you, or he has a staring problem. Instead of ... (read in full...)
He won't call me!
Q. ok, so this boy asked me out after i told him i wanted him to ask me out. I don't have his number but i gave him mine. my whole grade knows that he asked me out. and its been like a little less than 3 days since he asked me out and he hasnt called ...
A. 20 December 2010: Why didn't you ask for his number when you gave him yours? Has he been on Facebook? Is he a shy guy?
Well, you guys are going out and you'll see him again soon. So just ask him what is his deal on why he wouldn't answer you. Do you know of anyon... (read in full...)
Is kissing him or asking him out a great alternative to an actual Xmas present?
Q. I didn't get the guy I fancy a Christmas present. My mistake admittedly. I just couldnt find something which would show I am totally into him . Recently, we've been flirting loads at the youth club we both go to. So I was wondering if asking him ...
A. 20 December 2010: Sweetie, he's not even your boyfriend so there's no need to get him a gift. I think a kiss, hug, and a "Merry Christmas!" will do. You know what would be really cute is if you could obtain some mistletoe and hold it above his head, then lean in to ... (read in full...)
Keeps pictures of his ex on his computer.
Q. why does my boyfriend keep pictures of his ex on his computer and a picture of both of them together as his desktop screensaver? Why does he say that he has a lot of love for her but he loves me.He has been with me for almost a year now. Any advice...
A. 20 December 2010: Have you asked him why he still has pictures of her on his desktop especially as his screen saver? As far as the pictures saved on there, he probably is just too lazy to go through and delete them.
The screen saver, that's weird..you need to ... (read in full...)
I want to spend time with my family too...
Q. my bf is upset that i am always leaving him behind to spend time with my family. and whenever he is upset about this, he ignores me and tells me that i should just leave him alone. i would really like to make him feel better. but how? i dont think ...
A. 20 December 2010: What have you done that's not right? You do know that him controlling you is not right? That's very wrong. He is not your father or your boss, he doesn't need to be telling you what you can and cannot do. You are you are a grown woman who is ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend have another account on Facebook... as a woman???
Q. Been in a relationship with a guy for two years, we only managed to see each other at weekends. I thought our relationship was good and was ready to take it to the next level, when I discovered by chance he has a profile on facebook under a ...
A. 19 December 2010: How do you know it's him, is it completely anonymous? Is it his profile picture, or is he dressed in drag?
I've seen people make fake profiles for different reasons, but the main reason is that they're talking to someone that don't want to know ... (read in full...)
What do I do when guys whistle at me?
Q. writing this to me sounds stupid but i really need some advice momentarily. So.., im 16 years old and im really shy . This is something that hasnt happened to me only that one time. About a week ago i was visiting friends in Atlanta and we were ...
A. 19 December 2010: Guys do that to flirt, or to be pigs..you know like when you walk past a construction site filled with testosterone the guys call out "Hey, baby!". We call it cat-calling in America. Just roll your eyes, or pay them no mind. If you find them to be ... (read in full...)
How can I make him aware of my feelings for him?
Q. Ok theres this guy ive liked since march when a mate told me to add 2 facebook The only problam is i cant tell him i like him, i once again i can getting another gf, he had one then split up, still single at the moment tho :) Anyway this guy i...
A. 19 December 2010: Forget about your ex, I don't even see why he is voicing his opinion because it doesn't matter.
Now unless you're telepathic or know sign language then there's no nonchalant way to tell him you like him. You're going to have to be vocal about it... (read in full...)
I want to spend time with my family too...
Q. my bf is upset that i am always leaving him behind to spend time with my family. and whenever he is upset about this, he ignores me and tells me that i should just leave him alone. i would really like to make him feel better. but how? i dont think ...
A. 19 December 2010: Your clingy boyfriend isn't your husband, he doesn't need you to spend all your time with him. He's a big boy, he's capable of spending time by himself.
In every relationship, both partners need to have their "me" time. Where they spend time awa... (read in full...)
He forgets to call, should I be worried?
Q. I have been in a relationship for two years and a half and recently every time my bf goes on trips for a couple of days he forgets to call. We live together. I am worried he doesn`t miss me or love me for that matter. What is it???...
A. 19 December 2010: I echo Mystiquek on this one. Guys just don't "forget" to call. He's not calling because he doesn't want to call.
Now, where is he going on these trips? Unless he's in the middle of the Amazon Rainforest seeing as he wouldn't get cell phone se... (read in full...)
Three guys and a girl...
