We had a threesome and want to do it again
Q. Hi My wife and I have been married for 15 years and its our second marrage for both of us. We have alway had a great sex life and on a few occasions had a threesome with another guy. over the christmas holidays we had a threesome with a women ...
A. 12 January 2008: It is not just purely sex alone for this women who want again. Women are complex beings. Soon she may compete with your wife for your love. A woman cannot think of her man sleeping with another woman .The act of you two making out will torment her ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think of naked pre-teen boys and girls when masturbating?
Q. Hi, I am 18, but I am NOT sick. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I think of naked pre-teen boys and girls. Is this normal?...
A. 12 January 2008: You can think of anything which can stimulate you as long as you know reality and fantasies..Whatever you want to think is your business.If you ask 100 people , all will give you different opinions.If you think it is wrong and your conscience ... (read in full...)
Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 12 January 2008: Why do the man worry about the size so much?Is bigger the better? Some are bigger and some are longer but many man have an average size .
It is rare to find a bigger and a longer one which can only be found in bigger animals like elephant... (read in full...)
Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 12 January 2008: Some men have SPS or ‘Small Penis Syndrome.’They worry about the size of their penis, whether they will be able to give a good performance to their partners.
Some men believed that a bigger and longer penis will give more satisfactions or enhanced... (read in full...)
She was taken aback when I revealed I was a transgender. Is it possible she still have feelings for me?
Q. I really dont know where to start. About 2 years ago. I met the love of my life online, i told her i was man. We talked almost everyday, and emailed each other everyday. I never knew what was love was till she came into my life. A year and a half ...
A. 12 January 2008: She was looking for a real man and you did not fit into her picture. Partly , she felt was cheated too and she does not want to have anything to do with you .
You need to move on...... (read in full...)
My husband is a lovely man but we have become... companions. Facing a new start at this age is frightening, what alternatives do I have, you think?
Q. Am in the middle of a divorce have been married for thirty years to a lovely man. However we have been just friends best mates now for apprx 5 years. I cant imagine what life will be like without him but also know if we dont end this now I will ...
A. 12 January 2008: You may think the grass is always greener over the other side. .You are just running away from your problems.It is not easy to start a new relationship unless you want to look for a younger man.
You should not blame him for your daughter... (read in full...)
Why is he stringing me along? Is he using me or just being a player?
Q. ok i really like this boy put it all on paper we are a perfect match but he likes this other girl he put in his msn addie "u can search th world but you can never find a girl like mine" i am heatbroken. but the thing is he says i am good looking ...
A. 12 January 2008: Does he know you like him? Some boys are not aware of your feelings.Most boys will say that as they don't want to hurt your feelings.
It is only your perceptions of a perfect pair. He may not share your perceptions.
His has chosen her but i... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong or are we just growing apart?
Q. Hello. I'm 13, and I really like this guy I've known him since I was in kindergarden, but I don't know if he likes me, even as a friend anymore. We used to be to txt all the time but ever since my 13th. birthday he's been acting wierd. I had a huge ...
A. 12 January 2008: This guy is probably lovesick for you .He could not bring himself to utter out his feelings and it is stuck in his throat.
He is afraid of the consequences and whether you may reject him. When a boy is in love, he will feel timid and afraid o... (read in full...)
I always "freeze" when having to take the conclusive steps to end my marriage, because of the abuses. What to do about the indecisiveness?
Q. I really need help to make a very big decision - that is to leave my husband. I am 35 - no children. What I guess I am asking is why I have deliberated over it for so long when the evidence that we are not right for each other is so obvious. I ha...
A. 12 January 2008: Firstly , I would like to comment you for your ability and your never give up attitude in your relationship. This is a good trait . You are able to withstand all those emotional abuses. It seems like you have developed an immune system to it. LOL!
... (read in full...)
Why do men need to watch porn and how should I handle my husband's preference to pornography?
Q. Why do men need to watch porn? Every time i go away from home my husband masturbates and watch porn,even if we had sex 2-3 times during the week. It makes me feel uncertain about his love for me. I have told him that but now he does it when I am not ...
A. 12 January 2008: If you discover your husband not only watch pornography in the internet ,but also stores those lurid images on your computer,what would be your reactions, apathy , anger or rage?
Different people will have different opinions or reaction... (read in full...)
Dumped my ex for being too clingy...Now want him back....and I'm being the clingy one! AAAH!
Q. Ok i'm only 17...still young and still have my whole life ahead of me...i know! ...but right now theres only one person i want to be sharing my life with. My ex. We went to primary school together and then re united when we were 15/16. we were ...
A. 12 January 2008: I am sorry to hear that things went awry and not the way you expected. He is just immature or perhaps jealous and lashed out at you . Let things things cool down for abit.... (read in full...)
