Does this girl like me? I can't tell
Q. So i talked to this girl over the phone and she kept giggling and saying I'm cute. Then we met in person and she told me that i have a nice body and she told me I'm cute again. She was acting super nervous around me and said to me "Sorry for ac...
A. 8 July 2016: The thing is though that you felt this escort liked you before she even set eyes on you, just over a phone call? She is well capable off trying to get a man feeling like he is wanted and special and one of a kind. Now am not saying that you are none ... (read in full...)
What satisfaction do some men get from sleeping with so many different women?
Q. What satisfaction do some guys get from sleeping with so many different women? Seriously, what satisfaction does one get from this? It really perturbs me that there are men like this out there. Men who think it's nothing to sleep with their friend's ...
A. 6 July 2016: THIS IS THE BEST ANSWER
A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2016):
Idk. Why don't you ask my wife. She had sex with many, many guys before we were married (about 3 dozen) under all sorts of circumstances. An guess what...she is a ... (read in full...)
False rumor. Then cheating.I forgave him. Am I a mug? Have I done the right thing?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 16 months now. Then this weekend a rumour spread about me and another guy which wasn't true, I told my boyfriend about said rumour before it got to him by other means and he told me he believed me. He de...
A. 6 July 2016: Real love? Do you think he loved you when he was on top of some girl having sex with her? If you want to make it work then that makes you a stronger person than I am, because I would not be able to trust him again, I could pretend that I was, but ... (read in full...)
Does this girl like me? I can't tell
Q. So i talked to this girl over the phone and she kept giggling and saying I'm cute. Then we met in person and she told me that i have a nice body and she told me I'm cute again. She was acting super nervous around me and said to me "Sorry for ac...
A. 6 July 2016: I just think you are reading to much in to it, you paid for her company and that is what you got, if you feel there is a genuine interest then ask her out on a date, but I know you are not willing to do that because deep down I think you know she ... (read in full...)
Does this girl like me? I can't tell
Q. So i talked to this girl over the phone and she kept giggling and saying I'm cute. Then we met in person and she told me that i have a nice body and she told me I'm cute again. She was acting super nervous around me and said to me "Sorry for ac...
A. 5 July 2016: I honestly don't think that an escort would date one off her clients, so if you where to go again and pay a second time well then I think it would be lessening your chances of actually going on a date with her. ... (read in full...)
Does this girl like me? I can't tell
Q. So i talked to this girl over the phone and she kept giggling and saying I'm cute. Then we met in person and she told me that i have a nice body and she told me I'm cute again. She was acting super nervous around me and said to me "Sorry for ac...
A. 5 July 2016: Yes you where the only one that was there so you have to go by your gut instinct, but in my experience, these girls want there clients to keep coming back, so they need to be really good at what they do, now am not saying you are not good at picking ... (read in full...)
Does this girl like me? I can't tell
Q. So i talked to this girl over the phone and she kept giggling and saying I'm cute. Then we met in person and she told me that i have a nice body and she told me I'm cute again. She was acting super nervous around me and said to me "Sorry for ac...
A. 5 July 2016: Did you pay her for this date? If the answer is yes, well then she is paid to do what it is that you want, she is paid to call you sweet names and the be safe text was to keep her in your mind so that you would come and visit again. Do you actually ... (read in full...)
He is staying overnight at the home of his ex, for family reasons. Is this appropriate? Do I have a right to be concerned?
Q. Hi. Quick question. Been with my boyfriend over a year. LDR and although I've met his kids, I haven't met the mother of them yet, just seen in passing as he drops off the children. We see each other most weekends. A few days back he stayed at h...
A. 4 July 2016: I totally agree with you that it is inappropriate, no I highly doubt he would even suggest staying over if she had a partner, he should have more respect for you, I know that you trust him, but that doesn't matter he is not thinking about you here ... (read in full...)
How can I suggest pencilling in a night or two in advance in her schedule, without it sounding too heavy?
Q. Right, I've been dating a girl for a few weeks now, we really get on, have a lot of similar interests, and share the same sense of humour, I really like the girl to be honest. The thing is, she seems to be good at planning work, gigs, etc in her...
