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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 13 November 2011: If he's trying to make an effort then you need to cut him a little slack. He's showing you that he wants to move forward with you. His actions right now say a lot.
Also keep in mind that if you want to stay with him, then you're going to have to ... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
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A. 11 February 2011: Woah, sounds like he's not over his ex if he refuses to delete the pictures and telling you he cannot invest himself in this relationship. Then what does he want this relationship for?
I don't blame you for being insecure over his ex, he's sti... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
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Were these people just messing with me?
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How do I go about this relationship?
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A. 8 January 2011: Have you ever met her in person? Is this a LDR? 5 years of never seeing her and having a phone relationship? I call that a friendship, I don't see how it's a relationship.
It's obvious this girl can't give you what you want when it comes to a rel... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him since our date. Should I keep waiting?
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A. 8 January 2011: What a jackass and a coward! The least he owed you was a text, email, phone call, FB message stating that he had a nice time but believe you to be better off as friends instead of leaving you hanging!!! What poor dating etiquette!
You're better o... (read in full...)
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A. 8 January 2011: Gee, what a great boyfriend you have.I'm presuming the baby is his, so I don't see how he can call you a slut or a whore.
I really don't know what your boyfriend's deal is, because you're too vague about him in your post. My suggestion is for one ... (read in full...)
Am I on to something here?
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A. 8 January 2011: It's possible he likes you, although we're not mind readers so the only way to know for sure is to ask him. This means you making a move and getting to know him. Go for it, otherwise you're just going to keep on guessing. ... (read in full...)
Is my friend just more mature or odd?
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A. 8 January 2011: No, her time isn't running out. She's just growing up. It seems as she's skipping the partying, sex, and alcohol...and focusing on her goals she wishes to achieve in life.
Don't worry about her, she's still your friend..a mature one at that. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible? That he really likes me?
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A. 8 January 2011: Not for sure if he likes you, you would have to ask him to get your answer. It's possible he does and didn't want to admit it in front of his friends.
If you like him you're going to have to make an effort to talk to him. Ask him his number, ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm not over him?
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A. 7 January 2011: Well if you're really over him then why are you having this issue and letting him get to you?
Either he's trying to make you look like the stalking, crazy ex or you really aren't over him and he's not making it up.
Who cares? He's your ex, wh... (read in full...)
How do I get over my first love who dumped me for someone closer to her?
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A. 7 January 2011: Wow.
You sound OCD. In fact, have you been to a doctor about this obsession with counting? If not, I suggest you make an appointment with a specialist immediately.
Yes, the answer is you drove her away by suffocating her. It seemed like it w... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 7 January 2011: It really takes a long time for a guy to learn how to open up. Some guys tend to have poor communication, that usually is because of a lack of dating experience of being a bachelor for so long. You just have to let him know that you're in it for the ... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 7 January 2011: Ah that explains things he's always been reserved and doesn't know how to open up. If he's not communicating with you then the relationship will always have these issues.... (read in full...)
Were these people messing with me or do you think one of them was interested in me ?
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A. 7 January 2011: Yuck what a turn off! Telling his friends that he has your knickers as a prize, and telling you to come to your daddy like a cheesy dirty old man. I don't blame your friends for not wanting to sit with that immature group.
It sounds like you were... (read in full...)
I want this relationship to work so badly but because of the distance we cant see each other! What should I do?
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A. 7 January 2011: Let me say LDRs are hard work and they're not for everyone. They require communication, trust, and some necessary travel to see one another. Is it possible for you both to save $ to take a road trip eventually? Another issue is you have never met ... (read in full...)
Ruined my chances?
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A. 7 January 2011: I don't think you necessarily ruined your chances, otherwise she wouldn't have bothered acknowledging you in the hallway.
It sounds like she's not the one to pursue the opposite sex either, or is unsure you like her. So what to do? Well one of y... (read in full...)
Should I press him to talk more? Should I confront him about the other girl`s pictures? Is it worth it?
Q. Hello. I have a problem, but I`m not sure if I can explain it. I`ll try. I`ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. From the beginning, I had a feeling he`s somehow closed to me. I didn`t know anything about his life, family, friends, except ...
A. 7 January 2011: How recent is this evident chat? There should be a date somewhere on the paper. If it's recent then I would confront him over it, seeing as you snooped and it would continue to bother you if you tried to keep that information to yourself. Now if ... (read in full...)
Its the old triangle thing all over again.
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A. 7 January 2011: Mmm this is tricky.
On one hand you don't want to violate girl code and date J because your best friend isn't over him. In girl world that's the ultimate crime and could cost you a friendship. It seems as your best friend is dating S to help her... (read in full...)
A holiday romance I would like to continue
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A. 7 January 2011: It did go too fast for her likings..seems as though she may be into being friends than a romance. Plus, she's already admitted she has an issue with guys getting too close, meaning relationships all together.
I would let it go, seeing as if you t... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him since our date. Should I keep waiting?
