No contact for 2 months then I get a message; Merry Christmas. I love you. What does this mean?
Q. I broke up with my bf almost 2 months ago, but he wanted to remain friends...we just basically needed a break, but he slowly lost contact with me and began ignoring me...then he moved in with his new gf...its Christmas and I haven't heard from him ...
A. 4 February 2008: Sadly to say, that whatever you guys had, can not happen again. It is a memory thats it. IF it was meant to be it would be. Sounds like this guy doesnt know what to do wt himself.... (read in full...)
I feel she only needs me as a dad for the kids now, and I'm doubtful of her love. Should I give up so easily?
Q. Hey guys. My problem is I don't think my fiannce loves me anymore, we have been having problems since before christmas and it just seems like we are going round in circles. She used to tell me everthing any problems she had. I love her so much...
A. 26 January 2008: Yes for real. She is just using you for what sounds like being both parents in one. You dont need to have her in your life either. The children will know the reason that you guys are still together are for the kids. That is a horrible excuse for ... (read in full...)
We started dating and now he is acting weird...what can I do to keep him??
Q. I met this guy in college. One day he asked me for a walk and he showed me around the campus and then we kissed. After that we started dating but he started to act realy weird. He doesn't call me and he doesnt want anyone to know about us and he s...
A. 25 January 2008: Well you are probally going to have to have sex at one time if you plan on keeping him around. Thats probally why he dont want you around, cause from your post it sounds like you are not putting out.... (read in full...)
For men: do you think of your partner during masturbation?
Q. For the guys: Do you think of your girlfriend/wives when you masturbate?...
A. 25 January 2008: Hmmm.... I dont even bother jerking off. As a child it was fun, now Im a full grown man, I can hold out.... (read in full...)
What qualities do guys respect in their girlfriends?
Q. Hi aunts :) I was wondering about what qualities a guy respects in his girlfriend? I read another user post this thought on DearCupid: "He was proud to show me off to his family and more so did those little gestures that means so much to us...
A. 23 January 2008: To each guy its diffrent. For me I look for someone who can just sit and talk with me and not go over board. Some other guys I know look for a woman who can go out parting everynight... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and I have gone completely off sex! What's wrong?
Q. Hi guys, I'm a 25 year old women and for the last 6 months have really gone off sex. I used to be incredibly sexually active and now i am the complete opposite - I don't even have any sexual thoughts anymore. I have been with my partner for 2 1/...
A. 23 January 2008: Yeah for word, people change. Up til I was 20 I was very sexually active, now Im 24 and pretty much have gone years without sex. It irks me to think about it, but its something that you may have to go through. I find meditation helps to clear the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is becoming more distant - what is my next step?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years nearly and we've had some great times and some really bad times. I think trust is the biggest issue we have with each other. I'm almost 30 and trying to get into film as well but with no luck especial...
A. 20 January 2008: Odds are (and this not meant in a mean or disrespectfulway, which others on this site may not agree with, but I like to give you a reality check of whats really going to happen) Odds are that you two wont last much longer. Relaionships come and go ... (read in full...)
I'm not getting enough sex from my partner and an ex wants to see me. What do I do?
Q. Hi I am a highly sexed 25 year old and preferably like to have sex every night however my boyfriend (who's 40 by the way) of six years (whom I do love so much) has recently started a job with a contractor and has to work Monday right through to...
A. 20 January 2008: Yeah you definatly need some ''us'' time.
You also might want to try and slow your sex drive down a bit. Im not one who is a big believer in masterbation. I beleieve you can hold out long enough for sex with a partner.
Way off topic. ... (read in full...)
We are long distance and I think he is cheating on me. Now he has asked me to marry him, what shall I do??
Q. Hey, I am very confused about what to do. I have been in a relationship with someone for the past five years. We are both in our 20s. He has cheated on me repeatedly. I went to work abroad 1 and 1/2 year ago but I would come back for summer holidays ...
A. 5 January 2008: Dont marry this guy. Unless you want a constant heart ache.... (read in full...)
He slept on the couch last night. Is our relationship worth saving?
Q. hi I am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I'm with my boyfried of 2 years. We moved in together in sept and this was our first xmas in our new home. And to be honest it was rubbish, and the final straw came last night when we had a massive ...
A. 2 January 2008: Struggle on, you will be so disappointed if you break up over a silly one night fight.
All healthy relationships have fights... (read in full...)