Why won't he get it together already?!?!?!
Q. Hi. My ex boyfriend and I are still in touch, well we are sort of friends- or trying to be. I still care about him, we were together for two and a half years and broke up in October of last year. I know it is not any of my business anymore, but it ...
A. 11 January 2008: Your break up could have some effects on his ambitions. He may have lost the zeal and initiatives. What is there to study anymore when he loves you and now you are no more.
Some guys can go on and wallow in self pity for a long time.He cant dra... (read in full...)
Is there a nice way to say "lets just be friends"?
Q. Is there a nice way to say "lets just be friends"? I just spoke to a female friend who I have known most of my life. We have been great friends through grade school and high school, and have a lot in common. In 2002, I left for college. She is a yea...
A. 11 January 2008: You have already told her that you are not ready for a serious relationship at this time. You have given her your answer. There is nothing more to be said.She knows where you stand. She knows you want her as a friend for now.She will be O.K Just act ... (read in full...)
I feel I have no life, help please!!
Q. im in a relationship , i feel i have no life i have no say in anything , i can not move anything around the house, ie ornaments, furniture. i have no say in the decor, im not aloud to do the ironing when hes at home im not aloud to buy anything ...
A. 11 January 2008: If you want to win ur right as an indidual and as a wife be prepared to fight for your rights.
He has totally dominated you and destroyed your self esteem, confidence and ability to think.
You cannot talk sense to this guy. If you want to have... (read in full...)
Will any boy ever like me, as I am overweight? Also, can you suggest ways to lose weight?
Q. im 15 and im heavely overweight and i no i am the docters have told me as well im trying 2 lose weight atm but i still im very annoyed cos ive never had a bf and never evern kissed some1 im 16 in aug and it feels really stupid that at nearly 16...
A. 11 January 2008: It is not whether you are slim or overweight, it is your personality which attracts others. Overweight people who are fit and jolly will find friends.If you dont have the confidence and put a scowl on your face always will turn others off. Smile a ... (read in full...)
Ways to make him ejaculate, except for oral and actual intercourse?
Q. I have a boyfriend, and we've been together not long, but we have done quite a lot. It's been great, but for some reason, I can't make him actually cum. It's really bothering me. I can get him hard and everything but I can't get him all the way, and ...
A. 11 January 2008: Imagine you are going to milk a cow...rub gently the tip,it is the most sensitive part.... (read in full...)
Sex with underaged - why is this case exceptional regarding punishment?
Q. i have an 18 yr old mate who has just been to court for sex with a girl 13. now take in mind that he is 18. he says hes not on the sex offenders register has no sex offenders programme to go on and is allowed to carry on seeing this child. i al...
A. 11 January 2008: This is because different judges mete out different standards of judgement.Justice is sometimes not equal.... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband to talk more romantically?
Q. i've been married for less than a month, my husband had to travel away shortly after our wedding...my problem is that my husband behave v.practicaly on phone, he doesn't pick up my romantic gestures and he doesn't talk romance...how can i get him to ...
A. 11 January 2008: Sign him up for a romantic course.Or you teach him how to talk in a romantic way.... (read in full...)
Dumped my ex for being too clingy...Now want him back....and I'm being the clingy one! AAAH!
Q. Ok i'm only 17...still young and still have my whole life ahead of me...i know! ...but right now theres only one person i want to be sharing my life with. My ex. We went to primary school together and then re united when we were 15/16. we were ...
A. 11 January 2008: You dumped him when he was all for you . He was just expressing his love for you but you took it to mean he was clingy.That is a man's love talk.
He could not understand why you acted that way and it hurt him.He is wary of committing any relation... (read in full...)
I found the perfect guy, but soon he goes away to college. My friends say I should brake up, but I can't, what shall I do??
Q. Hey, well I really need help here. I'm dating this guy and he's a 2 years older than me. I'm a sophmore and he's a senior. We where good friends, and did alot of the same stuff like with church and sports. Well he finaly asked me out on a date. It ...
A. 11 January 2008: You don't have to break up with him because he is moving to college..You can still keep in contact with him.You need to be aware that in college he will meet other girls and he may change.You may also change .That is a real probability .
If yo... (read in full...)
How are my parents likely to take the fact I'm dating a girl who is pregnant?
Q. How will my parents react to me dating someone who is pregnant with another persons child. Im 18 and i really do love her. And i will help her with the kid as much as i can once it born while im still in school and treat it like my own. Ive been ...
A. 11 January 2008: If you want to build a house, you will need to count the cost.
If you go ahead without counting the cost , it may cost your dearly.
Can you afford to pay the price?... (read in full...)