A. 4 July 2016: Just simply say to her what days is she free this week so you can try and match them or vice versa so that you can plan some fun dates together! It can be real casual without sounding heavy at all. ... (read in full...)
Is this normal in a good relationship? Or am I being submissive towards him?
Q. Dear Cupid I have a history of being in abusive relationship. So I wouldn't know a anything about being in a normal relationship. Currently in dating a good person for about 4 months. We have good sexual chemistry and we talk, he doesn't push me ...
A. 4 July 2016: The relationship is still new and if you spend most weekends together then that is a good sign. If he spends the whole weekend doing other things while you are with him then I would talk to him about it, but if he does do things with you as well as ... (read in full...)
Does this girl like me? I can't tell
Q. So i talked to this girl over the phone and she kept giggling and saying I'm cute. Then we met in person and she told me that i have a nice body and she told me I'm cute again. She was acting super nervous around me and said to me "Sorry for ac...
A. 4 July 2016: She might not be to good at texting. Is it the first time you met? If it was then I would suggest slowing things down, if it was the first time and she was this forward then I would questions what it is she wants from you, maybe it was just a hook ... (read in full...)
How long do I give him to decide?
Q. Hi , I decided to bite the bullet and ask my friend out , there is some chemistry between us and he has told me he does like me in that way . he said he would think about it . How long would you give someone to think ? i dont expect him to get back ...
A. 4 July 2016: I don't think you should contact him now at all. The thing is you have told him how you have felt and he says he needs to think about it, so therefore do not contact him now until he contacts you, the longer you wait the more likely it is that he ... (read in full...)
What kind of man is he? And what kind of relationship can I expect with him?
Q. Hello I have been chatting with a man I met on a business website we have been chating for 20 days, from the first few days when he added me on Facebook he said that he liked me but he felt he was too old for me which is 20 year difference, but I ...
A. 4 July 2016: He has pretty much told you that he wants your body, he wants to have sex with you and be intimate, but it will not go past that, he is pretty much warning you not to enter his world if you are looking for more. The thing is if sex is all you want ... (read in full...)
I love women. But I seem to react differently. do get an erection when a woman sees me naked. Does this mean I might be gay?
Q. There is something weird about me. As far back as I can remember, I have always been sexually different from normal men. I do not think I am gay. I am not attracted to other men at all. I am attracted to women, but in a different manner from ...
A. 4 July 2016: You are not a freak at all, you are just turned on by different things than the norm. Embrace it. There are probably a lot of people out there like you, so please don't be to harsh on yourself. ... (read in full...)
Freedom to interact with others curtailed due to family rules. Why can't people leave things alone?
Q. Every social media I get is ruined for me! I used to be on live journal a long time ago, when I was 16. i tried to use it when no one was looking but when my dad backdated the computer, he saw it and browsed but only came up with my username. I...
A. 4 July 2016: the thing is, you are an adult therefore you are free to move out of home, I can understand why your parents are worried about you, but legally they have no hold on you. The thing with the flat is if your friends are not paying there rent that is ... (read in full...)
False rumor. Then cheating.I forgave him. Am I a mug? Have I done the right thing?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 16 months now. Then this weekend a rumour spread about me and another guy which wasn't true, I told my boyfriend about said rumour before it got to him by other means and he told me he believed me. He de...
A. 4 July 2016: I know you must be hurting at the moment, but you say you can trust him and move on, but what happens the next time he wants to stay at his friends? Will you feel happy and secure knowing they are in the same house? Or what happens the next time a ... (read in full...)
What satisfaction do some men get from sleeping with so many different women?
Q. What satisfaction do some guys get from sleeping with so many different women? Seriously, what satisfaction does one get from this? It really perturbs me that there are men like this out there. Men who think it's nothing to sleep with their friend's ...
A. 4 July 2016: I'm sorry but your post is very one sided and well I know women who do the same, go out looking to have sex with as many men as they can, they like to tease them and never call again, they get satisfaction of being able to have as many men as they ... (read in full...)
Dreams about a former professor?
Q. Hello. I'm not sure why I am having dreams about another man. I am in a happy relationship and I am 20 years old. I occasionally have dreams about being with a different man emotionally and physically though. Aht surprises me is that the man in my ...