We are 'friends with benefits'...Is that all he sees me as?
Q. hey all! Ok this might sound confusing or something but id really like your veiws... K....... I met this guy on the internet around 5 years ago he's 31 and im 20,and he's what you can call a friend with benefits. We've been sleeping togethe...
A. 31 December 2007: Yep, sounds like you are being used here. It be best to stay away from this dude. You would definatly be the jump-off in this case. Unless you are okay about being "the other girl"... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty, I deleted a text from his ex girlfriend without him knowing, am I wrong?
Q. I feel so guilty, I saw a text from my boyfriend's ex girlfriend on Christmas Day saying she missed him, and I deleted it, so he has no idea she text. The background on this is that they broke up a year ago, just after Christmas. I have been with...
A. 31 December 2007: No your not wrong. Your just doing what you want. Your boyfriend should probally change his phone number as well.
Physco Ex-Girlfriends are the worst.... (read in full...)
All I do is flirt and talk sexy for harmless fun, yet he sees it as cheating. Am I mad to be with such a man?
Q. I am horrified to find my fiance has been using aliases to make dates with me on chat sites. When he found my first profile i changed it. Somehow he found my other and strung me along. I am livid. How dare he! I feel invaded, he is pathetic. Sad ...
A. 29 December 2007: Its probally that he doesnt trust you... (read in full...)
I've found pornographic pics of my 16 yr old sister on the internet! What shall I do?
Q. ive found pictures of my sister on the internet. She is with different lads having sex, anal, bondage etc. she is only 16!! should i tell her or our parents or just ignore it?...
A. 28 December 2007: Your sister has gone down a hard road so early in life. You are best to bring it to the families attention, and go from there.... (read in full...)
Is it all in my head? Are there signs that he likes me? What do these dreams mean?
Q. This is really two questions in one. I'll start with part one. Ok ive been at this college for about 3 months and made loads of new friends. There this guy there in my class who is dead nice but i'm not sure if i like him or not one minute i don't ...
A. 28 December 2007: You should persue this matter furthur. You may not be one to have a BF but that doesnt mean that their isnt one out there for you. It does sound like he is intrested. You may not be ready for the relationship you might have with this person, but ... (read in full...)
Do I really owe him anything?
Q. I have been involved with a married man for almost a year now. I have three kids and he has four - all of which are outside of his marriage of 18+ years. I know, this is awful. Well, I want to break it off now because of how guilty and degraded I ...
A. 28 December 2007: You see you owe him nothing, as he didnt owe you anything either. Everyone needs some help at one time or another in life. You are back on your feet now and want to move on. Being involved with a married man is not good, no matter how you look at ... (read in full...)
How do I get over him? I miss him and cant stop crying.
Q. Hi I am so upset as i broke up with my boyfriend last night. I asked him a simple question, if he would stick by me if any unplanned pregnancies happened and at first he wouldnt give me a straight answer then he just simply said well i wouldnt ...
A. 28 December 2007: Its a ruff one. But it wasnt meant to be. What type of man couldnt stand by his woman if he got her pregnant. There will be a grieving process that can vary how long it will take depending on how strong you are.... (read in full...)
I video taped my mother in the shower and masturbated while watching it.
Q. Before I left for uni in September I did something horrible. I got drunk one night and hid in our airing cupboard in the bathroom. I waited for my mother to take a shower. I watched her undress and masturbated over her as she showered. I felt ...
A. 28 December 2007: Dont tell her.Just go talk to a shrink.... (read in full...)
I've never really talked to the girl cause of my shyness and I've problems in starting a conversation out of the blue. How do I gain courage?
Q. Hi there, im need of a really strong push in the right direction of a certain girl i really like. its typical really, shes stunningly attractive to me (my friends say shes average, pfft what do they know). iv liked her all summer, but everytim...
A. 27 December 2007: You should build up courage. Odds are you are not going to be able to say hi to this girl. Start out small, by saying hi to ugly girls first. Eventually you will have the courage to ask the ones you want out.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend that I slept in the same bed as another guy, even though it was platonic?
Q. I went out with my friends a few days before xmas, and it got quite late, so i stayed at a friends house. There were only two double beds, and four of us. The couple got one, and i was left to the other one, having to share with my male friend who i ...
A. 27 December 2007: Well nothing happened right? So whats the problem then?... (read in full...)
Should I go for it . . . .or end it?