Q. I don't kno what to do anymore. I went on a date with this guy I've known for years but we wernt close we were jst good friend but didn't see eachother often. Anyways he moved out of state and wanted me and my kids to move with him and I explained ...
A. 7 January 2011: Your welcome, I got that 3-5 window from dating self help books, and guys agree that is the correct range. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I've know him since preschool and now he's ignoring me!
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A. 7 January 2011: I'm a little confused. You were his best friend for all those years? Do you have feelings for this guy? Did you guys lose touch after he moved away?
Unfortunately these things happen a lot. Your best friend moves away, or they join a new crowd an... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can tame this Mr. Big, but Aidan might be too sensitive!
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A. 7 January 2011: First off Sex in the City is a fictional show a great one at that. Carrie Bradshaw happened to be a pathetic woman who kept throwing herself at the bad boy who kept toying her around for 10 years. Who in the world would wait for a man that long? ... (read in full...)
He's bottling up his emotions after his friend's death.
Q. Hey guys. Um, my boyfriend and I have been in a real rough place lately. We've been together since freshman year (now we're juniors in HS) and everything's always been pretty great. About 5 months ago, one our really good friends unexpectedly died. ...
A. 7 January 2011: Dealing with a friend's death at that age can be very difficult for your boyfriend to pull through. He doesn't know how to express his feelings, or does he know what to think of this shocking event. It seems to be he's in the process of trying to ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking he should have left that secret in the past.
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A. 7 January 2011: So what's this dirty secret?... (read in full...)
How can I get her to choose between her existing boyfriend and me,whom she loves too?
Q. Its about my life..please read below n advice me... We(me and the girl whom i love..lets calld D) became best friend just two weeks before..it's been a year we became close to each other.. Just before a year. We'd been to educational tour from col...
A. 7 January 2011: Probably because they can't understand your post. Try using correct English words instead of "text speak".... (read in full...)
I really want to be with her!
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A. 7 January 2011: The only option you have is a LDR..but seeing as you two hardly know each other it's about time you start getting to know each other through Skype and the cell phone.
Are you far from her? Can you drive down on your days off to see her? Do you t... (read in full...)
Does my fetish make me abnormal?
Q. Hello, I would like some advice on a personal and potentially embarrassing issue. I have a sexual fetish for shiny or transparent, glossy pvc plastic. Anything made from shiny or transparent pvc arouses me- pvc raincoats, transparent pvc shower c...
A. 7 January 2011: Actually your fetish isn't uncommon, it's actually pretty popular. There are a LOT of people who are into that shiny, wet, nylon, pvc look.
I've seen websites dedicated to it, and numerous videos on youtube about it.
http://ww... (read in full...)
Should I salvage teh relationship, remain friends or cut ties?
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A. 7 January 2011: What is there to salvage? He said he doesn't see it working, so I believe he means what he says.
A few things could have happened here..He got attached really fast and seen you weren't that into then let it go, or he met someone else on New Year... (read in full...)
Should we date or be friends?
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A. 7 January 2011: If things are going good then why keep it as just friends? That butterfly feeling comes and goes, it doesn't happen with every guy.
Maybe you're a little unsure of this online dating and the potential LDR that you could have. Or that you may not ... (read in full...)
We both want different things, and I'm finding it hard to talk to him about it
Q. I didnt reply to a text that this guy sent to me, and he was on msn at the same time as me earlier tonight, but i set my status to " Away " as i didn't know what to say to him. There is a bit of a problem that i have with him at the moment, and i'm ...
A. 7 January 2011: What's this issue you're having with him? What is that you want and how does his wants differ? What is this guy to you, boyfriend, guy you're talking to?
Yes, he's upset that you're not speaking to him. Anyone would be, you're holding in what's g... (read in full...)
Was this advice, or a warning?
Q. Hello, I am posting on this site because well I need help and I havent found any other websites to post to so maybe you all can give me some answers. My girlfriend and I have been toghether for a year and a half and we have always been very happy, ...
A. 7 January 2011: If your relationship has gone south then you already know it's in jeopardy of a break up.
It's not necessarily a warning, it's just her pointing out that you're acting like two different people and that's starting to irk her. Basically, she's ni... (read in full...)
Should I steer clear of this situation?
Q. Hi all, I fancy my dads partner younger brother - is this bad? He is about 10 years older than me, but extremely fun and attractive and I sense he finds me attractive too.. if we were to be out and drinking alone, I reckon something would ...
A. 7 January 2011: Your dad's partner's brother? So if your dad and this partner got married that would make him your step uncle?
That would make for an awkward family reunion if something was to come of you two. Although, you two aren't related and it's perfectl... (read in full...)
A woman I slept with is claiming she's pregnant with my child
Q. A woman I slept with a while ago is claiming she is pregnant with my child, however I had not slept with her at least two months prior to her pregnancy. Obviously I have no reason to believe the baby is mine, however she seems to think it is. Now ...
