Got up to answer phone and he noticed the condom had bust. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi In December my bf and i were having sex. We had just started and he probably stroked me about 10 times and the phone rang so i got up to answer it, he then discovered that the condom has bust. He didnt come and wasnt close to coming. Is it po...
A. 17 January 2008: Happy to hear that.The sky is now clear and you can relax.
Thanks for your update.... (read in full...)
How can I convince my friend I am serious about her??
Q. Ok so I have this friend who I really like and she knows I like her but when I try to give her hints on how much she doesn't take me serious. She don't think she will be able to find someone that likes her a lot. So my question is how can I tell her ...
A. 14 January 2008: Thats all you need to do to show her that you care. You cannot smother her until she suffocates.Don't come on too strongly.You may cross the red line.... (read in full...)
According to his rules, he's allowed to sleep with other girls, but I cannot sleep with other guys. If I went along with his idea what does this say about me?
Q. My ex and I have been seeing each other for awhile now. I REALLY like him, maybe even love him. He has said that he cares about me a lot, more than any other girl. We're not committed to each other although I do have deep feelings for him and I ...
A. 13 January 2008: He wants to sow his wild oats. Many men do that in your culture. This is not a big issue. Most men lose their virginity before marriage. Even the girls do the same .When you meet a man , you do not know his past. You don't want to hear his past.
... (read in full...)
I'm confused as to when pre-ejaculation occurs as I have heard various things. Any advice??
Q. If my boyfriend and I had sex and he was inside me not even a minute before putting a condom on, is there a chance there was pre-cum? I am confused also as to when pre-ejaculation occurs. I've heard various things. Please help....
A. 13 January 2008: When the man is sexually excited, the pre cum can leak out . It depends on the strength of the excitement. If it is high , then the pre cum will ooze out .There is a minute amount of sperm in the pre cum .It only require one sperm to fertilize the ... (read in full...)
How can I flirt with a guy and be sure he likes me back??
Q. I know this might sound a bit silly but here goes: how do i flirt with a guy, who i am not sure if he like me back...and what are some signs that a guy likes you back?? Plzzzzzzzzzz help me plzz...
A. 13 January 2008: The way he responds to your flirting will tell you if he is interested in you. You will sense the chemistry and the electricity in the air.
Or you can Goggle this phrase," How do you know if a boy likes you?" There will be many sites which ca... (read in full...)
What can I do about this customer that asked me out??
Q. I have a little problem. I work as a cashier at a restaurant and a client came in today and started taking asking me bout when I go on lunch. He and I did speak before when he asked me about another girl who used to work there. After he asked if...
A. 13 January 2008: If you don't like to go , you need not have to go. Just ignore him .You only work for the boss. He cannot force you to go with that man . I don't think the boss would do anything to you over his overtures. He is just trying his luck.If he troubles ... (read in full...)
My bf is distant with me...what can I say without upsetting him??
Q. I started dating an ex boyfriend for the third time last week, I haven't seen him at all this week with me being at college and him not, and when I arranged to meet him he never came and saw me. I have a friend thats really close to him and she ...
A. 13 January 2008: Call him on the phone to talk to him.As long as you don't criticize him , any topics would be OK. If you care for him , you will call him up.Then you will know where he stands.... (read in full...)
How can I at least get a friendship going and maybe rekindle her desire for me??
Q. Ok, so my girlfriend and I separarted several months ago, after a fight, and we pretty much stopped talking. Sometimes she ims me to talk about our favorite sports teams, or how were doing in school, but other than that, i never see or hear fro...
A. 13 January 2008: Find out what is her interest, her likes and dislikes.Be more evolved in her world. Ask her out .Text her to ask her how she is getting on.Get to 1st base.... (read in full...)
Husband says he doesn't love me anymore.
Q. hi i have just got married and my husbands says he doesn't love me anymore, i believe that it isn't true but i can't be sure please help...
A. 13 January 2008: He is just acting childish like a small boy . He was pique by something you did and he just said it out to hurt you.He has deficit attention disorder.He needs your close attentions and love.If he did not love you enough , he would not have married ... (read in full...)
I told my wife if the baby isn't mine I'm leaving her!