A. 4 July 2016: There is not a huge lot that you can do, if you ask me it is probably just a fantasy in your mind while you are sleeping, don't read to much in to them. It does not mean that you have feelings for him. So don't panic and think there is more to them, ... (read in full...)
Warned that he was a bad boy but I still stay
Q. Okay so, I met a guy through a dating app,he looked cute to me, and we started off really well. Turns out,he is an acquaintance of a really close friend of mine,and she instantly warned me of his bad boy ways,it wasn't really difficult to believe ...
A. 4 July 2016: I think that you know he is using you, the thing is you like him but you have convinced yourself you don't want to date him when deep down you know that you want more than what he is giving you. I would be worried that this will keep going and you ... (read in full...)
Am I right in thinking this is rude and unprofessional?
Q. A friend of mine recommended me for a translating job. I was supposed to translate 30 short texts in 3 months. That was the deal. Even though the money wasn't great, I accepted the offer since the employer was a person of good reputation. In this ...
A. 4 July 2016: Just be honest with him, tell him how let down you are, tell him how you trusted him on his word and that you have turned down other work for this. Other than telling him how you feel though, you know yourself there really is not a lot than can be ... (read in full...)
He seems to be losing interest in me
Q. Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years now we have a 1 yr old daughter together the problem is he seems to have lost interest in me I'm no different from when I had our daughter I'm the same size as I was pre pregnancy he is always ...
A. 4 July 2016: Stare at men every time you see them, see how he reacts. The thing is Sweetie men will look it is in their nature, it does not mean he doesn't fancy you anymore. Maybe things have slowed down since having a baby but that happens. Try spice things up ... (read in full...)
Do I leave my new job after only one week, and how should I go about it?
Q. Hey guys :-) so I hope no one minds but I have a career question here, I've been stressed about it all week and as the DC community are so lovely I thought I would ask here. Anyway I'm 23 and have been working in a public sector office job for j...
A. 4 July 2016: Okay I will be honest with you, if it is the same company and you refused a job once, then done an interview for this and then refused this one, then yes they will see a pattern, not only that but they will not take you serious, they will feel like ... (read in full...)
I let personal issues destroy my relationship and I want her back!
Q. I met my ex 2.5 years ago. She came into my life during a really dark time and I made a huge mistake during it. In short, my self esteem took a major hit for a while and I ended up using tinder to swipe on photos in order to make myself feel good, ...
A. 1 July 2016: You know what you did was horrible but you did not think it was relationship ending? Really? Tinder is knowing for being a hook up dating site. If I found my fella on this, I would not be able to trust him again, the trust would be gone so yes it ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend admitted his feelings changed... How do I move on?
Q. I was with my (now ex) boyfriend for six months. The first four months were amazing, we were both very committed to one another and had great chemistry. During the past two months however he became very distant. Communication on his part went from ...
A. 1 July 2016: Sweetie you need to ask your friends not to show you this stuff, it is not going to help you its just going to make you feel worse. Ask your friends not to tell you anything about him, its time you avoided all off his social media and internet ... (read in full...)
Another guy has spoilt our friendship
Q. I'm friends with a female at work and I'm concerned that she isn't into me anymore like she used to be. We used to talk, have a laugh and things seem to have changed. A man who I'm not friends with anymore and who I'm not keen on is now friends ...
A. 1 July 2016: You should listen to Tisha 1 because it could happen that you end up making her feel so uncomfortable that you lose your job because she files a complaint. You may think you are being good and kind to her, but if she has no feelings, this amount off ... (read in full...)
Can you be over friendly with a work colleague?
Q. Can you be over friendly with a work colleague? After kissing her on her neck/shoulder, she came back with kisses on the cheek. When asked what she was doing, she blow a kiss back. Calls me stupid names like baby boy, lover, - makes stupid ...
A. 1 July 2016: You are not meant to kiss a work colleague! It sounds like more is going on here, if the hugs are awkward I wonder why the kisses on the neck and shoulder are not awkward? I would cringe if a friend done this to me. There is a fine line between love ... (read in full...)
My shyness means I have no dating options, help me out!
