I recently came out and want to have a male date at my graduation
Q. Hello, I am a 17 year old gay male and live in a small town in Saskatchewan. I came out when I was 15 and all I've been able to think about is how happy it would make me to have a boy as my grad escort. But as I said, I live in a small town, and ...
A. 25 September 2010: The world needs people who stir the shit. Just the other day I saw a cross-dressing man in a neon pink wig in my city. I live in a fairly large city (Tampa, Florida), but this is still quite an unusual sight here. I personally am a little ... (read in full...)
Should he not relieve himself in front of me even though I didn't mind?
Q. hi i know this question isn't as serious as some on here but i just wanted to know peoples advice . ive been with my boyfriend for four months and our sex life is good and getting better we both work shifts so we had to be up early today at 4am i ...
A. 23 September 2010: It's healthy for you to be okay with your boyfriend having sex with himself. A woman who is not okay with that is first of all very insecure because she thinks it means she's not necessary for his sexual pleasure (ridiculous) and is also very ... (read in full...)
Why is my girlfriend always so jealous of other girls?
Q. My girl is jealous of girls I talk to sometimes. The first day I get a web cam she's asking me if I'm gonna have live chats with other girls. She's jealous about anything stupid that involves another girl. I don't understand why. I've never been ...
A. 16 September 2010: My first girlfriend was extremely jealous. Turns out it was because she would not hesitate to fool around on me, behind my back or in front of my face. She had no concept of commitment so she assumed that no one else in the world did either, ... (read in full...)
12 year old boy caught "in the act"
Q. hi, im a single father and i have a question is it ok is my 12 year old son jacks off. I caught him in"the act" yesterday.i need help please help me....
A. 16 September 2010: Now why wouldn't it be okay? This isn't the 19th century. We're not under any illusion that it will make you go blind or grow hair on your palms, are we? Fact is, your son probably needs to be reassured that it's normal and okay to masturbate and ... (read in full...)
I don't want to eat but I have to. How to lose weight?
Q. I want to lose weight. I exercise every day but I eat a lot. I don't want to eat but I just have to. I don't know what to do! Help!...
A. 13 September 2010: There is a growing consensus that exercise is basically useless for losing weight. I'm not saying stop exercising, but I am saying stop thinking about it in terms of fat loss--it is for fun and general health.
"I don't want to eat but I just hav... (read in full...)
I'm falling for a girl who works for me
Q. i am falling for a girl who works for me. i'm an average looking guy and she is beutiful. we used to kinda battle a little. we have awalys flirted a little and sometimes touching recently after a argument we both vowed not to fight anymore. since ...
A. 13 September 2010: She asks you to feel her breasts... most guys would spend the rest of the day following her around with a boner praying they would get laid that night. You, on the other hand, played it cool. At this point, she's thinking, "Do I have absolutely no ... (read in full...)
How do I know if shes the right one for me?
Q. Im the type of guy who isn't in contact with alot of people. Its not something i wake up and try to accomplish. I tend to focus on things which dont seem important to most people. Being like this in my nature i dont come across many women, and when ...
A. 13 September 2010: If you take it slow, play it cool, and don't lay your heart at her doorstep for her to stomp on, it won't get stomped on. And you'll be more attractive to her than the guy who just wants to be her lap-dog. So really, you're doing yourself a ... (read in full...)
Liking someone vs thinking that you do?
Q. This may come off as an odd question, but.. how can you tell the difference between actually liking/loving someone, verses just thinking that you like/love them? Also, there is a guy that I am sort of dating, but we aren't "official" (my c...
A. 13 September 2010: If you think you like or love someone, then you do. That's what love is. Your experience of love will change as you mature, but there is not some objective test for love that exists independent of your own mind.
As for why women hesitate... (read in full...)
Girlfriend got some single guys number at the bar
Q. Is it ok for my girlfriend to get some single dudes phone number at a bar? My GF went out with her single girlfriend last night an they were approached by two single guys. Apparently, these guys sat there and hung out with them until close. My...
A. 12 September 2010: You're asking us what's "appropriate" or "ok" even though the only person who can determine those things is you. Some guys are okay with their girl sticking her tongue down a random guys throat... other guys are not okay with their girl merely ... (read in full...)
Why does he act as if we never existed?
Q. I was with my boyfriend for three years. We had a beautiful child together and overnight he broke it off. I am so confused one week we were fine he said he loved me i told him i felt him slipping away and he said he loved me and his feeling has not ...