Q. ok me and my wife have been together for about 3yrs and a couple of months ago she cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, i forgave her because i love her and i let her know that i'm hurt. but now she is pregnant! i told her i would stay with her and ...
A. 13 January 2008: She may have cheated on you but we do not know whether it was her fault or her ex .It could be her ex who forced upon her or she was tricked or spiked. The exact circumstance how it happened we do not know. We have to give her the benefit of doubt. ... (read in full...)
I told my wife if the baby isn't mine I'm leaving her!
Q. ok me and my wife have been together for about 3yrs and a couple of months ago she cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, i forgave her because i love her and i let her know that i'm hurt. but now she is pregnant! i told her i would stay with her and ...
A. 13 January 2008: Did you gave a long thought of the repercussions of what you said to her? You forgave her but your forgiveness was not total. Do you really intent to carry out that threat or you were just angry and simply blurted out?
She deserved it but if you l... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I saw her holding hands with someone else?
Q. Okay, I've been wanting to ask someone about this since it happened, but there's no one I could really bring it up to, so I guess I'll use this forum. A few weeks before Christmas, my wife, a good friend of ours and I went Christmas shopping. My ...
A. 13 January 2008: If it bothers you , then you ought to speak to your wife because you need to settle something that is troubling you.It could just be an innocuous act to her and you don't want to make it a big deal. Maybe , the next time you walk with her, you ... (read in full...)
How long will my ex take to get past this??
Q. After being with my boyfriend for over a year I found out that he cheated on me a couple months after the fact. When I found out it completely ruined any trust I had in him but we tried to work through it. Although I genuinely believed that he was ...
A. 13 January 2008: I think you are just wasting your time. If he loves you , he will forget and forgive you. Whatever you do will not bring him back to you because he has already decided the course of actions.You need to accept reality.
If he comes back to you , yo... (read in full...)
What are the signs my bf could be addicted to porn??
Q. I recently moved in with my boyfriend that I met in military training. I just recently noticed that he looks at internet porn ALL THE TIME. The wierd thing is that he doesn't try to hide it like most guys I hear about. Usually something like thi...
A. 13 January 2008: He becomes a porn addict when most of the time , he is online just watching porn and nothing else.
He is addicted to porn when he seems to neglect his work or spend less and less time with you.
You can read more from this site;-
http:/... (read in full...)
Is it possible for me to accept him (and his limits) but not get hurt in the end if he does not truly want a relationship?
Q. I like this guy and he likes me (I am not sure if he likes me for me, or just for sex). I want a relationship with him, but he doesn't want a relationship right now. Is it possible for me to do stuff with him but not get hurt in the end if he ...
A. 13 January 2008: He takes and you gives and in the end what do you get? You give your youth , your time and your body. What do you get from him?
You get germs and you may get pregnant and then dumped.
You give all and get nothing in return. You are being exploi... (read in full...)
How can I get over my driving instructor?
Q. Hi everyone, My problem is silly but i'm finding it really heartbreaking at the moment. Recently I learnt how to drive, I had a really great instructor who made me feel good about myself, gave me loads of confidence and I could talk to him about an...
A. 13 January 2008: Think of all those negatives things about him or demonise him and your mind will get turned off .You will find him repulsive.
Think of him with other women and taking advantage of them.Think of him as having trying to seduce you under the guise of... (read in full...)
How the hell do I get rid of him?
Q. Hi, I have a major problem and its been going on for months. I need to know how do I break up with my boyfriend. Ive been with him 2 years and we moved in together 4 months ago and its like living in hell... He's moody, agressive and nasty and to be ...
A. 13 January 2008: Just pack your bags and things and leave him a note saying "Goodbye!"
If he wants you back , he will have to treat you on your terms.
If not, it is goodbye forever.... (read in full...)
How do I start a romantic relationship?
Q. since about march of last year my sisters friend has been hanging out a lot and coming over and sleeping over on weekends too. i am really in love with this girl and have had chances to do or say something since last march, i have been alone with ...
A. 13 January 2008: Write and tell her your feelings and if she responds, good for you . If not just be her friend.
Find out from your sister how she feels about you.... (read in full...)
How can I deal with his irrational moods?
Q. I'm having quite a big problem with my boyfriend at the moment. We've been together over a year, and have always got on dead well, but recently he's started being so moody and it's hard to be around him. No matter what I say, he thinks so much int...
