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I'm 15, and a 20 year old on MSN keeps asking to see me. What do you think?

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Question - (17 October 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2007)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

theres this guy i know. hes 20 i am only 15 and i dont like him in that way. he is too old, not my type and copletely the wrong guy for me but he seems to of took a liking to me. everytime i see him or talk to him he smiles at me and winks at me and he talks about me all the time he compliments me and says i look nice and i get kind of creeped out. i always go in a small group if i know hes gonna be there cos he really scares me but i went to the shop for my nanna yesterday and he was stood outside te shops and he shouted me so i went over to him and he grabbed me and kissed me, i pulled away and he put his hand in his pocket, pulled out about 10 condoms and said "fancy helping me get rid of these" i said i didnt want to and he said "come on baby it will be worth it" i walked away and said no. he obviously got the idea but when i signed in on M.S.N todayy he kept asking me to meet him. im really scared what should i do

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A male reader, lboy United Kingdom +, writes (26 December 2007):

lboy agony auntdear reader,

i agree with fairy lu u shud stay away from this guy save all the convos and if u dint its ok they save automatically in the chat log that gets put in your documents when u donwload msn lol, tell an adult or the police and he shud be put away or a restraning order will be issued this will help because if he breaks that he can be put away.

i really hope that this helps and the guy gets what he deserves.

good luck

stay safe

lboy

xxx

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntOK stay away from him and tell someone about him because what he is doing is WRONG, save all the conversations and tell an adult or go to the police about him he is a pervert after sex and shouldnt be trying to get it from a 15 year old go to the police and see what they can do, but please do your best to stay away from him you see him in the street you walk away!

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A female reader, lisa21 United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2007):

make sure you let him know you are not interested, get to the police it is harrassment.

do not go out on your own, do not chat to him incase he thinks you are interested.

tell your relatives.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (18 October 2007):

rcn agony auntHim doing that is sexual assault, stalking, harassment, attempted 1st degree sexual assault, assault and battery with sexual intent.

go to the police. with him just grabbing you like that, his need for you will increase. This is clear sign of someone who is aggressive and may to further to get what he wants. You need to turn him in to protect yourself. I know going with small groups helps. If this person's intent is to get you, he will find a way.

I don't mean to scare you more than you all ready are, but this guy fits a real scary profile, and I'd hate to be on here and answering a question for you down the road because something happens that you don't want to have happen.

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (18 October 2007):

xapathyxrebornx agony auntHoney okay heres the steps..

have a convo or two (dont if your not happy to) and SAVE everything he says to you..there's your evidence.

then tell an adult about it.

Also you could try the police maybe and also tell them about the incidint on the street..

after this...block him babe x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (17 October 2007):

kenny agony auntStay away from this guy at all costs, he sounds like a complete jerk and has obviously only got one thing on his mind. If you are scared around him go to your parents and get some advice from them. And if he ever touches you inappropriately go to the authorities and report him.

Take care x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007):

This is where you let an adult know. He's 20; you're 15. Has he ever heard of anything called "statuatory rape"? His behavior is extremely inappropriate, and since you find yourself scared to be around him, you need to let someone in authority (preferably, the authorities) know.

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