How are my parents likely to take the fact I'm dating a girl who is pregnant?
Q. How will my parents react to me dating someone who is pregnant with another persons child. Im 18 and i really do love her. And i will help her with the kid as much as i can once it born while im still in school and treat it like my own. Ive been ...
A. 11 January 2008: If your father have a choice , he would not want you to do that.You are sacrificing your future for a life of responsibilities at a very young age. Further more the child is not yours. It could create potential problems in later life.
You are youn... (read in full...)
Boredom during sex - am I normal to feel this?
Q. i think i am not normal help...while having sex with my boyfriend i always just want him to cum and finish fast i am always getting bored and i feel he takes forever to cum...and veryyyyyyyyyyyyy rarely do i cum..why is this...
A. 11 January 2008: Maybe, he need to polish up his sexual technics.He need to romance you , have more fore plays . Sex has become a boredom because it has become a chore .He is doing the same thing all the time and it becomes boring.
Change your varieties abit , M... (read in full...)
Should I tell the ex wife how I feel, although she is presently in a relationship? I never felt that I stopped loving her, even living 5 yrs with another woman.
Q. I was with a lovely girl for 10 years. We met through work, moved in together, then we bought our first home together and 8 years into the relationship we got married. We were very close and shared everything. I really thought we were going to be ...
A. 11 January 2008: Firstly , you need to confirmed if she is taken . If she is in a relationship, you do not want to be the spoiler.Let her go.There is no necessity to tell her why you broke up with that girl.You do not want to talk bad about another person.
Leave... (read in full...)
He is the the first boyfriend that refuses to perform Oral, although it is the only way I can climax! Ideas?
Q. My boyfriend won't go down on me because he doesn't like the way it tastes. I have never had this complaint before from past boyfriends, and I take care of myself with hygiene. What should I do? It is the only way I can climax......
A. 11 January 2008: Another way it to pop a mint inside his mouth while doing orals.This would musk the smell and taste.... (read in full...)
He is the the first boyfriend that refuses to perform Oral, although it is the only way I can climax! Ideas?
Q. My boyfriend won't go down on me because he doesn't like the way it tastes. I have never had this complaint before from past boyfriends, and I take care of myself with hygiene. What should I do? It is the only way I can climax......
A. 11 January 2008: If you still love him , you need to have patience with him.You can make your own self come or show him how it can be done with his fingers or get those vibrators.
If he does not like the taste, you can pour ginger ale ,honey whipped cream or anyth... (read in full...)
My brother is addicted to grafitti and refuses to see the problem. What can be done before he tears the family apart?
Q. Not technically a relationship question... but advice would be appreciatied as I just don't know what to do. My little brother, 14, is addicted to graffiti. Completely addicted- to the point he can't last a day without going out and tagging, e...
A. 11 January 2008: I am very sorry about your brother.He is on a self destruct mode .He is falling and descending into a bottomless hole. You are at your wits end and the authorities cannot help you .All you can do now is to pray for him to change.
This is the age ... (read in full...)
We had sex and he declares he likes me but does not want a relationship. How is this possible?
Q. So this guy had sex with me and says he likes me, but he doesn't want to have a relationship with me... somethings not right here. Is this possible?...
A. 11 January 2008: What he means is he likes you for the sex part only and do not want to commit into a relationship with you.He is using you thats all.
... (read in full...)
My b/f's in prison. Do I accept it's over between us?
Q. been with bf for 13 years i cheated on him which i deeply regret hes in prison he rings me 3x a day comes home on a weekend he tells me he doesnt luv me and hes using me til something better comes along but yet he still does things for me and hes ...
A. 10 January 2008: He is sorry for being in prison and giving you this kind of life and he wants you to have a better life and that is why he said those words.He felt it was unfair to keep you waiting and if you wanted to leave, he would not blame you .
He loves yo... (read in full...)
I'm bored with him. Should we just move on?
Q. My dilemma is the following. I'm around my 20's, my BF is my same age, and we are each other's first love and relationship. Seriously. We've been together for 2 and a half year now. And we are not the kind of person that would just go around ...
A. 10 January 2008: It looks like there is no romance in your relationship and that you have taken each other for granted.
A holiday or a romantic adventure would put some sparks back into your relationship.
You need to repair and maintain your relationship.... (read in full...)
What can I do for a romantic night in that won't cost a fortune?
Q. Hi, I am having a few problems with my partner at the moment, so in order to show him I love him I was to arrage a romantic night in... I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what I could do that wouldn't cost a fortune thanks...
A. 10 January 2008: Romantic candle light dinners at home with soft music in the background and ambiance is the cheapest and the best .
Men are not so much romantic freaks.
To tell a man , you love him , give him a hug and a kiss and purr like a cat. LOL!... (read in full...)