A. 13 January 2008: It is a phase in his life.Like a fisherman , when they want to go out to fish , they will have to see the weather report. If it is rainy there, stay at home , avoid going there.... (read in full...)
Guys please help me and tell me what turns a guy on.
Q. Hey guys, I really need your advice. What turns guys on? I love giving my boyfriend oral, and having sex with him, but I feel so scared incase I hurt him when I 'explore'. What is it that hurts if someone kicks your testicles? How can I avoid givi...
A. 13 January 2008: Guys are turned on by visuals. Dress sexily, low cuts and short mini with ample assets showing. You do not have to do anything else except smile sweetly and sexily at them. All the guys will get turned on.
Be gentle with his testicles. Don't sq... (read in full...)
How can I convince my friend I am serious about her??
Q. Ok so I have this friend who I really like and she knows I like her but when I try to give her hints on how much she doesn't take me serious. She don't think she will be able to find someone that likes her a lot. So my question is how can I tell her ...
A. 13 January 2008: Be there for her , attentive to her needs, praise her more . This is better than just saying you like her and have fallen for her.She wants a good friend for now. Don't rush in , take your time.... (read in full...)
How can I rescue this potential relationship after I came off so clingy??
Q. I'm interested in this boy, and up till yesterday i thought he was interested in me. Yesterday, i had really bad PMS, and was feeling really insecure about my body and life. I mentioned this to him, and now my friend thinks i'll have come off lo...
A. 13 January 2008: It is only your friends perceptions. The man may not see it this way. You think you made a mistake. There is nothing you can do about that except not to mention them again to him.
You need to have confidence in yourself and don't appear to be ne... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this younger guys infatuation??
Q. How can I help a guy half my age who is completely infatuated with me get out of this?...
A. 13 January 2008: You can talk and reason with him and if that fail, then there is nothing more you can do.We cannot stop people from loving us .
If your life is not threatened in any way , just leave him alone until he grows out of his infatuations or he finds an... (read in full...)
How can I make our long distance relationship strong??
Q. hey, Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month so fair and we are very much in love we usally always text and talk on msn but every so often i don't hear from him is this normal? I feel massively insecure and i have never been in a proper...
A. 13 January 2008: Love is like you go and plant a seed in the soil. You don't know how or why but the seed will grow into a small plant the next morning. You don't have to understand why .
You go take care of the plant by watering it and adding some fert... (read in full...)
How can I make him understand I am not single anymore and am totally committed to him??
Q. Ok, I'm 19, my BF is 22 and he doesn't trust me at all! In my past, I've kissed 4 other guys and gave oral sex to one of them, who happens to be the ex mutual friend who introduced my BF and me. The other 3 guys were guys I had just met at parties,...
A. 13 January 2008: If you love a person , you love him/her warts and all. Some people can even love hookers and marry them.
Why do you love someone who thinks so lowly of you and cannot forgive your past? Are all the men dead?
Don't cast your pearls before sw... (read in full...)
What shall I wear for my date with with an old friend??
Q. I recently met up with a old elementary school friend, whose really sweet and nice, but wants to take me out on a date.Don't get me wrong, I'm happy. But, here's the classic question: What the heck do I wear when I don't have a clue where we're go...
A. 13 January 2008: Wear something that is comfortable and looks good on you. Put some light make up. If it is an official function, he should informed you. Guys don't realize this problem with girls.If you are still undecided , then ask him where you will be goin... (read in full...)
What can I say to my friend?? She seems to be liking my best friend more than me.
Q. I've been seriously in love with a girl for 2 years, shes like one of my best friends. I've also told her about my love, and she said we would be better off as friends, but that was a while ago. My problem is that she flirts with my best friend, ...
A. 13 January 2008: A woman can size up a man quickly whether he can be just friends or a potential mate. If she has decided who can be friends or mate, then it is very hard for you to change her opinions. She has given you her answer and you need to treat her like a ... (read in full...)
I am on the fence about kids and he says he doesn't want them but his parents say he is just scared. It is causing so many problems...what can we do??
Q. I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for 4 years. He is everything I have wanted except we are going through a crisis right now. I am on the fence about kids, in one way I would love to have a family, in another, I would be happy be...
