She's under the impression it's her idea to take things slow, when in fact it's mine! I noticed strange reactions, should I be worried?
Q. Is this girl crazy or what? So I met another girl online, but this one seems to be a little loopy. She doesnt really make sense to me. The first night we talked she was already to come over or the night. I wasnt sure If I really wanted a strang...
A. 23 December 2007: Yeah well that ended last night, she turned out to be a nut case. I had to block her on all online accounts. Such a shame and I was willing to give her a chance, but I have no room for certified wackos in my life. Thanks... (read in full...)
I'm lost. Does she like me?
Q. I have a friend thats a girl who i really like. i just got out of a 4yr. highschool relationship. we both have similar lifestyles and i like hanging out with her. ive never made a move or attempted to. im starting to get neverous and im not being ...
A. 10 December 2007: No you are like a brother to her.... (read in full...)
Should I leave them to fight it out amongst themselves?
Q. My sister, brother, their partners and myself and husband went on holiday in September together with our children. On the first day my brothers 2 year old daughter fell and ended up in hospital for two days. Anyway, when he came back from there he ...
A. 10 December 2007: Dont get involved.... (read in full...)
I feel like a big fat liar!
Q. i am so bourd of my boyfriend and i dont know how to break up with him and i am so not good in breaking up and now whene he tell me that he loves i tell him "me too" and i feel like one big fat laier so please tell me how to end this in a nice way ...
A. 10 December 2007: You probally wont be friends after you break up. Love will turn to hate. Just tell him you arent intrested and found someone else. Mabey a sit down n a dinner and then eat and tell him after yur done, pay for your meal and leave.... (read in full...)
What would be best for me?
Q. i am with my boyfriend over 4 months I really love him but he promises not to go and rob car radios and he still does when he is drunk only. and stabbed my ma's fella wit a glass bottle when he was drinking and on antiboiotics he never hit me do you ...
A. 10 December 2007: Get rid of this guy. HE sounds like low life trash and will only bring you heart ach and pain in the future.... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this nightmare relationship?
Q. Im stuck in a hopeless 'relationship' with no way out and its making me feel so down. A few months ago i met a guy, we were chatting on the internet and decided to meet. After our first date though he text me and said he doesnt want a relation...
A. 10 December 2007: Your being played. Just block him on myspace and change our phone number. If anyone ask why, just tell them you have a stalker. ... (read in full...)
Any ideas about moving my sister into another house, maybe a hostel or a flat? She's 17, steals from us, smokes; we consider her a lost cause.
Q. Hi guys, I need some help with some legal stuff. My sister is turning 17 on january 1st and my mum wants to throw her out. My sister is just awful and has made all of our lives a living hell for the past 3 years nearly. We have tried reasoning ...
A. 9 December 2007: Your best bet is hard love. Throw her out for good and dont think about it twice. She will thank you one day.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I am a virgin before we have sex or simply don't mention it?
Q. I have been going out with a guy recently but it is the first proper relationship I have been in. Therefore, I am still a Virgin. When the time comes, is it a good thing to tell the guy you are a Virgin before you have sex or should I just leave ...
A. 9 December 2007: You should probally mention it.... (read in full...)
Does he love me or is he just with me because he thinks he cant get anybody else??
Q. Okay. So I'm dating this guy and we have been dating 7 months. He thinks he's ugly and that I could do better, but gets super jealous when I even talk to another guy. Recently he asked for a 3 sum, and I'm bisexual. So of course I said yes. But why ...
A. 9 December 2007: He probally doesnt love you. And if you do have a threesome it will ruin your current relationship.... (read in full...)
Do I risk another year of drama for the chance that she might like me??
Q. I'm a seventeen year old girl, and I consider myself bisexual, even though I've never actually been in a relationship with another girl. Only my closest friends know about my sexuality. I have to tell a little bit of a backstory to get people to ...
A. 9 December 2007: Nope hold it in you will find another girl/guy to like in no time flat. But get some friends first. Have you even had an intimate relationship with another female so you can genuienlly be called bi-sexual?... (read in full...)
Am I normal? I can flirt with strangers but not with my bf.
Q. Is there something wrong with me? When im talking to strangers i have the ability to get very flirty and talk suggestively and feel more confident with the physical things as well. As soon as i get a boyfriend i suddenly become really frigid! ...
A. 9 December 2007: Thats just who you are. You are going to have to deal with it.... (read in full...)
Shes a fun girl...but her last minuete cancellations throw me off.
Q. Met this girl on a dating website. Talked to her a few times over the phone. I've tried to get her to go on a date with me twice. Both times she's said yes, but both times she's canceled and been really apologetic about it afterwards. She's a really...
A. 9 December 2007: Find someone else. This girl can't even get to a date. She is playing your emotions, don't even bother with her.... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friend how I feel about her so that she listerns to everything I have to say??
Q. I want to tell my close friend about my feelings. I want to tell her i really like this girl, and explain how long and also that i'm afraid she won't feel the same and risk of ruining the friendship and ask her. What do you reckon i sholud do? She ...