21 with a little girl and pregnant with twins. Help!!!
Q. hi its me again im the 21 year old with a little girl who has just found out im pregnant and was not sure what to do keep it or get rid of it well i went for my scan yesterday and found out its twins im having so im not going to be a 21 year old ...
A. 10 January 2008: Talk to your parents or the father of the twins. How many weeks is your twins? Don't do anything rash or stupid. Be calm .... (read in full...)
We had a threesome and want to do it again
Q. Hi My wife and I have been married for 15 years and its our second marrage for both of us. We have alway had a great sex life and on a few occasions had a threesome with another guy. over the christmas holidays we had a threesome with a women ...
A. 10 January 2008: Ok ! The link is here;-
http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2007/11/21/thinking-of-a-threesome/... (read in full...)
We had a threesome and want to do it again
Q. Hi My wife and I have been married for 15 years and its our second marrage for both of us. We have alway had a great sex life and on a few occasions had a threesome with another guy. over the christmas holidays we had a threesome with a women ...
A. 10 January 2008: I have written an article on my weblog,'Thinking of a threesome?" You may go there to read it .... (read in full...)
We broke up and she said not to contact her, but she hasn't contacted me either
Q. ADVICE PLEASE? can someone tell me what you think, gf finished with me and for 6 weeks sent letters,emails,flowers but no reply as she said don't contact her when broke up. now for 2 weeks, weeks 7 and 8 have not contacted her, do you think she will ...
A. 10 January 2008: Can you confirmed she is still living at that same address? She may have disappeared totally from your life. You need to check if she is still there.
I don't think she will contact you .Forget her and go on with your life.... (read in full...)
With a great guy, but he has anger issues and is paranoid
Q. Dear Help, In May i came out of a 5 year relationship because he takes drugs i tried to make it work but it didn't no matter how hard i tried. When we finished i swore i would never get serious with anyone again. Then i met this lad he has every...
A. 10 January 2008: He needs to learn anger management and you need to know what causes his anger and not to press those ballistic buttons. To keep quiet when his volcano explodes.... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 10 January 2008: Glad you have that kind of attitude.It is good to hear that you have overcome this problem.
... (read in full...)
How can I stop him sending pictures on his phone?
Q. my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years keeps texting other girls. He has pictures of them and dirty messages which he sends and they send. He does not know I have seen them.....this time. I confronted him few months ago about them and he promised he would stop ...
A. 10 January 2008: You are pregnant and he has no sexual outlet for so many months . It is a man thing. They like to look at all those gorgeous or naked women pictures. Don't feel threatened by their actions.Men and women are different. He is just a normal hot blooded ... (read in full...)
What did his gesture mean?
Q. I don't know if i am being paranoid, that's why i need you guys to help me out please!! I was chilling out with my boyfriend at his friend's place. At one point i was playing with the dog when i heard my guy tell his friend, 'I had a----- that's why ...
A. 10 January 2008: Did you have oral sex ?... (read in full...)
Does my friend like me or not?
Q. Ive liked my friend for about 14 months now. We talk often been out as group of friends. Sometimes I feel she likes me but other te she does not. After Xmas saw her at college and she said hi first. Had a chat. My question is shall I tell her how ...
A. 10 January 2008: If you want to invite a girl out , you need to know what is her interest,what are the places she likes to go.
Get to know her better before you invite her out.This way you have a better chances of success. Apparently she does not like to go to th... (read in full...)
The whole school knows I love my teacher but every time I try and get over her it doesn't seem to work.
Q. I really really love my teacher. Im almost 15 and shes married and 26. I have loved her since Feb 2007. Everytime i try to get over her it makes it even harder, and i was so convinced that she liked me that i told her how i felt and i acted on it ...
A. 10 January 2008: If you really cannot take it , then you need to change school to be away from her. You could go for counseling.... (read in full...)
What gives guys the most pleasure in foreplay?
Q. I'd love to give my boyfriend great foreplay, to get him excited for whats coming next. But I want him to enjoy the foreplay a lot too, and not just the sex. I feel he might only be doing it, with the intentions of getting it over quickly, so we can ...
A. 10 January 2008: You can masturbate him slowly and give him some boobs massages or some great lickings.... (read in full...)
Did she treat me badly? Should I be angry?
Q. I will give a brief introduction to my situation. I just finished my first semester at University where I started a relationship with a girl very quickly. The feelings at first were mutual but over time I noticed, but didn’t admit to myself that she ...
A. 9 January 2008: You were the chaser. She just basked in your attentions. She has too many male admirers and you were just another also rans. You cannot fault her as you went after her and not the reverse. If you find she has no feelings, then you should have cut ... (read in full...)
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