Q. I am very very shy and at 25 I have never been in a relationship or anything of the sort. Sometime back a lady and I became friends from hi to kinda chat buddies. In all honesty she says she loves me. I however don't think I can ever get attracted ...
A. 1 July 2016: You cannot force yourself to love someone, it has to come naturally and if you think that you should stay with her because you won't find anyone else well then that makes you selfish, because you are using this woman, and she deserves to be with ... (read in full...)
We caught feelings for each other, any advice?
Q. My fwb and I have both managed to catch feelings for each other. Our talks are no longer all about our next meeting, we text from good morning to good night throughout our day. Our conversations have been getting deeper. A few days ago we were ...
A. 1 July 2016: He has admitted feelings for you and vice versa so to carry on with a FWB situation would not be wise, because someone would end up getting very hurt. You have kept going back to each other for years, so it sounds to me like there was always a spark ... (read in full...)
I need beach date ideas!
Q. so i have been on a couple dates with this guy and i suggested a beach date and he said ok so we are going to the beach but we havent decided more than that . What are some cute fun flirty things I could do with him on the beach? How can I make my ...
A. 1 July 2016: You could maybe make up a picnic to take with you so that you both have something to eat and drink. As for what to wear keep it casual as it is the beach after all. Maybe wear a swimming costume and wear a beach dress over it with some sandals. It ... (read in full...)
Is this family weird?
Q. I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and he lives with his parents and brother. His brother is 17. His Dad is away on business a lot and so his Mum spends time on her own. My boyfriend told me yesterday that his brother slept in the same bed as his Mum ...
A. 1 July 2016: There could be a reason why she does not like being on her own, and well even though he is 17 he is still probably like a little boy to her, I really see no harm in them sharing a bed. If it was her daughter would you have even batted an eyelid? The ... (read in full...)
It's my first date in years! Help?
Q. Hey, I'll make this as short as I can. I finally asked out the girl that I'm infatuated with and she said yes. We're supposed to go out for dinner in a few days. Problen is, I haven't been out on a date in so long I don't know what to do. I've been ...
A. 1 July 2016: If I was going out on a date with a guy, I would expect him to look and smell presentable, be friendly and smile. I would rather him just be himself and talk to me like he would talk to any other girl that he did not fancy. Light flirting is nice, ... (read in full...)
She's moved on, so should I, but how?
Q. I miss my ex girlfriend, but I don't want her back. But I do. It's odd. Hense my screen name, I feel like I am going insane. We met in church in early 2014. Became best friends. Started dating by Valentine's Day 2015. And honestly for the first li...
A. 1 July 2016: If you are uncomfortable at your church then you should move. A church is somewhere you should be able to go to be peaceful and happy. So if you are uncomfortable then change.
Now on to your ex girlfriend. If you have any contact with her at all ... (read in full...)
She's giving me mixed signals. Does she like ? Is she being genuine?
Q. While I was at work, I noticed that a female has taken a shine to me, I don't know if I read into the wrong or she genuinely liked me. I've not asked her out, but I'm thinking of doing and im not sure what to do for the best. While I was making m...
A. 30 June 2016: You need to be more relaxed about it, hey wanna go for a drink tonight? Hey wanna have lunch tomorrow? Hey how about we go for dinner on Wednesday? Get what I am saying keep it casual and see her response.... (read in full...)
Why is this guy acting immaturely at work to ruin my friendship with a another co-worker?
Q. I work for a company and enjoy the job I do, and I've made friends which is good. The problem is there's this lad who is like a reaptive parrot and copies everything I say. There's this female who says hi to me and asks me how I am, so when ive ...
A. 30 June 2016: From reading all your other posts and then looking back at this one it is clear that this girl does not like you in a romantic way. The other guy seems to annoy you because you think off her as more than a friend, I guess the best thing that you can ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a friendship with this guy but also raise my concerns as a means to support him over issues that seem concerning to me?
Q. Dear Cupid...I'm strongly attracted to a single guy but I get intense feelings of concern/worry about his well-being and I worry that I'm going to end up revealing my concerns and he will cut me out of his life because he hates it when people worry ...
