My boyfriend pays a lot of attention to our roommate!
Q. My boyfriend and I live together with two other roommates. Whenever the female roommate is around, he gets excited because she is usually at her boyfriend's house. He always tries going by her room to initiate conversation with her. Also, if it is ...
A. 26 July 2010: It's natural for your boyfriend to want to look at other attractive women. That will never go away. I don't think he really wishes she would cover herself up, either.
As for whether or not he would cheat on you, that's hard to predict. Most guy... (read in full...)
Is this just a game with her or is there a possibility of a relationship??
Q. Hello,everybody... it's been ages since i have written here.i have been kinda busy and i couldnt find that time. well....i've just moved recently from England to Italy.i was just thinkin that the italian lifestyle will be diff...
A. 5 July 2010: YES, IT IS A GAME. It is always a game. Also, she likes you. The two things are true at the same time.
You have known her only five days. You know that you will see each other many more times. GO SLOW. Do not rush into a dating relation... (read in full...)
Want to be myself, but how do I figure out who I am??
Q. "Be who you are! is what they say. But the uestion is: "Who am I"...
A. 5 July 2010: "Be yourself" is a dumb thing to say, honestly. You should be the person you WANT to be. If you don't know how, FAKE it. ACT LIKE that person. You'll learn, and someday you'll be the real thing. You've got lots of time.... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's brother!
Q. Dear Cupid, I really like my best friends brother and he's really cute and funny and he's like my dream guy but I'm kind of scared to ask him out because he's two years older than me and if we get together and then break up I don't want it to be ac...
A. 2 July 2010: As for being older than you, it doesn't seem to me like two years is a big difference at your age.
As for the potential awkwardness: Relationships are complicated. Mature people handle complications in mature ways. Probably it will all work out... (read in full...)
Girls carrying condoms.
Q. Hi, my boyfriend and I have discussed having sex and agreed that while we both would like to have sex with eachother there isn't a pressure on either of us to do it. This is fine , however a few days ago we were in a position where we were go...
A. 2 July 2010: Carrying a condom to have sex with your boyfriend is in no way slutty or promiscuous. You've already shown good judgment by waiting, and carrying a condom would just be more good judgment. In fact, carry several. Good for you.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's actions make me wonder if he is being selfish
Q. I am trying to be patient about this.. But, I would like to know how I should be feeling and what not about this. I leave for Texas tomorrow and will be gone away from my boyfriend for 5 days. Yesterday, a friend and I went over to my sisters ho...
A. 2 July 2010: I don't know if I submitted it after I typed it. Grrr. Here it is again:
It's not about gas money.
He's sad that you're leaving for 5 days. You're sad too, right? But you're the one going on an exciting trip, and he's the one being left h... (read in full...)
I was a jerk and regret it, is there any hope?
Q. So, this girl at my high school was very obvious about liking me, she wanted to hold onto my arm going down stairs, was constantly watching me, turned in my direction, and other things. But when some other girls actually asked me out, i pulled my ...
A. 2 July 2010: Walk up next to her when she's walking, take her hand and put it wherever she puts it, smile at her, and say "Miss me?"
She might pull away just to show you she can, and to even the score. If she does, react in a lighthearted way.
Yes, th... (read in full...)
Caught between my parents, with my little sister. Need to find a way to improve my situation.
Q. Okay so this isn't your typical relationship question, has more to do with family, but i've always relied on you guys for help in the past so i can't think of a place i'd feel better asking this. So i absolutely hate my mom. Long story short, she...
A. 29 June 2010: Minor point of fact: There is a cherry-flavored non-alcoholic soft drink called Cheerwine. That's probably what she was talking about.
Don't know what to tell you about the rest of it. Living with your little sister would probably help her turn... (read in full...)
How long before we can become exclusive?
Q. I am 36 and was divorced a few years ago. Since my divorce I have had a few relationships (one lasted over a year)and lots of dates. All of the women I met and dated were smart, funny, generally fine and for the most part they like me much more ...
