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writes:I'm 19 years old, and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years. She and I are both virgins, and we both want to wait until we are married to each other to make love together. My penis is 6 inches long when completely erect. She already thinks my penis is very large as it is, and I understand why, but I'm worried about my penis size anyway. When she and I are ready for making love, I'm afraid that if we try different positions, I won't be able to reach inside of her, I know I might be worried over nothing, because she says that I make her have several orgasms all at once just by texting romantic and sexual things to her. She and I are both very sexual all the time but I fear that when she and I are ready, my penis just wont be able to reach inside of her when she and I try different positions like if she's laying on her back on top of me for example. I know that forplay has a lot to do with it also. But I want to pleasure her so badly....like, I don't even care if I have an orgasm, just knowing that I'm enough to make her more than satisfied will please me. I want to be enough for her. And I really could use some comfort and opinions from both sides please. I'm so so worried I won't be able to please the girl of my dreams with just my penis alone....please someone reassure me. Thanks so much, the help is very much appreciated. Take care.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Ah the daily “is my penis too small” post. Your penis is fine. Stop worrying.
Sex is not about penis vagina only… the biggest sex organ we have is between our ears.
Relax and enjoy… you will find what works for the two of you…
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 I agree with the other advise you've been offered, and just remember that it's not all about the penis and penetrative sex.
Being realistic, the first few times probably won't be amazing but it will get better and better!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 OP, if I tell you that your penis is perfectly average and perfectly fit for any sexual position, you won't believe me, you'll think I am cheering you up.
So, instead, I want to draw your attention on this :
- Do you know Kamasutra ? I bet you do, or at least you have heard of it. Buy yourself a copy in a bookstore, or google it on line, you'll see all the illustrations of the different fancy sexual positions, some of them are quite complicated, I'd say acrobatic.
Well, Kamasutra was born in India.
The average size of an Indian penis ERECT is a modest 10.20 cm. ( about 4.25 inch I guess ). Surely there are and were exceptions, but, all in all, statistically speaking , the Indian man is not superendowed.
If they can do all that kinky stuff with a smaller penis than yours, you really have nothing to worry !
It takes some experience and ingenuity though. For instance, the position you refer to, is basically a horizontal reverse cowgirl, I don't know but I don't think that anybody would try just making the girl lie down on top you you, flat as pancake, as if she were laying in state, and THEN insert their penis. How it works is that she eases herself onto your penis ,like for a reverse cowgirl, than she eases her back slowly on top of your body, maybe using her forearms for leverage / support. In this way, there's really nowhere to " reach "- it's already there....
Don't worry , I am sure you'll figure out it all, in any position :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Nothing to worry about. Your penis isn't half as important to sex as you believe it to be. And what you've got reaches far enough, trust me. Women can be perfectly happy with the workings of just 3 inches.
Satisfying her comes from way more than your penis, but the important thing is that you WANT to satisfy her. You are eager to please, and you are a giver. That is what is going to make it great for her. Because you'll learn together, and as long as you are interested in learning, and paying attention to her likes and dislikes as you go along, you'll be the perfect lover.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Your size concern is totally unfounded. Just don't worry about it, dude.Your above reported average anyway, and other things, such as cunnilingus, can please most every woman all her life. Chill out.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (12 June 2012):
 I am really impressed by your post and think your girlfriend is very lucky to find a boyfriend who is so sensitive to her needs. Your penis is very much normal and will definitely be able to satisfy her. I guarantee that will be about perfect for her. Women like men who are sensitive yet confidant, so when you do make love, have fun and communicate with her. Everything will be fine!
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