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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Can I hope for a long term commitment, as no one wants to marry me?
Q. I'm getting lonely and old. I've never been married and have only one child. I'm not picky on guys, I just don't like creepies and players. I haven't been with a guy since 2007. I was a late bloomer. Didn't grow an interest in guys until I was 20. I ...
A. 17 January 2011: Don't settle for less than what you want. So what if you're 30-35. What else do you have going for you in your life? I'm sure you're an extremely successful business woman who has made a niche for herself in this world. There's nothing wrong with ... (read in full...)
How he could beg for me to take him back and yet sleep with four other women meanwhile???
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A. 17 January 2011: So the score isn't so even, but you need to remember that you were broke up and is after all a guy with needs. You dated one guy and he slept with 4 women. So what? You guys were broke up. Don't you think if he didn't want to get back together he ... (read in full...)
After 5 years I felt more pain than happiness
Q. I was in a 5 year relationship when I ended it a few days ago. I love him a lot. I still do. However, it came to a point when I felt more pain than happiness. He began his overseas studies mid-half of last year, and lets just say he's become a ...
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How do you turn a straight boy gay?
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Why does she need this 'space' in our relationship? Is it a test? Or because of the medical news?
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A. 17 January 2011: What is this medical news? It's very possible that it could be because of the bad news. Or it could be because she's not as ready for this relationship due to her abusive past.
Whenever people take a break, it's because things are progress... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but my BF of 9 years has left to live with his new GF. I feel so vulnerable. What can I do to protect my babies and me from being homeless?
Q. I am 5 months pregnant and have two toddler daughters. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and we just bought a house. This is the first year he has made a lot of money since he opened his own business. He recently left the home stat...
A. 17 January 2011: I'm guessing the house is in his name since he has a job...and he makes the payments as well.
How did you get so dependent on him in the first place? Why don't you have a job? Never, ever get dependent on a boyfriend..because when it ends you... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
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A. 17 January 2011: Your feelings for her have never left. You're tearing open the wounds even further with this vague contact. Since she's keeping the conversation vague, I believe she's trying to make an attempt at being friends. Nothing more. Like I said previously, ... (read in full...)
She wants me to get my penis pierced!
Q. Hey everybody! I've been in relationship with this girl for 2 years now... She wants to spice things up so she got a tattoo and she asked me to get my dick pierced!! Is this too much? Is it gonna hurt? Should I do it? So many questions...
A. 16 January 2011: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prince_Albert_piercing
Looks pretty painful to me. A lot more painful than a swift kick in the dick.
It's your body, your choice, but if you're frightened and want to protect your sensitive member then I would tel... (read in full...)
My sister is on her 15th boyfriend since we went back to school in September... should I talk to her about it?
Q. My sister is on her 15th boyfriend since we went back to school in September. She's only 13! and she's getting quite a reputation. I often hear her getting called a slut, even though she says she hasn't had sex with any of them It took her only tw...
A. 16 January 2011: No offense OP, but some teens have that mentality that they're right you're wrong..They hear what they what to hear and that they know it all.
So you trying to intervene or give her a talking to won't do her any good. She's not going to listen. ... (read in full...)
Is it right if your boyfriend ask you to go against your parents?
Q. Dear Aunts, Is it right if your boyfriend ask you to go against your parents? I've been in a relationship for a year now with a guy whom I met online. We started it off with friendship, we haven't met in person. I like him very much, he's a ni...
A. 16 January 2011: Hmm, do you have the $ to go to him? I would think if he's asking you to come to him and visit, the polite thing to do would be to pay for your trip if not half. Is the only thing holding you back your parents?
It's totally up to you if you want... (read in full...)
Why did he say "patience is a virtue"
Q. I ilk this guy and we hav made out before but after that he said things were complicated and he couldn't have any type of relationship right now. That was about a week and a half ago. I haven't texted him for a while and now I texted him yesterday ...
A. 16 January 2011: By the way, I did answer your question. You didn't say what you wanted from him, but in the beginning of your post you state that he doesn't want a relationship..so that leads me to believe you want one. If not then you should be more specific. ... (read in full...)
Why did he say "patience is a virtue"
Q. I ilk this guy and we hav made out before but after that he said things were complicated and he couldn't have any type of relationship right now. That was about a week and a half ago. I haven't texted him for a while and now I texted him yesterday ...
A. 16 January 2011: No it's called the law. ... (read in full...)
Ladies, Would you date a 40 year old virgin?