A. 29 June 2010: "Help her know how much I like her without scaring her away."
This to me is one of the most mysterious differences between men and women. Men always want to pour their guts out to women and tell them how beautiful they are and how much they lik... (read in full...)
How can I tell if this is really just him having a laugh with his mates?
Q. I just started a brand new relationship, with a guy that I would usually ignore (he's not the type of guy I normally hang around with so our personalities are really different) he's amazing, romantic and really funny. I'm 17 and I've had a reall...
A. 29 June 2010: If someone were spending time with you just for the purpose of being mean in the end, he would have to be a real psychopath. Like something out of the movies. It's possible, but unlikely. If he pressures you to have sex right away, or if he wants ... (read in full...)
Went too far on the first date?
Q. I recently left an abusive young man that I had been dating for 3 years, because he had cheated on me several times and would try and pressure me to sleep with him. I'm young, only 18, and still a virgin, I never gave in to his demands. Soon after I ...
A. 28 June 2010: If you went too far for your own morals or comfort, then okay, you've learned that lesson, right? But I'm not sure why you think you've ruined your chances with him. I doubt he thinks you went too far. You didn't have sex. You didn't even get ... (read in full...)
Mixed Signals...
Q. Ok long story short. There's been a female I've been interested in and I believe she has been interested in me as well. I say this because I always catch her staring at me, for long amounts of time. She sat in front of me once and kept looking back ...
A. 28 June 2010: Probably real conversation with someone she is attracted to makes her feel awkward just like it does you. Probably the way she deals with feeling awkward is to stare at her phone. Lots of people are developing that habit. Don't ever take one ... (read in full...)
Online dating, does it really work?
Q. Well, my girlfriend and I broke up about 8 months ago now. It was for the best, and while I've enjoyed my solitude again, I'm beginning to get lonely. The problem is, I'm not sure where to meet people. Sure there are the bars, but I would prefer ...
A. 25 June 2010: I have used both okcupid.com and match.com. Both had a fair number of attractive women and a whole bunch of unattractive ones. I only actually met a few girls and never had much luck with any of them. Your mileage may vary. OKcupid.com is... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this girl who keeps hitting on me?
Q. Where to begin. First I am posting anonymously because the girl that I have an issue with found my post on the user name last time. But my situation from before was that my neighbors are quite close with my family. This has been going on for nea...
A. 23 June 2010: I must say you are quite the upstanding gentleman not to have taken advantage of the situation. Hmm, you have hot jailbait falling all over herself to catch your attention, and her parents' blessing? Can I trade my problems for yours?? Sorry, ... (read in full...)
I'm in a difficult situation with my wife...and I'm thinking about leaving her..
Q. For the last 12 weeks I have been considering leaving my wife of 2, emotionally up and down years. I'm an immigrant and don't have many 'close' friends to discuss my/our problems. I'm seeking advice. Situation: I immigrated to the US over two year...
A. 23 June 2010: IT IS OKAY TO BE SELFISH. This is your one and only life, my man. You sound highly incompatible and like you really aren't in love. Looking back on life, we tend to regret not the things we do, but the things we don't do.... (read in full...)
I'm scared he may be using me!
Q. I'm 14. 15 in 2 weeks. I have a boyfriend. I've been seeing him for 2 weeks. We have already done a LOT. I just found out he's had sex before and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared he's just using me. Help me. Please. ...
A. 23 June 2010: The best thing you can do is just slow it down and enjoy where you are right now. If he can't slow down and enjoy it with you because he's wrapped up in having sex, then I think things will seem clearer to you.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend expresses sudden disinterest with me.
Q. I'm a 24 yr old male with a beautiful 25 year old girlfriend. I have been living with my girlfriend for 2 months now and we've been dating a total of 5 months. When we were dating and didnt have the title of girlfriend yet, she told me several times ...