A. 11 September 2010: Sorry, sweetie. Life sucks. I broke up with my long-term girlfriend similarly. We didn't have a kid together. But I moved on quickly because the idea of breaking up with her had always been at the back of my mind. When it was time, it was time, ... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 11 September 2010: "If it was all about appearance then shouldn't women be divorcing their husbands who are balding, have beer bellies, and erectile dysfunction?"
Tennisstar88, wouldn't it be a great world if men could be happy with overweight spouses? If we could... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 10 September 2010: You're not shallow. This is normal. I don't know what to tell you about how to be happy. Seems to me in a perfect world, you'd just go visit the local whorehouse and come home happy. You get your rocks off, a young girl gets money for college ... (read in full...)
I'm offended by my boyfriends interest in celebrity, how do people feel about celebrities?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for three years now, I'm 21 and he is 31. About a year ago I stumbled across lots of naked pictures of celebrity women on his computer, no porn videos, but tons of celebrity images. I was quite hurt and told him I saw ...
A. 10 September 2010: Your problem is you want to be the most beautiful woman in the world to your man. Or be the only woman he ever wants to look at. It's not going to happen. You go to great lengths to trash the women that your man likes to look at. So typical. ... (read in full...)
This boy I like is making jokes about my height!
Q. I'm actually 14, I don't know how to change the age. Basically, I've been with this boy for only like 4months so not very long but I'm pretty small and he's always making jokes about my height. He's 16 and always talks about me to his friends and ...
A. 9 September 2010: That's his way of flirting with you. Girls being short is no big deal to guys. It really doesn't have a lot to do with whether a guy finds a girl attractive. If you were fat or had pimples all over your face, he wouldn't tease you about that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is really starting to grate on me!
Q. I just moved in with my boyfriend a little over a month ago, and he's really started to grate on me. He doesn't have a job, but his parents pay for his rent and living expenses (he's in his late 20s for what it's worth). This annoys me, becau...
A. 9 September 2010: Here's another vote for "Why did you move in with him?"
You JUST moved in with him. And he has all these qualities that you disapprove of. And now you want to figure out how to change all these things about him. I don't get it. Yes, we could... (read in full...)
I just had unprotected sex on the first date!
Q. Yesterday I met up with my boyfriend for the first time. We actually ended up having sex, and I know it was really to soon! We actually did it without a condom, and I do plan on getting checked out just to make sure. Anyways now looking back on it I ...
A. 9 September 2010: It says you're 18-21. And your parents are grounding you? For what, being out late with a guy? Maybe it's time to move out of your parents' house. Do you have a job? I think you could do with some independence. Honestly, it would probably do ... (read in full...)
I'm in awe of this guy... Helpppp!!!
Q. Omg, now I need help lol!! I'm the one that gives awesome advise!! I'm scared now, see I just started college, and I'm in love with a girl, but she has a bf, and she thinks of us as just friends, but recently...I met this guy, he is in my class, ...
A. 7 September 2010: More info needed. What's the question? Are you wondering whether you're gay?... (read in full...)
Hugging someone who is so much taller than you?
Q. hi, im about 5 ft 2 and ive recently started dating this guy who is about 6 ft 5 so theres a pretty big height difference there. just wondered if anyone has some suggestions on how to hug him? it sounds kinda weird its just when i give him a hug i ...
A. 7 September 2010: Um, jump up onto him, wrap your legs around his waist, and hug his neck.
Wait no, wrap your arms around his hips and bury your face in his crotch. He'll love it. Haha, I'm sorry, I just think it's kind of funny.... (read in full...)
She says I'm better even though they were bigger!
Q. ive been with the same woman for 14 years.i just found out that she slept with 3 of my friends four yrs ago.one a really close friend.iam now very insecure and hurt cuz i knw that they are bigger than me in penis size.so i knw she enjoyed it ...
A. 7 September 2010: First of all, get over yourself. Who cares whether they had bigger dicks? She chose you. You absolutely have to have the biggest dick your wife has ever had? I don't know whether that's arrogance or insecurity.
Second, you have no idea wha... (read in full...)
I rebounded and now how do I tell him I am not interested?
Q. I broke up my boyfriend of 10 and a half months about 2 months ago. I was totally in love with him and it broke my heart. I've been trying to get over it, but it's been really hard. Last night I went out with a guy I knew from before and it ...
A. 6 September 2010: Well it's nice that you're actually concerned about not hurting the guy's feelings. Most girls would do the following: wait for him to contact you, tell him "sorry, I'm really busy," and repeat until it's painfully obvious that you're not ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to initiate another kiss?
Q. Two nights ago I went to a small kickback at my best friend's house. He has been my best friend since high school and he had had a big crush on me back then. We are now in college and we hang out every weekend with our whole crew. At the kickback, ...