Q. My friends tell me to lie about being a virgin because they say, if I start to become intimate with a woman and she learns that I am still a virgin, she will be scared away. My friends say by this time, women want experience so my best avenue is to ...
A. 15 January 2011: Not true.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ladies-what-do-you-think-of-a-40.html... (read in full...)
Why did he say "patience is a virtue"
Q. I ilk this guy and we hav made out before but after that he said things were complicated and he couldn't have any type of relationship right now. That was about a week and a half ago. I haven't texted him for a while and now I texted him yesterday ...
A. 15 January 2011: He sounds an awful lot about the other one.
Well if he says he doesn't want a relationship right now, then he means what he says. The "patience is virtue" still means if you stay around you never know what might happen. But that doesn't necessar... (read in full...)
Single mom with her son's best friend?
Q. Single mom with her sons friend? I'm a single 47 year old woman and I have an 18 year old son. I've been divorced for 5 years and haven't had sex since. My son has a very cute best friend who is also 18. They've been best friends for years. Every ti...
A. 15 January 2011: I comprehend that you have had a dry spell for the last 5 years. And to catch your son's best friend playing with his peepee on your son't bed can be enticing. What's done is done.
Now, this is a boy still even though he may be fully develope... (read in full...)
If she's engaged then why is she acting like this?
Q. I'm married. So no "you know better" talk....I already know. Here goes. I have been working with a very attractive, and up till recently, single girl. We've known each other 3 years. For the first couple of years she seemed kind of attracted to me. ...
A. 15 January 2011: I don't really see anyone being demeaning here. You asked a question and received honest answers. ... (read in full...)
Why did he say "patience is a virtue"
Q. I ilk this guy and we hav made out before but after that he said things were complicated and he couldn't have any type of relationship right now. That was about a week and a half ago. I haven't texted him for a while and now I texted him yesterday ...
A. 15 January 2011: Are you still reading into what this guy says, I'm assuming he's the same guy you've been asking about.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-do-you-think-the-text-he-sent.html
http://www.de... (read in full...)
Is it right if your boyfriend ask you to go against your parents?
Q. Dear Aunts, Is it right if your boyfriend ask you to go against your parents? I've been in a relationship for a year now with a guy whom I met online. We started it off with friendship, we haven't met in person. I like him very much, he's a ni...
A. 15 January 2011: It's actually a little bit of both. You're a 24 year old woman who can make her own decisions in life..however, you still live under your parents's roof so you must abide by their rules. You also have to understand that they are looking out for your ... (read in full...)
How can I believe that I don't have a chance with him?
Q. I'm a freshman in college and I can't get over the teacher I fell in love with my senior year at high school. It's been over a year and I expected to be over him by now but I still have fantasies about him and CAN NOT believe that I wont ever have a ...
A. 15 January 2011: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-my-former-teacher-who-is.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/crushes-on-teachers.html... (read in full...)
He asked me out but didn't pay for the date?
Q. A guy that I know is interested in me (we've kissed) asked me to hang out (alone for the first time, also this is the beginning of our "friendship"), but he never paid for me even though he treated it as a date (kissed me again)...is that normal? I ...
A. 15 January 2011: @ female anon, do you happen to be the OP?
For the OP, did he make you pay for it all or did you each pay separately? Did he specify this was a date? If he didn't have much $ to take you out, then he should have waited to ask you out until he... (read in full...)
How do I make a relationship work with someone who is in the Marines?
Q. How do I make my relationship work if I am in a relationship with someone who is in the Marines? How do I deal with understanding their responsibilities?...
A. 15 January 2011: It depends, have you ever been in a LDR? It's kinda like a LDR. You have to deal with them being gone all the time, having to leave at a moment's notice to travel all over the US for training, at times you won't be able to contact them because ... (read in full...)
How to change a man's mind about relationship?
Q. I have couple of posts related to this problem and heres upto date info :) Please help meee!! I met this guy in late Sept 2010, we were getting along so great for a month. After a month of dating him, I knew that I really like him and i'm ready to...
A. 15 January 2011: You can't go trying to change his mind when he already told you no relationships. He's not saying it for the heck of it, he really means it! Not everyone can handle a LDR, you guys can't even handle steady dating in the same country!
Sorry... (read in full...)
If she's engaged then why is she acting like this?
Q. I'm married. So no "you know better" talk....I already know. Here goes. I have been working with a very attractive, and up till recently, single girl. We've known each other 3 years. For the first couple of years she seemed kind of attracted to me. ...