A. 23 June 2010: Here are the informative parts of your question:
"I feel that I may be smothering her because we hang out pretty much every single day." "I feel like she just needs more space because we hang out too often."
"I dont think she is worried about... (read in full...)
Is this just friendship or can it be more?
Q. There is this guy i think he is kinda cute but, im not sure if he likes me like that. I mean when we are together I get butterflies. When we are in class and we get to choose our seats we always sit next to each other and a couple of times we have ...
A. 23 June 2010: I love the youngsters' questions. Young romance is so sweet.
He likes you! You like him! It might be more! You're doing great! Just keep smiling and being nice to each other! :)... (read in full...)
He threw out his ring so I threw out mine! What does it mean?
Q. My b/f and I were having an argument the other day on the highway coming home, at one point during the fight, he pulled off his ring and put it on the dash of the car. A few minutes later he pulled over, rolled down the window and threw the ring ...
A. 23 June 2010: "The things you own end up owning you." --Tyler Durden
May I first point out that you referred to his ring AS YOURSELF. "I'm the only one he was willing to throw away." He didn't throw you away. You are still together. It was just a piece of... (read in full...)
Is his ego and pride getting in the way of something really great?
Q. I am in my mid-forties and have a question. I asked a man out for coffee. We hit it off right away and ended up dating for six months. He would tell me how glad he was that I asked hm out, that I meant the world to him, that everything with us ...
A. 12 June 2010: You broke up with him and then you took him back. Did you have any good sex before "he quickly pulled away" from you? If so, then I have no idea. If not, then here's your explanation.
He couldn't get it up and it resulted in the first woman he... (read in full...)
I am seriously considering responding to one of these ads on Craigslist if my wife does not show me some love soon!
Q. So here is the scenario. My wife and I have been together for more then 8 yrs.When we got together she already had 2 children from artificial insemination, so when I came into the picture there was no dad to have to compete with. It started hot and ...
A. 12 June 2010: You need to be able to talk about it. What do you suppose makes her mad? Does she get defensive? Maybe she feels blamed or attacked or that she's letting you down?
Start a conversation by establishing common goals. Hopefully your sexual s... (read in full...)
Ex girlfriend found a new "friend", but tells me we will get back together soon. Is she for real?
Q. Recently i split up with my girlfriend. the exact nature of the break was we argued alot and various other issues we had. i lost my cell phone and didnt speak to her for a week. after that week i had hoped she would have moved on. she did and was ...
A. 7 June 2010: CaringGuy hit the nail on the head.... (read in full...)
I'm tired all the time! What's going on?
Q. i don't sleep well at night..i take sleeping pills at times and still don't get a good night sleep. I don't ever sleep a 5-6 hours straight without waking up. After work i am just happy to come home and take a nap. Naps are where i get my best ...
A. 7 June 2010: marieclaire pretends I'm saying I'm more qualified than a doctor, but clearly I'm saying it doesn't seem like a doctor is necessary in your situation.
It's like if you said you were depressed. Could you see a doctor? Sure. Could you first ju... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of the way he talks to other girls, does he really find me beautiful?
Q. (moderators note: two questions in one) My blackheads just won't go away. Everybody tells me I'm pretty, but I'm sensitive about the blackheads. Lately it seems like I'll just have to live with them, because they aren't going anywhere. Do guys car...
A. 6 June 2010: Yes, he thinks you are pretty. Yes, he thinks the other girls are pretty. Yes, he likes talking to you. Yes, he likes talking to the other girls. He is flirting with you AND he is "saying the same kind of thing to five other girls." ... (read in full...)
Ex girlfriend found a new "friend", but tells me we will get back together soon. Is she for real?
Q. Recently i split up with my girlfriend. the exact nature of the break was we argued alot and various other issues we had. i lost my cell phone and didnt speak to her for a week. after that week i had hoped she would have moved on. she did and was ...