A. 6 September 2010: Probably he's just a little lacking in the "balls" department. It's common. These situations where you expect him to kiss you--are they in front of other people? That can explain it. In any case, he's probably dying to kiss you again but hasn't ... (read in full...)
Lost in high school, lost in life generally
Q. I'm 14 and I really need help.I'm going through a really bad time in my life right now and I don't know what to do. Life sucks pretty much. All the stress from school and pressure i put on myself to do well in school is really getting to me. It's ...
A. 5 September 2010: When I was in high school, I hated everything about it, and I always thought that life would truly begin when I graduated. And it did! College was far from perfect, but it was a damn sight better than high school.
You could consider dropping... (read in full...)
Is there such thing as the "one" or is it just a stupid thing people want to believe?
Q. how do you know is someone is the one? i have just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 an a half years.. we have broke up once before but i know now i dnt want to get back with him beacuse he is an ex for a reason now! but all my friend keep sayi...
A. 2 September 2010: If there were only one "one," then what if that person happened to live on the other side of the planet? You'd be destined to live alone forever, wouldn't you? Saying there is one person you are destined to be with reeks of God arranging the ... (read in full...)
I want what we had before I found out my husband went to a strip club!
Q. I asked a question and received a few responses. Thank-you. I have been to counseling about my husband going to the strip clubs when he was working out on the road and drunk. I have had to stop going to counseling because i had surgery. I have ...
A. 1 September 2010: All men look at other women. All men think about other women. Your man does this. Right now, he's picturing some movie star, or some girl he banged in college, or a stripper. Five minutes ago, he was picturing yet another one.
Lots of men go t... (read in full...)
I don't want her to fall for some guy while she's away at school
Q. Holy F*ck im going nuts. long story i was planning on going to college with my girlfreind (who im facking nuts about. she means the world to me and id do anything for her)this september but my father got a buyout from general motors which he used to ...
A. 31 August 2010: The girl: she's fairly likely to at least mess around with another guy. If that's something she really wants to do, you're not going to prevent it by telling her you're obsessing over it. If she thinks you can't handle it, she'll just cheat on you ... (read in full...)
I'm Okay with my girl sleeping with another man, am I crazy for this?
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now, we are both in college (i am 20 she is 19) we hit it off from the start and have known eachother for about a year and a half. Dated all school year, basically lived with eachother, slept ...
A. 31 August 2010: Just seeing the first two answers come up after submitting my reply. Wow. Look at how they actually resort to calling you names. "Wimp," "idiot". They don't even have a point. They just have a completely emotional reaction to the idea. Do you ... (read in full...)
I'm Okay with my girl sleeping with another man, am I crazy for this?
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now, we are both in college (i am 20 she is 19) we hit it off from the start and have known eachother for about a year and a half. Dated all school year, basically lived with eachother, slept ...
A. 31 August 2010: I think the vast majority of modern American men, especially young ones, would probably say you're completely crazy. I, on the other hand, feel the same way as you do. If a girl is honest with me, I don't want to stop her from doing anything s... (read in full...)
Would an amusment park be a good first date?
Q. hello i just need ur opinions about something, is it a good idea to take a girl to an amusement park in your first date ? i mean some games might be scary and the girls might not like getting that feeling in a first date lol but im just wonderin...
A. 30 August 2010: I think an amusement park is a great place for a date, generally speaking. As for a first date, I would have two questions: 1) Do you already know each other fairly well? At an amusement park, you're probably going to be together for a long time. ... (read in full...)
Classy photos just for me?
Q. I want to take boudoir style photos of my self, because i think they are really classy. I want them just for me the only problem is that I am only 16 and is it really that wrong to want to take photos just for me? That are very classy photos? ...
A. 29 August 2010: I don't know why people are assuming that a) someone else is going to take these pictures, or b) they are going up on her wall. She's 16-17... she's probably going to use a self-timer on her point-n-shoot, for goodness sake.
Yes, sweetie,... (read in full...)
How to do a breast orgasm?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are dating for years and recently I want to play with her breasts little bit, like breast orgasm or such. However I just don't know how and I afraid she might not enjoy it. How to do breast orgasm sexually and successfully?...
A. 29 August 2010: It's very unlikely for any woman to orgasm from someone touching her breasts.
Just touch her the way you want to touch her without worrying about whether it makes her feel good. Let her know how pretty she is. If you make her feel desirabl... (read in full...)
Help! My boyfriend just threw and broke my chair! what should I do?
Q. My bf and I don’t live together but he comes to visit. We have been together over a year. He just came by and we were talking and my daughter called him stupid joking around and tapped his shoulder. He freaked out and was like do something about ...