A. 13 January 2008: Do what you have to do when you come to the bridge. If you love each other, just accept his views and do not contradict him.
What a man said is not forever and it can change later.We all grow and change . He may see differently somewhere down the... (read in full...)
Do our flirty messages mean that when we meet up it's a date??
Q. Just wondering about something. There's a guy I like. We flirt a lot over the internet - don't worry we've met each other. We met ages ago and have kept in touch via internet. We send each other flirty messages. He lives in another city tho...
A. 13 January 2008: You may flirt online but when you meet in the real world ,it may not be the same. You could be more reserved .
You can consider it a date. You will be meeting him in real time.... (read in full...)
I've changed and she knows I have but do you think there is any chance for us??
Q. Sorry this may be a little long, but i want to put in as much detail so you guys can understand my situation and to better help give me advice. Me and my ex gf dated for 18 months. but a couple months ago she found out i was flirting on the internet...
A. 13 January 2008: If you love a person , let her go . If she comes back to you then she is yours , if not she is somebody's.
Just go easy on her and treat her like you would to a friend.Time will heal her hurts and pains and if you were to meet again, she will be ... (read in full...)
How can you be sure somebody loves and cares for you before you have sex with them??
Q. How can you know if a guy really loves and cares for you before you have sex with him? I have read that one should hold out a little longer until one is sure...but can one really be sure?? Only after the act can one know what the other person is ...
A. 13 January 2008: Some men are like those car sales person. They will promise you everything before you buy the car, after you bought it , they are no where to be seen or they conveniently forget their promises.... (read in full...)
How can you be sure somebody loves and cares for you before you have sex with them??
Q. How can you know if a guy really loves and cares for you before you have sex with him? I have read that one should hold out a little longer until one is sure...but can one really be sure?? Only after the act can one know what the other person is ...
A. 13 January 2008: If you want to be sure, try the safe and old fashion way , get married legally .If you are not married, his love is like the foot prints in the sand.When the waves come onshore, you will not see any more. Today love you 100% , tomorrow gone with ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him to say something as I don't want to scare him off.
Q. Hello agony aunts and uncles: A couple of years ago I met a guy online and we became good friends. Eventually, we sort of fell into a relationship, complete with the daily calls and "I love yous" and fidelity, etc. I would have gone to the ends...
A. 13 January 2008: A man would sit on the fence as long as he can and do nothing . If you wait for him to come down from the fence,you may become an old woman.
He is like a wild stallion and need to be domesticated. If you do not coral him up , he will run away whe... (read in full...)
Should I tell my new girl I have just come out of a big relationship??
Q. I just broke up with my long time girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. And although we've been together for a very long time, i fell out of love with her for about a month now. Now, i have gone out on dates with this other girl that i really like, an...
A. 13 January 2008: What is past is past. What is yours is yours before you met her. You do not have to complicate matters or clutter her mind with what happened in the past, keep it to yourself. It does not serve any purpose.
It is your actions and not words wh... (read in full...)
What do women need to hear?
Q. I really need your help here women! I know we men love to hear few things during sex such as moaning of the woman, complimenting our tool size, or how good it feels inside....but what about women? What do women love to hear during sex? I would...
A. 12 January 2008: Most women want to feel loved , appreciated and being beautiful in their partner's eyes.During the initial play acting and fore play , words spoken liberally will set her up for the romantic mood.
Once the hot actions start, there is no need for... (read in full...)
We had a threesome and want to do it again
Q. Hi My wife and I have been married for 15 years and its our second marrage for both of us. We have alway had a great sex life and on a few occasions had a threesome with another guy. over the christmas holidays we had a threesome with a women ...
A. 12 January 2008: It is not just purely sex alone for this women who want again. Women are complex beings. Soon she may compete with your wife for your love. A woman cannot think of her man sleeping with another woman .The act of you two making out will torment her ... (read in full...)
When I masturbate I always phantasise about homosexual acts, men or women. Sex with my boyfriend is never influenced by these images, but what do they mean?
Q. im in a relationship with a man, have been for four years. but when i masturbate i often think of women kissing each other or just womens bodies. i also fantasize about two men being together. i never fantasize about heterosexual sex acts, always g...