Q. I like a guy a lot..we have been good friends for about 2 years now...I always felt an atachment for him from when I first met him...He broke up with his gf about 8 months now(not because of me)..I provided as much support as I could when he was ...
A. 27 December 2007: Odds are he likes you as well, but you seem a little too decient than he is. He is probally not ready for someone like you.... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I fancy her?
Q. i fancy this girl who is a year younger than me (i'm redoing my first year at college) but she already has a boyfriend. i don't know wether i should tell her or if i should get over her and if so how?...
A. 27 December 2007: Dude if you like her tell her, it just might work out better for you, thean keeping it inside... (read in full...)
So many questions - anyone got any answers?
Q. Dear Cupid, So i've got myself in a real pickle. I've recently broke up with my ex girlfriend of 18 months. She cheated on me once in january, and then she was so amazing to me we got back together. She then went to uni, and i moved to italy f...
A. 27 December 2007: If you want a big pickle then you will stay with either one. If you dont want a pickle at all, then you wont bother which either one. These woman are not to be trusted.... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with my housemate behind my boyfriends back...
Q. I am 25, nad have been with my bf for 5 years, known him for 7.hes gone away for 4 months abroad,and i've been living with a male housemate. the thing is that i am sleeping with him and havent told my bf. my housemate wants to marry me, and said he ...
A. 26 December 2007: Just be honest your going to end up with one or the other... (read in full...)
My army boyfriend has found someone else and I;m heartbroken
Q. hey everyone and merry xmas hopeit wasa good one.. unfortunatly i spent most of mine crying.. i recently wrote my ex boyfriend a letter (as he is in the army) tellin him i love him and would love to try again (3rd time round.) i first met him ...
A. 26 December 2007: You sound like you are causing yourself pain and suffering that you dont need by needlessly contacting him. He's your first mate, you have to find someone else, its hard I know, but you can do it.... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with my housemate behind my boyfriends back...
Q. I am 25, nad have been with my bf for 5 years, known him for 7.hes gone away for 4 months abroad,and i've been living with a male housemate. the thing is that i am sleeping with him and havent told my bf. my housemate wants to marry me, and said he ...
A. 26 December 2007: SOunds manipulative. You do realized that your BF ABROAD is going to find out and not like it one bit. ... (read in full...)
He says my weight puts him off
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost a year with a wonderful man that I have known since high school. We lost touch and then found each other again. When we met up again, we fell in love. It has been wonderful, but lately I have been unhappy. ...
A. 26 December 2007: Sounds like hes the type of guy that needs someone around to degrade so he can be happy with himself.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my female best friend
Q. I have just come off a long term relationship and quickly after the break up i got a new girlfriend. Every Xmas Eve, me and a selection of close friends spend Xmas Eve together eating Chinese takeaway watching a movie. The new girlfriend came ...
A. 26 December 2007: I say go for it. Thats how you usally end up with someone you can really be happy with. Now you have to do the hard part and go find out how she realy feels.... (read in full...)
Should I continue talking to customers outside of work, or will that be considered inappropriate for business purposes?
Q. I keep attracting older guys, like in their 30's, I'm 17. I work at a family business and get noticed by a few older guys a couple times a month. Sometimes they give me their myspace, phone number, or just...call up the store and have a little ...
A. 26 December 2007: I can sympathsize with you. I have this issue alot myself and it sucks. I attract a lot of females, they always want my number or to just meet up. I always have t decline cause its bad for business. Business and pleasure do not mix what so ever ... (read in full...)
She won't have any further contact with me after six years. What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend of 6 years just left me 5 weeks ago. She was with me all the time right after work and weekends. She seemed fine and same as normal. On saturday night she came over then went to baby sit like she always did now and again. I spoke to ...
A. 26 December 2007: Its a shame that things can end up like this. All the stuff she did is probally an excuse she used to. Mabey she wanted everything to end. The fact that you have been with only one girl is going to mke this harder to let go of.... (read in full...)
I am in love with my step niece. What should I do?
Q. My step niece and I are very close in a relationship and we are so crazy about each other! I don't know what to do because the families will disown us if they find out. I've never been so happy in my life! Please tell me what I can do it would ...
A. 26 December 2007: Its morally and socially wrong to marry in your family, unless you live in Alabama... (read in full...)
No contact for 2 months then I get a message; Merry Christmas. I love you. What does this mean?