Q. Merry Christmas to all! Ok lemme give you a history lesson. My friend 'Andrew' has been a good friend of mine for five years and i have liked him for that long also and he finally figured out that i like him. Now my guy friend 'Randy' are in a ...
A. 19 December 2010: Uhhh you like 3 guys and one asked you to have his baby. You can't even decide who you want to date, I don't see how you're ready to be a mother. A baby deserves to be born to 2 parents who are together and love him/her. Please save baby making when ... (read in full...)
Diamonds are a girl's best friend???
Q. I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me, we have an amazing connection and we are best friends. He even says that I am his perfect match and he truly wants to marry me in a few years. He had one very serious relationship before me (they lived ...
A. 19 December 2010: Trance is spot on. He's learned from last time, seeing as he gave the diamonds too early and look where that got him. It's not that you don't deserve them, it's just that he's going to give them to you when the time is right and he knows you guys ... (read in full...)
Are girls hypocrites???
Q. Why do women/girls criticize guys when they are just as bad as us? For example: "Guys only care about looks" "all guys are dogs" etc....
A. 19 December 2010: P.S. Some of those teenage girls, correction a lot, know those boy bands songs word for word. Hence, those boy band's sky high record sales..surely it's not boys or men buying them. ... (read in full...)
Should I send him my picture?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I recently made contact with a guy that i have liked for a while, and he has said that he wants me to send a picture of myself to him. He hasn't said whether he means a rude one or a regular picture, so i'm assuming he means ...
A. 19 December 2010: Do you know this guy personally and have met him before? I don't understand why he would request a picture, I suppose he wants to see if you still look the same as before. That's the only thing I could think of it. A rude picture, do you mean a ... (read in full...)
Are girls hypocrites???
Q. Why do women/girls criticize guys when they are just as bad as us? For example: "Guys only care about looks" "all guys are dogs" etc....
A. 19 December 2010: @ reader anon, when men call females c*nts they're definitely not referring to their female anatomy . You also forgot to add the second part of 3. about men. Sure, men don't date for about 6 months after that, but did you forget to calculate in ... (read in full...)
I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?!
Q. I don't know what I should do... I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?! I met my husband while in Iraq (he was inshape and so nice). We just had a baby and then he wanted to go active army. Since we had a child he ...
A. 19 December 2010: That doesn't make sense why he couldn't join the army? His child still could get health benefits with a proven DNA test.
So you married for all the wrong reasons, so correct this situation with a divorce. You think this guy has mental issues w... (read in full...)
Can't get pregnant
Q. Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...
A. 19 December 2010: Great, now I wish that I could get preg too!... (read in full...)
Does this mean he talks about me to friends and family?
Q. So the first time ever he actually said hi to me. Today at school his friends and my friends mess with us. When we talked last night people kept claiming he was talking to his gf. Does this mean he talk about me to friends and family?...
A. 17 December 2010: Hmmm, I still stand by what I said. If he acts like a jerk, then I would ignore him the next day. Let him come to you.... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 17 December 2010: You CANNOT spin it back around, she doesn't want anything to do with you there's no trust, she can't bring herself to give that back to you, therefore the relationship is over. Stop being in denial over it, move on and accept the fact that this ... (read in full...)
It's growing pretty fast down there, do I need to shave?
Q. hey everybody, i have a question that I feel to embarrassed to ask anybody else in person so i'm wondering if you could help? Im 14 and down below is growing fast.. I'm going to a party soon and wearing a really short skirt so was wondering what is ...
A. 17 December 2010: Well I do hope you plan on wearing some underoos. If it really is getting that wild down there, then you can shave up the sides, or wear boy shorts underneath your skirt. No one is going to be staring at your crotch so I'll think you'll be just ... (read in full...)
Is he just naturally playful?
Q. Ok I really, really like this guy in my class in college. We never properly talked until two or three months ago, when he started playfully messing around with me. He's playfully slapped my ass a couple times, jokingly made fun and laughed at me, ...
A. 17 December 2010: He was definitely flirting but since he does it to 2 other girls in your class...I'm going with he's flirty and playful by nature. In other words, he's a ladies man who loves all the ladies and had monogamy issues. Steer clear, sweetie. These guys ... (read in full...)
I only know her through Facebook but I'm in love with her!
Q. I am 16 years old and I love a 15 year old girl. I don't know her only I know her on Facebook and she is living in US. I told her that I love her. but she says "Now, I am not thinking about love, so I can't reply to you." and you are saying this ...