A. 15 January 2011: No sorry just because she's a considerate co-worker doesn't mean she's hot for you. Plus, she doesn't do the those frequently anymore, if she actually was hot for you then she's not anymore.
I suggest you stop crushing on your co-worker when you... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!
Q. My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is ...
A. 14 January 2011: Hmmm sex is a taboo at her age. Now, I'm wondering if (god forbid) she was ever raped, or sexually abused when she was much younger? That would explain her lack of dating experience and being so against sex. In which the only way to overcome that ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend still a virgin, if she has been poked?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 and so is my girlfriend. We have been together for just under 11 morths and are thinking about having sex. We are both virgins. But, she is worried that she isn't a virgin because one her ex boyfriends poked in a past relation...
A. 14 January 2011: A poke as in I poke you with my finger? Or a poke as in a guy pokes my vagina with his penis? Define "poke".
Now if this guy poked her and went in her vagina thus breaking her hymen then she is no longer a virgin. Even if it's an inch or two, a l... (read in full...)
Would it be wise of me to accept his offer?
Q. should i be worried about my boss/instructor? He wants me to do a week of early morning training in the spring (he knows i need to get my fitness up to join the navy). Because of where i live i would need accomodation and my boss said he'd sort it. ...
A. 14 January 2011: What makes you worry? Does he act inappropriate towards you at work?
Maybe he's wanting to save the company some $ by putting you up in his spare bedroom for a week. Or the company has had budget cuts, and doesn't have the extra for hotel ex... (read in full...)
Help! Get me out of the friend zone!
Q. I've know this girl for about two months now and I've been trying to meet up with her one on one, to spend more time with her personally rather than in groups and that outside of college. The thing is, I have ended up in the friend zone. ...
A. 13 January 2011: Snaps to you for moving on Walshie!
So let's take what you have learned in the past and apply it now. You're in the dreaded zone with this girl, giving her advice on this guy, blah, blah. Don't do that, you dig yourself deeper into the friend's... (read in full...)
I was drunk and had a one night stand, how do I get him to forgive me?
Q. I've known this guy for a long time, we used to date when we were in junior high, but after that I lost contact with him, 12 years later I contact him and we start seeing each other, but it wasn't nothing serious, it was more like a "friends with ...
A. 13 January 2011:
The last time he was your boyfriend was in junior high. Now, you are nothing to him. You two HAD a FWBs, that is NOT a relationship. It's just sex with no strings attached.
So you got drunk (yes you are responsible for your actions when you dri... (read in full...)
Sweating problem!
Q. I am a 15 year old female. I seem to have a sweating problem. I've tried every brand and type of deodorant you could possibly think of. The problem with the sweating is not the odor, the problem is the wetness. The deodorants I've tried treat the ...
A. 13 January 2011: I had the same problem at your age, even continued into my teens to 20s. Gross, I know. You don't even do anything and you have pit stains! Like you I had tried every deodorant on Wal-Mart had to offer. What you need to actually look for is a ... (read in full...)
Why am I so eager to find someone?
Q. I'm 19, have Asperger's Syndrome, I'm a uni student. I have plenty of friends, have a great family, but one thin I don't have is that special someone. I've had two relationships, one which last 2 years where my ex refused to touch me in anyway be...
A. 13 January 2011: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/every-time-i-start-to-get-feelings-about.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/autism-is-preventing-me-from-having-relationships-help.html
See there's females on here with your same issue! There's people o... (read in full...)
How do I get my Dad to sort out his will?
Q. My father has not made a will and it will leave very big consequences. He says he will simply pass everything to my Mum. This is fine butt he has not put in place any plan to pass his inhertance tax allowance for her use so that means that ...
A. 13 January 2011: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-speak-to-my-dad-about.html
You sound familiar. ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm acting like a silly teenager with this guy!
Q. There is a guy I know who I am really keen on. He knows this and has done for a while but at the time said he wasn't interested. The problem I have is that I see him regularly so I can't avoid him or forget about him etc, and I know he's unatta...
A. 13 January 2011: If you don't want the chance of having kids to pass you by, then stop wasting time on a guy who's not interested. Which is more important to you? Achieving love, marriage, and a family? Or pining away for a man who has specified he's not interested? ... (read in full...)
He says there more guys like him and told me to move on
Q. Me and some guy that rides in my bus in the morning started talking for a long time and i've been trying a lot for him to get with me.A few months passed and we began texting and talking on the phone for a while just getting to know eachother and it ...
A. 13 January 2011: You sound younger than 18-21.
You should know helping another friend get back his girlfriend when you're talking to another guy you like is a bad idea.