A. 6 June 2010: "At some point in the next week we will get back"?? That makes no sense. If she meant that, it would already be a done deal and she would be at your place right now. She is "shit-testing" you by feeding you some garbage, and you're eating it up. ... (read in full...)
I'm tired all the time! What's going on?
Q. i don't sleep well at night..i take sleeping pills at times and still don't get a good night sleep. I don't ever sleep a 5-6 hours straight without waking up. After work i am just happy to come home and take a nap. Naps are where i get my best ...
A. 6 June 2010: Some are telling you to go see doctors and have "studies" performed on you like you're some kind of medical mystery. You're not sleeping well. You're tired all the time. It happens. It's almost certainly affected by your DIET AND EXERCISE. ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a colleague's brother
Q. I'm really attracted to my colleague's brother. She is on a trustee board with me, and introduced us at a social event. Since then she has invited me and him to other events, and we always end up talking and dancing together. A couple of innocent ...
A. 6 June 2010: Relationships are complicated. Mature people deal with complications in mature ways. If it turns out that either one of them is immature, well, you can extricate yourself from relationships with them.
Sounds romantic. Go for it.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friendship with his ex-wife is hard for me to endure.
Q. I started dating again someone that I had a brief relationship (for 2 months 2 yeas ago). This time things are more serious, we got back together 3 months ago, we already talked about the idea of moving together, if things go well having a baby etc...
A. 6 June 2010: Probably lots of women would feel the same way. But in my opinion, it is HE who should be "breaking up and running." For seven years, this was the most important person in his life. Despite divorcing, they managed to salvage a meaningful ... (read in full...)
I'm tired all the time! What's going on?
Q. i don't sleep well at night..i take sleeping pills at times and still don't get a good night sleep. I don't ever sleep a 5-6 hours straight without waking up. After work i am just happy to come home and take a nap. Naps are where i get my best ...
A. 6 June 2010: Are you exercising? It's practically guaranteed to help. Start with a 30-minute walk after work and see how that feels. See if you sleep any better that night. Then try something that really uses your muscles. Pushups are good. Or hold a ... (read in full...)
My husband of 30 years is a good man, but I want to live on my own
Q. I've been married for 30 yrs or more. My husband is a good man i wouldn't want to hurt him. I just want to be alone right now. I want to leave freely for awhile. Any suggestions?...
A. 6 June 2010: Well, the obvious thing is to move out and be separated for a while. Other than that, you could just tell him you need "space" or "alone time" or whatever you want to call it and just try to work it out. Maybe separate bedrooms? Separate ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't keep it up. Is it me?
Q. Dear Cupid My boyfriend and I are very much in love. But of late he has problem staying erect. This has never happened before. Once he was so hard and started to penetrate me but he wasn't able to penetrate fast enough and it just went soft. ...
A. 6 June 2010: It's never the girl. If a girl doesn't turn a guy on, he's not going to get to the point where he's in bed with her.
Sometimes it's physical, but usually it's psychological. If it was not a problem before it became a problem, it should go back ... (read in full...)
Why do men like fake breasts so much?
Q. I just think they look so silly, I mean, it's rare you get a slim woman with naturally big breasts, yet men seem find this so sexually attractive. Just wondering why? Breasts aren't supossed to defiy gravity! And big ones on such small women look ...
A. 28 May 2010: In my opinion, breast implants often look good when the clothes are on (and you can't really tell for sure if they're implants), and generally look totally horrible when the clothes are off.
That said, I AM very attracted to a slim woman with lar... (read in full...)
Some of the things I've found out about this guy make me wonder if I should date him?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months and I have learned some things about him during this time that concerns me. Keep in mind that we are both in our early thirties. Here are some things about him: -Never been in a serious relation...
A. 28 May 2010: Okay, here comes a man's point of view. It sounds like you're just ticking off the cliche points that women are "supposed" to look for in a man.