A. 9 December 2007: Highschool crush? Dont destroy a good relationship. You have 2 options. Tell her out right and dont beat around the bush, and she will either say, ''I feel the same way'' or ''sorry I just do like you that way''. Im guessing its going to be the ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my ex saying I'm bi-polar??
Q. My ex is crazy! When we were together he posted a video of us on youtube. Now, one of his comments said I am his ex fiance and I had some emotional and mental problems. Yeah right! I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive and he just ...
A. 9 December 2007: He's your ex. You don't even need to care what he say's. Just ditch him. The fact that you are still concerned what your ex thinks of you still shows you care. Move on and find someone who wont be emotianlly abusive.... (read in full...)
How can I start caring again?
Q. Okay well this may be a little strange, but I dont care. Big whoop. Well I dont care enough to get involved with a female. When I was a kid and in school thats all I did was care. I was a kind and caring person. Just about every female I was in ...
A. 6 November 2007: Well thanks anonymous. Very insightful. I read it, and still can say that my self-esteem slash confidence is high. Reguardless of which you might think. I would like to learn more on the subject, and even start seeing a shrink, I would like to ... (read in full...)
How can I start caring again?
Q. Okay well this may be a little strange, but I dont care. Big whoop. Well I dont care enough to get involved with a female. When I was a kid and in school thats all I did was care. I was a kind and caring person. Just about every female I was in ...
A. 3 November 2007: Okay thanks for all the awnsers. And no Im not a kid anymore. I really am 24. As for my self-esteem, I dont think Ive ever considered that an issue, Im a successful person, and never had low self esteem in my life. As for my mother issues, ... (read in full...)
How can I see this differently so that it doesn't hurt as much?
Q. My girlfriend is in her mid 20s and I am three and a half years younger. She is everything I ever wished in a woman that I want to be with. She shares all of my interests, sense of humor, and perspective on life. I never thought that I'd meet ...
A. 24 October 2007: Im sure that you love this girl but let her go. You are going to want to try everyting she ever did with other people and are going to lose all respect for her if you do. No matter what you relatinship wont go on much longer. ... (read in full...)
Are there any good looking decent men available?
Q. hi ya all im 18 and female and just wanted to no what it is a guy wants in a girl? and what a girl should do to make a lad/man love her for who she is? i do not want to change and all i want is to be happy and loved. i have low self asteem and just ...
A. 24 October 2007: Well coming from my point of view all I want from a woman is to be understanding.... (read in full...)
Is dating a guy 18 and up too old for me?
Q. hi im sixteen i just wanted to ask is dating a quy eighteen an up to old for me...
A. 23 October 2007: IMO no. But it is illegal to have sexual enconter. Im sure that the age gap isnt that bad that people would complain. Now if you were 13 and the guy was 24 like the other night in here than thats just plain wrong.... (read in full...)
They like me, I push away, I like them and they move on, how to deal with this issue?
Q. When i start liking someone, i like them the most when i first start talking to them and when they dont like me that much. but when they start talking to me more and liking me more, i push away and like them less and less, i dont know maybe i like a ...
A. 23 October 2007: You just need to find the right person to except that. have the almost the same type issue, I hate it so much but you learn to deal with it.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid, if I don't change, he'll leave me.
Q. I want to become less selfish. My boyfriend goes to his friend's house a lot. And I get mad when he leaves. Like I don't want to share him or something. It hasn't always been like this by the way, just the last couple of months of our 8 month re...
A. 23 October 2007: You can take this as a learning situation. In any given relationship there has to be a trust factor and time to breath. You also need other friends, and cant be soley dependent on another person. Smother someone to much will cause the person to ... (read in full...)
Questions I have as I get closer to loosing my virginity.
Q. Simple to the point questions that are worrying me as i get closer to losing my virginity. 1-Does size matter? 2-What do I do?(stupid i know but im not too bright) 3-What if I don't last very long? Those are some pretty stupid things...
A. 23 October 2007: I know this may be rude trax, but you mean to tell me that you, your girl, and a bottle of Jack and you dont think about sex at all. Shoot me a girl and bottle of Jack has been awhole nights of drunken sex. Lmao.
Mabey your really not ready. ... (read in full...)
Why does she do this if she doesn't like me?
Q. A new young female teacher at my school fancied me. She used to stare at me all the time, if i got her eye contact she'd smile then walk on by. She would come in my lesson all the time for no reason. At dinner she would sit in my eye view and stare ...
A. 22 October 2007: How old r u? and how old is this teacher? call the cops and find someone your age... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, will it hurt?
Q. im 12 years old and my boyfreind is 23 years old,we want to have sex will it hurt and will he have to force his penis in me?...
A. 22 October 2007: Call the Cops... (read in full...)
Questions I have as I get closer to loosing my virginity.
Q. Simple to the point questions that are worrying me as i get closer to losing my virginity. 1-Does size matter? 2-What do I do?(stupid i know but im not too bright) 3-What if I don't last very long? Those are some pretty stupid things...
A. 21 October 2007: Yeah man cant help you there trax, mabey some alcohol or something to help relax.... (read in full...)