A. 30 June 2016: I think you are worrying to much about the what if's. You like him well great, tell him that, enjoy his company, make him happy. At present he is not seriously ill that we know off so live for the moment, no amount of worrying is going to change the ... (read in full...)
Being bullied by boss at work, female I talk to now and then and issues
Q. I have a job and love it and i've made a few friends which has been good for me in terms of confidence as it's helped. I say hi now and then to a female I'm friends with, we don't speak much as time is very limited with her job and mine. Asked if ...
A. 30 June 2016: Just try and remain calm in these situations, if you forget your words then simply smile. Body language counts as a lot.... (read in full...)
Is he serious about our future?
Q. Hi all, I am in a long-distance relationship. I am from Italy, my partner is Spanish and has been living in Germany for over 15 years now. He was unemployed for ages but now has a good job, it is on a contract basis but they love him and have sai...
A. 30 June 2016: Again I am going to say that it is up to himself what he does with his money, he is working so if he wants to spend it all on weed and smoke I will not judge, if he is lazy and does not want to work, I wont judge. But would I date him and view him ... (read in full...)
I feel like "Mr No Spine"
Q. His ladies and gents, long time no post here. The past 4 years have been great, I have met a great woman, and 1 year ago, we got married. We are living with her parents, it can get a little claustrophobic at times. Just for a small amount o...
A. 30 June 2016: You have had so much great advice on hear, reading your post and your update has filled me with such sadness. Your life really must just be you trying to get your wife to stop talking to him, then you checking and seeing that she still is talking to ... (read in full...)
He just wants to argue and never says sorry.
Q. So I've been dating my guy for 8months now, but we've known each other for years as good friends. im 26 and hes 30. We both work. Lately he has been talking about taking me to see his family and talking rings and marriage and I love him but ...
A. 30 June 2016: Talking marriage after 8 months is not a great sign when you are both not getting along with each other, do you even live together? You should think long and hard if this is what you want? ... (read in full...)
How do I seem more open so he could approach me one more time? How do I get rid of my shyness and nervousness?
Q. Okay so I've been going to this new gym for weeks, and a week go, a guy at the gym saw me doing a workout incorrectly, and he came to me and told me how to do it right, and since then, I started to notice him. I've seen him giving a weird glance to ...
A. 30 June 2016: Don't allow the shyness to be you. The thing is we all get nervous when it comes to certain things, but we must over come our fears. Don't let your feelings control you. Practice in the mirror what you would like to say to him, keep practicing until ... (read in full...)
Another guy has spoilt our friendship
Q. I'm friends with a female at work and I'm concerned that she isn't into me anymore like she used to be. We used to talk, have a laugh and things seem to have changed. A man who I'm not friends with anymore and who I'm not keen on is now friends ...
A. 30 June 2016: Go back to the other posts and also read the advice you got there as well as here, what is it you want to hear from us? Do you want someone to tell you that it is not okay for her to be friends with this guy and that she loves you? Look you need to ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue things further with him?
Q. I have been interested in guy who works the next building from mine.He's always friendly and was giving off subtle signs of interest. I finally gave him my number and told him to call/text sometime.He said sure.Then I ran into him the next day and ...
A. 30 June 2016: From reading your update I still think you should let him make a move, you made the first move and he said he lost your number and has not asked for it again. If a girl approach's and asks for your number well it is clear that she likes you. I ... (read in full...)
We broke up 2 weeks ago and I've heard nothing from him! Did he ever care? I'm confused and hurt!
Q. Trying to get over the guy I was with dumping me out of the blue after 6 years, it has been 2 weeks and everytime I hear nothing from him I am slowly giving up and hardening my heart to any reconciliation or speaking to him ever again. I feel li...
A. 30 June 2016: A relationship that is On and Off really does explain a lot to me as well, if it was working then it would never be off, it is clear that you guys never could work through your problems. He needs space from you while you made him the center of your ... (read in full...)
I'd like to get more serious, should I tell him how I feel? Or just roll with it?
Q. Last August I got with a guy for he first time, I went back to school and he went to college I didn't think much of it until I bumped into him a few weeks later at a party and he approached me and we chatted for a while, both of us were sober. Two ...
