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How do you heal a wound so deep in your heart? How do you stop being jealous?

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Question - (9 March 2018) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2018)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

How do you forget something so hurtful as seeing your partner make love for hours to a much younger woman in her teens and that moment when you see it you have just given birth and you are not as fresh and new as her teen body and your boobs have sagged and you can’t stop comparing to her because he treats you like you are not sexy or atractive, not worth doing all the maneuvers that he did to get her?It’s been one year from that and I swear I have tried to be good but she’s successful and I am jealous of her to an extent where I cry at night and obsess over her and I’m not happy because all I do all day is take care of the baby’s need and the house chores

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (9 March 2018):

aunt honesty agony auntI would be seriously worried at the fact he is having sex with someone who you describe as a teenager. Is she the legal age of consent? Also why would you want to watch something like that for hours?

If he treats you bad then you leave. You take your baby and you get away from him. Nobody should be in a relationship if it doesn't make them feel good about themselves. Also he cheated on you so why on earth would you stay with him?

You have tried to be good? You have done nothing wrong!! He was the one that done wrong, he is the one that cheated! You are jealous of her because it hurt so much that he choose to do that to you. You might never get over that, but staying with him is never going to be easy. Can you ever trust him? Do you want to live your life feeling this bad?

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia + , writes (9 March 2018):

Aunty BimBim agony auntIf you are being treated as a lesser being, treated as less worthy, if he is not working hard to regain your trust and putting all his effort into making you feel loved and that your little family is the centre of his world then my advise to you is to start making your exit plan.

Don't stay with this man, he isn't worth it, I know it will be hard with a baby, and it sounds like you are not working, but its time to seriously consider your future, and that of your baby, who you DO NOT want to be growing up in that environment. See if you can move in with a family member just until you find out what assistance is available to you. Don't forget to file for child support. I wish you well.

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