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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been involved with a married man for almost a year now. I have three kids and he has four - all of which are outside of his marriage of 18+ years. I know, this is awful. Well, I want to break it off now because of how guilty and degraded I feel. Not to mention everything he says recently I do not believe. Everything is a lie to me. Everytime I try, it ends in harsh arguments. This recent argument I tried to walk away and he grabbed my arms, leaving awful bruises. Now I am feeling worse because I have to wear long sleeves to cover them. He threatens me if I leave and begs me to give him another chance. I am tired of giving chances. I am tired of crying and trying. My kids are even starting to see the results of this. I am beginning to lose self respect because I am sharing my lover. I have fallen in love with someone whom I do not trust anymore, nor have I ever. Now I just want out. He took me out of a bad situation, both emotionally and financially. He put me into a rental house, got me back on my feet, and helped me get a car. I feel I owe him, but for how long? My kids like it here and I really want to stay, but at what cost?
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reader, LoveAgonyAuntxx  +, writes (28 December 2007):
Dear Do I really owe im anything.....
You should stop the daing now! Tis guy isnt treating you right. You should be wit your children. Don't sow any affection for this guy, you sud be calm, then try and look for oter options, because this guy you r with isnt a perec match.....
Gabby xx
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reader, Somethingeasy +, writes (28 December 2007):
 You see you owe him nothing, as he didnt owe you anything either. Everyone needs some help at one time or another in life. You are back on your feet now and want to move on. Being involved with a married man is not good, no matter how you look at it. You have every right to leave and owe this man nothing.
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