A. 17 December 2010: Why did she send you $?
It sounds like she doesn't believe that you love her, and she thinks you're trying to scam her out of more $. In other words, she doesn't trust you and most likely isn't going to talk to you anymore. Sorry buddy, there's ... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 17 December 2010: Mistakes made by you. I don't understand why you can't grasp the fact that you are at fault. This is damage beyond repair. ... (read in full...)
She broke it off with me because of my problems in the bedroom...
Q. my ex-girlfriend broke up with me six months ago over my erectile dysfunction/uncertainty in the bedroom. Is there anything I can do? christmas card, her birthday in a few months, etc. I'm heartbroken, we were great together, and i just wish i ...
A. 17 December 2010: If you want to send her a friendly Christmas card and below "Merry Christmas!" write "P.S. I am on medication to rectify my issue." then go right ahead and take one last stab at it. But like I said it's a deal breaker for her and she's not going to ... (read in full...)
She broke it off with me because of my problems in the bedroom...
Q. my ex-girlfriend broke up with me six months ago over my erectile dysfunction/uncertainty in the bedroom. Is there anything I can do? christmas card, her birthday in a few months, etc. I'm heartbroken, we were great together, and i just wish i ...
A. 17 December 2010: How long were you two together? Did you try to get medication for your ED?
Not gonna lie, sex gone bad, or bad sex in general is a deal breaker for some women. However, in your case their is medicine you can take to rectify that situatio... (read in full...)
All his relatives will be there!
Q. What should I wear to my boyfriend's sister 21st birthday celebration at their house. All his relatives and family will be there and they have been wanting to see me. OMG!...
A. 17 December 2010: Dress tastefully and your age..Don't wear anything that bears cleavage. Go fishing in your closet for a top/dress that has a modest neckline. Nothing worse than bending over and giving his family a free peep show. Wear something comfortable that is ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he talks about me to friends and family?
Q. So the first time ever he actually said hi to me. Today at school his friends and my friends mess with us. When we talked last night people kept claiming he was talking to his gf. Does this mean he talk about me to friends and family?...
A. 17 December 2010: If he says he likes you, the boy likes you. At your age range 16-17, you are just embarking on that dating journey so it's ok for guys not to know how to properly act around a girl. He just grew out of the "girls have cooties" phase not too long ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he talks about me to friends and family?
Q. So the first time ever he actually said hi to me. Today at school his friends and my friends mess with us. When we talked last night people kept claiming he was talking to his gf. Does this mean he talk about me to friends and family?...
A. 16 December 2010: Is this a guy you like? Who is he? Sounds like he likes you, but your post is a bit too vague to tell. Or that people are teasing him about liking you. Maybe he does have an actual girlfriend. What don't you talk to this guy if you like him? Get ... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 15 December 2010: Great, thanks.
Leave it at that.... (read in full...)
I'm living with my boyfriend's ex and she hates him, how do I tell her I'm seeing him again?
Q. I have a complicated situation I need help with. A few months ago my mom kicked me out and I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years for a month before we broke up. When we broke up I moved in with a friend who was my boyfriends ex-girlfriend(they ...
A. 12 December 2010: Few questions: Why did your mother kick you out in the first place? What did you and your boyfriend break up over?
So this ex had treated both you girls like crap..one worse than the other, but yet you go back to him well knowing you're going to... (read in full...)
I'm living with my boyfriend's ex and she hates him, how do I tell her I'm seeing him again?
Q. I have a complicated situation I need help with. A few months ago my mom kicked me out and I was living with my boyfriend of 2 years for a month before we broke up. When we broke up I moved in with a friend who was my boyfriends ex-girlfriend(they ...
A. 12 December 2010: Few questions: Why did your mother kick you out in the first place? What did you and your boyfriend break up over?
So this ex had treated both you girls like crap..one worse than the other, but yet you go back to him well knowing you're going to... (read in full...)
Don't know how else to prove my love for him!
Q. Dear Cupid, It's me again and this is the follow-up to my original question " Am I wrong to be in love with my bestfriend". Well as of right now me and him are some what doing good but this week I haven't seen him, he hasn't b...
A. 13 November 2010: I read your last question and I agree with Zuni..Have you made it clear to him that you are there for him if he ever needs you and that you love, cherish him very much. Also what kind of problems is he having that has caused him to leave school? You ... (read in full...)
Can't get pregnant
Q. Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...
A. 5 August 2010: Oh u and I are in the same boat..Weve been trying for 4 months now..Ive tracked my ovulation, and I fear something may be wrong. 85% that try to conceive, conceive in their first yr of trying..Now Idk if this is true well see. The only info I can ... (read in full...)
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