A. 30 June 2016: It could be possible that he is holding back because he is friends with your ex and he does not want to step on his toes. You need to be honest with him about how you feel and ask him to be honest with you, if he is not ready for a relationship, or ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend admitted his feelings changed... How do I move on?
Q. I was with my (now ex) boyfriend for six months. The first four months were amazing, we were both very committed to one another and had great chemistry. During the past two months however he became very distant. Communication on his part went from ...
A. 30 June 2016: You just need to accept that this is going to be a hard time for you, there is no quick fix, there is no way off just wakening up and forgetting what has happened. There will be times you will be sad, there will be times where you are angry, but it ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue things further with him?
Q. I have been interested in guy who works the next building from mine.He's always friendly and was giving off subtle signs of interest. I finally gave him my number and told him to call/text sometime.He said sure.Then I ran into him the next day and ...
A. 30 June 2016: From reading your previous posts if this guy has a girlfriend then you need to learn that he is off limits and leave him alone. ... (read in full...)
Can't help feel offended by boyfriends comment. Advice please !
Q. Well my boyfriend was showing me this video the other day , the music video from fifth harmony called work. He said I look a bit like Camila cebelo , and I said thanks (she's really pretty if you guys have seen her!) anywaysyyyy he said to me that ...
A. 30 June 2016: Your poor fella, he gives you a compliment and says you look like her only younger and somehow you managed to take the negative from it, imagine if he pointed to a telly tubby and said hey this looks like you? Wonder how you would take that? You ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to take an ex back?
Q. I have not been seeing or contacting my ex for two years now. He sent me a text yesterday just to say hi on social network. As we text he tells me he is still inlove with me and wants to be the best guy for me. He blames himself for the break up ...
A. 29 June 2016: Never.... (read in full...)
Being bullied by boss at work, female I talk to now and then and issues
Q. I have a job and love it and i've made a few friends which has been good for me in terms of confidence as it's helped. I say hi now and then to a female I'm friends with, we don't speak much as time is very limited with her job and mine. Asked if ...
A. 22 June 2016: Why would you have made yourself look like a fool? The thing is we say hello to people and work and ask how they are, but they might be in a rush so they say hello back or maybe the smile to acknowledge us. That is perfectly okay. It is great that ... (read in full...)
Is he serious about our future?
Q. Hi all, I am in a long-distance relationship. I am from Italy, my partner is Spanish and has been living in Germany for over 15 years now. He was unemployed for ages but now has a good job, it is on a contract basis but they love him and have sai...
A. 22 June 2016: He was in debt and now he found himself a job that pays well he works long hours and now he is finally in a good place and saving money. I am sorry but I can understand why he is being tight with his money, as not to long ago he was in debt and that ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a friendship with this guy but also raise my concerns as a means to support him over issues that seem concerning to me?
Q. Dear Cupid...I'm strongly attracted to a single guy but I get intense feelings of concern/worry about his well-being and I worry that I'm going to end up revealing my concerns and he will cut me out of his life because he hates it when people worry ...
A. 21 June 2016: He is an adult, if he is not eating properly and is pushing himself to far well then he is responsible not his parents. His parents might be glad off his success and want what is best for him, that does not mean they want him to starve. Yes it is ... (read in full...)
Why is this guy acting immaturely at work to ruin my friendship with a another co-worker?
Q. I work for a company and enjoy the job I do, and I've made friends which is good. The problem is there's this lad who is like a reaptive parrot and copies everything I say. There's this female who says hi to me and asks me how I am, so when ive ...
A. 21 June 2016: You could just ignore him, you say she likes you therefore it is possible that he is jealous therefore he is being a pain in the butt. Ignoring him means that you are not fueling him and he doesn't know that he is annoying you. ... (read in full...)
She's giving me mixed signals. Does she like ? Is she being genuine?
Q. While I was at work, I noticed that a female has taken a shine to me, I don't know if I read into the wrong or she genuinely liked me. I've not asked her out, but I'm thinking of doing and im not sure what to do for the best. While I was making m...
A. 21 June 2016: What makes you think that she is skeptical and has doubts? Your email sounds as if this girl has not even looked at you and you are trying to ask her out. Let it be a bit more casual.... (read in full...)
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