Am I just worrying or jealous for no reason?
Q. Hi, I am 17, and my girlfriend is 18. We have been going out for 2 months now, and we have had few arguements even though we love each other alot and know it can work. Basically, what bothers me is shes really close with her boy mates, infact all ...
A. 21 October 2007: You need to get rid of this girl, she is only going to add to your distruction. You seem like a nice chap, but this girl sounds way too disturbed, let her go and you will find someone better.... (read in full...)
Questions I have as I get closer to loosing my virginity.
Q. Simple to the point questions that are worrying me as i get closer to losing my virginity. 1-Does size matter? 2-What do I do?(stupid i know but im not too bright) 3-What if I don't last very long? Those are some pretty stupid things...
A. 21 October 2007: You wont know what the hell your doing the first time except that you have this unworldly feeling of self fulfilment. But you will eventually get it. As long as your not hung like a hampster your fine.... (read in full...)
The great idea to ask her out.
Q. Ok so I'mn getting ready to ask out a girl that I really like and I've got a plan... So I get he rLocker Com and write her a note, give her a Necklcae and a Rose (Rose is her middle name). So sound like a good plan? ...
A. 21 October 2007: Sorry thats a little too corney. You will get laughed at if you do that. Just come out with it and ask, and if you get her out a few times then you can pull the realy sweet stuff, like roses and notes. You will come off like a stalker if you ... (read in full...)
Since she cheated, I feel I've been too clingy in fear of something bad happening again. How can I curb this issue?
Q. Hi there I'm a male, 25. I have been with my girlfriend (she is 24) for about 10 months or so. Several months earlier, she had cheated on me (with her ex) and it really hit me like a truck. I think I was feeling a wave of depression for a...
A. 21 October 2007: Personally speaking, you have got to let her go. If you really love her, you have to let her go. If someone is cheating on you it only means you are with someone who cant be trusted. Its really gonna hurt to let her go. But if you keep her and ... (read in full...)
How should I persue this new possibility?
Q. Ok so I recently broke up with my long term bf. Totally gutted and shocked - right out of the blue he breaks up with me. Over the phone. Am getting over him. Thankfully when you get hurt by someone, it becomes very easy to see the bad in them. ...
A. 21 October 2007: Try not to think about Mr. X to much you will probally over think the matter.... (read in full...)
I want to "lose" it
Q. I am 18, a sophomore in college and STILL a damn virgin. All my friends have lost their virginity, this is effing ridiculous. I am wanting to just go out and find some random guy......
A. 21 October 2007: Great thread. Look sister you are still pure on the inside. You may be frustrated right now, but your time will come when you get it. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at age 18. ... (read in full...)
I just can't seem to just give up on her.
Q. I'm going to try and keep this short and simple. Me and ex-girlfriend were together off and on for 2 years. We had alot of good times and alot of ruffs ones also. I loved this girl and i still do. She lied about certain things sometimes(some not ...
A. 20 October 2007: Sounds like this girl has a problem making up her mind, leave her now and forget about this unless you want to spend the rest of your life playing the I love you today,but tommorrow I dont game.... (read in full...)
I don't want to loose my bf or my family.
Q. I KNOW MY BOYFRIEND SINCE THE SEVENTH GRADE..WE STARTED DATING 8 MONTHS AGO BUT MY PARENTS DOESN'T APPROVE OUR RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE HE IS AFRICAN AMERICAN.. WE ARE BOTH IN LOVE BUT HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH ME AT THE MOMENT BECAUS EOF MY PARENTS SO ...
A. 20 October 2007: Thats a tough one you are young, and probally a little foolish. Can this man you love support you in the world? Does this man feel the same way? You can only expect to be emotioally hurt with whatever decison you make.... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you're really gay or if you're just in a phase?
Q. How do you know if your gay? How do you tell if it's just a phase or for real?...
A. 20 October 2007: Number 1 if you have to ask yourself if your gay, then your gay. Just like if an addict has to ask themselves if they have a problem. I for one cant look at another man and go, I want that.... (read in full...)
23 year old virgin. I'm very shy and could use some advice.
Q. I'm a 23 years old student who never dated. I'm virgin!!! My penis size is 5 1/4 inches, this is not the issue. I don't care about my size, iknow i can do it best...My problem is i'm shy i didn't used to mingle with girls. Do you believe that my ...
A. 20 October 2007: Dude for real you gotta actually try. Woman wont come up and just f u for no reason, you have to try, that means taking risks of being humilaed and imbarresed, shot down and cursed upon. Thats what it is, aside from sounding really strange you ... (read in full...)
What is going on with this guy? Does he really like me?
Q. Met a guy six weeks ago who is 27 (i am 19). He only looks about 22 at oldest. He seems ok. I have only seen him once more since we met. We have spoken on MSN quite a lot (though I have been deliberately appearing offline a lot to let him think...
A. 19 October 2007: I think this guy probally does like you but you appear a littleto involved in our other ordeals in life. You ae trying to hard not be a stalker that you are sending the wrong signals.... (read in full...)
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