Q. I broke up with my bf almost 2 months ago, but he wanted to remain friends...we just basically needed a break, but he slowly lost contact with me and began ignoring me...then he moved in with his new gf...its Christmas and I haven't heard from him ...
A. 26 December 2007: Its probally a message to let you know that he still cares for you as a friend. Nothing more.... (read in full...)
What are her intentions? Please help!
Q. I'm in the military and married my high school sweetheart whom I am more in love with today than I have ever been. We have been together about 7 years and married for almost 4 years. We both cheated when we were "kids" and just dating, but we have ...
A. 26 December 2007: unfortantly you being in the miltary probally isnt the best job out there to have a relationship. Most likly she has become lonely and only learned how to live with being lonely and probally enjoy's it. She may love you and you may love her, but ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to restart things with my ex??
Q. Ok so i was dating my boyfriend for a short while, yet i was very attached to him. Then i found him with another girl in his bed. 3 months has past and i still have tons of feelings for him. He says he does to and he regrets it so much and hes feel...
A. 25 December 2007: Nope, your best bet is to make some new friends and move on. SOmeone cheats once they will cheat again.... (read in full...)
Any advice on getting past something like this - an infidelity? How to forgive?
Q. I'm 37 years old and I've been with my wife for 16 years. I just found out that she's had an affair with a person at her job… We seem to both want to work things out but I’m not sure I can put that behind me, at least not anytime soon… Any advice on ...
A. 23 December 2007: Shes cheated once she will cheat again. Leave her before she can hurt you and your family again.... (read in full...)
In my thirties, broke, single and unemployed, my family is toxic. How can I leave?
Q. I'm broke, unemployed, have to live with parents in my thirties in a small house and mother won't give me the respect I deserve as an adult professional woman I have more than 8K in credit card debt, more than 35k in students loans (I don't have to ...
A. 23 December 2007: Declare bankruptce. It will be easier to do that. 50k in debt and waiting for mr. right to happen, will never happen.... (read in full...)
My bf has trust issues for years now and I don't think any proof is enough for him. Do I stay or leave him?
Q. My boyfriend of 4 years thinks that i have cheated on him, which i haven't. This has been going on for years now and i don't no what to do. I don't think he will ever believe me and there is no way for me to prove it. i love him so much, but i do...
A. 23 December 2007: Leave him. He sounds oer zealous for no good reason. You need to find someone who can withstand you independence.... (read in full...)
Me and my cousin are in love and thinking of moving out of state.
Q. I've fallen in love with one of my cousin, and we are thinkin about moving out of state so we can really be together,what should we do?...
A. 23 December 2007: Its morally wrong to have sex with your family.... (read in full...)
Is 13 - 17 too much of an age gap??
Q. Im 13 turning 14 in a month. He's 17 turning 18 in a month. Is he to old for me? He's had sex and i havent i told him that and he is absoulute cool with it. But is he to old by 4 years? x...
A. 23 December 2007: It will be illegal.... (read in full...)
My bf is so loving but I just don't seem to want sex and its tearing me apart.
Q. I have a loving boyfriend we have been together about 10 months now, but for some strange reason i just don't want sex? I don't remember being like this with my ex's, but i have never felt this strongly about anyone before. I was sexually harrass...
A. 23 December 2007: Your bad childhood experience probally has alot to do with it. Most likly you have to go to counsling to deal with it and get over it. As for your relationship, well you might have to find someone else with a lower sex drive.... (read in full...)
I want my Turkish bf to come to England but don't want to have to marry me.
Q. I need help really badly! I really love my Turkish boyfriend and i really want him to come to England but i don't want to marry him as i am a bit too young as you no alot of people say turkish men only want one thing. I know he doesn't, i love ...
A. 23 December 2007: FInd someone local to have a relationship with.... (read in full...)
She's under the impression it's her idea to take things slow, when in fact it's mine! I noticed strange reactions, should I be worried?
Q. Is this girl crazy or what? So I met another girl online, but this one seems to be a little loopy. She doesnt really make sense to me. The first night we talked she was already to come over or the night. I wasnt sure If I really wanted a strang...
A. 23 December 2007: Yeah well that ended last night, she turned out to be a nut case. I had to block her on all online accounts. Such a shame and I was willing to give her a chance, but I have no room for certified wackos in my life. Thanks... (read in full...)
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