A. 7 January 2011: Why would you go to court for a child you're certain isn't yours? To prove her wrong through a DNA test? She should be taking you to court for child support if she's thinking it's yours and the judge will order a paternity test to settle this ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my BF added a girl he used to like on facebook?
Q. My boyfriend recently added a girl he used to like on facebook. They originally kept in touch back in 2005, before i met him, and i think originally, they were intouch on msn, although i dont know where they first found each other. She lives in ...
A. 7 January 2011: The American girl is thousands of miles away on another continent...plus he's never met her. She's not a threat. He still talks to her because he feels like she's saved his life. Now the other girl sounds like a friend.You're taking this Facebook ... (read in full...)
How do I explain to him that I don't want sex every single day?
Q. He wants to have sex everyday ... I enjoy having sex with him, but it's much more fun when we have a break at least one day.. It makes it more exciting.. When i say that i am not in the mood, he thinks that i don't want him, that i don't like our ...
A. 7 January 2011: Just tell him like you told us. That you don't need sex everyday to assure his love for you. That you need the cuddling, kissing, regular affection just minus all the sex. Explain that sex daily gets too redundant and less exciting becoming too ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him since our date. Should I keep waiting?
Q. I don't kno what to do anymore. I went on a date with this guy I've known for years but we wernt close we were jst good friend but didn't see eachother often. Anyways he moved out of state and wanted me and my kids to move with him and I explained ...
A. 7 January 2011: I get where you're coming from. You think he should be the one to call you after the date, you want to see that effort so you're assured he's into you. I completely agree. However, I've learned that it doesn't always have to be the guy to call and ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't respect me and only thinks about money
Q. i still love my husbnd to the core but all he cares about is money. he does not care for me or respect me. he insults me and demeans me i do all the chores for him but am totally not appreciated. we have a baby, he plays with baby ignores me is so...
A. 7 January 2011: So what's your question?... (read in full...)
Every time I check her emails it is a bad surprise...so how can I trust her?
Q. OK, weird situation here. I have a friend who is a girl and I am a guy (last time I checked hahaha). Anyway, don't ask how, but I figured out how to check her email. Yeah I know it's low. But the reason I did it is because I wanted to see what kind ...
A. 5 January 2011: Wait she's not even your girlfriend? So right do you have snooping through her email? That makes you a hacker and not a very good friend invading her privacy.
Well you could have done the normal route and got to know her as time passed on. It t... (read in full...)
Should I give him a second chance?
Q. so my first year in college i met this guy who i really never thought nothing of. we became real good friends and started to hangout every weekend or so. he was tall , dark, and handsome and i thought to myself "wow i have one cute friend"... so i ...
A. 5 January 2011: How did this so called friend interfere with your relationship? Guess he wasn't telling the truth in the first place when he said he wasn't interested in one of your friends. It takes 2 to tango, he could have brushed off this friend.
If you can'... (read in full...)
He wont tell me how old he is!
Q. Is it weird for a man not to tell you how old he is when you ask? Especially if it's a man you've been out on a few dates with? He refuses to tell me and gets defensive. I didn't think it was a big deal at the time, so I dropped it. But now I'm...
A. 5 January 2011: How odd. Age is one of the first details you tell your date. It's necessary for those who too big of an age gap is a deal breaker.
How old does he look? Does he look significantly older than you? I'm wondering if he's older than he looks. I... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 5 January 2011: If you don't want to go back to square one then cut off contact completely. Move forward with your life, and this time move on. This contact game is giving you false hope that she's going to come back to you. When in all actuality, she's just trying ... (read in full...)
Should I believe his phone is still broken and he has no other way of contacting me?
Q. i go on a holiday each year, were each year you see the same people each year and become close for the week there. This year I found myself by the last night getting close to one guy, he spent a lot of time over me and made it very romantic- going ...
A. 3 January 2011: So how long has it been since he's talked to you? 4 months? Do you really believe that a person is going to let there cell phone stay broke for 4 months?
There's cell phone insurance that covers that. If not, I'm sure he would pay out of pock... (read in full...)
Any good ideas on how to keep yourself occupied so you don't think about your ex?
Q. The person I fell in love with broke up with me a couple days ago and I've never gone thru such pain of missing somebody. I would love to get back with her but I know that it'll cause only more pain and stress... so how do I keep myself occupied and ...
A. 3 January 2011: In addition to aunt honesty, I read something in a magazine today on how to get over your ex. This reader wrote that she makes a list of all the bad flaws her ex had. Every time she got sad and thinking highly of him, she reread that list of flaws. ... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 26 December 2010: Continue with the short answers...until she actually comes right out and says something about the space or what youg guys had. But I highly doubt she will. Keep it vague yet friendly. Trust me if she wanted more then she would say so. Remember she ... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 15 December 2010: Great, thanks.
Leave it at that.... (read in full...)
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