Sounds like he's pretty hurt by you. I suggest letting him cool off for about a week or ... (read in full...)
Is this guy stalking me??
Q. Last year I attended a boarding school, and there was a hockey player who was obsessed with me. He had a girlfriend, so never conversed with me, except the first day of school. Incidents that took place last year were , showing up where I was m...
A. 13 January 2011: Did he stop stalking you after all those incidents?
You were the one to message him on Facebook..so you kinda opened the can of worms on that one. Don't go asking this weirdo what his problem is, clearly he's not right in the head and could us... (read in full...)
Porno for Valentine's Day?
Q. My BF is obsessed with the tv show entourage..and I'm thinking about getting him the entourage parody porno for valentines as kinda joke kinda serious ha. is this a good or bad idea?...
A. 13 January 2011: Hmmm, it would be a great idea to get him the seasons if he doesn't already own them. I'm not sure he would find humor in the Entourage porno, but then again you know him best. Does he like porno? It can possibly be used as foreplay.
Be 100% bef... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents I'm bi?
Q. so im a 14 year old girl. and i think i am bi. and i really want to tell my parents but im scared...... what do i do?????????...
A. 13 January 2011: How do you know that you're bi? What leads you to believe that you are?
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She's coming for the weekend, might be the first time?
Q. Hi, me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and a half and this weekend she is coming to stay at mine. If I have been reading the signs right and not been misunderstanding them, I think it may be the first time for us. The only thing is ...
A. 13 January 2011: You've already answered your own question. Relax, if things point towards sex just respectfully ask if she is ready and if she says "yes" then proceed on. Remember you don't want to force her into something she's not ready to engage in. Now if ... (read in full...)
I don't know about my boyfriend going on holiday to Zante!
Q. My Boyfriend wants to go on holiday with 2 of his (single) friends, the only problem is he wants to go to zante. we have been together for nearly 4 years and i know what hes like when he is drunk, he flirts stares/oggles and has even admitted...
A. 13 January 2011: I'm guessing Zante is a party scene?
There's nothing you can do about him going to Zante, it's a boy's holiday. I'm sure everything is booked and paid for. Even if you try to convince him to go elsewhere, he won't listen and you'll look like a c... (read in full...)
Why did he stop calling when he got a new job?
Q. I have been dating this guy exclusively for a couple of months now. We began by just hanging out in big groups, but then we realized we really enjoyed spending time together and slowly started dating. He kept telling me he was wary of getting into ...
A. 13 January 2011: What's this new job that takes up all his time to where he can't give you the time of day? Did you end up having sex with this guy?
Do you know that it takes not even a minute to send a text? If he likes and still wants to be with you, then he ... (read in full...)
What is with his fickle behavior?
Q. my ex and i broke up at the end of november. he ended it because he felt like we were drifting apart (school and work got in the way of seeing each other a lot). a week after not talking he chatted me on facebook so we could discuss the break up. he ...
A. 13 January 2011: -Why is he acting like this?
It's possible that he's trying to be your friend, but it's rather awkward since you guys just broke up. He may also not be used to the idea that you guys are broken up and trying to be friends.
-Does he like me more... (read in full...)
This is his last chance!
Q. i need your help... i got with this lad that i had liked for agers and i even split up with my partner at the time to be with him and then when i got with this lad he broke up with me for another girl. then about two months later he started to text ...
A. 13 January 2011: Let's see you got with him, and then not even 2 months later he's texting another girl who he wants to be with. Now, I suppose things didn't work out between them and he's trying to worm his way back into your life.
I bet he's really hurting ... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 5 January 2011: If you don't want to go back to square one then cut off contact completely. Move forward with your life, and this time move on. This contact game is giving you false hope that she's going to come back to you. When in all actuality, she's just trying ... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 26 December 2010: Continue with the short answers...until she actually comes right out and says something about the space or what youg guys had. But I highly doubt she will. Keep it vague yet friendly. Trust me if she wanted more then she would say so. Remember she ... (read in full...)
6 weeks no contact to the day and I get an email
Q. Long story short, she dumped me because I was studying for my medical exams and never had any time for her for 6 months. She said little things turned into big things and she couldn't take me not being there for her. She got a new job during that ...
A. 15 December 2010: Great, thanks.
Leave it at that.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!
Q. My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is ...
A. 23 October 2010: Interesting usually it's the other way around..Well it looks like she makes small attempts..However I think you're wrong in her having experience, looks are deceiving. You don't like the affection she attempts but you'll take what you can get ... (read in full...)
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