A. 12 January 2008: It is human nature to want what is unattainable . In our fantasies, we are not limited by any physical barriers and we can fantasize anything we want. We live in our dreams and this can satisfy our inner urges.The dream world is more perfect than ... (read in full...)
According to his rules, he's allowed to sleep with other girls, but I cannot sleep with other guys. If I went along with his idea what does this say about me?
Q. My ex and I have been seeing each other for awhile now. I REALLY like him, maybe even love him. He has said that he cares about me a lot, more than any other girl. We're not committed to each other although I do have deep feelings for him and I ...
A. 12 January 2008: Alot of the men sleep around or visit hookers before they get married. The men are expected to be experience in sex . To them , they need to know more about sex and this is one of the ways to acquire and improve their sexual knowledge and ... (read in full...)
Recently became pregnant, I have an hot-cold relationship with a man I do not love, should I keep the baby? I'm 35.
Q. I have recently found out Im pregnant. I have been in an on off relationship with this man for a year. I am 35 this month and do not have any children. I do not love him and dont know what to do. I cant do it by myself? If I terminate the ...
A. 12 January 2008: You should keep it. The child is innocent and she can be a bundle of joy . I believe children are from God. It is a blessing.
If you cannot keep it or do not want it ,give it up for adoption.
Read the story of this woman who gave up her chil... (read in full...)
Got up to answer phone and he noticed the condom had bust. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Hi In December my bf and i were having sex. We had just started and he probably stroked me about 10 times and the phone rang so i got up to answer it, he then discovered that the condom has bust. He didnt come and wasnt close to coming. Is it po...
A. 12 January 2008: The period cycle is 28 days. That means if yours is regular , your period should come around 12/13 Jan .Sometimes it may come early or late due to your hormones , stress or the food you eat. If after 48 days and your period does not come , you can ... (read in full...)
2 Years Younger Than me, And My Boss' Son. Do You Rekon I Should tell Him How I Feel?
Q. Hiya, OKaaay, Im 16 and I like my boss' son who is nearly 15. Not really sure if he likes me or not but even though he's younger than me he doesn't really act it and he's quite mature. I really like this guy but dont know if it's a problem beca...
A. 12 January 2008: Just being a good friend with him . Don't tell your feelings for him.It is better left unsaid. You are still young .Just enjoy the good relationship with him and his parents.
Once you blurt it out, the perceptions may change.Your relation... (read in full...)
The thought of making love to my husband repulses me. Should I end the marriage?
Q. I have been married to the "perfect" man for 15 years. We do not have children together (he has had a vasectomy) but he has children from his first marriage although they are now grown up. I have a job that I love (fitness instructor) but does not ...
A. 12 January 2008: You can be surrounded with all those material things and yet you can be unhappy .We become unhappy when our desires are not met.The absence of love and romance can make our minds think in extremes.Our mind goes into a rejection mode.We demonise the ... (read in full...)
Why is I seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?
Q. why is i seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?...
A. 12 January 2008: It is some old wives's tale to make the girls look good.Good girls don't masturbate.It comes from the Victorian era. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think of naked pre-teen boys and girls when masturbating?
Q. Hi, I am 18, but I am NOT sick. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I think of naked pre-teen boys and girls. Is this normal?...
A. 12 January 2008: You can think of anything which can stimulate you as long as you know reality and fantasies..Whatever you want to think is your business.If you ask 100 people , all will give you different opinions.If you think it is wrong and your conscience ... (read in full...)
We had a threesome and want to do it again
Q. Hi My wife and I have been married for 15 years and its our second marrage for both of us. We have alway had a great sex life and on a few occasions had a threesome with another guy. over the christmas holidays we had a threesome with a women ...
A. 10 January 2008: Ok ! The link is here;-
http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2007/11/21/thinking-of-a-threesome/... (read in full...)
We had a threesome and want to do it again
Q. Hi My wife and I have been married for 15 years and its our second marrage for both of us. We have alway had a great sex life and on a few occasions had a threesome with another guy. over the christmas holidays we had a threesome with a women ...
A. 10 January 2008: I have written an article on my weblog,'Thinking of a threesome?" You may go there to read it .... (read in full...)
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