Lives with his parents. So what? Do they run his life? Does he have a curfew? Does he have an ... (read in full...)
I'm 34 years old and I've never had a boyfriend
Q. How do I find a boyfriend? I'm 34 years old and I've never had one. I took care of my mother until she died last year and that took up alot of my personal time.With working and going to school part-time i didn't have time left over for fun.I don't ...
A. 28 May 2010: Imagine your dream guy. Now imagine your dream guy's dream girl. That is, by definition, the person you will be if you reach your full potential. So work on yourself. Work on your stutter, your confidence, your conversation skills, whatever. Be ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cheated now I'm wanting her back
Q. "OPs own title" So i have been with my girlfriend for 1 yr 6 months. I honestly thought she was the one, she took me for who i was and put up with my weirdness most the time. We could tell each other anything without judgment. We where very ...
A. 25 May 2010: She obviously doesn't even know what she wants and is bad news. I recommend you steadfastly ignore any further attempts at communication.
Now there are only two things that matter: 1) forgiving her so that feelings of anger and hate do not pois... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel jealous, even though he hasn't done anything wrong?
Q. My Husband and I have been married for almost 7 years!We are both 31 years old. We have a pretty good relationship with an occasional argument here or there. However, he is and RN in a trauma hospital and he works with a TON of younger woman. ...
A. 21 May 2010: Normal? Probably. Healthy? No. Groundless feelings of jealousy probably reflect a lack of self-esteem on your part, which is never attractive. Find out why you are jealous and let it go, or before long you probably will have reason to be ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cheated now I'm wanting her back
Q. "OPs own title" So i have been with my girlfriend for 1 yr 6 months. I honestly thought she was the one, she took me for who i was and put up with my weirdness most the time. We could tell each other anything without judgment. We where very ...
A. 21 May 2010: Whether you should even be with this girl is up to you to decide. Here is how to make her want you more than ever, if that is what you really want. Realize that when you push her away is when she comes running. You don't contact her over the wee... (read in full...)
"I feel second best to my boyfriend's female friend"
Q. When me and my boyfriend started going out he was texting a girl everyday which i didnt know about. He used to text her everyday before he got with me anyway because they were good friends but he used to really like her and even asked her out before ...
A. 20 May 2010: In your own words, "this stuff has completely stopped." But it still bothers you. "Should you break up with him?" Why, so you can go looking for a guy who's never had feelings for another woman, or has no deep bonds with any other females? No! ... (read in full...)
What is the truth to the meaning of my dream?
Q. last night i had a dream with a dear friend of mine who passed away several months ago, in the dream i went to look for him at some building because he hadnt been in contact me in several weeks so i was upset at him, i found him and became really ...
A. 20 May 2010: Dreams have no meaning, and if there is an afterlife, which I kind of doubt, then dead people are the ones who should be praying for us poor people on this godforsaken rock.
That's just my opinion.... (read in full...)
I want to be her "friends with benefits" but I'm not as sexually confident as she is
Q. I have been talking and hanging out with a girl who lives around and hour drive away from me. Having asked her on a date, she made it clear that she was not looking for a boyfriend. However, she said we could be Friends With Benefits... I am 100%...
A. 19 May 2010: If it majorly bothers her, she's not worth getting worked up over anyway. If she's a great girl, she'll take it as an opportunity to broaden her own horizons by broadening yours. Either way, you've got more experience at the end of the day.
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How do I tell her about my deep feelings for her?
Q. I'm a male 16 and i have been speaking with this girl for about 3 months, about 1 month ago i fell in love with her, and i would like to tell her about my feelings, but don't have the guts to do it, i am afraid that this would ruin our good ...
A. 18 May 2010: Women do NOT want men to pour their guts out. Action, not words! Next time you see an opportunity to kiss her (like walking in the rain, or walking her home), just do it. Take her hand and kiss her, on the lips, with purpose, with a closed mouth, ... (read in full...)
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