A. 27 August 2010: Losing your temper once over something is common. Sounds like he lost his temper two or three times. You're better off without him.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend didn't seem too thrilled to hear from me after her vacation--WHY?
Q. Hi, I'm just really confused right now. And I really miss my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I are both 20 years old, and we were doing very well before she left for a week long vacation. We've been spending nights together, sharing a lot of ...
A. 27 August 2010: It's impossible to know what is going on in a woman's mind. It is entirely possible that she lost interest in you. Regardless, the best thing to do is to wait for her to contact you, which she knows she is supposed to do. If her interest is ... (read in full...)
How can I 'Wow' my boyfriend while giving him oral?
Q. My boyfriend really enjoys me giving him head, but I'm not too good at it and don't really enjoy doing it. Please can you give me some tips on how i could improve my technique or is there any throat excercises i could do to improve it?? ...
A. 26 August 2010: No one can give you better advice about blowing your boyfriend than your boyfriend. Is he talking you through it? If not, why not?... (read in full...)
Got caught while skinny dipping, followed up by an awkward question!
Q. So the other night me and some friends were in the pool and my brother and his friends came home and went simming with us. After a little while we were like let's go skinny dipping and we did. All of us except for a few people. Well we got busted. ...
A. 26 August 2010: Make your own morals. Decide for yourself who is in the wrong here: some teenagers who get together and go skinny dipping for fun? How about the nosy neighbor who spies on naked teenagers and runs tattle-taling to their parents. Probably they ... (read in full...)
Chest hair removal... how do you deal with the itching?
Q. Hi all, I just need a bit of advice. My new partner doesnt like my hairy chest (just the chest!!). So I used some hair clippers and trimmed it all to practically zero...bare chest for the 1st time since puberty. I quiet like it..s...
A. 24 August 2010: Hydrocortizone is always good for itching, but applying it to your whole chest might not be economical.
I experienced the same thing when I first started shaving my face after having a beard for a long time. I'd shave it all off, then let it g... (read in full...)
Total Babe in One-sided Open Marriage
Q. I am an average looking/height guy, though I make a good salary. I have been married about ten years. My wife is a beauty -- very attractive/sexy. She gets a lot of attention almost everywhere we go, even if she's only wearing sweats and a ...
A. 21 August 2010: You should try embracing the open marriage. Best thing that ever happened to me was when I stopped being jealous and started enjoying the idea of sharing women. Even if I don't always put the idea into practice, at least I know I am free of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is attracted to another girl!
Q. Hi, My boyfriend is attracted to another girl. Ever since I found out, it's been making me extremely unhappy. He said that he won't do anything about it, and that I'm obsessing over it. I've been asking him (probably once every day) if he still...
A. 20 August 2010: In my experience, feelings like this are both very common and, in my opinion, completely crazy. I bet if you had a boyfriend who was completely devoted and obsessed with you and never so much as glanced at another woman, you might feel differently ... (read in full...)
I want a serious relationship not a long term booty call?!
Q. I was seeing a guy off and on for the last 4yrs. We were friends only friends the first 6 months then we slept together. I wanted a serious relationship u know I'm ur man ur my woman type of relationship. But when it came to putting a title on it we ...
A. 20 August 2010: You're not wrong to seek out another relationship if the one you're in isn't making you happy.
However, I will agree with the guy and say it really irks me when women want to assign a certain word to a relationship. "Dating" or "boyfrie... (read in full...)
My BF's teen is a problem!
Q. I live with my boyfriend and he has a teenager. The teenager is so spoiled. I talk to my boyfriend about it. He thinks I am complaining about a lot of little issues. I feel like he does not care about my concerns and is use to how the teenager is. ...
A. 20 August 2010: I don't understand why you've made this your problem. He's not your kid. Are you planning on having kids with this man? I'm guessing not. So you want to leave him because you don't care for his teenage son? Lots of people don't care for teenage ... (read in full...)
Developed feelings for my best mate!
Q. recantly i broke up with the girl i was seeing... however i have developed feelings for her best mate, and i think she feels the same for me, what should i do? as i am going to be seeing her this weekend and was planing on making a move on her... ...
A. 20 August 2010: You should go for it. Any complications are between her and her friend. It's not your business or your problem.... (read in full...)
Wide hips: good or bad?
Q. I have an average body type, I'm 5'6, I'm athletic and try to keep in shape and I'm content with my body ..... Recently while getting dressed, my friend (a male) said to me that my "hips are wide" ... should I take that as a compliment or as insul...
A. 19 August 2010: Scientists have objectively determined that a fairly narrow waist and fairly wide hips is most appealing to most men.... (read in full...)
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